Professional Documents
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1; CEREMONY
TRANSFORMING ADDICTION INTO
RELATEDNESS
Take a Deep Breath
• Right now, in this moment. You can be in training.
• Relatedness training teaches us to be one with our group and everything around us.
• When we deeply train ourselves each day, we have harmonious relationship with others and
Mother Earth.
• Our thoughts and words are training us at every moment. This is the most ancient tribal training
we know. Live in consciousness of thoughts and words.
• Tribal people learned the teaching of indoctrination into relatedness training from the animal
people.
• Relatedness training is the language of group survival. We are here today to rebirth the language
of relatedness.
• In order to train we must enter ceremony. In ceremony, we learn to rebalance the difficulties and
suffering around us. This includes encounters with ruthlessness and the intrusive overuse of
technology.
• First, we are going to observe the difficulties which come from living in a fabrication; then we will
learn and engage in something beautiful which heals and rebalances life. Something of the
darkness and something of the light must always be next to each other in creating transformation
to find balance. Today’s thoughts and words determine the degree of freedom or suffering for our
future generations.
Statistics of Addiction in America
• Over 20 million Americans over the age of 12 have an addiction (excluding tobacco).
• 100 people die every day from drug overdoses. This rate has tripled in the past 20 years.
• Over 5 million emergency room visits in 2011 were drug related.
• 2.6 million people with addictions have a dependence on both alcohol and illicit drugs.
• 9.4 million people in 2011 reported driving under the influence of illicit drugs.
• 6.8 million people with an addiction have a “mental illness”.
• Rates of illicit drug use is highest among those aged 18 to 25. Over 90% of those with an addiction began
drinking, smoking or using illicit drugs before the age of 18. The sale of painkillers has increased by over
300% since 1999.
• Tens of millions of Americans use prescription medications non-medically every year.
• Almost 3 out of 4 prescription overdoses are caused by painkillers. In 2009, 1 in 3 prescription painkiller
overdoses were caused by methadone.
• Overdoses caused by painkillers are more common than heroin and cocaine overdoses combined.
• Over half of the people abusing prescribed drugs got them from a friend or relative. Over 17% were
prescribed the medication.
• The number of people receiving treatment for addiction to painkillers and sedatives has doubled since 2002.
Is the Medical Industry Effective?
• If the medical and pharmaceutical industry are working, then why are the signs of
this phenomena we call addiction (and I would term humanities' distress)
increasing at such an alarming rate?
• I am proposing that addiction is a compensation for humanities loss of
relatedness training. Just as the body tries to protect a wound from further injury
or intrusion with a scab and then scar tissue, an addiction or dissociative state is
the psyches way of protecting us from further wounding and internal disturbance
caused by the lack of security we experience every day we are not in deep
connection and relatedness.
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Creating a Distress Formula
• Humans have a range of sensitivity to environmental and cultural distress just as animals have
varied sensitivity to environmental changes. Example: Disposition in infants. Babies who are more
difficult to sooth are more likely to exhibit distress symptoms at a later age esp. if they have low
relationship value assignment.
• Computers social media and cell phone screen time imparts information but distracts from
relationship’s soothing impact and influence on developing compassion thoughts.
• Dissociative reactions (addictions and mental illness) to unacknowledged societal illness and
unacknowledged societal grief impact our ability to feel relatedness to each other and the earth.
• Loss of important rebalancing and security based ceremonies.
• Loss of indoctrination into oneness orientation and group consciousness.
• Lack of security due to low relationship value and high accumulation value.
• Loss of approval-alignment language structure which is necessary in ceremony.
• Turning on others; violence and ruthless attitudes where inequality and individual accumulation
are both condoned and admired.
• Turning on the self; which is transposed as individual defectiveness or individual diagnostic illness.
The most damaging myth we participate in today is that sensitive people in our culture should be
diagnosed, medicated and alienated from the general population rather than undergoing spiritual
training.
Healing Vs. a Medical/Pharmaceutical Industry
• Indigenous healing and belief views illness or imbalance in relationship to
the group and the cosmos. When a group member has come in contact
with dangerous outside powers or energies the person’s spirit can be
pushed out of the body endangering the entire groups survival. Everyone’s
priority is the member’s healing. A ceremony must be held to return the
group spirit to wholeness; relationship wholeness.
• In psychology addictions, compulsions, fixations and obsessions are the
individual’s way of enacting internal unresolved distress caused by an
external source or internal dysregulation. As the “industry of medicine” has
become increasingly disconnected from healing it seeks to diagnose our
more sensitive individual’s personality traits. These traits are imbalanced
by a lack of safe societal container and a loss of valued role. The industry
medicates these individuals to suppress their distress behaviors or
symptoms but never address’ the cause.
Creating Right Relationship with Each Other
• Language is one of the important tools in the healing formula. When we describe
an experience from a spiritual perspective it provides us the safety feeling unlike
that of a self-perspective description.
• Ex. I thought that. Vs. The spirit told me.
• The English language today is largely “I” centered instead of spirit centered.
• When I was young we were taught to be gentle in our words and actions so we
did not bring harm to others into being. If you bring harshness or ruthlessness
into being through the power of your voice and language, it invites a spirit of
destruction.
What are we Connecting with?