Mental accounting – set aside a certain amount and deduct from it
2. Correction is more important than setup 3. Pledging takes the temptation out and acts as a strong signal 4. Radical acceptance and black box thinking - identify mistakes (can ask others) and correct them. 5. Beware of counter productivity - if something doesn't add value, don't use i 6. Eliminate the downsides in life 7. Be grateful since success is largely down to good luck, give to those who are less fortunate 8. Take other people's emotions seriously but not your own 9. Don't buy into the authenticity hype 10. Say no to small favours most of the time 11. Don't fall for the focusing illusion, see the whole picture 12. We overestimate the impact of purchases and underestimate the impact of experiences 13. Save up a financial safety net but money contributes to little beyond that 14. Invest time in the circle of competence but don't waste time on things outside 15. Be persistent - preserverance, tenacity and long term thinking are underrated 16. Do what you can, not what you wish you could. Don't obsess over a calling and only care about the results 17. Shift from external to internal validation 18. You can change yourself but not other people 19. Set achievable personal goals 20. Value the experiencing self as much as the remembering self 21. Make the most of your experiences now and don't worry about remembering it 22. It's easy to walk through life with a false image, ask someone who knows you well 23. Don't worry about your final moments, just live a good life 24. Don't wallow in the past, life isn't perfect 25. Meaning and enjoyment can compensate for each other 26. Defend your principles 27. Don't break in the outside or inside 28. Don't let financial incentives compromise your values 29. We are designed to worry but there are ways to overcome them - write them down, take out insurance, engage in focused work 30. We don't have to have an opinion on everything 31. Invest in your mental process 32. Don't get envious of others, stay modest 33. Prevent problems rather than solve them 34. Best thing to do when it comes to global issues is to donate 35. Deliberately focus your attention to get more out of life 36. Read fewer books but more thoroughly 37. Think independently, give dogmas a wide berth, realise our ignorance 38. Mental subtraction - Imagine what it's like to lose things you have 39. Make a decision and take action after the point of maximum deliberation 40. Really try to reverse roles and see where other people are coming from 41. Don't idolise great men and try to be one yourself 42. Don't believe too much if your self importance - discoveries would be made regardless 43. There is no (just) plan for the world 44. Don't mimic the behaviour of successful people without understanding what made them successful in the first place 45. Specialise, general knowledge is good as a hobby 46. Learn to recognise and avoid the arms race (eg education) 47. Make friends with outsiders to gain a fresh perspective 48. Explore then exploit 49. The less you expect, the happier you'll be 50. Sturgeons law - 90% of things is bullshit 51. Stay modest 52. Focus on inner success and don't worry about wealth or prestige
Review Author(s) : Michael Russ Review By: Michael Russ Source: Music & Letters, Vol. 90, No. 4 (Nov., 2009), Pp. 722-725 Published By: Oxford University Press Accessed: 20-07-2016 07:19 UTC