32 | Goodenough RENTING tod soho heya pa yobs tla in sc. Tey dean esston sa oii when hing ceria wy The Jena pt an eile room the chen ha ce atl sn rien snd coat ede oo era de ‘nub ne sch psp sto person ands kng god ce Ink ta he cen rela ipod el ovat whoa ond he ane of thr cen fen den by he hy ae swe ates Bae hy vor th enamel he th ee ptr we thy fd thy ae psormed e hy e ih probly bgt thie, snes bly Antic ‘te pein ae te ated and wil enorgemes or ds wilenacae hei chien. Convey when tiie do oo wl’ ey {itd ad ke etn the Th ent aden y how athe peri chi "Er and when ipa, ws wy oe wy ye iri The wildness oof thi dpm a iho ng sar wr Lif ar he cosy il ren whe hey beam adi he en he miguel ttn craks non wha, td matin eo psi Celene enoton dat come with schemes sold be welcome, bt ne wl cane and a been: Or ep neces per shee the compre od eed fr oe eng id. The hl pres bosons 0 eats ben pat tho op eps same abut + ean ahem mot Beige te pont he chile ing Ae a, clement pd and me retin, ven ce bt funy anda Teller won nih be ed Du hn ay iat mac ari fr nt Sap ing wohe wayr i ees Lok arse or sin othr thle ee eompord Deine tho fa ei wit rrp or ble nde prin xapersion norco | 33 Conteting epee ich cia a den by vaio ir Se envarconbaing bean af atid le wong son and on Paden Tis fr hehe pr -mgechen i ed oe he hd el hy lav ee dn of hoe, Tey la ee dy lyon thr ownjadgmen rem hy wl tea thon seo ecto preaenich aon ae Osher en cotling i nna he cman erp thy do ot em he cn ad im os aad hye a en py to vpnnpropine on sch a il deer arias oe lone miner ‘hae etl stan ane prc il x ane kn of yi hee cx They depth chite of de sein ad fed exes he stot the nl oh ene ures mon al often Thelen wl pow wp ith nde ree of pee om ‘he ren wich rae rate xp ping apc nthe a of ere They wl ar menu a he oe hm eee {eee yo ce or fer ba asin ine wht Yer ot ln my fd et det ite Lerme tl yb: ow Fam fing abo mshrfishr as yb it rire Sy ome ih, edo ning ‘mp other who ae camel ate ul ks at bow ds nections cope chile, Te think eae ce hil bt on th cl eternal hcl meta and be dependent Punitive ct ly por opin rch me hace ip ive pon otha Try ing they do wong Be Saying csi facts re meno in ana pred mole4 | Goodenough RENTING ee ther han ry np hl in thd hou ee ie ty a he ‘Si kano en ne Word hatcame ot nn hyn Yo der be pi ilmenite i een ait enc ply and nh? {dod tw egy iin Cone hak nye re Emotionally Depriving& Inibitiog cs who ema nie ean nd wp adn epering sh ho by depen hem fey, comforeaed pincer ho El inosine ow wo bre and be al, They ono pric He sine dla, inn ig Tilo "Chien ee seen and not bea Tey nce with th he igh stow emotion doo ensue ten wo gh nt lod, ly lu mc ve ends oe len and they ety af ot conor alg, ih clin aoa ee ow dns, deppatment ad eg "oe asians, war ering fom apis uno a Men ron wo cape ns cide hit manner wee eed ly owing tr the indf oping cae alarm andar ea hii ht the recur ce own ame, Semen eh flowing ae eel ode Ais wits egos the tnt bot fing. mys of afin, bu oa ae ou "fon dt er tho fing, hn hy wl nebo 1 tana he erp Facto ia prone tat ew aly {el ad ob hpios Len et amen te ome Seti prema dpi cde ying yr hm wes uth en ve dering jb oy es Bigeye a wok, es poble wa eng de me hehe Chien aed te by the pee or ys hie riety xt sl Mae ep pesion enetins| 35 uy ging om cnt ie away of maog wp ora ck of dine pene hh bu guy denon Fr gna te die el co | There a ar reno why pet ay emesonaly deprive hl clden Sone da ae incapable of ting warm, atom, mutalg ad ming uy beans fei own upbringing Some pres go hog ah i fins a hit mariage hat heya nese wh th problems ad have le lan atonal cpu ie ove 0 ge 1 the cen. Haris done ri ofthe reno, tl he iden gow up wit raion oft having cove nl c,h very iprtn pct ofchMnd of neon ne Thr the opone ofthe next pe inaritn wht pene go Dependent & Sofi lien whee prs emp hon hi wy iy oop Eling ha hey ‘bing fc onde mor iy mpl hn wnt meld mrmallybe ped acl age Thy ye ikea pede tig ber hr ror ppc and weaning ashy sony adsl eae her ele Thy ye ht one bth enw me and "href nde edo led them, eed he ore he Thay yl hata par wd hey hs ed a ey urpedicae echt orn sestpoiy en aing ta pr eet wre om baring people Lind fearon cell scone et {td or Khe How permed when de ld wo yg or prt 0 ed aod ga cha she pe eveything "et nd change fy Kd nb peed ene ticle in tray wold pray ngs Lak bw mat serait ene a and ‘af fr rte and ii i de hn oa hid yond ert we bao ae, i ed rp mys Fe soda. 1a tae of hn nd po ag gt hee fom Teen ed fi6 | Goodenough ANRENTING xagenon cece | 37 Overprotective ents ae opal woe st hee clen for ll esc bg wie ling he pga, ck ‘shen cg nthe a Thy one icepcns then and es at In wo hat ry tf propetnw cel sinao,wmah slokes wl aie Chir fen el rated when eal psd jem fom dpm hye got wd a Dono TV and pil hom with pe, The psn heme ncaa | ung ve int chide ies eras fr ar al nope hey 1D wc tke ing aur emia ad hyo i by ne being rable oe ing th ay om meno Acs ea, chien ein chink a hag oclkabout tc emotions: Thea do tae he me ude hm ph aus They alow hr ent way with of mihi! bee | ere yan rely when vn do ot el piel by te pn cn ee thn fel cabo he dic they eB nd ny ie in wy mio mad a yu dh yo py ia, i bi mer pons embed i 1d et po pl prt el be yr an beh eh by it nh da ar No yo ae ig ‘ep Rota bom mae Hah al find err Sa amr bc, ow ed or ih yap and don yon ) amy fi ea my id am ay pre ae tm Thats te yb ey and mae ofl bee hit ieome aspen hen sheep a pase bal emp sett il you wero hp wy hy wer iggy woud ‘ry they ont want chides be rio ie Te ee rly in agai evionmens in whch ey wr mde ox making ie Tings no encourage So, ud wh «de oi ines rd 0 sesh dag og hy de tio eb bop neal om rin ith chien wy ge bs (Chien wie peavey ermine tcp elev the reuthwtaneand cout hele Thiean ayes dicen in pci when he pet fv sha dsc ad lo the ery os dre ok de tow ‘he pe and ene Why are Lifetraps (Schemas) a Big Deal? Awe menioned Chap One, rps ae mem, ough el and to tlc bean ht te ged when we pre with i i er a HA Bae erp, se name fou “ing ‘roomate ef. Tepe prc lp move fran ie page on a oa ver lash wir pope dw tk wih i ead over ap, nla Va ample fe an ane: Remember th ig the woman xe Cher ‘hon Fig 22) lig lm th ee? esiow young woman whom ve of hom me spe by the aguie mea om he ae She ba he er 1 kien he eth sme rg ih hc he ot ep vars rhea needa, chen ithe in een teu with che Bangy of ther as Fad he on ami apne Th wil end ap dpi "hn oa ed aking 4p ar gh and ol Pie ad oe you wl la Why oid The rds ahr plan mgt i "5 wf wre or ca Overly Permissive rt who ae eel Peminine a nor wali, ot by ing the owe ‘hing Some pet lly Fao ring ivled ch da hin, so dey oven by teeing he i pec Bound lam proper lip hy aos he wk sbou he ics ues i cle eng58 | GOODenough PRINTING -nyvndfpemaly dbo, pct pr depron ing dee ‘ther dpc Reh swe shea pet ep SECTION TWO 2 THE CORE EMOTIONAL NEED FOR CONNECTION AND ACCEPTANCEChapter Five CONNECTION AND AGCEPTANCE, Pap yy amroy in@ndiciondl, be Cte Emon Nel fr Conecon nd Acta aid othe is ben met ite dep ei and ele uc apace ‘5 openen. gnotoalfllinae 8 ncimacy lng cali, ‘Tote erate, nd ay 6 een Ty wl ri tne ed i lowing ep te pe ‘hyo nd pend hn wie ‘The me ed mi meh a ard Thy aad fg th mina ir, Teyana of th fas, {oth nein arp, "Tybee em Desi. op in aoe whee he at made ol pt a ts an sient. Her arn mn + Byford sh a ein of42 | GOODenough nnENTING har Gt fqundy They ao Bd ih hope er eden een shah ‘hey homes ad only ned deen schol When hel a “ea ‘Seder, thy led er ner mes He "tad a ie no sep hte wid sh dot sc. She wt ee for ee oe td when she seal shed yen one ee ost ake ea ‘heb fr iorinfacaon ch ping on ly sc uy ee ay re | ‘he ily ar ars ctr In vey pone way hr pars il wee Dent cove emotion! na fe snnann i cpr sy of hohe ned ft "Batman Tilney cl pont rey bjs nd vealed ‘ucofigh honk Aron wl, Denies ee pid oil ends nd ost serge wih elon, ars depen, bund ad le ‘om ve et ha sie Denis sds ed hie and ition wander sesh toe cnn ith theron ‘Carl 32 ever Btn say shad. He any wet oe ety Sh ad le fed tend por pre choo al ned ine foe ies Alu her parm bo dha ee Feng snd ad ey ih tnd hy eve i eng Sen kid vale dip, "ying on be, beg habla owing wpe Her thr ha ft ont jp ea sh cle at home with the cen wares posi be abet ‘ote oe au ge Her oe str wa“ hn and eel © ‘hear tedicpine eer une ber we kl oe pa ene soft me wong oer Caine ings heim, Cate ‘oranda ofr prc owe Arsene she Je ea fade ag ke dsapponing righ oe ye and ein inhibi parents Aldouh her ng ae deng wll ln thc, Caine never patel coll may boundary ies Like Dee, Carine ts been on de watcha rh ang tem ebakp May prope wal lok her pron an aya ik oh ta the Hh, bar rae or conan ad epee tnd heat ube Fl come bt aly a acting elo ther “What thee we women sy die es, coe motional el fr endo and pane war ae mb ti ren. nd ‘cen hugh theo women nel be al aco cent i, te deco, ett leer ad rn pre ch ok et i ons CConecion ai Aptance | 43 Aol eonneson with ou cen when he sais emotion he ae cael a enatcderanding lop bere ro el cre el egies rds ad ier fel tee have «plac ate aren ere al vic eas Aen ih sn sd eee nl ed pe he + Hsing ihe: Ancient snd enon capac mae home or an ehotonal eve and wi sae tne es aap em: When + er conse he epics wry ce wih conn snd seepance tee ierwovenf The ene ala what ei dnroneion tee ale ‘es of lo) Chiles wil el denuded hi bv wil els, fing When ths covet nea me wal ey the uation lors long enya nd alin atone sn ci heparin oder to mre aly ai they usec iepees igs eo ey see alse In ou pin, af th harm nay wd =F thir envo ned mr ein et Oh tt pes woud eed sins nce fing ena eel ‘fale “a pla on ete notion, omeson nd anceps he cc i hich enn ply the eet pr. Mong cre ed eats dee, lp me. We nga fr ore con i hy i with hem etal ‘Bel fed eat dur ot noise home nels be Hot tein pr rt andi dant me tha et mat dwt ht om sing ‘olan ani dow oto: kv ape Fa ado, she jo, pce Tm [ewe think te ino of emotons eprint note hat ou fers ee ren we ak st cect atin a tay4 | GOODenoughranexTIsG leaned gue Mcibin e egat f he mach gon 959% acne ie 964, heer in ae cha Wo count for ay 7% of what we ime communicate oa of woke sou ey npn ctor a whopping 5! wok pin th prance of congnce—dat ut or ening eng and out she, ue ER Tle the tone Shen we ue ik st being ron our lls jad Bt one of voice ight be ling ike dat we de a0 cabot thm. When wey de “igh” mons kl ar td netgear come dino appre ‘Spring empe. Weing om pc ea tlie ox pu pr po, hile nee renin a ns = "When this cote emoconal nea is mets parents and chien alte expe hen | ‘shige "pk ro” slope. Yu il 1 er smphere he os ri pena cl bhi "pura ender nds heap i pra esl a ey dee in bop.) Soe pre al cone te yng chen Bt Bd tty te nt asm th ee A ll fsonony ae ne Chap Nine to Ee, ne shal ain he onscreen om dg by rot ang by cite whee many pete hey re ld tod with he neuen aoa, hiking ha hip and pr feed ping up. ed had oe ce ke on fi tic I Woe clan aoa isa Feng alae Go goigconeeion which te eed — — ein ee) Te aon sae ent warty a hey have og oso omni che, lpn horn rom ing sed ohne hie ad Doin ten hele pnts oid aly to in ik veh opposite Di Jobe Goumanhrcooduced ecchon marge pein, Img fs cov chad woah sea ai gh helps ware in mo el ge ro “eral pmty nd re ec hai aor dh wi hon op mth Wee cn ncn ses py witha nr hi el eon oe no sy jaro y ah isu fe pong the sc come brn eons ion hee song ens nena Urry ren yr 1952 od 1954 he nwo ed weer ‘cette wm aya cl ly yn er he the pars wie ‘wll erate Ro ene hn a een I sie motos eo pe cig bl ten dnd ‘eu chee ay hee pene deen ad mais ven nl hoon had ell hei ce thr ihin pul cing he pede (052), hie my Sly sons ps go sod al ht i oy ese how mayo he seme flo eel ed Fe pen hk dng hn ns tty sal pe hr big fd le dhs eh ured “lr colonel apes Sp ‘hc ie tw ce We i ay eo me sao Send pn Wari eth re ey gad ‘hw ple Myo oe by i rho ed ti nmin ron ih hl hal he ”46 | GOODeneugh NRIATING Parenting ioneere ‘eo kw end hip saving he ing ofnmeof he mo inie Fsmiylicur averthe e 50 eneSeifyoucan ra pate, acim hed Hn Gn wat ll pol nd thepbt who wot x be ing Sexiest and Ch Hes ues ase ns shld bcc eo sewing ean is ry gy a sed cher boul cone wh apd np hl chide He ul {amc pcthepe et dae chin Sopp ied lathanyonbur ave forays Her ype Sipe se elbeet stout ote een spe gen in oho. Wha ‘cca deh pT amma ith en unig wy {ie ey pera enhanc berfcngatourhenl. Faring commana ct ‘eh chen nei pinion pre hlng or an ae ‘Whe pcos maybe etre aly thn indy om we ld an rr the fc ding pcg lp? adolf De, sue of Aled Ads wh wi il by Fe, me his The Olinge Hee eo of Hs wows pier pling haar td the inporane of tne commen [A mening le cng cid In msn ae wy by tone of cand by ton we twee ci ht we on bie tng led ad ply if. may ie ot ow ow thy gp aoc zoning the hide, arg in ry se waa ‘oth el nd wth ned body ape’ asl kd pri ein Tl Use Mem nd me seve ble nln he Hori Chin has hi out bow eshing iene tendency al ying hem tam i ant ‘lp pte am The se of hurt contact lesion. Contin sind lie nds by li be he nl Conecionand Apne | 47 rat + Kod af dds ich he che soc Ineo ened Two deen prof enact lone nd ‘iota cnbeidenied One guatve sn night cle ene rn, een whee we ak chile to ded bye imi of dendng desde bond the cps mie dsiony 9 willy ae hey ve he il ae But iden can al be ed uty anh mig becalle ode ring We eng lek bing whee aphex demand oe ash pio heidi dere cn ste nef, aces poy we ck in he en yar al he ns el mae, hr weave coving ch when hy wee chien, de aber on ine Mass, cpa Gintama ha tow mec the "prio WL Thy wre Wows na one of companion, then wher we sy wil cerned by th eid phony or ipa ee whence wort sh th we oe eae, ioe aren in sing shilden ea ih ets ak padding way he le eon cc, temo he Unive of Wai once depth ach wih 119 ‘ia me how pret iden ne with ech Slovo fo henge ofr nel sre Mico: (Chien whe pens conse pte nto ching be Beet pc atk ed sr ge sedi than hen hoe penn ot oer ide. Te Ki along beer with ends ve oer Senn pens a ae os poe we of ec: Oneal chia,48 | COODeneugMPARETING len modo couche em oun thy ne we prod se a of song ad hy can yl ede sa ich al ‘ken ew ily mie ot nh don ht sy pes el sient ty pt a ley ch esl ea ole sco hed eg gh lf ec pig site iy recap hfe ele th nn tc ‘nity png hee nd ng cig ropes weap mt come Chapter Six THE DOMAIN OF DISCONNECTION AND REJECTIO! ‘oun ced ie fur alee Bo of hoe ma un at ion and Ro ‘one romney weiner il expen the opps Disenerion ed een. Thi eto a i chien wl be tak of deelpig sme orl fh rn she Doan of Dzone nd W « mensone a Chaps One tate 18 Wp ei by Dr oy | lo, mie Miu, Defense, Enna Depron, Sci an, ie ser sen eld "Be Sy Ze The Lifeteap of Mistrust / Abuse te i SEC i) a he domale of iconesion and wen rma bute The ce nage fhe iar ip Lema eet he sso mane hl mp ear moioal ot en lh ed kn neyo ad male ier ay: ae shir — 350 | Goodenough PARENTING Chien wh asd or wh Have atone sas wl snc aa kelp the ili oft. When di cen, plc prt to tony cen te + ery damaging mage: When abuse app sil ene chen wow omy png, They em ary an cher ine Bonding ring ed and cept ep Tey Fores apple wl fn red srthing ge is then ti nd oa hes ing that oe ae ou ake adn of ‘hemor oe hom harm. They ae cnn om the ee. They cry he pi and mini tidak reais eed cong le? wade Tey bans ning sh bei od dob nd ll ‘oan gig eter ‘Ae crac for jue the wih he rp fen Jeena hte ay tbe a. They smc do cpnon foe st ngage weak nap esl wh he Hp of mits seeing i lk suing plc ates wl emer ina rage they stray role na tw egret nha can be ed and he who cnn he seo et wonder wil erry bh) wihn eng i hy bg ete erent veyone ihe oe, proving that hy woe itl in ot ong ah ey simmer ht nigh came fr de +e ld war and ely pal anaes by paren tatu mateo cbt af the ee chi trol neve dane i ae wih pct ah al wl ‘ey pin whe eos opp. Thelsee aoe pes a lemming, ing hin Sn el rough and note har} + The siings gh wi bi consanty nhipe ewe sa + Tho msl of oni hc ame be wind he her shuighis moc bec ew up nan evar wr is ot det hr, sd he red the ue: Fo exp php + sling ree (rh eld Kew oe hi end wat eng slo en pe a ‘oa ring shed yc (Set Base Sy Zefa rowan bute) The Domain fDiseanssion and Racca | 51 Fir 62: A Pose Gar} Gnvrormet Wh Mod Lily ore the2 | GooDenoughmNENTING ‘The Lifetrap af Defectveness / Shame ‘Trew aepvesche ing inthe damn a cmnacion nd eon Ache hme, The ae apo he decease mod euch fam eh flee yn rly am cad et ma Ds jas For Sa poop ie Hot ak Wye Tiga, an ret pole ns dont dink hey ae iceoking? ele ih ch Fel meting rong with hema hy ae sens soe Foes ot in pla ony Toy ae sees wo hl wanes, with on uajrd| fc f expoving theme 1 he They do week colinens wel nd Ince hy done dre pie They pt je and compete wel el imsce ard thw thy pie oi bate they re They ake {eos consumed i mand pion, ad hey orev rcom ch ender chem Ese tough oy be igh sei ay el derp down ha hey no pod enough Bas fl elec, thy ul iid with hep ono a, Thy themes ee and al decent ene a comp th tonne fey pen these osrompnsatin coping le hey wl be ‘yelled snd pu daw the fending pon blr the te peso ps them down Thy beam moe conned shut noting defect hey souereng he oe nel tesa her The uh hemes al ‘hein othe oie dh hi neat ang et ange They lf dhe deecivenn wl expo a dy wl betel The ‘ira kml abou ame ony hh ce ig dc "Teel wn compan xe lings lies nd pe) ane at espe rr pn wih ee 1+ heck wey Lime fr wos esp. {The child wa ie by at leno er pa fr ea he "Mack shy fhe iy ob des ow dca pee +The cA pro cnn led about he dein f+ mcf enon and hw th didnot mae he ce +The alwys eh sed oo que ew gd eat nas rin or at rey ened enh The Domain of Dixon aed Raion | 53 Fare 4A Posie Earl ronment Wh Wl Ly ort fe34 | GooDenough kere ‘The Lifetrap of Emotional Deprivation Anche ates ier i th dan of conan and ton is cmotnl dein. The cr ma the map cen of enon kaon in i Tete other epee of nt sang 1 ne" Enso dein i abot ice spay. mata snr ‘ving alla tnd son, ren dep tential depron Mp yd fe lst cas ben thy were roving Tht nay ea anche | urton fm ht pre, bt dead inves emo dies Sos hile wo tena emp dc fate ys Whe che a dpi fle ds childhood hy bone egy and ne, Araale hy sill ham ing pope wl aves the enough Thy yn load bt la sey ar nie wodered be, Somoe wes eg ‘ceo o doy kindof "bom p™no ner how macho edn ems ee cough of am. en in nage hey fee al ony andl th 9 othe wo hac ad ance hes, Tey igh ' dpe wt pele though he cept Fel cones Ty ‘ont oot aking of noe ingen le, ‘fy einen hat mig ce th fo deo + Th hid did oo ae hig admin para thee wa ot any ‘acs ho psc ouch, Albugh thc yrs we yall ‘hes oe wa ey wan het tte and ected se dah bce * The chi ae wee enconaly ber ad maybe hal mean he ‘ct Selo went he fina ation a + "he cds moss a» by ce hi rp my ae ed ‘ilk real cnn, ue ha er edo wm cero ci inde a ve tne fi th She ye ‘een ian nota me child ed repos + Bren sie he cil did lk w he pt hey not hoo bow ‘tue with hc So he ld pow tng he ling wee oe ingot or nde Thetis pen eri ing and ston, hag en iu le ee ws eps nd wnt wig nee, + Webco epee ot hoc an ie TheDomsin of Diconecion ant Recon | 38 "pre. Ao any Creme heh Wadd LA Cnr fhe56 | GoODenough NRENTING "The Lifeteap of Socal Isolation / Ales Soc ln alenaton tear mld harms it ce dl ‘fdizooeton and ot he ve np of he ci aon He i ‘sf ln aoe nn (Chie wh deo his Mp aie fon her peoples a ‘hey donor hey may a cll hig beta oo ie with oc nd hey ot of cee do aac peg Thy may ‘eng obec hy altho dey die ad aopat a te ou, Wh mst el dif noerly neue any ay be te a ‘ie mare mongy or ome rm fy with ame o pow Uli, wen th oka eau sh hy elt heya he donot, si i eel mow ha ake dem dies nde pr fom he ha on wa they ud acetyl pote nly Th ‘egenedices enee hee ad oh tera Sig om the have in common wth end ly nd ote og sla top of dvs ire far deevens, wc reed el Ines on he ie pol wth cl lina Me out a plas nama in soni ve Bot oh emia if "Tech cit om othr a cha be di a a * Thech end wre iene spk dle pugs, er te alg mornin ane + Theis bon uy hve Bean ind hin a choo or spa oi ln ich oy ego he ld he cg tht be ne eet fom te +The child sho sy wm ng ad ioe he ada Sis bert ee hat something wr won, Toole Grn pb ‘nb Emily or arco ch arin ore pone feo ine +The chills pana nodvd, bth Ea pars we abe Or lids ae! fc edn ie nnd, bar edn oe + Ono heh prs je aed in he bring mone ‘hector erone whee ewe ‘TeDowmin af Diconecion and Reson | 57 ‘re as Ase Early Enero wien Wad Lal orb fe55 | COODeneugh NRINTING ‘seminal inition. The re meme af the nol nibion rp iy lol mete mel hw my ents Flay b cond” ‘Whe chen aloe eed tof th ste wag and ele oe fg ence ool orang hy ila hing enon Th he aging 0 ud cea fame hy wee ou te elise ple ihe afar emp ink hat wl gh Iau po expe tion nee hey we cad owe upon or beng spe when thy we youn. ely are rel wo ld hing ‘ait ing oto expen lh fm wine igh ce i a dtp the chs pr bay ll we hy wee a he ee wie hy + Theis pen ble nh od spingy “Chien ew be nen and oe aed Big op dot + Thecd was prenatal om nag cil or essing emosons, Heal a ene! abot orl hing and concen sector aero moi 4+ ng ee ing ne wel vena mpl The Domain of Diosma and Reon | 59 Figure 10 AF Early Evorment Wich Wa Aly Cnet he@ | CooDeneKgAIARETING ‘The Lifetrap of Failure Tesch and fal aap hr i) dana ofan sl ecton ile The cre mong he der i“ a fd cmp nd fed fling nd lf en het Tam ae nde ter pol “Te fons lon chcenen aera ‘eras bol fc rh on te ral ating of se ed iia ‘hes pra thc oft def ep ‘Some chi hve artnet th och ich nay ak ha sup derlping ikea. Homer oe chlen may ately a hing bt at nthe oe a tr ra hy el in re ce oct hue ing We hw den bese dl ny il hae dwn on hes comput he pes. Ones el he ey be nea ge abr they wil ot aie aed tay ay al i lr In dation wt scoplohinent,weth sats, 7 mdeni ur, What suc ye mange ache they wlio ck hyo ht de perl hing thom enenrnganent a ste, Repl wid is Mim elie thy ha file nde ein nd wld uy bd st They ke vi compas with other aoe wht heya ie Some peo il tor bea anal es ancy and oeone ha non a sae enacts pd fr pl be she to whe ci a pepe ‘isn med noyoca the te etme The pf eh hedechenen ap ah meinen he igh cen fen de 1+ The prenspin aan omen wasn hgh or eampe hey may hv ce onthe iene ma ae en oda eae + When he dd not cds er pares we ah wth hr sen +The ld id nc mee mach econ oe ie puts hs het sagt nd wa conway yng gt ae ‘+The pace cmp er wi Ber lags 0 cousins oe may tread how mck hey bgp abuts osu et sh at odcon eerbt rs + Peds mace orp pled down onthe ll eo acho other eon ad she my eae he, “The Domain of Diconnon an Rejection | 662 | GoODenougheNRENTING asic Safety Zone Ove the at ew gags re ave nel wf ee eet ned ‘conection and sepa ot met cha wil ea of dong me {ofthe erp in he doin ofdnaon a son, Ble we ‘apse wat ight one of hig dene cin ie ay and ‘the gos conta canton ed ton cd ae, Rs fh cor ema eed resend posing chien fm oo oni ea, ae the le of wc oid the elope of he es Chien sede ptt tal ind fst, beeen ‘Phyl cao sau ge Hsing coma hee of pope who ve xpined emaionl (Giese dheghon he pen om comecion ml pane) we he fo havi barf at mre snp hse, lng ad ht ae toll oa pl se al a in met nia wl Lad he peat inal wart she cd ing emo th oe, Nee ‘aor Kind of koe. Io the Unie Soe, pure wh nl he cd et of nonce bea of exe pone lin inl to ‘ther ena make heap ae fares ob igh 78 a ase cs poral! So abe ae ll ce cu lpn ‘econanomie rp its aug of ur mars wo Fx your en ia smb one dtr fey sal neue choo gl shu ad a of a ae wl be sy abl yi igen indy The US "Natal Gate Visn of Ce we cone hocking es wel elit ave mning ils ing poe (RE) Ieee en ht pen boul nee chen Me oe ads and you il ot! nin, ne 0 provi, pues ma od hate hs ete hat hihi ae sts byob inves gig rr your en nd, ng aed a ol ng oe lw prin ply. 2 wl mong yr ies mde wen ‘heey with ote ad whe they come home am ha Sp if ea hil bu canbe dis nay pin whe wang ong, ga i, cca grain, sunny sly eon, or aden chang toed Kap n mind hate ce vais potas hey se fed of ging ‘he onde, ame hese fi he be aor elit al kame Al ey anc wen se ahws ever tan smal mein ou chil. You es progr par educne ase Do fg pron och om fel sb om he vee TBs wl le de me i he Base sly Zoe ‘The Domino Biconeton nd Reason of Cater Thien) ve ore ear Mb ear on about pve pa" ant Now tac ars how ney shoud ue Haomeane ace aso waning an. Me "jon a oun ar pat pate not wang fae how ‘at wating ori rotson. od wn wor wo south art ‘hase toe may hace ws 6 Ba itera ba Pas as efits otro bale tan 2 |etly Te Tes Tine | 65 © te soni eg se see cde, Chien heme eo ve shan hy ane ee, consieig the pee pro academy tn thecal bt thr fora er chp Safis ce dean | rite be andy ey Know wht he pre ae a tor yma ine oS mn pre a de nul eco oped wih Chapter Seven QUALITY TIME TAKES TIME, ‘Soa dtl Dasa gig on ee” whe hema nde ‘Sona eiame wt was apport achool wh nas ann se or ou te at wane a ne opie, “een iow econ. Karn ed ali a ans me sare aloes pena. "ee, an Son repli, Late ston he ate My au re rye at, ard we a much ae she a hen camer meng hit cre eso aed “a ping Chap Tread Four ssp dew mening ooo which we wil del with x Chap Eg. Til «ine wh each did Itcns ed o happen nt de be ‘bo they oping en thea a hl gen then ey a eng ‘opt fer snl sean fc: Whe theories hve endo ‘ale i hte, we ble tht mot chien ned more, When prs the ex milo leone n-ne tne Tri cli thy we og loud nd cer meng "You a moe important ome han eying ee He ow You hive ate bcs yo te wo ye The Ee pasa unas wor Sn woul tk fr mae Foy ite Comeratorerangut tom Koh heatad 10 tly peng op about| CooDanough mnevriNe ‘canned omy naps auctor, Dai nave fae 1 wey outs ou te” at than a ete ago hg We i sr at an ann 14, Dita ay rach spe ry week Same see we wot cn in sa er geting ot a agen, ad "he copes! Care got esas an iene get aed Regul one n-ne eine a chr nt niece youre you es poi he pee ‘wich id, kelp ach wih amorexieengeamesortomake pe tens when ve pel as Gs Be On fay ec ad chil wh a re on tin pine —eery ow ns ha wake up and check he oun hid eng OF coe th seed an yh nee ec who el herbs tn rath vor: cr pugs commendian is pct at tw med (a hing mone fp wih oun the der cis ema change the da se enw 0 Price of Prieege Resch iw at ak fine spe wit chat dein 0 0 chide eroto al nell wel ing ie pre fren lnc oxite pth rhe oe cain ant ce che ine wp wih rou compete yr nr aden enceat ae so xmcuca airs rms dc dea ig at ae inet huld concson ey fc flee pa tl rao oS ‘ora ue orale pnd ine wih he Scie yee the ‘sel br they be Iie or no coeaaion with i chin hich ps he {penion Ae yay cet The oneng sandal of wie peal Suen: nann ae ding en theresa eh hen wh densi coe Por Ql Tine ake Tine | 67 Ina way ae we xing ging nad in spa oregon wih slong pro a when done he expense oh peed ren shalt the ey Thee ene pede jeanne nd king ih ou Ki ‘The Power of Daily Dinners ive hel ic eoe—one of he mt pan rts phn pret Itoi es grag sound dames nog wow el ines le i he sige atone ptr of ter stemen were ad fen Inv paler char epeion,y any ad soc itera so ae 198 vo 197 Areas dnt ogee fe ae | sine ligt fm eer entins gs sd pnp eer © inp bern fn, and ay tnd lh ee ey ee cn hi of US ies meee te ether gular 0.) Te rscreva fund hat nahn esi dig meine thf saci nay eg rl is se 4 dog ea ‘rao i a sme tre ei on + wy wl athe [ot Anaher rea i sg in fot of he eon ci ih aml goer lima adie and ada ly be ad ac baie Themes avn ren tevin mpi coneion been uy neers hd al wn tba or oT a at mae et Weston rend ht rly tebe ae nti rng otis tbe ded by med fn ink nda el ine ing high | ll Mik te ode cperon ners te pt or oe flies, no other shard acy doe with sch pli a ve ening mea I Fier spend 20 aut rogetie dag ner ‘on week tht ote tha wo os with mo aend ef heey fend Fellows. Such eur ona balling ads many posite enc for al ly meres Cast do every nigh? Shot fr Bre igs 1 we. 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Essar shcng Ber dng hat Quip neering | 73 Su ein sit nse i aS ae tha pen a a rewrite hy pede ranking eos gen metalic! You wl ee tee terion ey ch in prime ar hw ii ly cogs pre che ao ee ape pet met ye and pcs ma) hy cnt yl ey ong a en et pr ngoeed ye “vk deny taco ce pee a” Wen a ‘yes poe ol enw then i i ae thn oa on? 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Chien viel te ne ey lesen nd dupa So thes eins oe prcesed, my be vena hen pcp ed Ione yen ele prose eg dene fing is ling ei riled pars hep che Taf oe es abo shen win, Like we mentioned en whinge esc wih te io wth Emly member ‘ate agrtclreais inane ‘Abo daring thi ogi wl vie ce nd end gd sci. 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Te amends amount ‘een a cng ab eel peng hi ype fein emp "eer dpe the wes cep! arent coe oe ‘clas end he apathy "We hs hae on speig ney mentioning he impos of making Ire, Our pure nd on cvs sbout ues ir woder mio ing to te bach i Maia Keay enti ty arte Gulf Cone Bi lame Tle te ne ne te we eae mei A i ots Tw pl ese i he hase were they oe acest tv franc hal ct ead of he prs memo bu ver they ing new nee 9 fe: Ging up an dav thesis of ure, wee oe thet ind wf ay ea ly ee top A ameny cs seine binge: mery wd ite snowpee As you po ters mori wl lo yout mine ou reine gies Nox wil hi Vente onneton ih wl ve our chen lupin of how hy meal ala wane manage ic ropein ir hen heya ane ce ood dee eetoaie ‘When ides i og, the np beeen cone, play and wilh ty deat ee gue 7.1, 181917 yen Ty wil ed Imus and wedeatschol wi ace deal To pn sce senha ain ple” with hips a mas ange ime ly wth hr ed rsh ge pat ofan lene AAA ene bes gimme oe icp sag asta lle adolocet Howe mes no pent ine nth preg ‘hth pe and who el ona ad aed wil cl spending ‘eh htt Bron hn ny my rT dt wey pn pee td ere Penn ine with allen ke ig xy ppl nd nena emu hat wm oe yn thecal pms ve ued iba ‘ome the men oto allowing ope {= went enn ven mentee + When hey nel lp ihe! wok + When hey nds haa alo sl mr wal frei he arith pn san le he thd (cou thy hr ee fim Aen ncChapter Eight EMPATHY AND VALIDATION OF FEELINGS Sonmaen nominee Seed Son iatensestnosnamacepan scaiaaaad i ates aeeevenhamne relied ‘heir feng. ie ‘The Benefit of Empathy Che ey hh ok dot not ‘hen im nde oad il ig. 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The ne heya ap eo eta oun chien ey th S ear heh nti mins an lv a a of ch mn he igh ing Tvl eprint ee ‘rion one dnote ofc Sains Clete ries eae ee le Thi legen ond me he rt cn a tigen Bot ef ie nd by eget eet sememinag dn coos O Seen ter cae oe 0 wre ats tg ores ak tune ‘hind etn po pci tin he «© Ne nth hn th emp compan we A pe ne a rig (©) Neotel wt an lone en ae verde ‘The mone in hich the sve pcp ae pt ages with he age | ‘bebe. We echo ands Ade brand Hie Mas bles, Haw "lS is Wl Lie on Ho LenS Wa Tal Red th Echos of thc ook ots ale py and Vildin of Fedings | 95 (tm ea oe my ange when he is nets drepactl wich ‘oui sonatas happe tay wre an So when ey nt 9 ‘ane “Don be Greg ea of ampstng wt a et "yal nme sid th tater en, Nt supratgy at wet tom een moe When Son was abou si os 1 cou mn dr Accepting Fetiogs ve. Accepting Behavior Gees td Graton mes pws hl lng, ber cacy hr hei? or many pues dn aning cont with slides ect wis rand domo Howe, dit oso iar ae agewl bie cm be comic lig TT ny fod ren eat os pe ercen ie lg on epondBy Shovng per tre feng fo teh 8 gsc ed ps ilo, nd epg hou cl ot Sl sed lon dear fb eer ot of im os eng abd Fs. ep Spas cago cme a oe Sess tr ese EDT a ee ca nS we we se ‘ho tings we soy bine tea ein came wih el Serle emp wih hen. We age wth Goninon dh lor ae ine hs wade pe CRE eins: hen ager Se ee oem kiko ig emciplae wh rin gh he es mr a a ear ana sro%6 | COODeneugh RESTING: SECTION THREE 2 THE CORE EMOTIONAL NEED FOR HEALTHY AUTONOMY AND PERFORMANCE