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Professor Haas
In the letter exchanges between Lucilius, Seneca describes a life philosophy called
Stoicism, which is meant to provide a perspective on embracing hardship and allowing one’s self
to experience certain pains to grow as a person. However, because of its hyper gendered
language and associations, this way of life enables a set standard for masculinity. Seneca also
repeatedly links men to the divine, “Man is god’s disciple and true progeny, whom the glorious
parent, who insists upon virtue, educated very strictly, like a stern father,” (Seneca, 29) which
shows that not only is god a male figure but also that He interacts with the masculine more
scrupulously than the implied “other” gender of women, and also this quote dictates that the best
way for a man to be raised and educated is strictly and with a stern educator. Today, the
both men and masculinity, which enables the toxic masculinity that many argue is the leading
cause for the more aggressive, mentally unstable nature of males in western society.
One of the principle ideologies of Stoicism is that through painful and emotionally
exhausting experiences, people are hardened and, in Seneca’s eyes, matured. On pages 30-31,
this mindset is not only described but also the gendered language can be seen once again,
“Prosperity unbruised cannot endure a single blow, but a man who has been at constant feud with
misfortune acquires a skin calloused by suffering; he yields to no evil and even if he stumbles
carries the fight on his knees.” Here, two things are achieved: 1) Men must explicitly suffer so
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that they can still fight honorably, and 2) Women are implicitly not expected to fight, ergo there
is no reason for women to experience suffering and, in turn, will not grow, mature, or be
The initial image most people would associate with the term “hero” is a stoic, muscular
man who sets forth on some quest, typically in vocation by the Gods, who experiences pain and
suffering which leads to personal development. This can be attributed to most people’s
experience of a hero influenced by the numerous renditions of ancient Greek epics that have
influenced most heroic literature in circulation today. Here, the influence of Stoicism is clearly
seen, with the main character being a man who is in contact/ being influenced by the Gods.
Feminine forces are typically the ones that invoke the dangers and hardship these men must
endure, and Seneca uses the example of “We Must offer ourselves to Fortune so that we may be
inured against her peers…” (Seneca, 39) where it is seen that he only uses female pronouns with
Men being not only expected but encouraged to experience pain while also having their
main support system, whether it be parents or teachers or God, treat them sternly leads to the
one that doesn’t not involve the hardening of the mind, and because of this anything that doesn’t
involve pain or suffering or perhaps anger is thus rejected and not sought out. This mindset of
women being excluded indirectly, if not openly, tends to not be a conscious one; and because of
this makes women both the “other” in respect to men and excludes women from being directly
invited to subscribing to the stoic philosophy. This rejection of the feminine requires a lack of
emotional development in empathy and self-esteem, which also means that masculinity must be
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proved repeatedly. This is how Seneca and Stoicism enable toxic masculinity, a masculinity that