QUESTIONS HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LISTENING THROUGH STRATEGIC QUESTIONS
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“ If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on it, I would use the first 55 minutes determining the proper question to ask.
Albert Einstein
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WHO... BENEFITS FROM THIS? IS THIS HARMFUL TO? MAKES DECISIONS ABOUT THIS? IS MOST DIRECTLY AFFECTED? HAVE YOU ALSO HEARD DISCUSS THIS? WOULD BE THE BEST PERSON TO CONSULT? WILL BE THE KEY PEOPLE IN THIS? DESERVES RECOGNITION FOR THIS?
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What... DID THEY SAY? FACTS OR OPINIONS WERE STATED? WAS OMITTED? IS NOT BEING SAID? IS ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE? IS THE BEST/WORST CASE SCENARIO HERE? CAN YOU DO TO MAKE A POSITIVE CHANGE? IS GETTING IN THE WAY OF TAKING ACTION?
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WHERE... DID THEY SAY IT, WAS IT IN PUBLIC OR PRIVATE? THERE OTHER PEOPLE PRESENT AND IF SO WHOM? CAN YOU GET MORE INFO? DO YOU GO FOR HELP? WILL THIS TAKE YOU? ARE AREAS FOR IMPROVEMENT?
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WHEN... WAS IT SAID? IS IT UN/ACCEPTABLE? WOULD THIS BENEFIT OTHERS? WOULD THIS CAUSE A PROBLEM? DO YOU NEED TO REPLY? WAS IT BROUGHT TO YOUR ATTENTION? IS THE BEST TIME TO TAKE ACTION? WILL YOU KNOW YOU HAVE SUCCEEDED? HAS THIS HAPPENED BEFORE?
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WHY... DID SOMEONE SAY IT? DID THEY EXPLAIN THEIR POINT OF VIEW? DO THEY CARE? SHOULD YOU CARE? IS THIS A PROBLEM? ARE PEOPLE INFLUENCED BY THIS? SHOULD PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT THIS? HAS IT BEEN ALLOWED TO HAPPEN?
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HOW... WAS IT SAID? WAS THEIR MOOD? WAS IT DELIVERED? WILL THIS GET DONE? IS THIS SIMILAR TO “X”? DOES THIS DISRUPT THINGS? DO WE KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT THIS? WILL WE APPROACH THIS IN A PRODUCTIVE MANNER? DOES THIS BENEFIT US/OTHERS? DO WE SEE THIS IN THE FUTURE?
Joshua Mier JOSHHMILLER.COM
Don’t let someone dim your light, simply because it’s shining in their eyes.