‘ora social venture—that offers an opportunity for beinga leader,
being respected, forbeing success
‘The challenges of managing oneself may seem obvious, if
‘lementary Ad the answers may seem self-evident to the point
appearing nave. But managing oneself requires new and np
dented things fiom the individual, and expecta fom the know
‘worker. In effect, managing oneself demands that each know
‘worker think and behave lke a chief executive officer. Fu
‘he shit rom mamnal workers who do as they ate tld to kn
‘workers who have to manage themselves profoundly challenges
lal stracture, Bvery existing socey, even the most individu
‘one, takes two thing for ranted, Foy subconsciously: that.
‘ations outlive workers, and tht most people stay pu
ut today the opposite is true. Knowledge workers outlive
zations, and they are mobile. The need to manage oneself is
fore creating a revolution in human affairs,
ry ube in Jamar gp. Repro
_ What Makes
a Leader?
by Daniel Goleman
‘veny AUSINESSPERSON KNOWS a story about a highly inteligent,
highly shill executive who was promoted into a leadership posi
‘io ony to fai atte ob. And they also now a story about ome
‘one with solid—but not extracedinary~intllectual abilities and
ochniealskis who was promoted int a similar postion and then
soared,
Suchaneddotes support the widespread belie that identifying in:
lvidoals with the “right stuff" to be leaders s more at than sc.
‘ce. After all, de personal styles of superb leaders vary: Some
leaders are subdued and analytical others shout their maifestos
hom the mountaintops. And just as important, diferent situations
‘al for afferent types of leadership, Most mergers need a sensitive
‘wgotatorat the helm, whereas many turnarounds equie a more
loxceful author,
"have found, howevey, thatthe most effective leaders are alk in
se crucial way. They all have a high degree of what has come tobe
‘owns emorinalneligece. I's tat IQ and technical sks are
‘welevant. They do mater, but mainly at “threshold capabilities”;
"ats, they ae the entry-level requirements fr executive postions.
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how emotional intelligence operates at work. We have examined
‘elationship between emotional inteligence and effective perfor
ance, especialy in leaders. And we have observed how emotional i
teligence shows iseion the job. How can you tel if someone
Evaluating Emotional intelligence
‘Most ange companies today have employed trained psychologists ta
develop what ate known a “competency models” toad them in
‘entitying, training, and promoting kel tars inthe leadership fi
‘mament. The psychologists have alo developed such modes fot
lower-level positions And in recent yeas, [have analyzed compe.
tency models from 188 companies, most of which were large td
‘slobal and included the kes of Lucent Technologies, British At
‘ways, and Credit Sse,
|i canying out this work, my objective was to determine which
personal capabilities drove oustanding performance within these
‘onganizations nd to what degre they dio. grouped capabilites
{nto three categories: purely technical skis ike accounting and
busines planning; cognitive alte ike snalytial reasoning, and
‘competencies demonstrating emotional intelligence, such ab the
bility to work with others and efectiveness in leading change
‘To create some of the competency models, psychologists asked
senior managers atthe companies to identify the capabilities that
‘spied the organization’ most outstandingleaders. Tocreate other
‘models, the psychologists used objective criteria, such a
Avision’ profitability, to differentiate the sta performers at senior
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liens factors rather than cognitive bes
‘hee eserchershave confirmed that emotional intelligence not
oly stinguishes outstanding leaders but can also be linked t0
‘performance. The findings ofthe late David McClelland, the
ted researcher inhuman and organizational behavior, ae 8
sample, 1996 study of a global food and beverage com-
sy; MeClelland found that when senior managers had acitical
of emotional nteligence capabilites, tei divisions outper-
vant. MeClelan’s findings interestingly, held as true inthe
‘aypanys US. divisions as ints divisions in Asa and Europe.
In shor, the numbers are beginning to ell us a persuasive story
nt the ink Betweena company's successand the emotionalintl-
gence of its leaders And just as mportant, research s also demon
‘rating that people can f they take the right approach, develop
‘iicemotional inteligencs. (Se the sidebar “Can Emotional ntl:
gence Be Learned")
self-awareness
Self awaretiess isthe fst component of emotional intelligence
shih makes sense when one considers thatthe Delphic oracle ave
‘headvice to mow thysel? thousands of years ago, SelFawareness
means having a deep understanding of one's emotions, strengths,
‘weaknesses, needs, and drives, People with strong sefawareness
urereither overly crteal nor unrealistically hopeful Rather, they
svehonest—ith themselves and with ober.
‘People who havea high degre of sel awarenes recognize how
‘heir felingsafet them, ober peopl, and thet job performance
‘hus selfaware person who knows that ight deadlines bring out
the worst in him plans istime carefully and gts is work done well
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ing grat wat ever achieved without enthusiasm” wrote Faiph Waldo
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_nndepact nyu develop hgh eatin lignes.trivia demands take us away from the rel work that needs to
done” she might explain. And she wil go one step further and
‘ranger into something constructive
SelPawareness extends toa persons understanding of is or
‘aluesand gals Someone whos highly ef are knows where!
‘sheaded and why;s0 for example, he willbe able tobe im in tant
{ng down job offer thats tempting fnancialy but does not it
hisprinciples orlng term goals. person who lacks set
{is apt to make decisions that bring on inner turmoil by treading
buried values, "The money looked good so signed on? som:
‘ight say two years intoajob, "but the work means solite tome t
‘mconstantly bored” The decisions of elf aware people mesh with
thelr values; consequently, they often find work tobe enerping,
How can onerecopnize self awareness First and foremost it shows
!tuefas candor and an abit to assess oneself realistically, People
high self awareness areableto speak accurately and openy—altiough
ot necessarily effusively or confesionally-about thei emotions and
the impact they have on thelr work. For instance, one manage know
‘of was skeptical about anew personal-shopper service thither om
any. a major departmentstore chain, wassbout olathe Without
Prompting fom her team orherbos, cheofeed them en explanation
‘shard formeto get behind the rollout of hisservice” she admitd,
“because relly wanted to run the project, but was selected, Beat
‘with me while deal with that The manager dined examine he
feeings a week late, she was supporting the projec uly.
Such selknowldge often shows self the iting process. Ask
‘candidate todesenibea tie he got caried away by is felines and dd
Something he ater rereted Self aarecandldsteswilbe frank nad
iting to faiture—andwilloften tele ales with asile.One oth
hallmarks ofselfavareness self deprcitng sense af himoe.
Seifawarenesscanalsobe denied during performance eviews
Seif aware people know~and are comfortable talking about thet
Uiitations and strengths, and they often demonstrat a this for
onstrutve criticism, By conteast, people with low self-awareness
intercetthemesag that they ned tolnproveasatineatorssignof
fale.
selfawate people can also be recognized by ther secon
lon They havea rn rasp other capblities and are les ikly
Jost themselves upto fil by, for example, overstretching on as-
‘uments. They know oo, when to ask fr elp And the sks they
\skon the job are calculated. They won ask fora challenge tht,
\ioyknow they att handle alone. They play to their strengths
"Consider the actions ofa midleve employee who was invited to
si inom a strategy meeting with her company’ topexceutves. Al
‘gh she was the mos Junior person inthe rom, she didnot it
ote quel stening in awestruck or fafa silence. She knew she
Joa head for clea ogc andthe sl to present ideas persuasively,
sintshe offered cogent suggestions about the company's strate At
‘esame tne, her self-awareness topped her from wanderinginto
\crtony where she knew she was weak
‘Despite the value of having self-aware people in the workplace,
sy tesarch indicates that senor exeeutves don't often give self
‘arenes the credit it deserves when they lok fr potential lead
‘sc Many exeeutivesmistake candor about feeling for“wimpiness”
‘ad fal give due respect to employees who openly acknowledge
\Woirshortcomings. Such people are too readily dismissed as “not
eg enough to lead others.
Infact, the opposites true. In the ist place, people generally a
wite and respect candor. Furthermore, leader are constantly re
“led to make judgment calls tht requiea candid assessment of
“pails thet own and thase of eters. Do we have the manage
ent expertise to acquire a competitor? Can we launch a new prod:
‘ct within sb months? People who assess themselves honestythat
‘seaware people—are well suited odothe same rte oganiza
"ons they min.
Self-Regulation
logical impulses drive our emotions. We cannot do away with
‘hem but we an domuch to manage them. Selfregulation which
‘slike an ongoing ine conversation, isthe component of emotional
Ineligence that freesusfrombeing prisoners fou Feelings People
n‘engaged in such a conversation feel bad moods and emotion
pulses ust s everyone else does, but they Find ways to conto th
and evento channel them in useful ways,
‘opound on thetablein anger or kick overa chai He could lea
and scream at the group. Or he might maintain a grim sence, gla
ingat everyone before stalking of.
‘But ihe had agit for self regulation, he would choose a diferent
‘approach. He would pick his words caefly, acknowieding th
team’ poor performance without rushing tat hasty judgment. He
‘would then stepbackto considertheeasons forthe fare re they
personal~a lock of effort? Are there any mitigating factors? What |
vas his ole n the debacle? After considering these questions, he
‘mould call the team together, lay out the incidents consequences,
and offer his fetings about it He would then present his analysis of
the problem anda well-consdered solution.
‘Why does selregulation matter so mich for leaders? First of al,
‘people who are in control of thelt feelings and impulses~that is,
‘People who are reasonableare able to create an environment of
trust and faimes, in such an environment, politics and fighting
are sharply reduced and productivity is high, Talented people flock
to the oganiration and aren't tempted to leave And self-regulation
thas trickle-down effect. No one want to be known asa hothead
\winen the bos known for her calm approach. Fewer bad moods at
"hetop mean fewer throughout the organization,
Second, self-regulation is important for competitive reasons.
‘Everyone knows that business today i rife with ambigulty and
change. Companies merge and break apart regulary. Technology
transforms work at dizzying pace, People who have mastered thelt
‘emotions ae able o roll with the changes. When anew program
announced, they don't panic instead, they areableto suspend judg
‘ment, seek out information, and listen to the executives as they
‘plain the new program. As the initiative moves forward, these
eopleare able to move witht,
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seme they even lead th way. Consider the case of a man-
sos atalarge manufacturing company. Like her colleagues, she had.
Sool certain sftrare program fr five years. The progam drove
Jn she collected and reported data nd how she thought bout the
“pany rategy. One day, senior executives announced that a
mogram was to be installed that would recall change how in-
ton was gathered and assessed within the organization. While
‘ny peoplefnthe company complained biter about how disup-
Ivete change woul be, the manager mulled over the reasons for
new program and was convinced of ls potential to improve
Mormanee, She eagery attended training sessions~some of her
ages tefused to do so~and was eventually promoted to run
cral divisions, prt because she used the ew technology 50
ete
| want push the importance of self-tegulstontoleadership even
‘ther nd make the case tat it enhances integrity, whichis not only
‘eseonal virtue loan organizational strengrh. Many ofthe bad
ings that happenin companies are function ofimpuisve behav.
vople rarely plan to exaggerate profits, pad expense accounts, dip
‘to the til or abuse power for sesh ends. Instead an opportunity
nesensitself and people with ow impulse contrast sy yes
By contrast, consider the behavior ofthe senior executive ata
lange food company. The executive was scrupulously honest is
relations orth local distributors. He would routinely lay out his
corttracturein detail, thereby giving the distributors als un-
‘erstanding ofthe company's pricing. This approach meant the ex
‘cutive cul’ always dive 3 hard bargain. Now, on ocrasion he
Felt the ure to increase profits by witholding information about
the company’s cost, But he challenged that impulse—he save that it
‘made more sense in thelongrun to counteract it His emotional sef=
regulation paid off in strong, lasting relationships wit disibutrs
that benefited the company more than any short-term financial
‘ans would bave,
“Thesigs of emotional se regulation, therefore, ae easy tosee:a
propensity for election and thoughtfulness; comfort with ambigi
ityand ching; and integrty-an abit to sy no to impulsive urges.
*‘ike seiPawarenes, self-regulation often does not gets due
‘People who can maste their emotions ae sometimes seen 2 col
fish~ther considered responses are taken as lack of pasion, Peo=
ple with fiery temperaments are frequently thought ofa “cassie”
Jeaders—their outbursts are considered hallmarks of charisma and
power. But when sich people make it tothe op their impulsiveness
‘often works against them. n my esearch, extreme displays of nega
tive emotion have never emerged as driver of good leadership.
Motivation
there sonetra hat vitally ll effective leaders have, tis motva-
‘ton. They ae driven to achieve beyond expectations~ thei own and
everyone else's. The key word heres achive Plenty of people are
‘motivated by external factors, such a2 big salary o the stats tht
‘comes from having an impressive tle or being pat of prestigious
company. By contrast, those with leadership potential ae motivated
‘by adeply embedded desire to achieve forthe sake of achievement
you are ooking for leaders, how can you identify people wih
are motivated by the drive to achleve rather than by external r=
wards? The fist sign isa passion fr the work iselsuch people
Seek ot creative challenges, love to lam, and take grat pride ina
job well done, They also display an unflagging energy to do things
beter. People wit such energy often seem restless withthe status
‘quo. They re persistent wit their questions about why things até
done one way rather than another; they are eager to explore new ap
roaches to thei work
‘Acosmetics company manager, for example, was frustrated that
head towaittwo wees to get sales results from peoplein the Rd.
e finaly tracked down an astomated phone system that would
‘beep each of his salespeople at 5pm everyday. An automated mes-
‘sage then prompted them to punch in their nambershow many
calls and sales they had made that day. The system shortened the
feahacktime on sbles results from weeks to hous.
‘That story Musrates two other commen ais of peope who are
driven to achieve. They are forever raising the performance bat and
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‘hy lke to keep score. Take the prformance ba ist. Ding pe
lormanee reviews people with high levels of motivation might aa
\obe “stretched” by their superiors Ofcourse, an employee who
‘ombines self awareness with internal motivation will recognize
er lmits—but she wot settle for objectives that Seem to easy to
su
‘And it follows naturaly that people who are driven to do beter
uso want a way of tracking progress~their own, their teams, and
‘eircompany’s. Whereas people with ow achievement motivation
sw often fuzy about results those with hgh achievement motiva-
"ion often keep scoreby tracking such hard measures as profitability
"nate share. now ofa money manager who stars and ends his,
“ayn the internet, gauging the performance of his stock fund
wains four industry set benchmarks.
nterestingly, people with high motivation remain optimistic
‘vom when the Score i against them. n such eases, self-regulation |
‘snbines with achievement motivation to overcome the fistrtion |
vind depression that come after a setback flute. Take the csc of
sivanother prtelio manager a lage investment company. Aer
‘veral successful yeas, her fund tumbled fr three consecutive
ates leading three lage institutional clients to shift ther busi
sess elsewhere
Some executives would have blamed the nosedive on circum:
|unces outside their contol ethers might have sen the sethack 3¢
‘vidence of personal failure. This portfolio manager, however, Saw
' opportunity to prove she could lead a turnaround. Two Years
Inter, wen she was promoted ta very senior level inthe company,
Ine described the experience a the bes thing that ever bappened
‘ome; Hesmed so mich rom i"
Executives trying to recognie high eels of chievement mot-
‘ation in her people can look for one last piece of evidence: om
tment tothe organization. When people love their jobs for the
work itsel, they often feel committed tothe organizations that
inake that work possible Committed employees are likely to stay
with an organization even winen they are pursued by headhunters
‘waving money.1s not difficult to understand how and why a motivation to
achieve ransltes into strong leadership, Ifyou st the
‘ar high or yours, you wil do the same forthe organization wt
you are n'a position todo so. Likewise, a drive to surpass gels
an interest in keeping score can be contagious, Leaders with
‘waits canoftenbulda team of managers around them withthe same
traits. And of cours, optimism and organizational commitment are
fundamental to leadership—just ty to imagine runing a company
without them.
Empathy
Of all the dimensions of emotional intelligence, empathy Is the
most easily recognized. We have all felt the empathy ofa sensitive
teacher ot friend we havealtbeen struckby its absenceinanunfee-
ingcoach orboss. But when itcomesto business, we ately eat peo-
le praised, let alone rewarded, for their empathy. The very word
‘seems unbusinessite, out of place amid the tough realities ofthe
marketplace.
‘But empathy doesnt mean akind of“ OK, you're OK" mushi-
ness Fora leader, that i, it doesnt mean adopting other people's