WOMEN'S SECRET DESIRES

WOMEN WOULD SECRETLY LIKE MEN TO…

Be more domineering

We are, necessarily, more PC about sex and how

men treat women in bed.

But somewhere along the way, it’s got to the stage

where a lot of men are nervous suggesting anything
remotely kinky for fear of being considered a sexual
Neanderthal.

One reason why Fifty Shades became the most

successful erotic fiction book in the history of
publishing is because the hero, Christian Grey, had
no qualms at all being ‘forceful’.

Being tied up, being spanked, having our hair

pulled, being pushed down on the bed or pinned against a wall – all of these things
are exciting for a lot of women.

It’s a rush to know you desire us so much, you can’t control yourself.
We also want to know that you know it is fantasy and that we most certainly do
NOT want that treatment in real life.

So, yes, you must check whether it’s OK with us before you switch into take
command mode (“Can I spank you?”) but (please) do ask (our answer is likely to be
“Yes please!”).

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For you to talk dirty

Women like dirty talk more than you think – more than 80 per cent of women in a
US study of 2000 women (18-45) said they wished their partner did it more.
There’s still a taboo associated with him telling us the smutty, crude things he’d like
to do to us, which (of course) is why we like it!
But here’s the thing with dirty talk: most women are far more comfortable letting
their partner do it to them, than having to talk dirty back.Men tend to be more
comfortable letting loose (though women who do master it, say it’s fantastically
liberating).

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To go slower

I blame porn. There’s so much ‘jackhammering (thrusting very fast and hard) in
porn, men think it’s the norm.
Lots of men use porn as sex education – which is utterly ridiculous because your
average garden-variety porn centres around everything that women hate having done
to them.

Most women don’t orgasm purely through penetration but, even so, it’s a hell of a
lot more enjoyable when thrusting has a slow, even rhythm and pelvises are held
close.

Try grinding and rocking rather than using the traditional in-out motion and we
might just achieve a penetrative orgasm!

While we’re on the topic of slow, slower everything would be good.

We’d like you to be slower to take our clothes off, to spend longer on foreplay
(there’s a surprise), have slower, longer kisses and slow, gentle touches.

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Take us to a strip club

Men’s Health magazine recently polled 2700 people about what they wanted more
of in bed.
A whopping 70 per cent of women said they were keen to visit a strip club with their
partner.
Why the attraction?

It’s a great way to let our bi-curious side out, without actually having to act on
anything – and strip clubs are undeniably sexy, albeit in a sleazy kind of way.

It’s also a relatively safe way to indulge that threesome fantasy without the fallout of
actually having another person in your bed.

Watching each other watch the performers is taboo and electrifying; if you’re at a
lap-dancing club you can take it one step further and either watch your partner get a
lap-dance or get a lap-dance for two.

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