You know you’re ugly if you’re a piece of shit person.

You’re ugly if you put others down to

lift yourself up, if you’re narcissistic and abusive. I believe EVERYONE can agree that being a
bad person makes you ugly, actually not related to what your outer appearance looks like.

First, we need to agree on a definition of ”ugly”. Yours and anyone else’s doesn’t count.
Nobody is an expert. Well, to know if you are something, we need a definition that everyone
agrees on. Except there’s no such definition.
What if you are objectively repulsive? Now you know, then what? cry? Die? Diet, surgery,
drugs? All of which don’t actually solve the ”ugliness” you see, because unfortunately, it’s in
your head. How do you know if you’re ugly? pictures? Mirror? None show you what you
look like, you’ll never know what you actually look like. Seems to me like you have
insecurities, maybe ones that you did not think of yourself, perhaps ones you parents/peers
told you to believe/have.

(mini story: I got bullied for having “no ass” by some middle school asshole. My whole life, I
carried that narrative with me, because other people have SOOO much authority, right?
Went my whole life hating my body, there are people who cannot walk, are missing limbs,
and I’m here like “some guy I don’t even know or care about said I have no ass, so I’m ugly
and nobody will ever want me“, as if Im not fortunate enough just to have my health. Then I
met a guy in Highschool who couldn’t keep his hands off it. Loved how petite my body is,
thought it was the golden standard of bodies. Is my butt ugly? I can’t even answer that now,
may as well not waste my time worrying about it. I have stopped worrying too much about
my butt, but I still get a lil insecure, because humans do that, they get insecure and think
how they look makes the world spin).

God, even CELEBRITIES, people that get paid to look good, and have access to EVERYTHING
beauty think they look ugly.

Bottom line: nobody is ugly. everyone has a preference for what they like, “beauty is in the
eye of the beholder”. You’re probably like Zack Efron to someone out there, because the
brain and attraction are a giant mystery. Life is too short to not love the only body and face
you’ll ever have.