Parental intervention in their offspring’s career; affection or dictatorship.

Parent are very affectionate toward their offspring; offspring love them as well, in return.
As they move up the stair of life, parent trying to seek grooming features in them, for which,
they grant them an entrance to diverse learning institute.
Parent regulate their offspring in regard of their emotion and physique for the children are wet
behind the ear. In simple words, they lack sense to feel, notice and observe.
As offspring are coming of their age, they expand themselves for evolving intellectual skills.
They welcome personnel choices ‘s emergence. There always live a gap in parent and offspring
‘s mind-sets that contradict each other opinion.
Parent are enormously inspired from the environment ,society and all the element that squat
within it. They yearn for their offspring to pursue them on the same track. Parent constraining
offspring is like shooting fish in a barrel but Alas ! it blowback has to be active for years.
Some civilization hinder the smearing of offspring’s words against parental urge. Parent go ape
if they impede their horrid so they seize their demands, unthinkingly, for which they have to pay
later on. Parent want them to be star in their report card of exam; they constrain them to see
eye to eye even with the member of own family. After acknowledgment of their urge, parent let
their hair down that they have accomplished a milestone .
The offspring as a students inaugurate living a melancholic life. They lead each and every
second of life anxiously. Life become gruelling . they are not contented with what are they
doing. This depression can be estimated from the suicide rate surges that get into power
swiftly.
Suicide rate in male was noticed to be 76.5 percent , female 23 percent. Of them 42.6 percent
were from schools, 23 percent from colleges and 22 percent universities. (shakeel, 2019)
Not only Pakistan , India is also eating humble pie by having a suicide attempt after each
hour( official report) . US has noticed 100 students death rate in each year.
Parent are heedless of sequela that can be glean by imparting them a freewill. They have lost
their train of thought about the fundamental facts that their offspring can replace DR; Abdul
qadeer khan, shoaib Akhter and boxer like Ameer khan, if they topple over them with career by
the offspring will.
“when work is a pleasure, life is joy . when work is a duty, life is slavery “ (Maxim Gorkey)
Is only education coup the world, if No ,then who will convince parent....?
Some people will think that it is because of economy recession that parent can not tote the
charges of shifting offspring to passionate path.
Some question will be of the apprehension of civilisation that will ponder . some one will claim
them as ignorant being unaware of its bad shadow that lurk behind the scene. But all these
factors play a petty role , as the decision and will of parent are concerned and talent of offspring
are concerned. They influenced themselves by the society norms and trends.
PARENT CONSIDER THIS INTERVENTION AS AN AFFECTION; BUT ACTUALLY, THIS IS
DICTATORSHIP HIDDEN INSIDE THE AFFECTION.
How to cope this parental coup ...
The government should trigger investing an area of awareness to parent in this regard. Media
can be a prime agent. Parental potential must be robust enough that say No to society trend; by
putting all its blowback to front.
May all parent understand this deadly legacy .

Regard
Hamaad hadi
Profession docter.
Interested in society Norm.