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to what you did in your previous job, don’t dwell on that. Instead,
draw attention to your interests and skills in order to take the
conversation forward.
Before you make a phone call, consider your agenda and what you
can realistically expect from the person. Think about the purpose of
your conversation — is it to find out information or to seek further
contacts? Being clear about what you want will be a more effective
use of your and the contact’s time, and will create a better impression
than a rambling speech. Be aware that they may not be in a position
to do much, so be gracious if all they can offer are ideas, advice or
their experience. Requesting a job isn’t appropriate at this stage and
may result in you losing the contact. For networking emails, be
personable and upbeat, but make sure your tone is appropriate to the
person you are contacting — don’t go into “networking mode” if you
are just reaching out to an old friend, for example.
One way to show (rather than tell) people how great you are is to
have a few ‘STAR’ stories up your sleeve. STAR stands for Situation,
Task, Achievements and Results; it’s an easy way to tell a concise
story that lets your talents and achievements speak for themselves.
An example might be:
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A STAR story should take no more than five minutes to relate and
should include enough detail to pique your contact’s interest without
overwhelming him or her.
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Do you have any useful tips for networking? What do you think is
most important networking tip for people who have just been laid
off?
This content was adapted for inclusion in the HBR Guide to Getting a
Job.
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