Happily Chatty Toddlers Who Start

to Stutter
What happens when kids stutter, and 12 things you can do
about it.
Posted October 30, 2016 |  Reviewed by Lybi Ma

Source: Sean Choe via Flickr Creative Commons

It’s terribly worrying, but not at all uncommon, for children who start talking
early to experience a period of stuttering sometime between 18 months and 4
years of age. It can start all at once, and usually ends just as quickly a few
days, weeks, or months later.

What’s Happening?
With some toddlers, the stuttering (also called stammering) is mild—a few f-f-f-
false starts every few sentences. With others, it’s more severe, happening in
most sentences, preventing effective communication, and leading to the
child’s speaking less frequently.

Some little ones show signs of anxiety about the stuttering, blinking their eyes
rapidly, raising the pitch of the voice, or looking worried. Being tired, excited,
worried, angry, or upset usually makes stuttering worse.

For little ones with very active brains, their thoughts and ideas can be racing
ahead of their physical ability to make the words. Or as one mom wrote,
“Intelligent kids’ brains work better than their mouths.”

According to the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication

Disorders, stuttering occurs in five to ten percent of all children, most of whom
outgrow it. It can occur when a toddler’s desire to speak exceeds their speech
and language abilities. When this happens, toddlers can begin to stutter until
their spoken language skills have caught up.

And as speech-language pathologist Patricia McAleer-Hamaguchi wrote:

“When your child is in the midst of a great jump in his language skills, it's
natural he should have difficulty putting his sentences together in a fluent way.
His brain is like a computer, desperately trying to pull up the right words in the
right order. While the computer is searching, his mouth may go into a pause
(translated: repeat) mode.”

When a child who’s previously been a good talker begins to stutter, many
parents blame themselves or worry about other aspects of the child’s life. If
that’s you, stop looking for someone or something to blame. Stuttering in
toddlers is very rarely caused by environmental stressors. Instead, it is usually
a transient phase in the development of language skills. The child who was
previously a great talker will most probably become that again before too long.

What You Can Do if Your Toddler Stutters

1. Wait and see. Because many children go through a stuttering phase
while learning to talk, most experts recommend waiting until your child
is three before taking action.
2. Be patient and listen. When your child stumbles in trying to talk,
maintain normal eye contact and wait calmly for them to finish. Don't
provide words or finish their sentences. If you’re not available to talk,
let them know when you’ll have time, and then follow through.
3. Avoid giving advice. Don't suggest your child take a deep breath, slow
down, or start the statement over. You can feed the problem by
increasing your toddler’s self-consciousness.
 4. Channel Mr Rogers. Talk to your child in soft, slow, accepting, and
relaxed tones. If you speak quickly, your child may rush to keep up
with you.
5. Smile your encouragement. Keep a pleasant, relaxed expression on
your face when your child is talking.
6. Repeat the sentence. Once your child has finished, repeat the
sentence fluently so they know you understand, and so they can hear
it fluently said.
7. Make time for full individual attention. Set aside time each day for
pleasant, stress-free conversation with just this child.
8. Ask one question at a time. Keep your communication short, simple,
and positive.
9. Slow down the pace of your toddler’s life. Ensure as calm and
unhurried an atmosphere as possible.
10. Provide non-talking activities. When the stuttering is particularly
noticeable, look for something your toddler can do that doesn’t require
conversation. This can be drawing, reading, dancing, outdoor play, or
other nonverbal play activities.
11. Acknowledge the problem supportively, with kindness. From time
to time, say something like, “You have so many important things to tell
me that it can be hard for you to say them all!”, or “Sometimes talking
is difficult for everybody,” or “I love how you keep working to tell me,
even when it’s hard,” or “Your big brother (or mother, or whoever) was
a bumpy talker when he was little, and now look at him!”
12. Review familiar stories, nursery rhymes, and songs. Encourage
your child to tell you stories they know well. Sing simple familiar songs
and rhymes with them. These usually come more fluently than
unstructured speech.
These strategies will help your child thrive and grow stronger through what
could otherwise be a stressful period. In time, the stuttering problem will
probably disappear, but if your child is really struggling and the stuttering
hasn't improved within three to six months or by the age of three, speak to
your doctor about a referral to a speech therapist.

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