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“It is well settled that law is presumes in favour of marriage and against
concubinage, when a man and woman have cohabited continuously for long time.
India is widely known as a country with strong moral values and traditional integrity.
Perhaps, that‟s why bold exhibitions of romance go for a toss in such a typical
society, least being something like live-in-relationships in India. The union of a man
and a woman is considered as one of the most sacred acts in this country. No wonder,
living together before marriage is a bitter dampener for the staunch ethic upholders.
However, the new millennium has ushered in great changes even within the country
that has forever been enshrouded in a blanket of rich culture and heritage.1
In India, as per Hindu culture, tradition, customs and practices, marriage are
India are considered to be the highest form of social relationship. Marriage is a sacred
relationship where twopeople are bound together for a life long journey. There are
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Marriage is social approval to enjoy conjugal bliss. The arrangement was good when
girls and boys were too young to understand self-assertion. It‟s no more the case. By
the time two people marry they have their own established identities and convictions
and are less pliable leading to high rate of separations and divorces. The tragedy in
our country is that without this approval many people are deprived of a normal and
natural conjugal activity. In that case permission from society doesn‟t make sense.
Perhaps it is time to re-evaluate our notions of marriage and work with natural forces
rather than against them. It is ridiculous to deprive adults around age thirty to remain
virgin if they don‟t get married. It‟s against nature. Perhaps time is ripe to rethink the
meaning of marriage; time to give two adults choice to look for compatibility before
they exchange vows to remain forever with each other. Institution of marriage then
will be at sync with this new career oriented generation. Major reason that marriage is
still relevant and will remain so in future is because children need security of home
and must be raised by both parents for best results. Home is something to come back
to, after a gruelling day. Home is where children thrive. For the sake of future
generation it has to be preserved with all its sanctity but with flexible approach.
Equally important reason to save it is because at the sunset of life it provides for
set up in November 2000. It was constituted by the then home minister and deputy
justice of the Karnataka and Kerala High Courts. In 2003 when the Malimath
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Committee submitted its report, it made several recommendations under the head
“offences against women”. The first of these recommendations was to amend Section
125 of the Cr.P.C. This section is concernedwith maintenance rights of the “neglected
wife, children and parents”. It seeks “to prevent starvation and vagrancy by
compelling the person to perform the obligation which he owes in respect of his wife,
The committee sought to extend the definition of “wife” in Section 125 “to include a
woman who was living with the man as his wife for a reasonably long period, during
the subsistenceof the first marriage”. The extended definition of “wife” is thus clearly
set against the backdrop of secondary relationships of already married men and is not
claim maintenance as in law a second marriage during the subsistence of the first
marriage is not legal and valid. Such a woman though she is de-facto the wife of the
man, in law she is not his wife. Quite often the man marries the second wife
suppressing the earlier marriage. In such a situation the second wife can‟t claim the
unreasonable. The man should not be allowed to take advantage of his own illegal
acts. Law should not be insensitive to the suffering of such women.There are also
instances in which the courts have interpreted this recommendation in such a light.
Singhvi and A K Ganguly cite the first part of the recommendation of the Malimath
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Committee to support their case for a broad interpretation of the term wife. For them
the above recommendation of the Malimath Committee suggests that the “evidence
regarding a man and woman living together for a reasonably long period should be
sufficient to draw the presumption that the marriage was performed according to the
Someone has rightly opined that the world as God created was a kingdom of right
relationships. There was right relationship between God and people. There was right
relationship between people. There was right relationship between people and the rest
of creation. Now relationships that lack any sanctity are even being termed as right by
the policy makers, what more we can expect in God‟s beautiful and pure kingdom.
the option of live-in-relationships may seem attractive but the real side may not be
that fancy. They may be practically possible but their success in life which some day
A marriage is governed by a separate set of laws in all countries which safeguards the
interests of both parties who enter into the union. Live-in relationships on the other
hand have received due recognition in a few countries such as France and Philippines.
Despite the fact that there are scores of couples who are opting for live-in
relationships, the society still attaches a taboo to such relationships. The majority
Marriage on the other is still venerated by most despite the alarming rise in the
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between live-in relationships and marriage is that marriage has received the societal
Live-in relationship is one such connection in which a boy and girl have some relation
before their marriage and if they are satisfied with their partner they get married or be
like that for years. This kind of act though seems different; it is one, which is being
implemented today. Live-in relationship handles matter of premarital sex, but those
couples who are maintaining relations don‟t mind such things. Overall, this relation
builds up harmony between the couples, but spoils their social influence.6
relationship. The term is most frequently applied to couples who are not married.7
Advantages of live-inrelationships are that you need not stick together if both partners
are really incompatible. The trauma is much less than divorce because divorce itself is
hurtful with false and counter allegations making it a cruel battle of wits where no one
wins exceptthe lawyers. With increasing age of marriage of girls, the divorce rate is
of their own and economically independent, men just can't take women for granted
anymore. This imbalance in their thinking, if sorted out before they commit to get
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It‟s better to have a live-in relationship rather than having a divorced life. This is
common and quite rational line favouring live-in relations in the world. It should not
be denied that our culture does need a legislature to regulate relationships which are
likely to grow in number with changes in the ideology of people. The right time has
come that efforts should be made to enact a law having clear provisions with regard to
the time span required to give status to the relationship, registration and rights of
parties and children born out of it.Laws should be made by the parliament, which
The attitude towards live-in relationships in different societies is diverse but its
lives together without marrying each other and without any legal or social
relationship between two individuals living together but there are no rights and
formulate laws to safeguard the interest of both the partners. Today there are quite a
few laws guiding these relationships but these laws do not provide rights similar to
marriage. Courts do not enforce meretricious contracts because these laws are just like
provide financial support in the exchange of sexual favours. This is why it is very
difficult to claim rights in this relationship because it is difficult to prove that the
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It may also be pointed out here that Section 125 in its existing form seeks to secure
the rights of a wife (as well as children and parents) when she is unable to maintain
herself. Furthermore the woman seeking maintenance under this provision should not
be living in an adulterous relationship and in case the husband is willing that the wife
(or a woman like a wife) lives with him, she has to show sufficient reason for not
being able to do so. In fact the Act in its existing form suggests that if a husband has
be a just ground for his wife‟s refusal to live with him.Thus the spirit of this section is
wife in this section will not, in at least some instances, impinge upon the rights of the
primary wife and hence this does need more discussion and debate.
The PWDVA 2005, has been widely hailed as the first legal Act to recognise the
person” who will be covered under this Act as “any woman who is, or has been, in a
domesticrelationship with the respondent and who alleges to have been subjected to
any Act of domestic violence by the respondent”. Further the Act defines a „domestic
relationship‟ as „a relationship between two persons who live or have, at any point of
From this it is evident that to the broad range of domestic relationships between a man
and her husband, father, brother, and other male and even female kin related through
consanguinity or marriage, the PWDVA has added the category of “relations in the
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nature of marriage”.This does not imply that the Act deals with all forms of domestic
between a male employer and a live-in domestic worker. The Act also clearly has no
space for adult same-sex relationships. Nevertheless, it is possible to say that, unlike
implications for a broader terrain of non-marital relations as it does not explicitly limit
itself to the secondary relations of men. In having used the idea of “relations in the
nature of marriage”, the Act seems to have widened the scope of legally recognised
However, the connotation of the phrase “in the nature of marriage” is far from
obvious and, as we will see below, this is already a ground for contestation of the Act.
This aspect of the Act was thus legally challenged in the Delhi High Court in 2008. In
constitutionality of the Act on the grounds that,first, it discriminates against men and
second, the definition of “domestic relationship” contained in Section 2(f) of the Act
“relationships in the nature of marriage” at par with “married” status leads to the
derogation of the rights of the legally-wedded wife. The Delhi High Court rejected
both these contentions regarding the constitutional status of the Act. With regard to
the second contention, which is of concern to us, the court said that “there is no
reason why equal treatment should not be accorded to a wife as well as a woman
whohas been living with a man as his “common law” wife or even as amistress”. In
this case the judges interpreted “a relation in the nature of marriage” as covering both
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a“common law marriage” and a relation with a “mistress” without clarifying the legal
The public and even judicial responses to the legislative move to amend Section 125
and the provisions of the PWDVA, 2005 are sometimes deflected by a focus upon
men and women enter non-marital but exclusive relations with each other, often as a
that the primary impetus for legal changes is coming from recognition of the modern
style of living together. The legislative measures are a response to more traditional
and even patriarchal forms of non-marital cohabitation in which the male partner is
already married and enters a relation with another, usually unattached woman, who
may or may not be aware of the marital status of this man. Thus these legal moves
appear to be set against the backdrop of prevalent practices of married men entering
secondary relations with women.the main concern of those who have been pushing
for such legislation is to provide some relief to women who have been in such
relations under fairly conventional conditions. This was even more obvious in the
case of the recommendations of the Malimath Committee which have however not
been implemented. Such cases are arguably quite distinct from a western style
vocabulary. However, it is not obvious that all forms of non-marital relations can or
should be treated as legally identical. In any case, even if they should be treated as
implications this will have for the different categories. As things stand, in the absence
of clear social and legal categorisation of non-marital relations, the field has been left
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wide open and even the highest judicial functionaries have allowed themselves to
pontificate upon the need to separate a “relation in the nature of marriage” from that
with a “servant” or a “keep” and a “one night stand”. Notwithstanding the political
incorrectness of a good deal of these ruminations, this reveals the confusion which
has arisen around who might be the beneficiary of such laws and whether such legal
Social trends always do favour of marriage. Our law too provides many rights and
privileges to married persons. There can be a number of reasons for why a couple
decides to go in live in relationship rather going for marriage. A couple may want to
check their compatibility before marriage, or they may wish to uphold their single
status for any reasons. Sometimes partners see live in relationship as a way to lead a
liberal life because it lacks dedication and responsibility that marriage demands.
Walking out of a live in relationship is much easier than going out of a marriage.
Today's metro life and modern lifestyle also support these relationships. The
relationships. Living with a partner to whom you are not married in a live in
relationship involves risk as the level of commitment is not at its full potential.
Live-in relationship has always been the focus of debates and discussions as it is
has reserved many rights for the married people. Although live in relationship is not
considered as an offense but there is no law until the date that prohibits this kind of
relationship. Courts often refused to make any kind of obligatory agreements between
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Live-in relationships are not new for western countries but these days the concept is
adjusting its roots in east also. Now it is upon us to think about the pros and cons of
this and then accordingly take a decision for ourselves.The recent trend is that the
western people are moving towards family relation and family bonds but on the other
hand Indians are moving towards live-in relationship. Society is formed with
traditions, culture, ethics, moral values and customs which are foundational pillars. A
society is said to be ruined when the culture is ignored. Unfortunately, the western
culture is uprooting the Indian culture. Live-in relationship is not crime, may still be
immoral, against Indian tradition, culture, ethics, and moral values etc.
Living together could offer a number of kinds of gratifications, such as intimate, more
or less unrestricted sexual relations, a possibly more secure involvement than that of
more traditional dating, and a sense of freedom from punitive divorce laws should the
style but for short-term convenience. Couples in this latter situation would include
those who feel they have not yet enough money or education to marry or are perhaps
uncertain of the other person as a marriage partner. Only where living together is
adopted as a long-term life style would one expect the predicted decline of future
marriage rates.To understand the effect of living together on marriage rates, first look
relationship. Some of these factors might include the ability of the partners to
reciprocate positive feelings toward each other, the extent to which they value the
other as a person, and the degree of happiness experienced in their own pasts. For any
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relationship, these qualities should be predictive of happier, more successful
relationships.
The legal status of marriage has become the focus of a great deal of controversy in
recent years. Social and religious conservatives have voiced alarm at the decline of
marriage in an era in which divorce rates are high and increasing numbers of people
live in non-marital families. For these advocates, social welfare rests on the survival
(or revival) of traditional marriage. Meanwhile, critics from the left argue that
marriage as the preferred and privileged family form will (and should) soon be a thing
of the past. Some feminists want to abolish legal marriage altogether. They argue that
the parent-child relationship should replace marriage as the core family form
privileged under the law. Adults in intimate partnerships who wish to undertake
mutual obligations, but their unions should have no special legal status.
treasure, but that others believe are out of step with contemporary social norms and
institution. Even today, marriage has not fully emerged as a secular legal status.
Vestiges of the religious origins of marriage continue to shape attitudes and inform
the views of many marriage defenders, and cause concern for those who are
were legally and socially subordinated to their husbands. Despite the trend toward
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legal equality of husbands and wives, marital roles continue to be gendered in ways
that leave many women dependent and vulnerable. Thus, it is not surprising that many
feminists have little enthusiasm for marriage. Finally, marriage retains the vestiges of
its historical status as the only family form endorsed by the law. The exclusive
especially those in metropolitan areas. However, the definition and ambit of live-in
and the laws are in the form of court verdicts which varies from case to case. The
right of woman in such relationship is also not very certain, though court has shown
Violence Act, 2005 recognises right of woman in such relationship. There are various
other laws such as law of marriage, succession etc. which needs to be changed to give
full protection to woman in live-in relationship. As far as the right of child born under
such relationship is concerned, under Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 such child will be
legal, nevertheless there is no such law apart from Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 that
The law is in its infancy so far as the live-in relationships between two persons are
concerned .It does not give the right to a female partner as that of a wife who gets
married according to the traditions established by the society. If any issue arises, the
case is disposed of in the light of Marriage Act enacted before and after
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independence. It does not give a crystal clear picture of the rights of a woman and a
man who enters into such a relationship to seek social and emotional security.
The Indian Legal system should devise new strategies in order to counter the present
presumed as permanent after a specific period of time. Furthermore, the children born
the rights of inheritance, succession etc. The female partner‟s role to prove the burden
of such relationship should be relaxed. Persons who enter into a live-in relationship
with a living spouse should be convicted for bigamy. A separate legislation should
such relationships. At last, the sooner our society accepts live-in relationships, the
better chances the Indian Judiciary has for passing judgments which are in the
righteous spirit of law and in the interest of justice, equity and good conscience. It
should not be denied that our culture does need a legislature to regulate relationships
which are likely to grow in number with changes in the ideology of people.
Object of Study
(b) To review the status of the women and applicability of various provisions of
law as to domestic violence, rape, adultery, cruelty on the women partner in live in
relationship.
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(c) To analysis the mutual rights and obligation of live-in partner towards each
other. (d) To study the judicial analysis of certain decisions and to examine whether
the courts are coming forward to protect the rights and dignity of the women in live-in
relationship.
(e) To review the laws in the light of right to maintenance in case of break up
relationship and right of inheritance of property accruing to an issue born out of such
relationship.
Research Hypothesis
place in our culture and tradition. It has been used as an instrument to regulate the
social behavioural pattern and sexual orientation of the couples in the civilised
society. The institution of marriage has suffered many odds since ages. It has survived
innumerable odds to establish in all societies. The legal sanctity has been conferred
through enactments and judicial decisions. The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, the
Criminal Procedure Code, 1973 and the Protection of Women from Domestic
Violence Act, 2005 has expressly preserved the institution of marriage against all
odds. Recently, certain relationships have surfaced in all societies which are akin to
martial relationships but lacks commitment and legality. Such relationships are
It is hypothesized that the recognition of the right of live-in partner will help to
prevent the collapse of family structure and protection of individual civil liberties.It is
also hypothesized that current law regarding marriage are inadequate and insufficient
to meet the challenge posed by relationship resembling to marriage but not true
marriage.
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Sources
In this work, doctrinal method of research has been used. Primary, Secondary &
Tertiary sources of data has been used for this work. The primary source of data used
Research Methodology
The research work has been carried on doctrinal research methodology. The various
live-in relationships in India and contemporary world are included as tools for
achieving the objectives of this research cum thesis writing.Thus, the research work
has adopted descriptive and exploratory approach in developing and writing thesis.
Further, by applying analytical and critical approach, conclusion and suggestions are
opined to draw inadequacies and fallacy of legal system. A comprehensive study shall
The research work has been divided into eight chapters. The brief overview of all the
chapters is as following-
Introduction
In introduction chapter the basic law relating to live-in relationships in India and
contemporary world including the United Kingdom, the United State of America,
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France, China, Scotland, Philippines, etc.with special reference to rights of livein
children born out of such relationship has been discussed. The Reports of Committees
are included in the study to incorporate the recommendations regarding legal marriage
In this chapter the brief overview of the dynamic characteristic of law relating to live-
now. Live-in relationship is a contractual obligation between the partners who are
living together without any moral and legal obligation. The concept is gaining
Patchaiammal v. D .Velusamy,10 the Supreme Court held that not all live-in
relationships will amount to a relationship in the nature of marriage to get the benefit
of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005. It also deals with
In this chapter the international concern about live-in relationship with their statuary
provisions, international conventions and charters across the globe which are chiefly
connected with live-in relationship. The evolutionary process has been discussed for
analysing the reasons for the growth of live-in relationship in India and contemporary
world. Marriage has begun to lose its importance and sanctity. The institution of
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marriage is under threat everywhere because there is change in lifestyle, age of
against women in India which makes the status of women venerable to all form of
atrocities and crimes. The changing status and role of women in Indian society has
much prevalent and regressive practice which has brought cultural, social, economic
and educational differences which pushes India back every time. The most effective
remedy to make women empowered is by ensuring the equality and justice mentioned
chapter the various issues emerging out of a live-in relationship and the challenges
faced by the sociologists, legislators, judiciary and other institutions are discussed in
providing solutions to conflicts that have arisen during live-in relationship. The
concept of live-in relationship, the freedom and liberty it offers to partners and most
importantly, the fact that an increasing number of urban couples in India are choosing
to „live-in‟ rather than marriage. The law on its part must adapt to these
this chapter the probability of recognizing and protecting the interest of parties of the
live-in partner is the need of the society to keep pace with the changing dynamics of
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the modern society and to avoid chaos and confusion cropped through such
relationships. Live-in relationship is an extra legal concept, which has already secured
its stand in our society. The courts by way of various rulings have started recognising
without getting married, can live together if they wish to. This may be regarded as
immoral by society, but is not illegal. There is a difference between law and morality.
In this chapter the response from judiciary while dealing with the issues related to
live-in relationship by exploring and analysing the ratio of important case laws of
spouse. Such decisions, while being delivered were for upholding the rights of the
“other” woman but these decisions contradict the law on bigamy. When bigamy is
illegal (except for Muslims) it is unclear in what sense a live-in relationship can be
living spouse.
Chapter-7 Conclusion and Suggestions
In this chapter the conclusion and suggestions are designed and deduced from the
entire study to protect the right of the women partner under live-in relationship in
India. The recommendations are given to harmonise the law to keep pace with impact
of globalisation.
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All said and done, the bottom line is that, “India is not quite a fertile ground for the
cultivation of Live-in Relationships; at least not as long as the strong roots of the
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