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NEGOTIATION SkIlls
OBJECTIVES:
John owns a land with four coconut tress and a well in the middle of the
land.
Task: Divide the land, trees and the well equally among four of his sons.
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TIM ½
TOM 1/3
JIM 1/9
Suggest a way.
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1. What is Negotiation?
Negotiation is used to achieve agreement about the goals and the outcome of the situation.
Negotiation involves discussion about allocation of good & services about opportunities &
issues related to conditions & timing. This discussion can end in conflict if the negotiation
process is not successful. So, you need skills for dealing with conflicts.
You need a range of specific skills to negotiate in order to achieve an agreed outcome. Good
interpersonal Skills are an important part of successful negotiation.
There are many techniques that people use when negotiating. You will encounter these when
you analyze, observe and participate in negotiation.
3. Preparing Negotiation: -
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This is one of the most important aspects of the negotiation process. If you are not addressing
the right problem, then the outcome will be off track. When you identify the problem in a
negotiation you are trying to describe the overall issue and identify the challenges faced. The
negotiator focuses on the problem while you are planning- so that the issues being negotiated
are your main concern rather than the people and their views.
Defining your goals in a negotiation means making a statement about the best outcome that
you can achieve in the situation. if you can clearly state your goal then you will be more
likely to keep the discussion focused and eventually achieve your goal. A clear goal will help
you to present your position to others. And think about anticipate their goals.
C. Gather & record all relevant facts about the negotiation situation: -
A successful negotiator is always fully informed and prepared before commencing the
negotiation. This requires through information gathering to help you to identify the range of
issue/ needs/ goals/ options & facts related to the particular negotiation.
A SWOT analysis will help in record the gathered information (Strength / weakness/
opportunities / threats)
Simply list relevant points under the four heading (Working alone/ with the help of
others)
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3. Leave behind your ego. The best negotiators either don’t care or don’t show they
care about who gets credit for a successful deal. Their talent is in making the other
side feel like the final agreement was all their idea.
4. Ramp up your listening skills. The best negotiators are often quiet listeners who
patiently let others have the floor while they make their case. They never interrupt.
Encourage the other side to talk first. That helps set up one of negotiation’s oldest
maxims: whoever mentions numbers first, loses. While that’s not always true, it’s
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generally better to sit tight and let the other side go first. Even if they don’t mention
numbers, it gives you a chance to ask what they are thinking.
5. If you don’t ask, you don’t get. Another tenet of negotiating is, “Go high, or go
home.” As part of your preparation, define your highest justifiable price. As long as
you can argue convincingly, don’t be afraid to aim high. But no ultimatums, please.
Take-it-or-leave-it offers are usually out of place.
6. Anticipate compromise. You should expect to make concessions and plan what they
might be. Of course, the other side is thinking the same, so never take their first offer.
Even if it’s better than you’d hoped for, practice your best look of disappointment and
politely decline. You never know what else you can get.
7. Offer and expect commitment. The glue that keeps deals from unraveling is an
unshakable commitment to deliver. You should offer this comfort level to others.
Likewise, avoid deals where the other side does not demonstrate commitment.
8. Don’t absorb their problems. In most negotiations, you will hear all of the other
side’s problems and reasons they can’t give you what you want. They want their
problems to become yours, but don’t let them. Instead, deal with each as they come up
and try to solve them. If their “budget” is too low, for example, maybe there are other
places that money could come from.
9. Stick to your principles. As an individual and a business owner, you likely have a set
of guiding principles and values that you just won’t compromise. If you find
negotiations crossing those boundaries, it might be a deal you can live without.
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10. Close with confirmation. At the close of any meeting (even if no final deal is struck)
recap the points covered and any areas of agreement. Make sure everyone confirms.
Follow-up with appropriate letters or emails. Do not leave behind loose ends.
Knowledge
Similarity of appearance and voice
Relationship (Trust)
Self Confidence & Sincerity
Ability to praise free.
Ability to handle pressure.
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For example, you might use a statement when you are concerned about proposals to
introduce quality management practices into the workplace.
The statements could commence with “I” / “We”. Good listening aided by appropriate
responses such as summarizing & interpretation, paraphrasing the main points of the
conversation.
Acting listening techniques involve listening to the points that the other parties are
making & responding appropriately.
Taking brief notes in one way to aid effective listening but concentrating & giving the
speaker your attention. Closed questions are helpful in an examination of the fact
because they focus on specific information. While open questions provide you with
specific information.
In a successful negotiation you need to provide opportunities to identify your own needs
& the needs of the other party.
Often, we express our needs as wants. When we say what to gain without stating why?
Finding out the needs of the people in a negotiation allows both parties to consider a
range of outcomes.
It is important to focus on the problem and to avoid focusing on the people involved.
Furniture & seating: furniture should be adequate for the group. Avoid physical barriers
between participants. Make sure the seating arrangements do not exaggerate the statues of
any other party.
Team members – ensure that:
o All the people involved in the negotiation are available for the meeting.
o All parties are adequately represented in the discussion.
o The people with power to make decisions are at the negotiation.
This is the only way to ensure that everyone knows the relevant information & that
the agreement is accepted by all.
have planned for. Involved all team members, plan suitable time, venue & suitable seating
arrangements. Refreshments can also assist the negotiation process.
Once you have dealt with the preliminary. It’s time to move to the business of the
negotiation itself.
Start the negotiation by clarifying the issue. It is essential that the parties be clear about
this and that they are all addressing the same issue. The goals of each party may be
clearly stated at the commencement of the negotiation.
Get agreement on the process that will be used during the negotiation. All parties need to
discuss and agree on the way that it will be conducted. (Same as setting the agenda or the
rules)
H-Decision Making (Agenda)
Once again brainstorming is used,
o Awareness (ventilation): parties’ clarity the goals & establish the climate & agenda.
o Statement of objectives: all possible outcomes are listed in a brainstorming session.
o Ranking objectives: Objectives are divided into two classifications. (Musts / Wants)
Identify obstacles in reaching the objectives and anything that prevents it. Remove these
obstacles.
State alternative means for searching the objectives using a second brainstorm.
Analyze how for the alternative will work and can be implemented.
Tentatively (Temporarily) select the decision that will achieve the musts and the large
number of wants.
Test the tentative decision against the possible results and identify any obstacles to be
removed.
Choose the best alternative by repeating the steps .
Describe the steps for implementing the best decision.
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These steps work well where there is potential for a high-level cooperation between parties
and a commitment to the best possible outcome.
Conflict needs to be expressed discussed & dealt with successfully before you negotiate to
achieve an agreed outcome.
Factors that can occur & will increase the level of conflict.
Competition
Righteousness
Not Listening to the views of others
Allowing the discussion to spread to new issues.
Dealing in personalities
Threats.
Internal Hurt.
Violating social Norms and the Observable Result.
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Case study 01
Mike and Jean are members of a new project team set up to develop a sales promotion plan
for an important client. Jean is the project leader.
As part of her planning, Jean has come up with a number of problems.
Mike’s workplace is two floors down where Jean works, and she is anxious for all team
members to be in the same area because they will need to share files. Previous experience
with a project where team members were separated showed that communication was difficult,
documents went astray, it was always hard to get people together quickly if something had to
be discussed.
The project will be managed using a new software package and it is common knowledge that
Mike is not keen on using computers. Coming to grips with the new program will also
involve Mike in learning to use word processing software and acquiring key board skills.
Mike won’t be keen on moving because his workplace is in a prime location with good light,
a view and a fair amount of privacy. He would have to give these up to move to Jean’s area
which he regards as crowded and noisy. He also sees coming to grip with the computer
programme as a problem because some of the training would be in his time and he does not
see the need for everyone on the team to use the software.
3. Form groups of five and discuss what are some of the ways in which this situation
could be handled. - Your group comprises Mike, Jean the negotiator, a leader and a
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secretary. At the end of the discussion the group leader will orally present the decision
of the group.
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Group B- You are representatives of the Mining Company. Discuss the solutions with
representatives of KAR Pvt.Ltd and come to a conclusion with the best solution.
One of the most effective methods of problem solving is the Dewey Sequence.
Developed by educator John Dewey, this reflective thinking process which is a structured
organized series of question is best described by the questions listed below.
(Task:Every member of the group must come prepared to answer each of the questions in
steps one through four as it pertains to your topic.)
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What is the specific problem that the group is concerned about? (In the case of your
group this will be your policy question)
What teams, concepts, or ideas need to be defined?
What are the guidelines for a workable solution? (Sample criteria may include cost,
ability to be implemented, enforced, i.e., ……… uniforms-comfortable, eye catching,
After the group has analyzed the problem and suggested criteria for a solution, it
should begin to suggest possible solutions in tentative, hypothetical terms. Many
suggest a verity of possible solutions without evaluating them. (Brainstorming)
After the group has compiled a list of possible solutions, it should be ready to select
the best possible solution in the light of the criteria that the group developed in step
three.
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Are there any disadvantages to the solution? Do the disadvantages outweigh the
advantages?
Does the solution conform to the criteria formulated by the group? (The group may
decide to modify the criteria)
Group members should be confident that the solution will indeed solve the problem.
After the group selects the solution, they must determine how to put the solution into
effect.
How can the group get public support and approval for its proposed solution?
What specific steps are necessary to implement the solution?
How can the group evaluate the success of its problem- solving efforts?
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