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There are major differences between family life and responsibilities and
Western countries. The principle of the extended family is alive and well in
Vietnam. There may be three generations, sometimes even four, living in the
family home in Vietnam. That has not been the case in many other countries of
the world for decades.
It is not that younger members of the family are ignored. Respect runs through
every level of society. Often some of the family leave home and village to head
for the city; there are special occasions in the year, especially Tet, the
Vietnamese New Year, when they are likely to return if at all possible. It is
important that an extended family can spend at least some time together.
Each member of the family has a responsibility to all the others. That may come
in the form of encouragement but it may also be material help if there is an
obvious need or indeed there is a request. In Vietnam, the first people to go to
for any financial help are not the financial institutions but the family.
It does not appear that all the family traditions in the Vietnamese culture are
being eroded in any way, despite the move of people from village to city.
Vietnamese people recognise nine generations from great, great grandparents to
the individual, the fifth generation going down to the individual’s great, great
grandchildren, the ninth. The family broadens in that many people have brothers
and sisters who themselves have their own relationships. To complicate matters
further, a father (tam phu) may be the blood father, your mother’s current
husband or an adopted father. The same thing applies to a mother.
Even today, the choice of a wife may involve the parents or extended family. It
is tradition and elements of superstition may be involved as well’ birth date of
the bride for example. It is changing as city life becomes more common but it is
unlikely that anyone will go ahead without the approval of the family,
especially parents, too often.
head for sth: If you are heading for a bad situation, you are likely to
experience it soon, because of your own actions or behaviour
Source: https://www.vivutravel.com/vietnam-travel-guide/vietnamese-
lifestyle/vietnamese-family-life