ernar021 Why are some gis very promiscuous? - Quora Quora «=: (Quo wae cookies to irgrove your expres, Reed More Why are some girls very promiscuous? T Answers Marcus Geduld, Former dateless nerd, now 25 yeas into reationshio It’s a good question—though there's probably no reason to make it about one gender— but there's simple answer Lubido Gr men and women) is controlled by a complicated mitre of forces, some pphysiologiea, some psycholagcal, and some unknown. Kany of those knobs are tured in 2 particular individual he or she might wind up with an unusualy high o low sex dive In alton to things lice learned attitudes towards sex, we're taking about rneurotransmiters such 3 dopamine, which vary in strength from petson to person, ‘And usta high ido isnt enough to make one promiscuous. To eam that label, one needs ‘frequently act on one’s desires, Impulse contol occurs primarily in the brain's frontal lobes, and due to differences in brain anatomy, neurotransmitter, and drug us, diferent people have citferent levels of slt-contro ‘The previous paragraph makes it seem aif sx drives are something “normal” peaple control while “abnormal fol un wid. That's 2 value judgement and different people have eifferent values, largely due to sacetal pressures (bt possibly somewhat influenced by genes). Some folks might not need fronta-lobe impulse control because they've been raised to believe (or have come to believe) there's nothing wrong withthe impulse inthe first place, Im my experience, in both men and women, will sexual behavior tends to correlate highly "with drinking Which makes sense: alcoho! lowers inhitions ase O90 2 Related Questions More Anawers ao leit true men don’ ke promiscuous women? Why are some promiscuous women stil able 10 got boyfriends? its okay to be promiscuous in college? What happens when that person graduates, but ‘the promiscuity hasnt gone aay? |What makes a woman sexually promiscuous? |who was the most promiscuous person you have ever met, and what were they ike? ‘Why are some teenage girls very promiscuous? @ rrr sett rotor conniseur There's plenty of reasons a person might be promiscuous. They might be looking for artention, desperatly starving fr affection, they might be rebelling against contoling patents, or perhaps they simply really enjoy ex. There's no way of knowing why any indivi person might be promiscuous, without asking them cect, There is no universal answer hare ase O90 2 htpshwww. quora.comMWhy-are-some-gils-very-promiscuus amernar021 Why are some girs very promiscuous? - Quora Quora os ‘QUESTION: Why are some girls very pr men ina self-destructive and damaging way icuous? Gils who do lots of sexual at for Both men and women can have alot af sex Some choose to because they enjay the sex ind it makes their life more fl and interesting. Others fd tha ex helps them connect mare deeply witn others . or they experience it as 2 pathway to god. or a5 a deep and profound gi that they share with the wold. oF their chosen form af healthy exercise and recreation. And forsome, they realy, really enjoy the orgasms. But you asked specifically about sex that is done in “self. destructive ond damaging way: For those situations here are my thoughts {71 Trying to get love through sex. Many answers canbe found inthis bit of wisdom: + "You can never get enough of something that you don't need.” Let's take food for example ma big, active guy —and s0 | might need two or tree times the amount of food that you need, If eating to fil my need for food then Il get fll and tap, But fm eating to fill an emotional need — then no amount of Hiagen-Dazs soing fil that hole ‘The same goes for sex fm getting fisky because Fm horny — then sex can easily satisty ‘that need. But fm fucking fr love, acceptance, or attention . then no amount of x wll ive me what" seeking Hf sex isn't the rea, primary need — then one may never be able to get enough sex 12. The Pleasure / Shame Cycle And here's the other irony. Many adtions are caused by the pleasure / shame cycle When the pleasure of an experience get's overtaken by the shame —one can be left with an even bigger hole that needs tobe fille Hf s person feels shame about sex, then they may “miss” what the sex (and their partner has to offer. So theyll keep having more and mare sex in an attempt to attain something .. but the shame keeps true satiation just out of reach, 13, The Importance of Truth in Advertising ‘Sex can bea pathway to satisfying a whole range of needs. But the key i to be clear about what needs you're hoping to satisfy Some people mess things up by pretending that they e looking for love — when they really desire sex. Otvers, pretend that they're looking fr sex — when theyte rely seeking love, Which leads us to #4, Using Sex to Buy Love — is more expensive than you think. ‘Another mistake people make is eying to “buy” love. Hf you give something a8 9 gift the jy of giving that gif, with no expectation of geting anything in return... then that ean feel amazing, But ifyourre tying to “purchase” love or acceptance through sex, gifs, adoration or anything else — then you may endl up digging an emtional hole that no amount of love wil anle O 04 > @ iets se eer tot ‘ase 4 yeas ago Author has 3.7K arses an 8M arse viens Ht you're not judging «Then why does it matter? htpsswww. quora.comMWhy-are-some-girls-very-promiscuous anternar021 Why are some gis very promiscuous? - Quora QUOTA seer suesion, pope a eps TF BECERRA NEATOE TA BE WH eT ETAT the aces. Which i, you know, pretty much the same reason anybody does anything aule O D3 > 3 comments rom Anonymovs sna more Related Questions ore Answer eo [Why some women are promiscuous? Men who have/ad a relationship (marred/dting) witha woman who has a promiscuous past (i. she slept around with alot of men), and you don’t havea promiscuous past. Is there anything wrong with promiscuity? ‘Why do people hate promiscuous women so much? ‘What do you ink about promiscuous women? ‘Aditi Kapur, Lived fle Unde 4 yrs ago: Author his 12K answers and 12M answer views There ae two meanings tothe word. The fist one is a value judgement based on the ‘appropriate’ amount of sex withthe ‘appropriate’ socially accepted partner, 35 id down by the culture ofthe society Now, depending onthe cure ands dictats a behavior may be labeled as Promiscuous can be as litle 35 showing her face fom behind a hijab, to talking ta male, o fang in htpsswww. quora.comMWhy-are-some-girls-very-promiscuous anternar021 Why are some girs very promiscuous? - Quora QUOTA A sere or questions, people. and topes Ital vary. 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What followed, all of her life, \was she gat attached to narcissistic psychopath $0 either they punish ‘themselves, or wreak havoc, Neurosis or psychosis, Depending an what their cultuce says. sad stories ALY at any time your body has been used 3s an objec, the sancttyofit belonging to you, has been broken. Understand that. Out ofthe ‘wo, fd seriously recommend wreaking havoc, rather than internalize somebody's disease, and caling yourself ‘good for nothing’ if there are gis out there who are taking care of personal reversible harm done to them, keto say. Sista ‘when you're done burnin up the fucking wold, come back to peace, and help boils a kinder civization 11% G oF 2 Russell sackman, MS Ec: School Psychology/Counseling w/ over 25 years of exp. Answered 4 years ago Ruthor has 2.2K answers and 7M answer ews htpsswww. quora.comMWhy-are-some-girls-very-promiscuous Why are some gis very promiscuous? - Quora siternar021 Why are some girs very promiscuous? - Quora QUOTA 2 seers or questions, people, and topes 2. Inthe US we have a hang up about sex in general witha total dauble standard, 3, People see females as promiscuous but judge males ona alifferent standard for similar behavior, The fact sit al the same behavior. 4. There ace two typical responses to your question 1) Some females (and males) ke just sex 2) Some females (and males) use sex asa way of trying to gun self worth fam good in bed, boysgirs wil ike me, 50 | fel Ihave worth, 1k sow View opwotes ao OD » Raven Gause Sadness and heartbreak Well everyone's definition of promiscuity is eifferent. One may say your promiscuous ifyou have more that 10 partners in a short period time and are unmarried. Others may view it as jumping from relationship to relationship, When people do ANY damaging behavior isto filla need or void ALWAYS. Women and men both can be promiscuous and its definition shoulde’t be separated due to gender ke society does. Both men andl wemen should be hele to equal standard good and bad, a7 oo > Related Answers D> Rabe Answer eee ale eterno derstand ot ie too wal and ge neutral advice If it is okay to be promiscuous in college? What happens when that person graduates, but the promiscuity hasn't gone away? This is from my own observations. You may not lke it but atthe end, you'll agree hiss the brutal truth Gilt and Gin 2 attend college inthe same major. One is naturally beautiful and a viegin Sie ale happens ta be supar smart. Girl 2s average loaking with average brain. How she got into thr program s questionable. She sleeps around for homework and grades. Her grades are ok Both graduate. Gir 2 lands a job at atop company with 3 least $30,000 ‘mare in salary than in anyone inher class. Everyone talks about i and hints she must've slept with someone to land such a highly paid job, Gil 7 starts grad schoo. She has been ina serious relationship, 10 years later, Gil 1 is working ata prestigious jb that she rightfully earned with her higher degree. Shei single by choice since she couldn't mest someone her level. Her ex has mariad someone average like Girl t made her wonder why she even dated “he guy. ‘Then she leamed men usually mary down when they are ready to have a family. Allthey care i good and regular sex with someone who can give him children. Nothing else matters! Men rarely marry their equal but the frst woman they meet when theyrent ready fer mariage. Then in less than 2 years, theyre engaged, maried and pregnant. (One day Gi 1 rns into Gil 2. She's in her 2nd marriage and makes at least vice 9s much 96 Git 1, She met her second husband through the life she had! but wit husband 1. Her husband 2is more accomplished than her husband 1, This explains why beautiful and inteligent women stay single and how average looking women get highly desirable men, Often these highly desirable men are nerds with high net worth, These men spend all their Ife studying hard, They ae aften are virgin or sexually inexperienced, Sometimes they stay virgin fr ther religions. Then they meet these women wie give them amazing sex that htpsshwww. quora.comMWhy-are-some-gils-very-promiscuous enternar021 Why are some gis very promiscuous? - Quora Quora &«=: become more ane more unnappy as mey nave noting in common. Most Important sne isntintligent enough to stimulate his bain, She also it gving him blowjob anymore She doesn't care about him anymore. he's too busy for her husband and kids. There's no need for her massage his ego! She got the fesse and the Court wiltake he side She achieved her goals and the man s lonely, He tats to hang out more and more with his inteligent coworker for ntllectual simulation and ako to stay away rom she dumb, annoying wife. They grow apart. Children sufer and grow upto be emotionally stant and often narcissistic parners ‘The society teaches ata young age that sexs sacred and good gil should not sleep with Just anybody. Sometimes men are also taught to stay virgin unt married, They should focus in school It algo teaches some men to sleep wth just anyone unt he's ready to settle down. I encourages and rewards men and some women to be promiscuous. all irs are supposed to be good, then wha slep with these men? These men bed so many women that they dan’ ike ok sex. As Chris Rock said, "Men never go back sexual” Who can give these men good sex? Promiscuous women. ‘Women who grew up with ether no money or no beauty, lem at a young age about the power of sex They sleep with men to get something that they did't get from thei own parents. almost al the tim, i’s the money and the access to higher clas. These girs bul ‘heir ves withthe help oftheir men. Then when they are done a one level or use by time, they move to another level wth the help fom a man in the higher level, They sleep to get head in fe and they are willing to have sex with anyone who can help them upgrade the ‘social cass. Intlly they appear submissive. They massage che man’s ego. The men feels good about himself and helps her grow. These are the same men who crated blocks in front of intaigent women 30 that she couldn't further her career, We have lass ceiling because of these men. Promiscuous women know how to shatter te glass eelng ith sex ‘These women are sexually confident as they know how they can manipulate men with so They usually end up with men withthe most money or highly desirable men. They also run top management and almost al the time inefciently because someone promote them. ‘These women start their 20° a5 a yes woman and okjobs to act independent, They date ‘older men who pay for thei fest, They sleep with no question asked, They massage a man’s ego and ake on a submissive role. The man stars to beleve he is gerting lunconcitonal love, He thinks he ha found his mothers uncondltional love in the woman 25 she says yes to everything including sex. Then one day, the man is dumped and he has no idea wity someone below his level dumped him, Then he saw her climbing the ladder with a man above his level while ruining hi life with child support and custody battles if there are children, This isthe same man wh walked away from 00d woman becouse she stood up for herself and didnt tolerate his mistreatment. The cause of divorce isn't sways disagreement but the fundamental difference between aninteligent man and» ‘manipulative woman, These men didnt think with brain when they matied down, The man ‘starts to disagree withthe woman as he befeves she's not capable of making good decisions enow of atleast 2 women who started working at their company with high school degree ‘They both eventually became the VP. Another woman | mets halding the second highest position aa top organization. She started asa technician Her bosses promoted her to another level while sending her to schools. She makes $1,600,000 a year now. Everyone wil ell you these women slept withthe boss at every level and upgraded the every way. By the time they reached tothe top, they ated that evel They ate also ‘educated. Someone paid for their tuition. They don't understand the value of hardwork or good judgement. Therefore they 3° sy snsgars ONe QuEston thelr competence hen they are atthe top because in popen, wey ave sonipatent. When you can ga atthe ‘op level ike that, it doesn't mater what ethers or your subordinates think Stil that abel fellows them lke a shadow as people tak Everyone knows they slept their way to the top. Tey are feared for their top ttle but never respected. Going back to answering question, promiscuity hasnt gone away because the behaviors rewarded, Many women don't pay rent because they know as long as they have sex with ‘the man, thelr ils are paid, Men know that toa and whea they see women aren ling to sleep with them, they disappear and never help her. 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