BULLYING A PROBLEM THAT INCLUDES A SET OF SOCIAL AND FAMILY

PROBLEMS

Not only bullying among adolescents men but also among adolescent
girls, affecting psychology and physical integrity of the victim. Most of these
cases are linked to ladies who come from national schools whose aggressive
nature is a product of a traumatic childhood, in which even sexual abuse
occurred. Furthermore, the influence technology has led to forms of cyber
bullying or bullying through text messages, photo blogs, videos, email,
Facebook, and others.
To begin with this, we must know what exactly is bullying these days? It
is repeated behavior intended that is mean to harm someone else, including
physical and psychological violence, discrimination and even various sexual
abuses. Victims may even commit suicide or self-conscious community.
Second, there are factors that influence the occurrence of
such abuse TV Programs show a level of extreme violence,
aggressive behavior within the family, not communicate or
negotiate their desires, lack of empathy and feeling no guilt
for his actions. Third, one who is a victim of bullying
frequently misses class, decreases school performance,
has sorrow, few friends, sometimes presents shock or injury. If you really want
to have open communication with your kids and find out what's going on or pay
attention tom their friendships, they will not have problems in the future. In some
countries it has been punishing teens who are bullies and the suspension of
high school. Not only this but also the damage to reputation, and also pay a
sum of money. Here in Lima, Peru, the Judiciary first issued a favorable ruling
for one who is a victim of school bullying and also the offender will have to pay
300 soles as civil damages. On the other hand, in a 2008 study, 34% of victims
do not report bullying and 25% of teachers and parents allow it to continue. Or
the victims are afraid or do not trust their parents is a good reason for this
indicator, neither parents nor teachers do something to stop this, as revealed by
the Universidad Mayor de San Marcos. There is not only intimidation but also
sexual violence and bullying in student group.
 In some schools there are complaints mailbox is able to identify the
percentage of students who feel safe in the classroom, this type of assessment
takes 10 minutes maximum and is performed once a week and the results
should be private. Not only complaint box is a way to determine who the
aggressor but also through assemblies is. In the first meeting it was identified
that the way bullying is calling, in the second meeting two students said they
were intimidated and threatened in the bathroom and even outside of school
and how bullying was exclusion in
the third assembly victims of
bullying said the stalker had a
sidekick and follower passive
offenders accepted his guilt and
asked for help. One way to solve
this problem is to practice the game
Cooperative Discipline is to
motivate teamwork, helping others,
and to live without violence. This game works in phases, the evaluation phase
serves to identify peer bullying and mistreatment between teacher and student,
and Implementation Phase is when there are rules that must be met. Those
who are victims of bullying should vent their parents or someone you trust, on
the other hand not encourage revenge or show anxiety before the child is good.
In conclusion, people who are victims of bullying should report your
problem to others so you can find a solution. Neither classmates nor teachers
should make the person bullying. Or does something to stop this or the
percentage of victims of bullying grow above 75%, and also awareness
campaigns about the consciousness that may have this problem.

By Ober
Sánchez A.