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Richard Feloni
October 22, 2015
Jocko Willink is the retired commander of the most highly decorated special-operations
unit of the Iraq War: US Navy SEAL Team Three Task Unit Bruiser, which served in the
2006 Battle of Ramadi.
In his new book, "Extreme Ownership: How US Navy SEALs Lead and Win," co-written
with his former platoon commander, Leif Babin, he and Babin explain the lessons
learned in combat that they've taught to corporate clients for the past four years in their
leadership-consultancy firm, Echelon Front.
Willink writes that he realized during his 20 years as a SEAL that, "Just as discipline
and freedom are opposing forces that must be balanced, leadership requires finding the
equilibrium in the dichotomy of many seemingly contradictory qualities between one
extreme and another." By being aware of these seeming contradictions, a leader can
"more easily balance the opposing forces and lead with maximum effectiveness."
Here are the 12 main dichotomies of leadership Willink identifies as traits every effective
leader should have.
He writes that, "I did my utmost to ensure that everyone below me in the chain of
command felt comfortable approaching me with concerns, ideas, thoughts, and even
disagreements."
"That being said," he adds, "my subordinates also knew that if they wanted to complain
about the hard work and relentless push to accomplish the mission I expected of them,
they best take those thoughts elsewhere."
"A leader must have a competitive spirit but also be a gracious loser."
"They must drive competition and push themselves and their teams to perform at the
highest level," Willink writes. "But they must never put their own drive for personal
success ahead of overall mission success for the greater team."
This means that when something does not go according to plan, leaders must set aside
their egos and take ownership of the failure before moving forward.
"A leader must be attentive to details but not obsessed with them."
The most effective leaders learn how to quickly determine which of their team's tasks
need to be monitored in order for them to progress smoothly, "but cannot get sucked
into the details and lose track of the bigger picture," Willink writes.
"A leader must be strong but likewise have endurance, not only physically but
mentally."
Leaders need to push themselves and their teams while also recognizing their limits, in
order to achieve a suitable pace and avoid burnout.
"A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent."
The best leaders keep their egos in check and their minds open to others, and admit
when they're wrong.
"But a leader must be able to speak up when it matters," Willink writes. "They must be
able to stand up for the team and respectfully push back against a decision, order, or
direction that could negatively impact overall mission success."
"A leader must be close with subordinates but not too close."
"The best leaders understand the motivations of their team members and know their
people — their lives and their families," Willink writes. "But a leader must never grow so
close to subordinates that one member of the team becomes more important than
another, or more important than the mission itself."
"Leaders must never get so close that the team forgets who is in charge."
"A leader must exercise Extreme Ownership. Simultaneously, that leader must
employ Decentralized Command."
"Extreme Ownership" is the fundamental concept of Willink and Babin's leadership
philosophy. It means that for any team or organization, "all responsibility for success
and failure rests with the leader," Willink writes. Even when leaders are not directly
responsible for all outcomes, it was their method of communication and guidance, or
lack thereof, that led to the results.
That doesn't mean, however, that leaders should micromanage. It's why the concept of
decentralized command that Willink and Babin used in the battlefield, in which they
trusted that their junior officers were able to handle certain tasks without being
monitored, translates so well to the business world.
"A leader has nothing to prove but everything to prove."
"Since the team understands that the leader is de facto in charge, in that respect, a
leader has nothing to prove," Willink writes. "But in another respect, a leader has
everything to prove: Every member of the team must develop the trust and confidence
that their leader will exercise good judgment, remain calm, and make the right decisions
when it matters most."
And the only way that can be achieved is through leading by example every day.