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INTRODUCTION
1.0 Introduction
There is a muscle in the human body that can cause more heartache, more pain, more
mistrust, and more anger, than all the other muscles put together. It is so powerful
that it has caused betrayals, murders, wars, and riots. It is a factor in the destruction of
friendships, relationships, and families, and is a major factor in most separations and
divorces.
The tongue has been the tool men have used to inflict the most pain. However, the
tongue is not solely to blame because it is only a tool of the heart (Matthew 12:34).
God tells us in Jeremiah 17:9, “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately
wicked; who can know it?” In Matthew 15:18-19, Christ echoes this: “But those
things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man.
For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts,
Remember the old children's saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but
words can never hurt me”? In most cases, this is a lie. The hurtful words that we
speak can create scars that last longer than any physical scar that sticks and stones
may cause. The human body is quite resilient in healing itself from physical injury in
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a matter of days or weeks, but it may take years or in some cases, a lifetime to heal
There is a weapon that is more powerful than any other weapon known to man. And
it has been in existence since the creation of mankind; it has been known to start
wars, ruin friendships, spars national revolutions. It has ruined more reputations,
wrecked more homes, split more churches, driven more men out of the ministry and
Contrary to popular opinion…the most powerful weapon in the world is not the
atomic bomb…nor is it some laser beam aimed from outer space. Indeed it is not
even a weapon made by man. Concealed as a sniper, quick as a bullet and deadly as
a gun it is the three inch animal that lives in a pool of saliva behind an ivory cage of
teeth known as the “Tongue”. There is incredibly awesome power in the tongue.
Our words have power in them it can bring life or death, blessing or cursing, but the
key is to say kind words because it will bring healing to the soul. All of us do many
wrong things but it says in James 3:2 if you can control your tongue, you are mature
and able to control your whole body. In James 3:3-5 it clearly states that the tongue
steers the entire body. As it is set before a person, their tongue can direct their life for
good or evil.
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In Proverbs 18:21 it says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Therefore,
the tongue can be used to build a strong marriage and this makes it important to speak
words of encouragement through your conversation with your mate. Words are
important even when it seems it is not. In Ephesians 5:26 it tells us that the husband
should follow Jesus example in washing his bride with his words. Women and men
can both speak about 16,000 words per day and can think even faster. Therefore,
positive words that are spoken should be used as great tools to help maintain,
This is why it is important that both the men and women need to continuously aim at
controlling their tongues. Everything that is said, will either help or hinder, heal or
scar, build up or tear down. It is for the reason that the researcher decided to
God created in man the ability to communicate with the spoken word. He gave us the
tongue as a tool to use to speak with each other. It enables us to tell each other how
Unfortunately, however, this gift from God is all too often used by Satan for his own
plans. The Devil hates God and His laws and ways, and he does everything possible
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to destroy relationships. He starts rumors and encourages prejudices. He will do
anything and everything that he can to create differences between people and to get
people upset with one another. At every opportunity, he tries to create stumbling
blocks for God's people by fracturing their relationships with family, friends, and
brethren. This way, their minds become focused on their differences, rather than on
Life changing events turn on the smallest of words of man. Words have enormous
power to change the direction of lives. The tongue can bring some life’s greatest joys
or it can bring some life’s greatest pains. Our tongue has the power to kill and to give
Several situations in life have escalated beyond control based on rumors, tongues,
stories, but everything is in the hands of God. The tongue is a very dangerous tool
and a formidable weapon given by God to man. The tongue can be the most
destructive weapon on earth; its misuse has damaged more lives than all the weapons
Your tongue can be used as a weapon of warfare and the establishment of your
destiny. And what comes out of the mouth is such a nature that it can out go beyond
your generation. What had been spoken can out live the person who spoke it, (Joshua
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How effective are you using this wonderful weapon to build and sharpened your
destiny? You have to develop strong self- control over your tongue. Learn to use your
tongue to your advantage and not to your disadvantage. Learn to speak positively into
your life.
The general objective of the study is to determine the extent to which we understand
this smallest weapon imbibed in us and how we can use it effectively to strengthen,
build and destroy the works of darkness. The specific objectives of the Study are to:
You probably know the pain of regretting words you have spoken: words of pride,
dishonesty, envy, gossip, or anger. Although you can seek to restore bruised
mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto
the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29). This study is aid to show the various ways in which we
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The purpose of this research work is so that we can understand the dynamics of the
conflict, and move forward in victory, rather than lie in defeat. Our goal is to advance
the Kingdom of God, take territory from the enemy and bring souls into the kingdom.
If we understand how our enemy works, his traps and strategies are less likely to take
us by surprise.
The findings will also be of great importance to the academias as the findings will
This study is intended to cover the topic “Understanding the Power of the Tongue”
and its intricacies with special emphasis on its impact on the spiritual life of church
members, using Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries Asaba, its branches as a
study area
The research was conducted through the survey method. Both qualitative and
quantitative processes were used in the study. The approaches were narrative,
descriptive and reflective; it was used to gather information from respondents per
their opinions on the research topic: “Understanding the Power of the Tongue”
The statistics and the information used were the result of the survey that the study
(MFM) Churches in the Oshmili South Local Government area, Delta State. The data
was gathered through interviews and questionnaires. The works of various scholars
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and writers in the forms of journals, articles, bible dictionaries, encyclopedias and
internet materials were consulted and reviewed in order to give a firm grounding to
the research.
It is envisaged that some limitations are however expected in this research. Amongst
2. The time frame allocated to the study does not enhance wider coverage as the
researcher has to combine other church activities and examinations with the
study.
3. The finance available for the research work does not allow for wider coverage
as resources are very limited as the researcher has other academic bills to
cover.
Nevertheless, there are significant posers to show that the proposed research work is
Most of the words and concepts in this paper are clearly recognizable and easily
understood. There are a few, however, which deserve to be defined for the sake of
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Power: Power is an English logical construct referring to a variety of ideas relating to
The biblical description of power relates primarily to God and people. Power is an
inherent characteristic of God (Romans 1:20). It is the result of his nature. God's kind
of power is seen in his creation (Psalm 19; 150:1; Jeremiah 10:12). His inexplicable
power is the only explanation for the virgin birth of Jesus (Luke 1:35). Power is
always a derived characteristic for people, who receive power from God ( Deut 8:18 ;
Isa 40:29 ; Micah 3:8 ; Matt 22:29 ; 1 Corinthians 2:4 ; Ephesians 3:7 ), from political
position (Esther 1:3 ; Luke 20:20), from armies (1 Chronicles 20:1), and from other
structures that provide advantage over others. When humans perceive that their power
Tongue: Tongue supposedly came from the Latin word lingua, meaning “language,”
but you can't hear the similarity because we pronounce it TUNG, keeping the “ue”
silent. A tongue can be anything shaped like your tongue. The flap of leather under
your shoelaces is called a tongue, and so is the striker inside a bell. Tongue also
means language, like the German tongue, or the Cajun tongue. As a verb, tongue
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CHAPTER TWO
LITERATURE REVIEW
2.0 Introduction
Since time began, the tongue has communicated the most beautiful of thoughts, it has
spoken great truths, it has told the world of great events, it has been used by the
billions of souls who have professed the name of Jesus Christ, it’s been used by Jesus
Christ when He was on earth, but it’s also been the downfall of many and lead to
unimaginable evil.
Around 100 years before Christ, Roman philosopher, Cicero wrote how the eyes are
the window of the soul. If this is true, then your mouth is the door to your heart and
therefore it defines you. Throughout history people have come up with sayings that
One reason a dog is such a lovable creature is his tail wags instead of his
tongue.
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This chapter is a review of existing literatures by other researchers which are relevant
information associated with the “Understand the Power of the Tongue”. More
The tongue is a muscular organ in the mouth of most vertebrates that manipulates
food for mastication, and is used in the act of swallowing. It has importance in the
digestive system and is the primary organ of taste in the gustatory system. The
tongue's upper surface (dorsum) is covered by taste buds housed in numerous lingual
papillae. It is sensitive and kept moist by saliva, and is richly supplied with nerves
and blood vessels. The tongue also serves as a natural means of cleaning the teeth.
major function of the tongue is the enabling of speech in humans and vocalization in
other animals.
The human tongue is divided into two parts, an oral part at the front and a pharyngeal
part at the back. The left and right sides are also separated along most of its length by
a vertical section of fibrous tissue (the lingual septum) that results in a groove, the
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There are two groups of muscles of the tongue. The four intrinsic muscles alter the
shape of the tongue and are not attached to bone. The four paired extrinsic muscles
Proverbs has a lot to say about what we say. In fact, the subject of the tongue and
how we use our words is perhaps the preeminent theme of this book. Over 150 times
in this book alone, Proverbs refers to our lips, our mouth and our tongue. One of the
central issues of the Book of Proverbs is how you use your tongue.
The Bible emphasizes control of the tongue as a matter of great importance. The
books of Psalms and Proverbs abound in cautions about speech. (Proverbs 13:3) says,
“He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall
have destruction.” (Proverbs 18:21) says, “Death and life are in the power of the
tongue” and the latter part of the verse can very well be paraphrased “Those who love
to talk shall suffer the consequences.” (Psalm 34:13) says, “Keep thy tongue from
evil, and thy lips from speaking guile.” Jesus says, “By thy words thou shalt be
backbiting tongues, and so forth. James was inspired to write much about the tongue.
In fact, the matter of speech is mentioned in some way in every one of the five
chapters of the Book of James (1:26; 2:14; 3:1-12; 4:11-12; 5:12). However, it is in
chapter 3 that we find the most complete instruction on the use of the tongue.
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Over seventeen (17) of the thirty-one (31) proverbs in the Old Testament refer to the
mouth. That probably speaks a lot to the importance God has placed on the correct
use of the tongue. Here are some verses from Psalms and Proverbs that describe its
various characteristics:
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge it shall eat the
There is a Bible secret of words. Words are spiritual; they carry power. The words we
speak are of vital importance to our lives (Copeland, 1995). Jesus said, “I say unto
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you, that every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the
day of judgment. For by thy words thou shall be justified, and by thy words thou shall
complaining, cursing, contentious, sensual, and vile. And that list is not exhaustive.”
(Macarthur, 2002)
Smylie (2003) described the tongue as a tool men have used to inflict the most pain.
Interestingly, the problem is not the tongue’s physical location, but its spiritual
connection. In terms of spiritual anatomy, the tongue is directly wed to the heart, and
it is the heart that motivates and manipulates the tongue for good or evil, to bless or
curse. (Matthew 12:35-37) God tells us in Jeremiah 17:9, “The heart is deceitful
above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?” In Matthew 15:18-19,
Christ echoes this: “But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the
heart, and they defile a man. For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders,
A formidable power dwells within each of us. This power has changed the course of
nations. It is capable of starting and ending wars. And it has made men rich and
women famous. It has the means to commend or corrupt, to bless or to blame. It is the
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The tongue is so powerful that Olukoya (2005) described it as a dangerous door that
has caused destruction in our present world. The tongue has the ability to destroy you
or put you over in life. Martin (2017) argued that you cannot overestimate the power
of the tongue. The tongue is like the bit in a horse’s mouth, the small rudder on a
huge ship, and the spark that ignites a large fire. All of these items are small, yet are
powerful in use. Just so the tongue can sway men to violence, or it can move them to
noble actions. The tongue can instruct the unlearned and encourage the sorrowing, or
it can destroy reputations and spread distrust and hate. The tongue is one of those
Rogers (2011) defined the tongue as the meanest member living in us. It is a fire and
a world of iniquity. The tongue can direct, the tongue can destroy, the tongue can
delight, and the tongue is a very powerful thing. James says three things about the
tongue. First of all, he speaks of the influence of the tongue. And, then James speaks
of the iniquity of the tongue. And, then James speaks of the inconsistency of the
tongue.
There are several things that an unbridled tongue will do. It will boast of many
the course of nature, is full of poison, an unruly evil and sets us on the course of hell
itself. Some have called the tongue, “The little red devil behind the white pearly
gates.” Whatever you may call it, your tongue has the capacity to do great harm and
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destruction. If that was not enough, it also says no man can tame this member of our
body. As crazy as it may seem, it also has the power to bring life.
God greatly desires for us to use this power to bring glory to His name and to
advance His kingdom here on Earth. He wants us to speak with love and to declare
truth boldly. But, Satan also wants a piece of that action. He tries to keep us in the
dark about the power of our words and entices us to use them for harm instead of
hope.
You cannot master your journey in life, until you master your tongue. Nothing will
happen on the earth even though it is the perfect will of God unless somebody speaks
it out. I want you to see the following facts about your tongue. (Bradley, 2018)
Everything you will be in the future will come forth from the confession of your
mouth, as this acts as the physical opening to spirits in your life. Anytime you open
your mouth, you are opening doors for spirits in your life, either good or evil.
Therefore, you must intelligently turn your tongue loose for your profiting.
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2. Your tongue is your glory.
Your reality in life follows after the confession of your mouth, if there is ever any
area that shame is describing your life, it means that you have wrongly used your
tongue somewhere.
If the tongue is a pen of a ready writer, it means that it must have something that it
writes on. Your tongue writes on the tablet of your heart and on the hearts of the
Your tongue is the instrument to mix prophecies and promises from God. Nobody
wants their journey in life to derail, but you actually determine the course of your life
through what you say with your tongue. Many people mix God’s word with doubt in
It takes more than education to make it in life; it takes the stirring up of favor in your
direction. Every man has the capacity to be generous or greedy, what you stir up by
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2.3 The Strife of the Tongues
Psalm 34: 11–13 “Come ye children hearken unto me, I will teach you the fear
of the Lord. What man is he who desireth life, and loveth many days, that he
may see good. Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile.”
The fear of the Lord starts from your tongue. Judicious use of the tongue enables you
to see good days. Likewise if you misuse your tongue, you will see evil days.
Proverbs 13: 3 says, “He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life, but he that
Proverbs 21: 23 says, “Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue, keepeth his
Proverbs 15: 14 says, “The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh
Proverbs 8: 21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they
The word is very powerful. There is a powerful secret behind the nature of the word
which men over the ages have failed to realize. Words do not just come ordinarily;
they are backed up by the personality that is speaking. It means that the words that we
speak have spirit beings behind them. They do not exist in isolation. They carry
power.
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According to Olukoya (2015), the following can be termed as strife of Tongues in our
local setting:
1. Curses: Unfortunately, curses are so rampant in our environment that some people
have termed them play-things. But the greatest headache with a curse is that it goes to
the root. When Jesus cursed a fig tree: “You will never bear fruit again,” the next
time He passed by, it had dried to the root. The curse went down to the root. That is
can cause havoc. That is why when you are angry; it is not good to talk. You must
avoid arguing with people who you know have authority over you. For the same
reason you should not argue with anointed men of God because they may speak angry
words that can do you harm. All those who are filled with the Holy Ghost should
avoid hot verbal exchanges. If not, they may be harming the person they are talking
to.
When invited, demonic spirits will go into operation. You find that before some
people start to fight themselves, the first thing they do is to rain incantations. They
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4. Evil reports: This occurs when somebody takes somebody’s case to a herbalist,
evil prophet or occult people and say, “Do you see what this idiot did to me? Do you
5. Careless abuses of people playfully: Although you are playing with them, those
words sent out are not for play in the spirit world. They are used against the people.
So, those who play with such abuses as, “Don’t you see his head, don’t you see his
leg, don’t you see his mouth,” are causing trouble. The only thing is that they do not
6. External reversal of bad words: This is when somebody knows that what he
means is bad, but he twists his tongue and says the good thing. Therefore what he
means internally is what is valid. It is that which he says inside that he has
programmed himself to say. He has just twisted his tongue. Whenever you mean bad
inside and you say well outside, the devil sees your tongue twisting and knows what
employed by many occult people. There are men who worship snakes. There are men
who wear three-piece suits and work with you in the office but when they get home,
they are different kind of beings. They light candles, kneel before the candles and a
snake or an idol, and if they don’t like you, they chant your name till daybreak. So, if
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you hear people calling you and you don’t know where the voice is coming from, you
those who swear by pointing their fingers to the sky or earth or their heads are doing
something very demonic. That finger you point upwards, if you are not careful, it
may not prosper on anything again, because you have done what is against the word
of God. Anytime your tongue utters a statement against yourself, you do yourself a
lot of spiritual havoc. It is even worse when you do something wrong, and you swear
falsely.
has ten wives, and he begins to say Eli, Eli, Eli and after that he says, “My child, hear
the word of the Lord, and you accept what he is saying. He will direct curses at the
Reject it.
Reverse it.
Return it.
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2.4 Right and Wrong Uses of the Tongue
Whether you know it or not, there is the power of life and there is the power of death
within you. Everything you have said in your life time has either been life-giving or
death-dealing, and there is nothing in between. The tongue has the power to kill, to
Proverbs 18:20-21“From the fruit of his mouth a man’s stomach is filled; with
the harvest from his lips he is satisfied. The tongue has the power of life and
1. The tongue may be used for wise counsel and sound advice. (Proverbs 10:31;
15:7) What comes out of a righteous man? Wisdom. What comes out of a wise man?
Knowledge. These two things ought to be coming out of your mouth all the time.
If you find a man of understanding and you rebuke him, he will be impressed by your
rebuke more than if you find a fool and beat him with a lash 100 times. That is
because a wise man, a man of discernment, is a man you can come to and say, “My
(Proverbs 27:6) “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” Better to have a friend tell you
the hard truth than have somebody try to butter you up and cover up the hard thing
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3. The tongue may be used for encouragement. (Proverbs 12:25; 15:4, 23; 16:24)
If you talk to people who work in the healing profession, they will tell you that
who build him up and affirm him, that person has a much better chance of getting
better and will normally recover a lot faster. When you have a patient who is off by
pessimistic people, that person will have a much harder time getting better under
normal circumstances. Why? Because pleasant words literally bring health to the
bones.
That means that you can use your lips to help bring people to God. You can use your
lips to give spiritual nourishment to other people. “The fruit of the righteous is a tree
of life, and he who wins souls is wise.”(Proverbs 11:30) That means that somebody,
somewhere, opened their mouth and gave you the gospel. You are a Christian
because somebody shared the gospel with you, spoke on the radio, from a pulpit, or
1. The tongue may be used for flattery. (Proverbs 20:17) That is a picturesque
verse. If you get ahead in life by buttering other people up, by telling people what you
think they want to hear, what you end up is chewing on rocks. “A lying tongue hates
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those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin.” (Proverbs 26:28) “He who rebukes
a man will in the end gain more favor than he who has a flattering tongue.” (Proverbs
28:23)
2. The tongue may be used for quarreling. (Proverbs 18:6) “A fool gives full vent
to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” (Proverbs 29:11) How
lost our temper and spouted off when we should have been silent. A wise man keeps
himself under control. “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not
3. The tongue may be used for gossip. (Proverbs 10:18; 16:28; 17:9) That means
that you don’t have to tell everything you know. You don’t have to make everything
right. You can cover over some things so you can go on with life. Three questions to
ask yourself whenever you’re tempted to tell something to someone else about what
Is it true?
Is is kind?
Is it necessary?
There wouldn’t be any gossip if we used those three questions before speaking.
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4. The tongue may be used for lying. (Proverbs 6:16-19) gives us the seven things
the Lord hates. Two of them are a lying tongue and a false witness who pours out
lies. “A truthful witness saves lives, but a false witness is deceitful.” (Proverbs 14:25)
“Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue lasts only a moment.” (Proverbs
12:19)
5. The tongue may be used to seduce to evil. Proverbs 5 talks about the lips of an
adulteress. It says her lips drip with honey. “Keeping you from the immoral woman
(or man), from the smooth tongue of the wayward wife (or husband.)” (Proverbs
6:24) “The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit; he who is under the Lord’s wrath will
fall into it.” (Proverbs 22:14) Your tongue, which is meant to bless God, can be used
6. The tongue may be used to talk too much. “When words are many, sin is not
absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.” (Proverbs 10:19) “He who guards his
lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin.”(Proverbs 13:3) “A
man of knowledge uses words with restraint.” (Proverbs 17:27) “Even a fool is
thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.” (Proverbs
17:28)
That means that you don’t have to have an opinion on everything. You don’t have to
comment on everything that goes by you in life. You don’t have to answer every
question.
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2.5 Taming the Tongue
It is interesting to consider that one of the first things that a physician does when
examining a patient is look at his or her tongue, since it is often an index to the health
to the rest of the body. In the same way, that which is produced by the tongue,
‘words’ also furnishes an index to the health of the spiritual body, the heart. In
Matthew 12:34 Jesus warned that “…For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth
speaks.”
You probably know the pain of regretting words you have spoken: words of pride,
dishonesty, envy, gossip, or anger. Although you can seek to restore bruised
mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto
“Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from
“No human being can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly
poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses
those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing
come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is
not right! Does a spring of water bubble out with both fresh water and bitter
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water? Does a fig tree produce olives, or a grapevine produce figs? No, and
you can’t draw fresh water from a salty spring” (James 3:8-12)
“Either make the tree good and its fruit good, or make the tree bad and its fruit
bad, for the tree is known by its fruit…For out of the abundance of the heart
“The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings
“Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips”
(Psalm 141:3)
According to Mosier (2015) enumerated ten ways we can tame our tongue:
Seek holistic purity. Pray that God would protect your mind from thoughts that lead
to words of destruction. Offer all the words of the day ahead to Him with praise.
Hebrews 13:5 says, “Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a
sacrifice of praise–the fruit of lips that openly profess his name.” When we choose
praise, we “sacrifice” slander, gossip, fear-based words, and the language of hell.
Luke 6:45 says that, “The mouth speaks what the heart is full of!”
Someone once said, “Taste your words before you spit them out!” Acknowledge your
need for discernment and God’s grace to help you remain conscious of your words.
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supposed to remain silent, do it with boldness. Psalm 19:14- “Let the words of my
strength”. Take responsibility for the words that come out of your mouth.
You and I are not entitled to the act of complaining, especially not in front of your
friends, coworkers, and strangers. No one enjoys hearing it, and the people that seem
to don’t have your best interests in mind. If people don’t engage you or agree with
you when you complain about yourself and others, it is because you are making them
“Indeed, we all make many mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would
be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way” James 3:2. Spend
some time with the Lord repenting and asking for forgiveness regarding language or
words that you have spoken that is offensive. Commit to working on changing the
5. Practice Speaking Words That Will Encourage, Comfort, Edify, and Inspire
Ask God to guide you to speak words that will honor Him and accomplish His
purposes. The goal is to SPEAK LIFE. This means that you try practicing Ephesians
4:29 which says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but
only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may
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benefit those who listen”. To encourage means to give support, confidence, or hope.
To comfort means to soothe, console, or bring freedom from pain. To edify means to
cultivate, develop, and build up. And to inspire means to motivate, excite, energize,
With human efforts alone, no one can tame his tongue. “The tongue can no man
tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:8). Only by the grace of
God in your life can you seek to control your speech. “I can do all things through
7. Put your heart in tune with God’s Spirit by daily reading His Word.
“All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: that the man of God may be
By studying Scriptures about the tongue, you will gain insights into the power of your
words. Memorizing and meditating on these verses will strengthen your resolve to
speak with grace. “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against
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7. Commit yourself to giving a good report and when it is necessary, to following
“Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people . . . . Thou shalt not
hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not
suffer sin upon him. Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children
of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself: I am the Lord” (Leviticus
19:16–18). “If thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault
8. Fulfill past promises, and think carefully before making any new promises.
You need to fulfill the promises you have made, even when doing so requires
unforeseen sacrifice. God will bless the one who “. . . sweareth to his own hurt, and
changeth not” (Psalm 15:4). Jesus said, “Let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay,
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CHAPTER THREE
3.0 Introduction
This chapter looked at the biblical view points on the topic in view “Understanding
Proverbs 12:18 “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue
Your words can create or destroy. As Children of God, our tongues have a lot of
power. Proverbs 18:21 confirms this by saying, “Death and life are in the power of
the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” This is further seen in Matthew
18:18, which proclaims, "Verily I say unto you, whatsoever ye shall bind on earth
shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in
heaven.”
This power and responsibility is discussed several times in the Bible. Here are some
bible verses which talked about using, and the repercussions of misusing this power.
1. Proverbs 13:3; “Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide
2. Ephesians 4:29; "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as
is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear."
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3. Proverbs 18:19; "A brother who has been insulted is harder to win back than a
walled city, and arguments separate people like the barred gates of a palace."
4. Proverbs 10:20; "The words of a good person are like pure silver, but an evil
5. Proverbs 26:20; "Without wood, a fire will go out, and without gossip, quarreling
will stop."
6. Proverbs 11:17; “Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, but you destroy
7. 1 Peter 3:9; "Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary,
repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a
blessing."
8. Proverbs 16:24; “Kind words are like honey – sweet to the soul and healthy for the
body.”
9. Matthew 15:18; "But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and
10. Matthew 12:36; "I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for
11. Matthew 12:37; "For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you
will be condemned.”
12. Colossians 3:8; "But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice,
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13. James 1:26; "If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but
14. James 3:3-6; When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us,
we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so
large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder
wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it
makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The
tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole
body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell."
15. James 3: 9-12; "With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we
curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth
come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. Can both fresh
water and salt water flow from the same spring? My brothers and sisters, can a fig
tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh
water."
16. Proverbs 29:20; "Do you see a man who is hasty in his words? There is more
17. Colossians 4:6; "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that
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CHAPTER FOUR
4.0 Introduction
According to Esene (2005) raw data generated from any research instrument are in
the form that does not provide sufficient information and meaning unless they are
presented and analysis in line with global practices. The above submission best
describes what this chapter contains in the data obtained are presented and analyzed.
The respondents were carefully selected based on their maturity, roles in the
community or in the family and in the society in general. Out of two hundred
questionnaires distributed only one hundred fifty (150) were filled and returned. All
Data analysis is the process of treating data with statistical tools so that a mass of data
numerical form and quanlitive if it not. For the purpose of this study, the researcher
made use of quantitive data which will also require quantitive analysis.
The main instrument used in collecting the data was the questionnaire. Questionnaire
is the best instrument to gather data about the respondent’s feeling, emotions and
perception. 200 copies of structured questionnaire was distributed for about seven (7)
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months and collected by hand. The questionnaire was structured based on the
The questionnaire was divided into two sections. Section A contained the personal
data of the respondents while section B contained responses to the research questions.
The above table reveals that 63.3% of the respondents used for this research are
married which represent 95 and were the most prominent. While those of the Single
which represent 36.7% were the least prominent of the population. From the analysis
it shows that the married class represents the general interest of the distribution.
The response from above table of Educational qualification indicates that 70% were
graduates and these were the majority of respondents, and undergraduates which
Section B
Table 1
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Proverbs 8: 21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they
and hate.
Total 150 100
Source: Field Survey, 2021
The above table indicated that 76.7% responded that the tongue can instruct the
unlearned and encourage the sorrowing, or it can destroy reputations and spread
indicated that they disagree to this point. This is to say, that the tongue cannot instruct
the unlearned and encourage the sorrowing, or it cannot destroy reputations and
spread distrust and hate. And 3.3% are not quite sure that tongue can instruct the
unlearned and encourage the sorrowing, or it can destroy reputations and spread
Table 2
If the eyes are the window of the soul and your mouth is the door to your heart and
therefore it defines you. How can you control this wonderful organ?
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Dedicate your heart, mind and 135 90
It is clearly seen that most of the respondents have a very clear understanding of the
power of the tongue and it can be controlled. 90% understand that God is the only
one that helps us tame our tongue. 72.7% of the respondents are of the opinion that
with prayer we can conquer our tongue. 66.6% indicated that it is advisable for us to
keep our tongue a prisoner and our body will go free. 63.3% believed that practicing
The activity we find the most difficult to control is our speech. Words have a way of
slipping off the tongue and past our lips before we even know it. Often this occurs
with tragic results, either for us or others or both. Just consider for a moment the
Proverbs 16:28 – “A perverse man sows strife, And a whisperer separates the best of
friends.”
Table 3
Based on the above data, the respondents who have understanding of the power of the
tongue came up with following responses as to the main things one need to know
about the tongue. Specifically 83.3% of the respondent sees the tongue as the
instrument of healing. 76.7% indicated that the tongue is unstable, unruly, and
human, is capable of taming the tongue. Though, it may be impossible for man but
not with God. We’ve dismissed it all as something below contempt, even evil, utterly
unholy. While 51.3% responded that your tongue is the mother of your future.
1. Only the spiritually mature can control their tongue. It is an unmistakable evidence
of God’s work of grace in their life. It is also one of the ways our maturity is
measured against the standard of our Master. 1Peter 1:21-23 reminds us, “Christ also
suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps: ‘Who
committed no sin, Nor was deceit found in His mouth;’ who when He was reviled,
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did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed
death bearing poison. Venom more deadly than that of a cobra, a toxin more lethal
than cyanide, the tongue is a murderer assassinating a man’s character, destroying the
tender fabric that holds a marriage together. Psalm 140:3 says of evil men, “They
sharpen their tongues like a serpent; the poison of asps is under their lips.”
3. There is a muscle in the human body that can cause more heartache, more pain,
more mistrust, and more anger, than all the other muscles put together. It is so
powerful that it has caused betrayals, murders, wars, and riots. It is a factor in the
4. There are several things that an unbridled tongue will do. It will boast of many
the course of nature, is full of poison, an unruly evil and sets us on the course of hell
itself. Some have called the tongue, “The little red devil behind the white pearly
gates.” Whatever you may call it, your tongue has the capacity to do great harm and
destruction. If that was not enough, it also says no man can tame this member of our
body. As crazy as it may seem, it also has the power to bring life.
5. God created in man the ability to communicate with the spoken word. He gave us
the tongue as a tool to use to speak with each other. It enables us to tell each other
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how we feel and what we think, as well as to convey words of wisdom, hope,
Unfortunately, however, this gift from God is all too often used by Satan for his own
plans. The Devil hates God and His laws and ways, and he does everything possible
anything and everything that he can to create differences between people and to get
people upset with one another. At every opportunity, he tries to create stumbling
blocks for God's people by fracturing their relationships with family, friends, and
brethren. This way, their minds become focused on their differences, rather than on
There are so many ways that we can inflict pain on each other with our words. We
need to remember that God has given us a few principles to help us to be mindful of
A few words, or sometimes only a facial expression, can ruin another person’s
reputation and cause great unhappiness and misery in that person’s life. The
consequences of evil words can be like a rapidly spreading fire, like a fire which has
been kindled in hell. Evil speaking can affect every aspect of an individual’s life.
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A believer can be guilty of inconsistency and duplicity in his speech, using his
tongue to bless God, and also to curse men. Such use of the tongue can damage and
hurt those who are the victims of the words spoken and will also adversely affect the
speaker himself. On the Day of Judgment we shall have to give an account of every
We are told that we must “not go up and down as a talebearer” (Leviticus 19.16), or
sow “discord among brethren” (Proverbs 6.19). The tongue can be full of "deadly
poison" (James 3.8). We can gossip and poison other people’s minds. We can
criticize others and do untold damage. How many children of believers have had their
minds poisoned by the conversations they have listened to in their parents’ home? It
is not difficult to understand how such children have, in some cases, lost all interest
in spiritual things.
we speak, and ask ourselves if what we are about to say is true, kind, and necessary,
and why we are saying it. Many men of God have used their tongues for sinful
purposes. Abraham told Sarah to lie (Genesis 12:11-13), and Moses spoke
“unadvisedly with his lips” (Psalms 106.33). Peter denied his Lord (Matthew 26:69-
75). Having read of such godly men speaking sinfully, it behoves us to remember the
admonition, “Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall” (1
Corinthians 10.12).
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CHAPTER FIVE
5.0 Introduction
5.1 Summary
A great deal of good, and a great deal of harm, can result from the ways in which we
use our tongues. The Word of God tells us that "Death and life are in the power of the
tongue" (Proverbs 18.21). A skilled orator can influence vast numbers of people,
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sometimes to their disadvantage. On the other hand, the tongue of a believer, when
under the control of the indwelling Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6.19), can be used to
What we say, and the things we talk about most frequently and naturally, reveal what
is in our minds and what dominates our thinking, for as a man "thinketh in his heart,
so is he" (Proverbs 23:7), and "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh"
(Matthew 12.34). The Holy Spirit led and inspired James to write an intensely
In James 3 we are given warning and guidance regarding the use of the tongue.
Believers are told that those who teach others the Word of God must teach
prayerfully, carefully, and honestly, as enabled and empowered by the Holy Spirit.
They will come under severe condemnation if they do not do this, and if what they
controlled by the Holy Spirit then every other aspect of his life will be under the
Spirit’s control. The tongue is a comparatively small part of the human body but it
has great power. James stresses the ways in which a horse is controlled by a small bit
placed in its mouth, a large ship is controlled by a small rudder, and a small fire can
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kindle a large, fierce, uncontrolled blaze. Men have tamed and controlled all kinds of
animals, but no man can tame the tongue. However, the tongue can be tamed and
controlled by the Holy Spirit. When a believer is living close to God, in submission
and obedience to His will as revealed in the Word of God, then the tongue will be
used for good, to speak gracious words of blessing, comfort, and edification.
There is a "time to keep silence, and a time to speak" (Eccl 3.7). Knowing when to
speak and what to say, and when to remain silent, requires a God-given wisdom. That
(James 3.17).
5.2 Conclusion
“…for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.” (Matthew 12:34)
The real issue is the condition of the heart. When the heart is angry, the tongue
speaks words of anger. When the heart is happy words of happiness come out. So
then, the answer to the problem of controlling the heart is a change of the heart. This
cannot be done by oneself it must be done by God himself. Doing what is right from
the heart can only be accomplished when the heart is right. The heart becomes right
“For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those
days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their
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hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people,”
(Hebrews 8:10)
When God touches the heart it is changed. Where there used to be anger, now there
is love.
“…because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost
When God touches the heart, the tongue becomes bridled by Gods’ Spirit. When He
comes into your life, all of His positive attributes dominate and begin to rule the
lower attributes of the flesh. Jesus spoke of His Spirit as living water that cleanses
and purifies from the inside out. This spiritual experience takes away the fleshly
heart and replaces it with a godly, spiritual heart. At the moment this takes place, the
fast life becomes better when the tongue is bridled by His presence. The Bible
records this experience of change in Acts 2. When the disciples of Jesus received a
change of heart through the baptism of the Spirit of God, they spoke in other tongues.
“And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other
The power that went through them is for all people who want a change of their heart
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“Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the
name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of
the Holy Ghost. For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all
that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.” (Acts 2:38-39)
No man can tame his tongue and therefore needs a power to help him bridle it. When
the tongue is bridled it becomes a tool that brings life. An unbridled tongue causes
death and destruction, yet there is a way to have freedom from a destructive tongue.
On the other hand, there is a way to have life abundantly through the power of the
5.3 Recommendations
Based on the findings of the research, the following recommendations are made.
1. As Christians let’s come alongside Him, rather than opposing Him, when it
rather, yield ourselves to God as those who are alive from the dead and our members
3. Since we have been conjoined together in the likeness of His death, so also
daily crucify our old man with Him in order that the body of sin might be destroyed,
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that we should no longer be enslaved by our tongue; because the one who has died to
This research endeavour cannot in any way claim absolute treatment of the related
issues of this topic in a given opportunity like this one. As follow-ups, the under-
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