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SELF-COMPASSION
A five-day self-reflective writing guide
created by Lisa Olivera
WRITING GUIDES US My hope with this five-day personal exploration is not that you
will get answers from me; instead, my hope is that you will access
BACK TO OURSELVES. your own innate wisdom, understanding, and knowing. That you'll
It allows us to reflect, find more clarity around certain aspects of you who are. That
you'll create a starting point for yourself -- a place to work from.
engage, tune inward,
and explore what's there, Self-compassion is an ongoing practice. It's one that ebbs and
over and over. flows, that hardens and softens, that shifts and changes as we do.
It's okay if it feels hard sometimes - if you aren't sure what it
even looks like. Hopefully this exploration will give you some
insight into what it could look like for you.
I created this writing exploration because self-compassion as a I hope you find this practice illuminating,
practice has changed my life. As someone who has experienced nurturing, and supportive. The intention
decades of self-criticism to a debilitating degree, shifting into a is to truly stick to one prompt per day --
more kind way of being with myself has created opportunities to not to skip ahead, but to actually allow
live more fully, believe in myself more wholly, and forgive myself yourself to move through it in a paced
way. You might be tempted to do it all at
over and over. It's allowed me to accept my full humanity, which
once, but I imagine you'll get more out of
is something that has been more healing than most things.
it if you create a little ritual from it.
“Having compassion starts and ends with having compassion for all
those unwanted parts of ourselves, all those imperfections that we
don't even want to look at." Pema Chodron
Don’t hesitate to let me know what comes up for you through this prompt!
And remember the process is more important than the outcome here.
Take good care, and thank yourself for being here.
As always, don’t hesitate to let me know what comes up for you through
this prompt! Feel free to use it however it feels nurturing for you to do so.
Showing up for yourself in this way - even that act alone - is such a gift and
such a way of recognizing your deservedness of carving out space for
yourself in small and big ways. Bravo to you.
Once again… don’t hesitate to let me know what comes up for you through
this prompt! Feel free to print the template, write in your journal, or type –
whatever feels best for you. And remember: the process is more important
than the outcome here. Let yourself be with your process, no matter where
it is. Sending you comfort as you explore getting more
curious! Take good care, and thank yourself for being here.
Welcome to Day Four! In today’s writing prompt, I want to introduce you to one of my
favorite self-compassion practices: the Self-Compassion Affirmation, developed by
Kristin Neff (who calls it a mantra, but I find affirmation to be more accessible). It’s
actually an incredibly helpful and supportive tool that you can utilize anytime.
Welcome to Day Five! You’ve made it to the last prompt of this little series. How are you
feeling? What has it been like to reflect on these themes? What’s come up for you? Do you
notice anything different in how you think about these concepts, or what they mean to
you? Are you feeling any shifts internally or physically? Have any surprising thoughts or
emotions arisen through your reflections? How are you feeling about moving forward and
carrying what’s come up for you along?
Self-reflection and inquiry can be beautiful, and it can also be challenging. If you’ve found
yourself surprised or challenged by anything you’ve explored through these prompts, I
invite you to reach out, to connect with your support system, or to think about what you
may want to add to your supports. Caring for ourselves as we navigate implementing these
processes into our lives is so important and valuable.
I hope you can honor the fact that you chose to show up for yourself through these
prompts; even something as simple as writing down what comes up for us can bring about
a lot of internal shifts and, if nothing else, can illuminate what might or might not be
working for us. It is my wish that exploring these themes inspires you to start finding new
ways of implementing and practicing them in your life moving forward. I truly believe we
all deserve to treat ourselves kindly, to nourish ourselves intentionally, and to talk to
ourselves the way we would talk to those we love. Again, this is a simple introduction and
an invitation to continue exploring! I thank you and honor your for showing up for yourself
in this intentional and valuable way. It matters, and it is important, and it deserves your
own recognition. Thank you for choosing to give yourself this space.
Self-Compassion book
Some reflection questions to ponder:
What was it like to carve out space for yourself Self-Compassion Deck
for the last five days?
Self-Compassion Workbook
What came up for you that felt surprising,
challenging, or illuminating?
Thank you for participating,
How has it felt to reflect on these themes -- to
showing up for yourself, and
think about how they impact you? engaging in exploration of what
How might you carry your reflections forward these themes mean to you. I
and create space for continued exploration? hope it has served you well. I'm
In what ways has thinking about self- looking forward to connecting
compassion sparked inspiration within you? with you further and bringing
you more ways to engage with,
These are just bites to chew on. Let them marinate, explore, and heal within
simmer, and take your time in thinking through these yourself and in your daily life.
questions!
Warmly, Lisa