Again your parents don't understand your point?

They don't understand or you don't want to make them understand?

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?

Ever remember the incident when your father tried to ordain your fashion sense, and you
simply couldn’t resist rolling your eyes behind his back, remember when your mom wanted a
simple haircut of yours and you started to argue with her when your phone was the biggest
problem of your life when not cleaning room was the problem when putting opinions was an
assertion and everything was sacraments when society was more vital than you when your
opinions were just an argument when your breakfast, lunch, dinner was taunted.
We don't know how many times we have fought with them. There are many things which
parents always deny and we think it's casual and they should accept it.

But! Ever thought of them what they feel why they want you to be an idol child?
Because they want you to go so far, so high. They want you to do what they never did, they
give you facilities, they give you the best out of worst, they don't want you to face drawbacks
like them and when you can't or don't want to do those things that they expect from you they
get disgruntled and I guess this is so natural.
Once we enter into teens, there is a generation gap that occurs between us and our
parents. This is pretty much obvious but certain things trigger the generation gap
while the other may help you to combat this gap effectively.
So, if you're a child who is suffering from such a gap or knows others in such a
situation, then this blog is for you

NOW THE QUESTION IS,

Is this a generation gap between our parents and us?
BIG QUESTION FOR THIS GENERATION I GUESS.

All these generations have their own style of rearing, existence, expressions of emotions,
ideology, ideas about money and living and so on. This difference between one another
often gives rise to conflicts, there is a considerable difference between both of them.
The way they live likes and habits and there are many more things.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE IDEOLOGY IS CALLED GENERATION GAP.
The generation gap between parents and their children is the most widespread one.

More and more parents and their children agree that they just can’t get along and
understand each other. This lack of understanding of social and moral opinions gives rise to
a lack of acceptance, which is the primary reason for families to break.
Today’s generation is faster in every sense of it. From the way they like to dress to the way
they want to eat and socialize, there is a huge difference from how it was yesterday.
Since being a child, I always feel what will I do when I reach an age where my opinions and
judgments will matter more. When I become a parent my thoughts will surely be different
with my kids than what will I do? How will I make my child understand anything?
We have to understand our parents, we have to appreciate their emotions because I don't
think that our parents are not accepting this period, they are trying their hard to ratify, they do
exactly what you want, they dress up as you want. So, why not us, why can't we
understand?
There are ways we can help each other bridge this ever-widening generation gap and
spark the love again.

There is no denying that communication plays an indispensable role in bridging the

gap between parents and children but also every relationship we can think of.

The very first step is to become our best friend by creating an atmosphere, where we are
open to communication.
This is so important because, when we communicate we feel that there are our parents to
listen to us, understand things from our perspective and somehow our parents will be able to
explain to us what they mean.
In this busy schedule, our parents are busy with their stuff and they don't have time for us.

Mealtime or even when you go out shopping with them, talk to them and share your views.
This is so important! Family and relationships are fairly not just delivering your point of view
and showing your perspective of how things should go. It is about listening to what others
have to say. When we learn to listen, we will learn to understand.

So make it a golden rule for your life:

"Never interrupt when one is speaking"

We have a different world ahead;

accept us as a member of next-generation which is different from yours.

What we all need to do is to understand that with the changing world we have to move with
the flow.
No matter how many times we fail, you will be there by our side and this will be our strength
to get up and kick start again.

I SAW A VIDEO AND I THOUGHT I CAN SHARE THIS IN MY BLOG TOO.

SO, IF ANY PARENT OUT THERE READING MY BLOG, THIS IS FOR YOU

LISTEN TO US,

: WHEN WE WANT TO SIT ALONE DON'T SHOUT, SIT WITH US.

: WHEN WE SAY, WE'RE NOT FEELING OKAY LISTEN TO US.

: WHEN WE CAN'T DO THINGS PERFECTLY, DON'T COMPARE FROM OTHERS.

: WHEN WE CRY WITHOUT ANY REASON OR ON SILLY THINGS DON'T SAY WE ARE
WEAK.

: WHEN WE TALK SOMETHING SILLY DON'T SAY THAT YOU ARE NOT A KID.

: WHEN WE SAY SOMETHING RELATED TO FAMILY DON'T SAY YOU ARE A KID.
: WHEN WE WANT TO TAKE SOME DECISION SELFISHLY DON'T SAY THAT WE
NEVER THINK ABOUT YOU.

DEAR MOM DAD,

There are many dilemmas but what we need is support from you, only you make us
confident. You're our strength.

In this society, we need you as our best friend, people out there will make fun of our
insecurities we need you to understand.
Yes, we need you.