Good evening, and welcome to this momentous day in this couple's lives.
We warmly ask you to leave
your problems and concerns at home and join us in celebrating their marriage. This is an occasion for us to celebrate not only the love of the BRIDE and GROOM, but also to reaffirm and cherish the love and friendship we have in our own lives. May we all be totally present throughout our brief time together to celebrate. The BRIDE and GROOM chose this location for their wedding because it provides an ideal backdrop for the public declaration of their love. The BRIDE and GROOM see marriage as a coming together on all levels — mind, body, and spirit. A willingness to be honest and vulnerable, as well as the fortitude to take chances, are all characteristics of a marriage commitment. Marriage is a deliberate act of the will. To stay married, we must rekindle our desire to be married on a regular basis. The obstacles of living together in love are accepted by married couples. They make the decision to face their fears, which are an inevitable part of forming and maintaining an intimate connection. And you, the BRIDE and GROOM, have committed to creating and re-creating this conscious connection. Those of us who are married or in relationships should use this opportunity to reaffirm our commitment to our spouses and to ourselves. Marriage entails giving our deepest selves to another's loving care. To be sure, it is a public and legal act. It is also a spiritual and emotional act. For a marriage to last, it must embrace the spiritual side openly, fully, and entirely. The BRIDE and GROOM agree to accept conflict as well as peace; to labor as well as play; to strive as well as coast; to give as well as receive; and to be with, remain with, and advance toward one another today in sacred trust.