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Social norms are put in every situation in our lives and they are used as a decision
mechanism to inform our behavior. It is a good basis for understanding what is to happen
in such circumstances, but each situation is different and each responds to these situations
differently. Social norms destroy opportunities and frighten us into believing that the
feeling of happiness which ends someday blinds us. The expectations of society in
relation to ties are safe, that's the best expression. We owe ourselves some time to really
meet someone before we take the next step, but we need to evaluate a whole new set of
expectations if we make the step too slowly. We must assess our own condition not on the
basis of social norms but on the basis of how we feel and how we choose to proceed with
the entire matter. Social standards are not really a bad thing, but they have the strength to
frighten and spoil something big. We judge people for doing something outside of social
norms, but we tend to put those standards back into our heads by going away from this
border. As we know what we want, we know what makes us happy, we know that we
could be nuts, but we might be the right kind of nuts with the right guy.
2. Significant social transition that would definitely not come all at once either. Relations
will improve or heal, rather, it is also possible to move towards greater and more
significant connectivity through minor gradual changes. In other words, we can even
better change them if we understand how social norms are shaped and altered. First of all
you have to adjust the beliefs of those who accept the norms whether you wish to abolish
a negative norm or set a different, constructive norm. It needs a few "trendsetters," who
challenge the standing standard and begin to comply differently in order to produce
significant changes. In addition, over a long series of group meetings, participants can
conclude that the old standard must be discarded, a new tradition can be planned and
agreed upon. Another way forward is for people to contribute openly to behavioral reform
and to pledge to step in another direction. People who dedicate themselves openly are
more likely to be bound by their own terms and take new decisions. The more people
adhere to a new set of standards, the more appropriate their decision is.