PAST and

PRESENT
Activity 1.1

Irish Jewelle V. Costa STEM 12- Bughaw

What is ATTRACTION ?

Attraction is the natural desire to be

drawn to other people and spend time
with them. This is frequently (but not
always) owing to a personal preference for
them.
What is LOVE?

Love is a set of emotions and

behaviors characterized by
intimacy, passion, and
commitment. It involves care,
closeness, protectiveness,
attraction, affection, and trust.
Love can vary in intensity and can
change over time.
What is

COMMITMENT?

Making a commitment involves

dedicating yourself to
something, like a person or a
cause. Before you make a
commitment, think carefully. A
commitment obligates you to do
something. Some commitments
are large, like marriage.
 Difference Between Love and Attraction

Attraction is highly prevalent since we might be drawn to

anyone if they appear well, speak pleasantly, or for any
other reason.

Love, on the other hand, is not the same as attraction.

Love is pure. To fall in love, you must have a pure heart.
True love does not necessitate excellent appearance; if
we love someone, we find them perfect in their flaws.
Their grin brightens our day. We find methods to connect
with him or her, even if it's just to have a brief talk or to see
them. True love implies being content with someone
without expecting them to change. Enjoying every
moment with that person. Loving his/her voice. Loving
every little thing connected to them.
 Expressing Ways

Personal of Showing

Development Attraction, Love

and Commitment
Ways of teenagers from 30 years ago on

expressing their Attraction, Love and

Commitment

* Courting the girl

* Exchanging love letters
* Randomly Giving Simple Gifts (such as, clip, bracelet or
necklace)
* Going on a date
* Serenade (Harana)
* Having a strong faith and trust
* Going to church and building a strong relationship with
God together
* Giving her a flower (with or without occation)
Ways of teenagers from 30 years ago on

expressing their Attraction, Love and

Commitment

* Paninilbihan or Servitude
* Pasaguli or Riddle Courtship
* Balak or Spoken Poetry
* Sending Love Letters
* Becoming Textmates/Callmates
 Difference in Showing Attraction, Love and Commitment

Past -Harana -gadgets Present

-Services - dates
-Letters - flowery
-Values
-duration words
-Mindset
-strict -gifts
parents -lenient
parents
 Conclusion

Technology has been improving day by day, culture has evolved in

a variety of ways, our infrastructure has progressed in comparison to what
it was previously, and courting has evolved as well. There is a significant
contrast between the way of showing attraction, love and commitment in
the past and now. If we would compare how Filipinos court today and then,
we'll see those differences. The technology has become a great factor why
courtship has revolve around decades.

The conclusion is that technology is a major factor in the evolution

of expressing attraction, love and commitment, as well as the courting
among Filipinos. Because of technology, a lot of things happen and change,
and one of those things is courting.
Thank You!!!