Assignment 3: What you See might not always what you Get

Complete the table below by writing at least two (2) traits or characteristics that you
think they judge about you based on how they see you. (15 minutes)

People/Groups/Society Traits/Characteristics
Family (parents, siblings) Devoted and hospitable

Close Friends (BFFs) Honest and ambitious

Classmates/Schoolmates Selfish and compassion

Relatives (Cousins, Uncle, Aunties, Loving and fairness

Grandparents)
Neighbors Giver and respectfulness

Social Media Friends (FB, IG, Twitter, Etc) Social intelligence and self-control

Processing: Based from what you have written in the table, answer the following
questions:
1. Are there negative traits in your list? Why do you think they judge you that way?
Yes, being selfish. I guess, people misunderstood in a way that they don’t trust
me. They perceived as I have everything they need, that took me in their
thought I am selfish if I can’t give or offer.
2. Which of those characteristics listed are true to you? Why do you think they are
right about what they think of you?
It is very legit, I am very hospitable to anyone, giver to needy, and respectful.
Maybe they just see and appreciate the way I serve them as I am very active
and initiative to them.
3. Do you feel bad about the negative traits they thought of you (which you think is
not true)? What do you think you can do to change the way they judge you?
Yes. Being judge “selfish” is very devasted to feel, it haunts me thinking why
people thinking me that way doing the best for them. Maybe the best way to
change is to show truth in me until they appreciate my efforts.