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Real
it
yI nYourHands!
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Acceptingt her eal
it
yofy ourlif
eappear stobeasi mplet ask.Howev er,manypeopl e
beli
ev eint hei
rownv ersi
onofr eal
i
ty.Itcouldbeduet or egret,disappoint
ment ,denial
,orsimply
wishingf orsomet hingbetter.Someofushav epant
si nourcl osetthathav en'
tfitinyears
becausewe' vef ai
ledt oconnectwi threali
ty.Moreimpor tantl
y,itkeepspeopl einunsatisf
ying
j
obsorev enint hewr ongf iel
denti
rely.So,howwoul dy oudeal wi t
hr eal
it
yasast udent?What
arethest rategiesf ordealingwithitespeciall
ynowt hatwear edeal ingwithapandemi c?

Givi
ngupt hef i
ct i
onal versionofy ourl i
feandl ear ningt oaccepty ourself,y ourli
fe, and
yourr eali
tyar et wooft hebestt hingsy oucandof ory our self.Ev eni fy ourfut urei suncer t
ain,
especi al
lynowt hatwear eint hegr ipofapandemi c,thef i
rstst epi stoaccepty our sel
f.Thati s,
youacknowl edgeev erythingabouty our self
, boththegoodandt hebad.Sel faccept ancecanbe
diff
icultformostofus, butt herear eav ari
etyofappr oachest osi mpl yacknowl edgi ngy ourself,
yourl i
fe,andr eal i
tyitself.Inaddi t
ion, wemustacceptr eali
ty .Faci ngr ealit
yisn' tal wayseasy ,
butaccept ingy ourcur rentsituationcanmakey ouhappi erint hepr esentandl eadt oabr i
ghter
future.Tof ullyaccepti t,youmustf i
rstident i
fywhaty oumayhav edonet ocont ributetoy our
successorf ailure.Oncey ou'vedet erminedwhaty ou'redeal ingwi th,youcanwor kt owar dthe
bestnextst eps.Thenextkeyst epi st oadmi tourmi st akes.Tr yt oseeourmi stakesasl earni
ng
oppor tunit
iesr athert hanf ail
ures, andhav et hecour aget or ecogni zet haty oucont rolyour
reali
tyandar et heonl yonewhocanchangei t
.Decidewhati simpor tantt oy ouandy ouneedt o
sety ourmi ndt oi t.And, whendeal ingwi t
hr eali
ty,don'tl etfearst andi ny ourwaybecausey ou
mustbewi l
lingt odot hingsi ntheunconv entionalway st haty oubel i
ev ear ebest .Finall
y ,we
mustacceptt hatst ruggl ewillalway sbeapar tofourl ifeandwemustl earnt odeal wi
tht hem.
Andwhoknows, "
somet imest hemostcompl i
catedt hingscanhol dt hegr eat estoppor tunityfor
success. "

I
ngener al,accepti
ngr eal
ityisimpor t
antbecausei tisreasonablet oacknowledgeand
dealwit
hi tinor dert omakeaposi ti
vechange.Real i
tyisnotchangedbyr eject
ingit
.Infact,
rej
ecti
ngitf requent lyt
ransf
or mspai nintosuf f
ering.Somet hi
ngs, whetherwel ikei
tornot ,
are
simpl
youtofourhands.Wewi l
loccasi onal
lyencount erunpleasantsi t
uationsordiff
icul
t
probl
emst hatwi l
l l
eaveusf eeli
nghel pless,confused, orfr
ustrated.Don'tgiveupnomat ter
whatthesi tuationis.Don'tbedi sheartened.But,atthesamet i
me, don'tdenywhati scurr
ently
happening.Al lwehav etodoi s"acceptr eal
ityandshif tyourresponset oamor epositi
veone".
Remembert hataccept i
nganddeal i
ngwi threali
tycanhav easi gni
ficantimpactonhowy ou
dealwit
hl i
f e'schallenges.I
tisnowi ny ourhands!
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