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express, and symbolically elaborate, feelings, that is, to alexithymic.
Ttius, a wide variety of socially oppressive experiences that are severely
shamefuI, painful, or massively traumatic contribute to alexithymia, to a
lack of and, it will be argted, to the underdevelopment of the
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rational mind.
1 Although Izard (r98o) emphasizes interest (which includes expectation, anticipation, and
exploration) in the sensory-affective Processes of the infant - which plays an important
rol,e in selective attentiorL a feeling of contentment and tranquility also characterizes the
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the secondary emotions presented are in accord with Plutchik, who defines
no tertiary emotions.
The eight emotions that are formed by primary emotions adjacent in
the wheel (shown in Figure ro.ra) are called the primary dyads and are
shourn as four pairs of exact opposites. The eight emotions two positions
apart in the wheel are shown as four pairs of half-opposites and are the
secondary dyads. The eight emotions three positions apart, which cannot
be represented opposition, are called the tertiary dyads. The four emotions
four positions apart, not defined by Plutchik, are named the quaternary
dyads, also the antithetical dyads. Of the 56 possible tertiary emotions,
only 6 are defined here, although many other subsets of 3 of the 8 primary
emotions have been interpreted by the author.
Humans are born with the ability to smile (Stern, ry7). At the begin-
ning, this smiling is purely biological, but elicits a similar response in the
adult recipient of the smile. But as early as 6 weeks oI age, the baby begins
to use the smile "instrumentally, in order to get a response from someone"
(Stern, a977, p.45). From this point, the smile needs to be reinforced to
persist. How the infant is treated, more generally socialized, determines
the paradigm scenario that contributes to its eventual emotional repertoire.
But its treatment, in turn, "lpJartly depends on its own innate facial charac-
teristics and behavior. To that extent, physiognomy is destiny" (de Sousa,
a99a,p.r8z). The baby, and the child, is not a passive recipient of shaping
by parents and other caregivers, as is often assumed in psychoanalysis and
in behaviorist psychology.
The original facial characteristics and behavior of the infant are spon-
taneous and purely physiological. At this stage, facial expression has no
meaning (Stern, tg77, pp. 43-44.But the initiative in the situation pri-
marily belongs to the infant. The child has a genetic program to respond
to situational components of some paradigm scenarios. In the socializa-
tion process, the child learns to name these responses and to learn that
it is experiencing a particular emotion. Learning to feel the right emo-
tion is a central part of moral education, as Aristotle realized in his
Nicomachean Ethics.In the learning of emotions, initial feedback loops
(as elegantly described by Smith, Stevens, & Caldwell, 1999) give way to
complex social interactions. Thus, when the child feels accepted and happy
in his or her home, he or she learns love, a secondary emotion, learning to
respond to love with his or her own tactile initiatives and to say, "I love
yo17."
At about nine months, the child is not only receiving guidance in the
Iearning of emotions but is actively seeking this guidance, copying the
caregivers' expressions and actions. By age z, the child knows well that
different social participants feel differently. She learns that her angry
outburst makes her parents sad or upset, and that the pareirts' reprimands
make her sad or upset in turn. The child learns emotions from stories
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and can "ptetend" emotions not actually being felt (e.g., "My dolly is
sad."). At about 34 years oI age, the child learns what kinds of stories
lead to simple emotions and to more complex emotions as well - to
pride, love, and dejection. The understanding of guilt and feelings of
responsibility typically emerge at ages 6-8. Just as mastery of language
gradually expands, so also does our repertoire of emotions. This process
continues into adolescence and adulthood and is in fact a lifelong process.
]ust as cognitive complexity can be increased by cognitively demanding
situations even into old age, so also emotional complexity develops with
mature, complex, differentiated social experiences and situations.
There is nothing in this scenario of symbolic elaboration that is inconsis-
tent with the idea of primary, and basic, emotions. The primary emotions
have a biological infrastructure, as do basic but not primary emotions such
as pride and shame, and dominance and submissiveness, and the other
four primary dyads. But the secondary, and tertiary emotions that are not
primary or basic have only an indirect biological basis. Thus, for example,
love, a joyful acceptance of another, has the biological bases of its primary
components, joy and acceptance, but also a strong cognitive component.
The most primitive emotions retain their power over us in part because
they go on in parts of our brain below the level of conscious aware-
ness. Yet even these emotions come to be cognitively elaborated and
great effort is exerted to control and manage these emotions. Thus, for
example, the person feels rage on the somatic level, and the rage might
occur in response to a complex, logical deduction of a significant other,s
morally repugnant behavior. Thus, anger can be triggered by thought
and then "experienced" subconsciously by brain mechanism of the lim-
bic system. The raw emotions are then re-presented to the thinking neo-
cortex, which then struggles to control the now symbolically elaborated
rage. There is an enormous literature on this very topic, as there are thou-
sand of books instructing people on how to control their rage, aggres-
siveness, lust, enr,y, jealousy, and other undesirable emotions and deadly
sins. Such emotions are apt to be destructive, especially if they have been
repressed and viewed as sinful and guilt inducing by one's parents and
caregivers.
The process of developing emotional maturity can require the repu-
diation of entire scenarios. Emotional maturity requires the learning of
alternative, even competing, scenarios. A scenario that was appropriate in
one decade, or in one century, can become inappropriate at a later time,
as culture itself changes, develops, and evolves. How do you feel about
prostitution, gay marriage, the death penalty, globalization, or progres-
sive taxation? To think and act rationally about such issues can be most
difficult, for it is inseparable from acting morally, and this requires that
consideration be given to the widest possible range of available scenarios
(de Sousa, r99r), which places a demand on the individual to transcend the
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norms and values of one's own culture. To better understand the process
of acquiring emotions through symbolic and verbal elaboration, we now
focus on a particular emotion, that of envy, and its possible creative out-
comes in the attainment of ambition and confidence and to the attainment
of a rational attitude to the world.
are open and welcoming, which gives space for the left hemisphere and its
permanently rational way of working to shift these "island oi mind,, into
polarities, favoring one pole and negativery labeling the other. In time, this
organization can stigmatize and defensively cataiog certain islands. In the
case of envy', this has been evident since themyth oiGenesis, where Adam
and Eve and the serpentwerebanished frompiradise, cursed for creatively
pursuing their greed for, and envy of, knowledge. Byington (zoo3, p. z6)
provides and interprets a contemporary example of enr{ as folldws:
A worker hears that her friend has been promoted. At that moment, the envy
function has been activated in her self . . . , io that she too can see promotion. This
is absolutely natural, creative and praiseworthy for her development. Howevel,
enly is also uncomfortable, as it brings with it feelings of painful irustration, which
spoil the pleasure and the benefits of previous successes. For this reason we say that
envy gnaws. Enr,y unbalances a person and is uncomfortable, like pregnancy or
giving birth. But without such unwelcome discomfort, human life woutdnot existt
In the interests of the self, the creative matriarchal coordination of envy in the work
will bear the frustration and lick her lips in anticipation of her own promotion; or
in the case of being defensive, envy becomes fixed, causing her to give up seeking
her own desires and to see in her friend an enemy who mikes her"suffer.
Thug, envy cal plalr a positive and creative role if allowed to develop
naturally in the child. Envy can play a positive role in instilling ambition in
the self, even transforming itself into ambition which can ali be positive
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or negative, as in the case of blind ambition. It can also be useful to instill
envy in others, which can be done through what veblin (figg) called ,,con-
spicuous consumption." Moreover, it is possible to manipuiit" th" envy of
others to reap the benefits of having done so. Envy is intentionally instiiled
in the advertisingof products. politicians are abl-e, on occasion, io manip-
ulate the greed of the erectorate. This can be done in good faith,
which can"1"y -r1d
be followed up by a genuine effort to satisfy the v"oters once
elected, or it can be done cynically and in a demagogi"ui *unr,"1, promis-
i^g, i" Byington's
(zoo3, p.32) terms, "heaven and earth to all, inipite
of
knowing their promises could never be furfilled. Like good salesmen they
incite envy in order to increase the sale of their prod=ucts, or instead, tt
manipulate the social complexities of the less favoied classes and instigate
envy with ideas of class rivalry for their own electoral benefit.,,
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the social self. The social situations that we experience the most persis-
tently during childhood become defining aspects of the adult personality:
From Alexithymia
493
lhr:, *-u find a person yho hp a disappointed and anffy self is primed
to develop a specific variant of envy, u;;. It is our
that
leads certain primary and secondiry "o"ih'"*p*ience
to deverop is dominant
"*otiors in turn pri'*" tt,"
ftu.r1l"r th9 personality, and these emotions
to follow "f
person
up these emotionarpersonality components ,oihut they
become
associated, in part cognitively, in a process of symboric
elaboration that
leads t_o specific variants of.teitiary emotions. tn
ihis case, a person funda-
mentally disappointed in his or her own rot in rife
person who has not been so-disappointed but rathe,
-.or,t"-piJirg another
upp"u., tobi del;ghted
(anticipation and joy) with his oi h". own life
i" ,pi[ entertain
such invidious comparison with a sense ofrear "it"rtioi,'-
anger, ,n" i"r"rt being a
real, and possibly intractabre, envy:. Thus, despit"
the horrors of its historicar represiion, envy can arso
ii uua ,"prirtio., ur,a
be positirr" and cre-
ativ-e. rn the coming-to-grips with one's discomforting
described
by Byington, there ambitionfor the self. Inihis";r;,
transformation
of en',y, surprise is "mergeJa,
first transformed into its opposite, into an anticipation
of one's own success, together with the develop'ment
oi, pru" r- attaining
that success' second, sadness can be transformed from
a resentment of the
other's success into a happy, even joyful, expectation
of one,s own fufure
success' And third, the an ger is redireited, no longeragainst
one,s successful
friend or acquaintance-bui as the productive ani positive
beh uuio, of morr-
ing toward one's own desires andambitions. Byirigton (zoo3,
pt.-27)writes
thatin this process "the sreeping gianj of professi6r.u a-rIiio.
begins to
awaken." This, however,-is-nolmerely another isiand
of thought, as he
suggests, but is rather a fully formed social-intention
state. Thirs we are
able to define ambition as a tertiary emotion:
. Just as enr'y has its negative and positive moments, so too does ambi-
tion. Ambition can read to success, tut one's ambitions
can also read to
failure. Yet even success has its ambiguity. success confirms
our efforts
and stimulates us to continue wortcingf{fyington, 2oo3,
p.gg) but there is
a-lways the temptation to become stucf in a place
wher:e'we succeed rather
than continuing on a developmental path. used
Jung to say to his folowers
494 Warren D. TenHouten
. Byington
(zoo3,p.3-z) makes a profound point about the
place of aggres_
sion,,and the potential for happiness, as latent ,,comporr"r,L,, of am6ilion,
which merits citation:
Many who study the growing violence in our midst have not yet realized
how much
the ideology of the consumer market, through advertising, increases
frustration and
social violence by aggressively marketing that creates evLn greater
enr,y in the less
favored, by implying that possession anditatus are often of iigher
valul *,at*ork,
self-esteem and dignity.
And Byington (zoo3, p. 3z) does use the term components, ashe immedi-
ately follows up this insight with the claim that ,,[t]ire components
of enr,y
make it one of the most powerful structuring emotions, and for this
reason,
it is frequently frightenilg., for it is painfur and destabilizing when expe-
rienced." In western civilization, triere is a disguising, of eivy, he
adds,
because of the fact that our intense patriarchal t*aitio"", have'bee,
enor_
pathologized and aggravated'by the Inquisition, the rongest ideo-
,nously
logical repression in human history lasiing some 14 centuries, beginning
with the execution of the spaniard prisciliaio under ihe order of Maxumus
i.n 375 ending with the last death sentence for heresy in Germany
in 17.75".".:.Td
(Zilboorg & Henrp ,s,4t).The Inquisition was a cerebration
of
psychopathic torture, sadism, murder, and even genocide on the part
of
the Catholic Church. Protestant puritanism has, in"its own ways,
alio pre-
vented us from knowing the real extension of human vitality
as it has
hi-sted.r11, exhorted its practitioners to avoid emotional expreJsion.
Even
when science became the dominant form of human knowledge at
the end of
the r8th .."-rtury, the subjective rever of human experience #as kept
out of
the scientific method, as itwas identified with erroq, i,,tol"rurr"",
urri rrp".-
stition. The emotions were discovered in medical symptoms by meani
of
a95
From Alexitlrymia
the establishment of phenomenology
hvpnosis in the rgth century' with uncon-
;+ti;"il;;Hil;;;"', *nr.t the discovery of the repressed
'La The creativitv
;ffiJ;;;^;,"'r!3i' at the dawn of the zoth centurv'
and iftJftl*p"ttance for human
survival' was of course
of the emotions,
by Darwin G87z / ry6)' lt is
advanced, against rtiii''"iigit;opposition'
of the emotions has become Pos-
onlv in the lart t",alf-c""ttoy"that sociology as sociar intention
;il,/" ffi ;;;d;il ;j;d.;;il or
"oilptu* "motions,
J"t""gti"ebut as part and parcel of the
no,;ptdi;iy
states, tobe seen
mlncl'
development of the creative human
When *" ob,"*" th" ;'Itty and profound emotions of children'
oienvy'' these emotions areraw and
whether itb" uggru,,it'uness, sexuality'
immature and are rpi to u" treated
uJ*'o"g'i"appropriate' and sinful' all
and improved'
of which prevents th;"";;;ns
from U""i"g
"iiUorated
adaptive responses of
these niiural
rather acting ,o ,"p'u" u"a d'eform to prepare the
in fact a'e necesiary
the developing minditn"t" ""'t"ticlns
childforanoptimumlifebutarestigmatized'repressed'andpunished'
of svmbolic elaboration with the
which retards, even reverses' the process
that is marginally alexithy^mic' Rather
result and ,"pr"rr"a"*oiio''ut tii"
them tJ ttre st"raaows of the mind'
than repress ,,-t"t' '"i"j"ti"g
"-l1iJ"t'
itisbetterthattheybebroughtintoconsciousness/explored,andtalked
about. when the.hd;r;;i"rh"d
andhumiliated for experiences of lying,
defensive rePres-
cowardice, o' J"'ii"' on the basis of a oatriarchal
such as alexithymia and
sion, the resulting tt;;;;;;
"o,,y, lead to pathologies
;;;rp#ir, *"iur ;;;i"tv' existential guilt'.ind : t-l1Tl,:Ytry
unconscious in neurosis was brilliant
Freud's concept of the repressed
transfer deficit theory invoked
and is consistent *itr,l"t"ir",emispheric
as an explanatorymeclranil
of alexithymia' but lt" i1""-'Yt incestu-
being
children are normal yet in need of
ous and patricidai i""a"""i"" in teims' has-'inoculated
uylogto"ls (zoo3'p' tzz)
renressed is r,' inheri-
"rr.ri'r-'i',I"
ffiird."t"-r"rrrri *it*, thebeing ]udlo-Christian repressive
ffiJ is intrinsicallybad and needs
tance, according to *fli"n'f't"
human
Byington makes a compelling
to be repressed and t'ffi*ut"a'
by cultureT
r#"rrion and sublimation of creativity, aggressiveness,
argument thut ti"r"
retard the symbolic elabo-
desire, and envy
"J;;;;tt^'I1;11'ther
ration needed f", ;;ii; J"""1p6a
seff and differentiated, verbalized,
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