1) What do you do for work? - It is an introductory question.

It may reveal the

professional status of a person but little about his personality. So move on to
another question.

2) Where are you from? - This reveals background. It throws better light on the
person.

3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? More
insight into personality.

4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? A probing question
that will open up the communication.

5) What are you looking for in a relationship?-I'm looking for someone to spent my
life with.... Going out to dinner, cooking together, going for walks, traveling,
someone to cuddle with! And you? You can both instantly compare whether you match
in this area.

6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? This is important, as it
will reveal if both are moving in the same direction - towards or away from
marriage.

8) What do you look for in a husband/wife? Try to elicit an honest answer.

9) Do you want/do you have any children? An important question if you are looking
for a long-term relationship and your partner is not.

10) What do you do for fun? - This will throw light on whether your leisure
activities match. Are you a bookworm and she an outdoorsy person?

11) What are you most proud about? This reveals the basic values of the person -
whether he/she values money or adventure/ intellectual pursuits.

12) Is religion important to you? 24x7 living together means understanding on

certain basic issues like religious beliefs.

13) Do you follow politics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican? You can spar on
your political affiliations.

14) Do you believe in love at first sight? You can decide whether he/she is a
romantic person or not.

15) What is your most treasured possession and why? What a person is sentimental
about reveals a great deal about his personality. Is it his bike or a locket
presented by a sister?

16) What is your favorite month of the year and why? Does he like to sweat it out
in summer activities or curl up like a cat in winter?

17) Which is your favorite book/movie? Both of you can discuss why you like a book
or a movie - throws further in sight into personality.

18) Which is the last book you read? A conversation starter.

19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do? Throws light on
likes and dislikes.
20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band? Do you share
musical tastes?

21) Do you like animals/keep pets? Are you going to clash on this issue - one an
animal hater, the other a pet lover?

22) How do you spend your spare time? This is important, as it will really help if
both love to do the same things in spare time.

23) Where do you see yourself in five years time? Watch out if he has no definite
goals for the future and is in a rut. A positive mark for her if she has her life
and career planned out positively.

24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be? Silly, amusing question
to get the laughs.

25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full? Are you an optimist or a
pessimist?

26) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in
life? What are the deepest regrets of a person?

27) You have got six months to live, what will you do first? Insight into
personality.

28) Is sexual compatibility important to you? Do opinions match?

29) Who was your hero, as a child? Insight into personality.

30) If you won a lottery, how would you spend your millions? Amusing question just
for laughs.

31) Which was the first crush you ever had? Reminiscing sentiments.

32) What makes you laugh/cry? Really important and throws light on personality.

33) If you have friends coming over, what would you cook?

34) Describe your perfect holiday. One thinks frozen Alaska, the other sunny
Australia.

35) Which T.V. program would you never miss? Do our tastes match?

36) What is the last CD you bought?

37) Are you a morning person or a night person? We will never spend common time.

38) Would you like to climb a mountain or trek across a desert? We will never agree
on holidays.

39) What adjective would a close friend use to describe you? Friendly or idiotic.

40) If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

41) Into which personality�s shoes would you like to step for a day? Says a lot
about your taste.

42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why?

43) Who is your favorite sportsperson?

44) What is your favorite sporting activity?

45) Which is your favorite genre of movies - comedy/thriller/action?

What kind of car did you wish you had when you were a kid? What about now?

If you had to make an iPod playlist named after me, what songs would be on it?

What's your favorite Christmas movie?

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What do you do for fun? (Optional)......I enjoy slow or fast dancing, walking in
the woods holding, hands, candlelite dinners, travel,shopping and watching movies,
and playing romantic piano for that special person. I love snuggling and sharing
passionate kisses with that special person.

Where is your Favorite local hot spots or travel destinations? (Optional)...I love
any restaurant that serve good healthy foods and where a very good band is playing.
I love resturants with romantic settings where we can look into each others eyes
and feel that special connection. I also love candlelite romantic dinners.

What's your Favorite things? (Optional).......Aerobics, Auto racing / Motorcross,

Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf,
Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet
sports, Volleyball, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

What's the last thing you read? (Optional)......I am currently

reading a dozen or so self help books on success, motivation,
relationships, financial,security and positive thinking.

What is your own definition of true love?...... True love to me is the kind of love
God gives....UNCONDITIONAL love. It's a love that is undescribable with words yet
is felt deep within the heart. It's when you can't stop thinking of the other
person & you are excited to get home to them after a long days work or you desire
to just say hello through a text or phone call just because they are on your mind.
It's a precious thing that way too many people take advantage of & something
everyone should have at least once in their lives.

What kind of woman are you looking for?

I am looking for a woman who can laugh, be playful and light hearted, one who is
motivated and ambitious, intelligent, and self confident. I enjoy meaningful
conversation in addition to plain old good fun. I'm basically a very positive
person who also loves humor and laughter and would like someone with an adventurous
spirit who can see the funny side of life,someone who is open and willing to learn
new things. I like to share things I learn and am open to learning new things as
well. I have a passion for music and a curiosity for life. To find aman who loves
to dance would be a miracle, but not impossible I believe, even if rare, but
definitely a bonus, but not a requirement! lol I also love a man who knows how to
treat a womanlike a baby and a baby like a woman. Romance and passion are important
as well. Like everyone I talk to I want the who enchalata, including chemistry. I
have learned though that chemistry is not everything and not the only
component for building a strong relationship. A picture is worth a thousand words
yet can still tell you nothing. Lastly beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I
would say I have more on the inside than the outside. LOL No one is perfect
including myself but I suppose if you don't put it out there and risk, you'll never
know.However I am realistic and I am by far not perfect.

Do you sing or play a musical instrument?

I sing and I play several instruments,I play guitar, French horn,trumpet, oboe, and
a little piano would love to learnWhere will you love to spend your honeymoon
incase you find the right woman?.......I've always dreamed of going to a tropic
island for a couple of weeks. We would stay in a romantic bungalo. Windows open,
there would be lace curtains blowing in a light breeze along with warmth coming
from the sunshine shining thru the lace. Although this would be heaven on earth,
I'd be in heaven just being with the man God intended me to go thru life's journey
with.

How will you treat your woman?

Although every relationship has it's ups & downs, I will treat my woman with lots
of love & respect. I like to hold her hand while walking side by side, I enjoy the
little kisses stolen throughout the day, & the little smiles he gives me from
across the room.I believe a woman & man will support her during our lives together.
I do expect her to do the same for me. We don't always have to be together but
we'll feel each others presence even when we're apart. We will be each others rock
to lean on& we will share dreams & goals for ourselves

Can you take my kids as yours if we are meant to be together?

I love kids & I treat all kids as if they are my own... I favor none but give my
love & support to them & try to be the godly man I am supposed to be.

Can you tell me more about yourself when you were a little boy?

As far back as I can remember I've always cared for people & had a big
heart. I cared for people even after they hurt me.

What do you like to do?

I love being in the great outdoors seeing the natural beauty God has given to us
that others take advantage of. I love snuggling with the one I love while watching
a movie. I enjoy meeting others & making a difference in the lives of those around
me. I recently found out that some special people in my life really look up to me &
the feeling of that is AMAZING!

What is your favorite movies?

I have a few favorite movies. My all time favorite is "City of Angels" it's a movie
where a man sacrificed his life as an angel to experience what it was like to love
the woman he was drawn to. I also love Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in
Seattle,Grease, Never been kissed, anything with Reese Witherspoon. I like romantic
comedies,action movies, Romantic, & ones based on a true story like Titanic, &
Pearl Harbor. There are really sooo many that I like, I can't really name them all.

What is in your opinion the most romantic movie you've seen to date?.

Sleepless in Seattle
What is your favorite book?

I like James Patterson Sail! Love his novels! but My favorite book is the Bible!!!
It's got the greatest stories ever told as well as words from our heavenly father..

Are you a romantic type?

I'm a helpless romantic... I love being with my woman & doing little things for him
to put a smile on his face.I enjoy surprising him&doing my part to making his
dreams come true.

What makes you smile?

That's easy!!! What makes me smile is seeing those I love smiling & knowing I put
that smile on their faces. :-)

Do you cry alot and what make you cry?

I do have a tendency to cry easily but not always are my tears sad
ones.... I cry also when I'm happy & surprised. I don't like to cry in
front of others so am embarrassed when I do.

What is your favorite music?

I love music... the songs I listen to will usually tell you what kind of mood I'm
in or tell you what's in my heart when words can't begin to describe who I am. When
I'm happy, you'll usually find me singing(assuming I know the song). I think music
is a gift many people take for granted. They'll listen just to hear the beat yet
won't stop to feel the power of it's words. Music can be soothing to the soul & can
calm the restless spirit. The wrong kind of music can also damage ones
inner being. A person's mind will unconsciously listen to the lyrics which will
either bring death/depression upon them or will bring joy to their soul so they
might be able to enjoy life. As a person's mood changes so does the type of music
they listen to.

What is your idea of a romantic getaway?

Romance can be found anywhere there's a romantic guy.. *smiles*

What is your idea of a perfect first date?

A walk along the waterfront or beach... great time to talk & get to
know each other.

What is your ideal date?

Oh wow.... there are sooo many scenarios I could mention here & each depends on
where the friendship/relationship was as to the idealness of it. I like romance
either way so anything where we would have a little privacy to talk & stare into
each others eyes. ;-)

Are you a God fearing man?.

VERY much so!!! I love God with all my heart & trust in HIM to comfort me & guide
me. Only he knows what he has in store for us. How often do you go to church?
Haven't gone much in the last few years as I've had major health issues to deal
with. In this case,God has come to where I am spoken to my heart about different
situations. I totally believe in going to church & fellowshiping however, I don't
believe that a person NEEDS to goto church to be a christian as going into a
chicken house doesn't make you a chicken. *wink*

What do you like and dislike?

I don't like cheaters, liars,thiefs, or shallow people. Other than that, I'm a
person that likes pretty much everything.... I'm VERY easy going.

What make you very happy?

When my loved one is happy & when I have a man who treats me like a
princess. hehe

What kind of sport do you like best?

I like Football!!! I also like shooting baskets, playing volleyball, & a few
others... I've been to a St. Louis Cardinals baseball game also... it was fun!

Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your feelings?

I'm a person who would rather express my feelings as I know it's not good to keep
them locked up. It's important to express to others that you care for them & are
there to support & encourage. I LOVE sharing sweet moments with the woman I love...
it makes my heart happy!

When is your birthday? Mine is January 11th 1955

What's the top thing on your Christmas list? GO TO VACATION WITH A PATHNER

What is your favorite season of the year? SPRING WHEN FLOWERS GROW

Do you have any hobbies? I like Writing, I Like the Beach but havent Gotten Chance
to Visit anyone here since I am always working

Are you really over your Past relationship? YES

Are you trully ready to move forward in your life? YES

Have you forgiven all the past relationship and those that have offended you or
hurt you in the past?
YES.... IT ONLY HURT ONESELF TO
KEEP BAD EXPERIENCE,IT'S A SMALL WORLD

Where is one place you did like to vist that you haven't gotten the
oppourtunity to see???? AUSTRALLIA,ITLAY

Tell me the most memorable moment of you life and tell me the saddest
times of your life to (if you would love to share). WHEN I FIRST GOT
MARRIED AND WHEN I LOST MY MAN AND DAD AND SIBLINGS IN THE AUTO CRASH

What will be the your ideal first date with the man of your dream?
HANGING OUT TOGETHER IN A QUITE AND SMALL COZY COFFEE SHOP HAVING A
LOVELY CHAT AND LOOKING INTO EACH OTHER EYES

What's would you like to do when its raining outside with that special
woman for you. CUDDLING WHEN I HAVE A PATHNER INSIDE

Do you like to watch the sunset... YES ALOT

Do you ever get "crazy"? Just go and do something without thinking?
(a fun thing) YES ALOT,I AM HUMAN

Are any good at holding hands, or hugging?? I AM ... TOO BAD HAVEN'T
HAD ANYONE TO DO THAT FOR LONG TIME NOW

How do you spend your holidays? Free time? LIKE TO GO OUT FOR
VACATION,I DEVOTE MY FREE TIME WRITING AND WORKING IN THE GARDEN

Do you frequently have unfinished task and don't get back to them? I
DON'T THINK SO,I LIKE TO DO ALL I GOTTA DONE

Do you smoke or drink?NO TO SMOKING AND DRINK SOCIALLY

What is you ideal income?$75,000 ANUALLY

Are you financially stressed, just fine, comfortable or blessed?I AM

COMFORTABLE AND GOD KNOWS BEST WE LEAVE EVERYTHING UNDER HIS CONTROL

What education did you complete?SOME COLLEGE

Where have you lived? Omaha,Nebraska,BERLIN,Germany AND AFRICA NOW FOR

WORK that is where i am right now and willing to relocate for the
right person MAYBE IT'S YOU TIME WILL TELL.

Where did you get your education? Germany

Are you at ease in a crowd?I AM COMFORTABLE ANYWHERE BUT I LIKE MY PRIVACY ALSO

Do you assume responsibility?YES I DO

What do you truly hate?LIES AND DISHONESTY

What can really get you upset?LIES

Do you prefer to read a book at home alone or go to a party?I LIKE TO

BE AROUND PEOPLE
Do you trust you feelings rather than reason?YES FEELINGS IS WHAT I GO WITH

Do you ofter plan your day ahead?YES ,I TIME MYSELF FOR EVERYTHING

Do you cry often?NO ..BEEN A LONG TIME

What makes you cry? WHEN I AM HURT

What makes you laugh? ANYTHING THAT MAKES THE PERSON NEXT TO ME LAUGH

What would your family say about you?I AM A GOOD LADY

Do you hurry to complete a job? NO... TAKE THE RIGHT AND NORMAL PROCEDURE

What do you consider more important, Justice or Mercy? JUSTICE

Are you a Christian? YES,CATHOLIC

How old were you when you first fell in love?21YRS

Do you find it difficult to speak loudly? NO

Do you get bored easily? NO TAKES ALOT

Do you watch the tea pot or sometimes forget it's one the burner?
HAHHAHAA DON'T THINK SO

If you don't like someone do you tell other why?YES I WILL,I AM FREE
WITH MYSELF

If you run into a person whom has hurt your feeling or harmed you, do
you act like you didn't see them or confront them head on? I FORGIVE
AND FORGET EASILY... I AM PRETTY SIMPLE

Do you like adventure? YES ,I CONSIDER MYSELF ADVENTUROUS

Do you avoid obligations? NO I DON'T