1.

How do you treat others when your significant other is not

around? How does your significant other treat people when you’re
not around? (Feel free to interview your family and friends.)

I’m aloof, sarcastic, and can be antisocial but I help anyone who
needs it and gladly will give both my time and energy to ensure
they get done what they need to get done. I dunno lol, haven’t
been around them or you with mine haha.

2. How does your boyfriend/girlfriend show you kindness? Does his

or her kindness depend on his or her mood or is it consistent?
How do you show your boyfriend or girlfriend kindness? Is your
kindness consistent or does it depend on your mood?

You show me kindness by comforting me when I have problems

with myself like I was having last night, by texting me and telling
me that you love me, by asking how I’m doing and making me talk
when I just want to clam up. You are consistent with your
kindness and haven’t hut me out or shut me down because of
your mood. I tell you how much I love you, I tell you all of the
things that I love about you, talk you through your problems when
you come to me with them, help you when you’re having anxiety
issues, making sure that you know that not only do I love you but
that you always remember that God loves you too. I’ve tried to be
as consistent as I can even when my mood isn’t always the best.

3. How do you show kindness to others? Are you involved in groups

or organizations that show kindness (e.g., working at soup
kitchens, etc.) or do you have your own ministry where you
extend kindness to others? Talk about that with your boyfriend or
girlfriend. Have them respond as well. Are there ways you would
like to show kindness to others that you are not currently doing?

I help the students in my classes when they need it, whether is

recording their Mo cap stuff or if its showing them little tricks to
help speed up their workflow. I would love to do a mission trip or
do some kind of local ministry sponsored soup kitchen or helping
kids with little to no income.
4. Who inspires you to be kind? Who inspires your boyfriend or
girlfriend to be kind? Why does this person inspire you?

For me I would have to say it would have to be my grandmother

(Nana) because she has had one of the hardest lives that I’ve
ever heard of and instead of letting it turn her bitter she has done
the opposite and only ever gotten more and more kind. For you I
think you’d say one of your friends because of how awesome they
are from what I’ve heard from you about them.

5. Is kindness one of the character traits that attracted you to your

boyfriend/girlfriend? If not, did you notice his or her kindness after
getting to know him or her better? Is kindness a trait your
boyfriend or girlfriend currently possesses?

Kindness was a big trait that attracted me to you, I could tell from
your profile that you were one of the kindest people I had ever
met. Obviously you possess it now because you’ve always had it.

6. Do you make excuses for not being kind? If so, what excuses do
you make? How does your boyfriend/girlfriend answer this
question?

Yes I do make excuses, often it’s justifying it to myself by either

the person needing to do things for themselves or because they
are being ignorant and need to learn things the hard way on their
own.

7. Do you believe there are situations where you should not be

kind? If so, what situations would you say do not necessitate
kindness? How does your boyfriend/girlfriend answer this
question?

Every situation warrants kindness in one form or another, and

trying to say that there isn’t a place for kindness is contradictory
to what Christ said about loving your neighbor as yourself and to
love your enemies.