STATE OF NORTH CAROLINA IN THE GENERAL COURT OF JUSTICE,
ILED DISTRICT COURT DIVISION
COUNTY OF CABARRUS 18 CVD 3436
MN FEB LT P 2 38
nn
MATTHEW D. BLEDSOE,
Plaintiff,
vs.
ORDER
AMY PALACIOS (formerly .
BLEDSOE), acus)
Defendant.
THIS CAUSE coming on to be heard and being heard by the undersigned District Court
Judge presiding over the December 2, 2021 Civil Non-jury Session of the Cabarrus County District
Court, upon the Plaintiff"s Motion in the Cause for Modification of Child Custody filed February
11, 2021, the Defendant’s Motion in the Cause to Modify Child Custody and for attomey fees filed
March 12, 2021 and the Defendant’s Motion to Modify Custody filed on July 23, 2021. Each
party's motions filed in October 2018 were withdrawn in open court on December 2, 2021.
Plaintiff was present and represented by Donna H. Johnson. Defendant was present and
represented herself. Based upon its consideration of the pleadings filed, the greater weight of the
credible evidence presented and the arguments of the parties, the Court makes the following:
FINDINGS OF FACT
1. Plaintiff is a citizen and resident of Cabarrus County, North Carolina and has been a
resident for more than six months next preceding the filing of these motions.
2. Defendant is a citizen and resident of Cabarrus County, North Carolina and has been a
resident for more than six months next preceding the filing of these motions.
3. All parties received adequate notice of the hearing and are properly before the Court,
4, ‘The Court has personal jurisdiction over the parties and subject matter jurisdiction over the
litigation in this matter.
5. The parties were lawfully married to one another on May 31, 2003, separated from one
another on November 23, 2008, and were subsequently divorced on January 10, 2010.
1Both parties have remarried since that divorce, and the Defendant has two minor children
from a later marriage.
6. The parties are the parents of four minor children: Sutton Bledsoe, date of birth December
4, 2004; Julia Bledsoe, date of birth March 19, 2006; Addison Bledsoe, date of birth
October 31, 2007; and Blake Bledsoe, date of birth February 6, 2009.
7. North Carolina is the home state of the minor children within the meaning of N.C. Gen.
Stat. §50A-201(@)(1) and North Carolina has continuing exclusive juriadiction pursuant to
N.C. Gen. Stat. §50A-202.
8. These parties litigated previous and numerous motions regarding child custody, child
support, contempt, and other related domestic issues in Mecklenburg County from 2008
through October 2018.
11. Each party filed custody modification motions in the Mecklenburg County file before it
was transferred. Plaintiff's Motion was filed on July 25, 2018 and Defendant’s Motion
was filed on April 25, 2018. These Motions were subsequently shown as filed in the
Cabarrus County matter on October 30, 2018. Each party agreed in open Court that these
motions were rendered moot by the more recent filings in 2021 or contained substantial
similar allegations to the 2021 motions filed by the respective parties. Those 2018 motions
‘were withdrawn in open court on December 2, 2021.
12. On October 2. 2018, Judge Culler granted the Plaintiff's Motion to Change Venue and the
Cabarrus County for hearing.
14. On February 11, 2021, based upon the Plaintiff's Motion, the Honorable Steven A
Grossman issued an Order of Temporary Custody Preserving the Status Quo, granting
2temporary custody of the minor child Sutton and Addison to Plaintiff. This Order also set
a hearing on Temporary Custody on February 17, 2021
15. Following the hearing on February 17, 2021, this Court entered an Order on Temporary
Custody on March 17, 2021. ‘The Findings of Fact are incorporated herein by reference.
16. On March 12, 2021, by and through counsel, the Defendant filed a Motion in the Cause to
Modify Child Custody
17.On April 9, 2021, by and through counsel, the Defendant filed a Motion to Reinstate
Consent Order Resolving Child Custody. This motion referred to Judge Culler’s 2015
Order as a “Consent Order,” however that is not reflected in the file.
18. The Motion filed April 9, 2021 was heard on August 26, 2021 and denied by an Order
entered August 27, 2021
19. On April 30, 2021, the Court entered an Order Appointing a Guardian ad Litem for the
minor children. The Defendant has repeatedly objected that she did not agree to the
appointment of the Guardian for the children despite the Court's Order.
20. The Guardian ad Litem for the minor children interviewed the Defendant on June 30, 2021
and the Plaintiff on July 13, 2021.
21. On July 23, 2021, the Defendant filed a Motion for Emergency Custody on a pro se basis.
This Motion contained inappropriate language regarding Defendant's opinion on the court
process, including conspiracy theories and personal attacks on lawyers in the community.
This Motion was denied on an ex parte basis.
22. The Guardian ad Litem for the minor children interviewed the minor children Sutton and
Addison on August 3, 2021.
23. On August 6, 2021, the Defendant filed additional Motions on a pro se basis, including
for Emergency Custody, a request for sanctions, recusal of an attorney involved in another
custody proceeding and her objection to a Parenting Coordinator in a different custody
proceeding.
24. The Defendant’s counsel was released by a Consent Order to Withdraw, presented to the
Court for signature and entry of order on August 12, 2021
25. The Motions filed August 6, 2021 was heard on August 26, 2021 and dismissed by an
Order entered August 27, 2021.
26. The Guardian ad Litem interviewed the minor children Julia and Blake on August 20, 2021.27.On August 26, 2021, the Court directed the exchange of discovery materials between the
partes to be completed vefore September 10, 2021 wher the parties were to engage in 8
pre-trial conference in open cour:
98, During the August 26, 2021 hearing; tno Court adaressed the Defendant's behavior in
court, towards members of the legal community and Defendant's repeated filing of
slanderous, extraneous, and unnecessary materials. As result, the Court entered an order
of Injunction on August 27, 2021-
99, On August 30, 2021, the Plaintiff fled @ Motion in the Cause for Temporary Custody
referring specifically to the parties’ minor children Julia and Blake, ‘Temporary custody of
the minor children was granted t0 Plaintiff and a hearing wes set for September 10,202)
by Temporary Custody Order filed August 30, 2021
40, Following the hearing on September 10, 2021. the Court entered an Order of Temporary
Custody on September 16, 2021. This Order ranted custody of Julia and Blake to the
Plaintiff, and specifically directed that all four minor children involved in this ligation
were allowed to attend and participate in the Defendant's wedding on September 18, 2021
‘The Court further directed that all four minor children be enrolled in therapy and attend
supervised visitation with the Defendant
431. The parties completed the pre-trial hearing and the matter was set for trial in October 2021
Due to unforeseen events that were not in the control of either party, the matter was
continued for hearing on December 2, 2021
530, This matter was heard before the undersigned Judge on December 2, 2021 on the remaining
open motions filed February 11, 2021, March 12, 2021, and July 23, 2021.
43, Since the entry of the 2015 Order, there has been & gubstantial change of circumstances
affecting the welfare of the minor children in that:
a. Since the entry ofthe previous Order. the minor children have aged approximately
six years and have begun to engage in different extracurricular activities and
developed different interests than they held when the previous Order was entered.
bh. Since the entry of the previous Order, the Defendant's behavior towards the minor
children, especially towards Sutton and Addison, has become erratic, combative
and at times violent.i, In February 2020, the Defendant was driving the minor children home from
abeach trip. After an argument with Sutton, the Defendant struck Sutton in
front of the other minor children. The Defendant explained that Sutton
‘wanted to visit a friend and the Defendant refused to drive her to the friend's
house. The Defendant denied hitting Sutton on this or any other occasion
when angry with Sutton,
ii, The Defendant became inebriated during a trip with the children to
Charleston, South Carolina in October 2020 in the presence of Sutton and
Addison. The Defendant began dancing with strangers at a restaurant and
left them feeling uncomfortable while the teenagers were caring for the
younger children,
iii, On February 6, 2021, Sutton overheard the Defendant telling Rafael that the
children “all had demons” and “needed to go to church.”
On February 6, 2021, the Defendant had an argument with Sutton during a
trip to the barn where several of the children have horse-riding lessons. This
argument was witnessed by Cynthia “Boo” Matthews, who works with the
horses and children at the barn.
v. On February 7, 2021, the Defendant had a verbal and physical altercation
with Sutton. Sutton and Addison were uncomfortable attending church
where face masks were not required during the COVID-19 pandemic and
voiced their concerns to the Defendant. This disagreement with Defendant
continued all weekend and escalated on Sunday morning, Sutton got in the
shower and Addison was also in the bathroom getting ready for church. The
Defendant called a friend who was video-chatting with her while Sutton was
in the shower nude to pray over Sutton to convince her to attend church,
Defendant pushed Addison out of the bathroom and began pulling on the
shower curtain while Sutton was trying to close the curtain. Then Defendant
struck Sutton with her fist in the shoulder, chest and face several times.
Addison saw the physical altercation from the bedroom while it occurred.
vi, Following the altercation on February 7, 2021, the Defendant took the other
children to church. Sutton and Addison left Defendant’s house and went toVii
aneighbor’s house to call the Plaintiff to pick them up. They could not call
the Plaintiff before they left the house because the Defendant had taken
away their cell phones as punishment. The police were called at some
point during the dav. The children have remained in the Plaintiff's custody
since that date.
The Plaintiff observed marks on Sutton’s chest and face following the
altercation with Defendant and Sutton, Defendant maintained there were
no marks on Sutton’s torso and that any marks on her face were due to a
“horse bite” that occurred during the children’s horseback riding session on
Saturday, February 6, 2021
c. Since the entry of the previous Order, the minor children have been exposed to
domestic violence while residing with Defendant.
i.
iii,
Brad Urban and the Defendant had a physical altercation in front of the
minor children in April 2017 which resulted in Mr. Urban’s arrest for assault
on a female. In December 2017, Defendant allowed Mr. Urban to move
back home with her and the minor Bledsoe children and Urban children,
These actions resulted in the motions filed in 2018 in the Mecklenburg
County file, which was then transferred to Cabarrus County in 2018. The
Defendant separated from Brad Urban in December 2019 following a
separate incident of domestic violence.
The Defendant had two younger children with Brad Urban (the Urban
children). The minor children involved in this litigation are strongly bonded
to the younger Urban children and worry about their safety and well-being,
The Defendant has remarried while this litigation was ongoing to a man
named Rafael Palacios who the minor children do not know well or feei
comfortable being around.
d. Since the entry of the previous Order, the Defendant’s behavior in Court, during
communications with officers of the court has become erratic. Although at times
the Defendant conducts herself in a calm and respectful manner, she escalates her
behavior quickly and strikes out verbally at those around her without warning. The
Defendant, rather than presenting evidence or arguments to the Court regarding herappropriate parenting, presented repetitive negative allegations regarding the
Plaintiff, the court system, attorneys, and her ex-husband that are not in the
children’s best interests. Her behavior towards the minor children and court
personnel appears to be intended to manipulate the children’s emotions and to
undermine the court process in general
ii,
‘This behavior and these allegations cause the Court great concern, as the
Defendant does not appear to be able to control her behavior, even when it
is harmful to the children and despite specific warnings from the Court and
an Order of Injunction
The Defendant believes that all the children’s negative behaviors are the
result of Plaintiff's influence on the children. She believes he encourages
the children to be disrespectful to her, spoils the children and does not
require them to do chores at his home, and filed this litigation in order to
punish her for becoming engaged to her current husband in February 2021.
‘There is no evidence to support any of these allegations.
iv,
Defendant repeatedly contacted the children’s Guardian ad litem attorney
despite being ordered to cease doing so in August 2021 by the Order of
Injunction, Many of these calls involved accusing the Guardian of
kidnapping her children, plotting with the CCDHS attorney to harass her,
or threats of reporting the Guardian, opposing counsel or the attomey for
CCDHS to the North Carolina State Bar. In addition to the calls, the
Defendant also frequently emailed opposing counsel, the CCDHS attorney
and the Guardian attorney with various threats, allegations of unethical
behaviors and conspiracies and other nonsensical, incoherent
communications such as YouTube links.v. Defendant repeatedly makes similar allegations against Plaintiff in front of
the children. In addition, when Defendant repeats those allegations to
friends or people at church, it makes the minor children extremely
uncomfortable. The children do not feel that behavior is fair to the Plaintiff.
evidence
vii, Prior to February 7, 2021, the Defendant took away the minor children’s
cell phones as discipline and will not allow them to contact the Plaintiff
when they are in the Defendant's home on a routine basis.
viii, The Defendant believes that if she does not allow the children to have their
way, specifically with Sutton, that the children will “attack” her and the
Plaintiff will help them “attack” her, indicating she regards herself as an
adversary to her own children.
ix. The Defendant's behavior regarding the minor children throughout this
litigation appeared strongly to be geared to manipulate the children
regarding the court proceeding, to entice the children to spend time with her
by offering rewards in the form of activities like horseback riding, to
alienate the children from the Plaintiff and to blame all her personal or
parenting difficulties on the Plaintiff, the court system and specific
attorneys. This type of emotional manipulation is not in the children’s best
interests.
x. All the children report that if they hesitate doing something the Defendant
requests, she will accuse them of being possessed by a demon or otherwise
finding a religious reason for their behavior. The minor children have
consistently stated that they love their mother but fear her temper tantrums
or rages that come on suddenly. The Deténdant’s mood can change rapidly
from reasonable or “normal” to angry and bizarre over small things without
warning,xi,
xii.
xiii
xiv,
xv.
In June 2021, there was a Cabarrus County Department of Human
investigation into the welfare of the minor children based on an anonymous
report. This was closed as unsubstantiated in late July 2021
Following Blake and Julia's interview with the Guardian ad Litem, the
Defendant discussed the interview and asked what was said, but indicated
the discussion was initiated by the minor children.
During Blake and Julia’s GAL interview, the Defendant went to the
Plaintiff's home while Sutton and Addison were home alone. She admitted
that she saw the Plaintiff’s vehicle with Blake and Julia riding as passengers
but denies that she knew the other children were alone in Plaintiff's house.
Following Sutton’s testimony on February 17, 2021 outlining the
Defendant's behavior on February 7, 2021, the Defendant sent Sutton a
message indicating she could not have any further contact with the younger
children as a result of “siding” with the Plaintiff during that hearing.
Following the August 26, 2021 court hearing, the Defendant sent a group
text message including the minor children that stated she would terminate
her parental rights and allow Sutton and Addison to “loose” the relationship
with Defendant and the Urban children if they signed and agreed she should
terminate her parental rights. She testified on September 10, 2021 that she
wanted to give the children the power to choose which parent they wanted
to live.
. Defendant has indicated she is in counseling and has had a mental evaluation.
Defendant further testified that she had no mental health diagnoses, although she
‘was seeing a counselor for domestic violence issues. Defendant has not provided
a mental health evaluation to the Court, a diagnosis of any mental health issue for
ongoing treatment, nor provided any information regarding the evaluation or
diagnosis to opposing counsel despite a request for the same during cross-
examination and the discovery process.
‘The Defendant is a Nurse Practitioner and has been an excellent employee during
the COVID-19 pandemic. Her co-workers, neighbors and friends from church haveindjgated they have no concer with her ability to parent, but only, Cynthia “Boo”
fatthewshas witnessed the minor children being disrespectful to the Defendant.
«Defendant's sinter resided with Defendant and assisted her with childeare
asa livecin nanny. All of the children reported @ positive relationship with
Defendant's sister. However, Defendant reported at the trial in this matter
that her sister no longer lived wither as of October 2021
fi, The Defendant appears to be a model co-worker, and she controls her
tehavior and acts rationally when at work or im public with other adults.
‘However, she is not able to control her ‘pehavior in the courtroom, with court
staff of, frequently, tn the presence of the minor children unless another
adult is with her.
Sutton and Addison have resided primarily with the Plintiffsince the Court entered
sts Order on February 11,2021. ‘The asinor children Julia and Blake have resided
primarily with the Plaintiff since ‘entry of the Temporary Order on September 16,
p02, Bach of them visited with the Defendant st Families First in supervised
visits and attended the Defendant's wedding in September 2021, The Court ordered
some unsupervised visits between the children and the Defendant during the
holidays in 2021. :
bh. The minor children Sutton and Adfison are engaged in mental health counseling at
the court's direction following ‘ng February 17,2021 hearing, The minor children
Julia and Blake were ordered to aitend therary following the September 10, 2021
hearing however, it does not appear that they Were enjolled in counseling at the
time of the hearing in this matter
+. All of the children make good grades, are active in school and extracurricular
activities and appear 10 be Rapey and thriving under the modified visitation
schedule entered on a temporary ‘basis by the orders of the Court on March 17,2021
and September 16,37. This isa high conflict case with excessive litigation. The parties are unable to communicate
effectively in a positive manner regarding the well-being of the minor children.
Accordingly, the Court is ordering joint legal custody with each parent having final
decision-making authority over certain issues. Defendant shall have final decision-making
authority over medical and dental matters, Plaintiff shall have final decision-making,
authority over educational and extracurricular matters, as well as selecting mental health
counselors for the minor children, The Court finds this division of legal custody to be in
the best interests of the minor children.
38. It is in the best interests of the minor children that the visitations with Defendant be
increased on an incremental basis so that the minor children may participate in counseling
sessions to allow them to process their emotions in a healthy and positive way, and adjust
to the different households between the Plaintiff and Defendant in the most appropriate
way.
39. This modified custody arrangement is in the best interests of the minor children.
CONCLUSIONS OF LAW
1. The parties are properly before the Court and the Court has jurisdiction of the subject matter
of this litigation and personal jurisdiction over the parties.
2. North Carolina is the home state of the minor children,
WW3. Since the entry of the July 15, 2015 Order Modifying Custody & Visitation, there has been
‘a material and substantial change in circumstances affecting the best interests of the minor
children Sutton Bledsoe, date of birth December 4, 2004; Julia Bledsoe, date of birth
March 19, 2006; Addison Bledsoe, date of birth October 31, 2007; and Blake Bledsoe,
date of birth February 6, 2009; and that a modification of the 2015 Order is in the best
interests of the minor children.
4, The Plaintiff is a fit and proper person to exercise primary physical custody of the minor
children. The Defendant is conditionally fit and proper to have secondary physical custody
of the minor children, It is in the best interests of the minor children that the visitations
with Defendant be increased on an incremental basis.
5. Bach party is. fit and proper person to share legal custody of the minor children as outlined
further below. Whenever possible, the parties shall discuss and agree on decisions made
on behalf of or for the benefit of the minor children. If the parents are unable to agree,
Defendant shall have final decision-making authority over medical and dental matters and
Plaintiff shall have final decision-making authority over educational and extracurricular
matters, as well as selecting mental health counselors for the minor children.
6. This Order is in the best interest of the minor children.
7. The findings of fact are incorporated herein to the extent that they represent conclusions of
law.
8. The terms of this Order are fair, reasonable, adequate and necessary.
IT IS THEREFORE ORDERED, ADJUDGED AND DECREED:
1. The Plaintiff's Motion in the Cause for Modification of Child Custody filed February
11, 2021 and the Defendant's Motion in the Cause to Modify Child Custody filed
March 12, 2021 are granted.
2. The Defendant’s Motion for Attorney Fees filed March 12, 2021 and Motion to Modify
Custody filed July 23, 2021 are denied.
3. Each party’s motion filed in 2018 transferred from Mecklenburg County were
withdrawn in open court on December 2, 2021
4. The Defendant shall obtain a Comprehensive Clinical Psychiatric Mental Health
Assessment. She is to provide the written report stemming from this assessment to the
12Plaintiff's counsel no later than May 1, 2022. The Defendant is to follow all
recommended treatment, education or further assessments deemed appropriate by the
mental health professional who completes the assessment.
. The Plaintiff shall enjoy primary physical custody of the minor children. The Plaintiff
shall enjoy joint legal custody of the minor children and shall have final decision-
making authority over educational and extracurricular matters, as well as selecting
mental health counselors for the minor children,
. The Defendant shall enjoy secondary physical custody or visitation with the minor
children, The Defendant shall enjoy joint legal custody of the minor children and shall
have final decision-making authority over medical and dental matters.
~, Defendant’s visitation with the minor children Sutton and Addison may be on a
schedule consistent with the other minor children listed below in paragraphs 8 and 9,
or at other times as Sutton or Addison and the Defendant agree, and with the advice of
their mental health counselor.
. Defendant may enjoy secondary physical custody or visitation with the minor children
Julia and Blake on the schedule outlined below:
a ijoy six ho end with the minor
i .m, me continuing through the last
4. Any other visitation to which the parties agree in writing via email or the Our
Family Wizard program/application,
B9. The parties may enjoy holiday or special occasion vis
tation with the minor children
Julia and Blake that supersedes regular visitation outlined in paragraph 8 above as
follows:
a
‘Thanksgiving: The minor children shall be with the Defendant in even-
numbered years from release from school until 6 p.m. before the minor children
retum to school. In odd-numbered years, the minor children shall be with the
Plaintiff from release from school until return to school for Thanksgiving break.
Christmas/Winter Break: The minor children shall be with the Defendant from
1 pam, on Christmas Day until 6 p.m. the evening before school resumes in
even-numbered years. The minor children shall be with the Plaintiff from
release from school until | p.m. on Christmas Day in even-numbered years.
This schedule shall reverse in odd-numbered years, with Defendant having the
children from release from school until 1 p.m. on Christmas Day
Spring Break: The minor children shall be with the Defendant in odd-numbered
years for spring break from school from the release from school until 6 p.m. the
Sunday before the children return to school. The children shall spend spring
break with the Plaintiff in even-numbered years.
Mother's Day/Father’s Day: The minor children shall spend Mother's Day and
Father’s Day with the honored parent from 9 a m. until 7 p.m. regardless of the
underlying schedule for the summer or school year.
Beginning with the minor children’s release from school in June 2023, the
minor children shall enjoy visitation with each parent on a “week or/week off”
basis for the duration of summer break from school, for a week beginning on
the Sunday following release from schoo] at 6 p.m., and alternating between the
parents thereafter until the Sunday before school resumes at 6 p.m.
The parties may discuss and agree to any additional special occasion visitation
time by consent in writing via email or the Our Family Wizard
program/application.
10, Defendant is responsible for transporting the minor children for visitation exchanges.
The parties shall meet at a public location agreed upon in writing. If the parties cannot
agree upon a different location, they should exchange the minor children at the Concord,
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Fire Station located near the intersection of I-85 and Poplar Tent Road. Each party
should notify the other of any disruption to the visitation schedule (ie. late due to
traffic) as soon as possible. If'a party is picking up the children for visitation from the
release from school, the exchange shall take place at the children’s school.
Each party shall cooperate in ensuring that the other has access to the information
regarding the children’s education, medical care, and any other matter of significance
involving the minor children. Neither party will do anything to restrict the other party's
access to such information. Each party shall notify the other of any health issues
involving the children (i.e. illness, injury, doctor visits, medication schedules). In the
event of an emergency involving the children, each party has an affirmative duty to
report such emergency to the other party as soon as possible, practicable and safe to do
so. To assist the parties in providing information to one another, each party shall enroll
and utilize the application “Our Family Wizard” or a similar communication program
within 15 days of the entry of this Order.
The parties shall share all relevant information conceming the health, welfare,
education, discipline, dietary habits and study habits of the minor children, including
but not limited to report cards, behavioral problems, medical conditions, medication,
extracurricular activities and events, and information related to the children’s recitals,
practices, tournaments, games, or special events,
Neither party shall disparage the other parent to the minor children or allow other
People to do so in the children’s presence. Neither party shall discuss current or future
court proceedings or litigation with the minor children, The parties shall make every
effort to avoid any confrontation with the other party in the presence of the minor
children. Any discussions between the parties regarding the minor children shall be
made directly between the parties and not within the presence or hearing of the minor
children. If the parties are both in attendance at one of the children’s activities or
special events, they shall participate amicably and shall not disrupt the children’s
activities or interfere with the children’s participation in those activities or events,
The parties shall enroll all four minor children in mental health counseling to assist the
‘minor children to process their emotions in a healthy and positive way, and to adjust to
the different households between the Plaintiff and Defendant in the most appropriate
15way. The parties shall keep the minor children enrolled in counseling and assist in the
children’s therapy as long as the counselor/therapist recommends.
15. Neither party shall use or permit the use of any profane, obscene, or indecent language
in the presence of the minor children or speak derogatorily or unkindly about the other
party, their relatives, acquaintances, or friends in the presence of the minor children,
nor subject the children to the same. Neither of the parties shall stalk, fnarass,
intimidate, threaten or assault the children, another party or relative, acquaintance or
friend of the other party. Neither party shall question the children about the activities,
of the other party or use the children to spy on the other party's household.
16, Each party shall keep the other party informed of his or her telephone number, physical
address, email address, and place of employment, and notify the other party of any
change within 48 hours of that change.
17. Each party is entitled to telephone contact with the minor children when they are in the
other party’s custody. The minor children shall have unlimited access to initiate contact
with each parent by telephone, email, or any other reasonable means of communication.
The parties shall not take away cell phones as punishment of the minor children to
allow for a means to contact the other parent. Phone calls between the other parent and
the children shall be made at reasonable hours before 8 p.m., be of reasonable frequency
and shall last for a reasonable amount of time. The children shall he allowed to speak
to the other parent and receive letters, packages and gifts from both parents at all times.
18. Neither party shall schedule extracurricular, religious or sports activities during the
other parent’s parenting time without express written permission to do so. During their
parenting time, each party shall make sure the children attend their activities absent
extenuating circumstances such as illness, etc
19. Neither party shall use alcohol to excess or illegal drugs while the minor children are
present nor shall either party allow anyoue else to use alcohol to excess or illegal drugs
while in the presence of the minor children.
20. A violation of this Order shall subject the party in violation thereof to the contempt
powers of the Court,
21, Invisdiction over this cause is retained for the entry of such further orders as are
reasonable and necessary.
1622. The remaining issues pending in this file (filed November 30, 2021) shall be heard on
March 1, 2022 at 9:30 a.m, in Courtroom #4 of the Cabarrus County Courthouse.
This the // th day of February 2022.
The Honorablt Christy
District Court Judge Presiding
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
‘The undersigned hereby certifies that a copy of the Order (MCUS) in this matter was
served on all parties as follows:
Dena Jonson ATRUE COPY
Counsel for Plaintiff (OLERK OF SUPERIOR COL
Post Office Box 1827 CABARRUS COUNTY
Concord, NC 28026 ei ee
Ms, Amy Palacios fate Coes
3840 Grovesnor Street
Harrisburg, NC 28075
This the! |__ day of February 2022.
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