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Traditional-Career Families:
Only one of the partners (typically the
husband) works while the other (typically the
wife) stays at home as a home-maker
What is the difference
between dual-career families,
a two-person career, and
two-job families?
Dual-Career Family:
Both partners focus intently on their respective careers
Two-Job Family:
One partner (typically the husband) who pursues a career,
while the other (usually the wife) has a job that is secondary
and serves to support the career of the partner
Cherpas, 1985
Dual-Career Families
The Family as a System
Our different family members’ work roles and attitudes influence our
perceptions
Marital Satisfaction
Communication and work-view congruence
Cultural Considerations
There are influencing factors and considerations unique to each
person
Issues facing Dual-Career Families
Expectations, role conflicts, child care options, & relationship factors
Implications for counseling
Important issues for clinical application, such as referrals to couples
counseling
The Family as a System
Any system, whether
a corporation, a city
government, or a
family, comprises
interdependent
elements that have
interrelated functions
and share common
goals
Zunker, 2006
The family
system is
embedded in
larger social
systems
Zunker, 2006
Current Trends
More single adults The question to
Postponement of consider with these
marriage
Fewer children
trends is: How will
More women working they affect the
More divorce perceptions of life
More single-parent roles (like work)?
families
More remarriages
Interesting observations
Fathers involved in dual-career families
are less prone to exhibit stereotypic
behaviors (providing children with more
positive parenting roles)
Children who observe their mother as
economically independent, with choices
and opportunities, can gain a perception of
what women can do and achieve
Zunker, 2006
Marital Satisfaction
The level of marital
satisfaction can be
correlated to how well
the partners are in
agreement with their
respective aspirations
and attitudes
Marital Satisfaction
The way conflicts are expressed and
negotiated and the manner in which
resources are shared appear to be strong
binding forces
Couples who have more traditional sex
role attitudes tend to experience greater
stress in a dual-career marriage
Zunker, 2006
High
Level of overall marital satisfaction
Low
SOURCE: From Human development: A lifespan view, 3rd ed., by R.V. Kail/Cavanaugh, 2004.
Cultural Considerations
As with any type of
counseling practice,
practitioners should
take into
consideration each
client’s cultural values
and traditions
Cultural Considerations
Individualistic v. collectivist cultures
In collectivist societies (Africans, Asians, and Hispanics) it is
expected that all family members contributes to its welfare ->
individual aspirations are secondary
In Asian and Hispanic families, husbands typically are head of
the family and the family usually maintains strong traditional
roles, including stereotypical male-female relationships
Providing career counseling approaches that include family and
family needs are often most effective
Zunker, 2006
The following can serve as a check list when
evaluating potential conflicts with members of
culturally diverse families:
Effects of poverty (poor housing, lack of Lack of trust of institutions (resist using
transportation, and health care) agencies for assistance)
Country of origin (language barrier, work role English fluency (restricted job choice and
perceptions, & view of government) limited personal contacts)
Circumstances if immigration (political Intergenerational family contacts
oppression and lack of trust for gov. agencies) (conflicts over parents’ view of appropriate behavior
and contemporary views of the host country)
Degree of acculturation (worldviews,
conflicting messages of appropriate behavior, and Lack of support in community (isolation
perception of work role) and restricted community involvement)
Spiritual beliefs (family roles, health care Discrimination (feelings of oppression,
issues, and social activities) isolation, and restricted career choice)
Skin color (discrimination and exclusion from Socioeconomic status (exclusion of
some work roles) opportunities in life, work, and leisure)
Poor self-esteem (depression, restriction of Feelings of powerlessness (lack of
job choice, and interpersonal relationships) direction and difficulty adjusting to new
environment)
Expectations and
Intentions of Work and
Family
Role Conflict
Child Care
Relationship factors
Other personal factors
Expectations and Intentions of
Work and Family
In a study of university students, Gilbert (1993) found that young
women and men reared in dual-career families were highly
committed to a role-sharing marriage
Roles can include employment, home, social, and family
responsibilities
Lack of agreement between expectations of roles in marriages has the potential
to create interpersonal conflicts (Silberstein, 1992; Goldenberg and Goldenberg,
2002)
Role overload typically occurs between spouses when family roles
are not clearly defined
If the husband’s occupational role is assumed to be primary, or if the wife views
the husband’s employment as a less important career, there is a greater potential
for minimal sharing of household work
Zunker, 2006
Role Conflicts
Generally is between family roles and work roles (family roles are
source of most role conflicts [i.e., with household chores])
Klinger (1988) developed a model designed to delegate household
tasks based on interests, aptitudes, and time available
Part I – Formulate list of household tasks
Part II – Agree on frequency of the tasks (daily, biweekly, etc.)
Part III – Agree on person(s) responsible for each task
Taking into consideration each person’s available time, interest, and abilities
(undesired tasks are rotated)
Part IV – Review of tasks to determine the following:
A. Did the person(s) designated perform the task?
B. Was the task viewed as satisfactorily completed?
C. For “no” responses to questions A or B, what were the obstacles to completing the
task?
D. What additional resources (time, money, people, objects) are needed to complete
the task successfully?
Part V – Recycle: add or delete tasks, change person(s) responsible,
etc.
Child Care
Since both partners are
working, couples with
children need to explore
child care options
Options include: sitters, daycare,
& relatives
A major concern many
parents have are the
potential negative effects
on children who attend
day care centers
Clark-Stewart’s (1993) research
indicates no difference in
cognitive, linguistic, and social
development in infants between
day care and home settings
Zunker, 2006
Child Care
Many companies recognize the need to provide
for child care and offer alternatives:
Emergency Care (temporary care when regular arrangements fall through)
Discounts (arrangements with providers for reduced rates)
On-site day care
Companies have also developed family-oriented
work policies designed to help dual-career
families with child care responsibilities
Telephone access (permits parents to make/take personal calls to children)
Parental leave (i.e., maternity leave)
Flexible work arrangements (part-time hours, job sharing, flexible place
[telecommuting])
Zunker, 2006
Relationship Factors
A pivotal point in some dual-career families is a geographical
relocation to enhance of the partner’s career
What kind of things go through your mind at the prospect of moving to
another city in this situation?
Competition can also be associated due to a need to achieve and
be recognized
Important to consider because feelings of competition might not be
expressed directly but could result in debates about other things
Another key aspect in the decision-making process – more
specifically, who is empowered to make decisions.
Its important to reach mutual agreement no both major and minor
decisions to avoid one of the partners feeling treated unjustly
Zunker, 2006
Relationship Factors
Accommodators
One partner’s career
involvement is the highest
priority and home involvement
is the lowest; the other partner
has the opposite commitment
Traditional-career families
Adversaries
Both parties give highest
commitment to career pursuits
This type usually leads to
competition to achieve and
conflicts over child care
Zunker, 2006
Relationship Factors
Allies
Both partners are strongly committed to
advancing their careers and home roles
Satisfaction and fulfillment primarily comes
from a happy family and home life
But primary focus is on the career, which can
lead to not having children (or having fewer)
Acrobats
Both partners are also actively committed to
career and home roles – are more successful
at it (they want it all and go all out to become
high achievers, have happy children, attend
social events, and go to prestigious places
for vacations)
They work in harmony to achieve their goals
but are not surprisingly subject to work
overload
Zunker, 2006
Other Personal Factors
The need to dominate is a personality factor that
influences how partners combine occupational and
family roles
Typically, a dominating partner expects the other to take a
secondary role in career aspirations
The stages of career development of both partners are
also important considerations
Ex., one partner might have reached the point where career has
become secondary in life’s priorities, and, as a result, might not
support the other partner’s career advancement
Other personal factors could make one partner resist
accepting nontraditional roles to provide time for the
other partner’s career efforts
Little support is offered in way of role sharing
Zunker, 2006
Implications for Career Counseling
One major problem is Major decision points are
gender equity crucial in any marriage,
Subtleties of male but even more so with
dominance often present in dual-careers
dual-career marriages Ex., when (or if) to have
often lead couples to deal children, or as mentioned
with anxiety indirectly before, relocating for a
Women might be position
searching for equity, while
men fear giving up power
Zunker, 2006
Couples Counseling
In many cases, intervention strategies should
include collaboration with couples counseling
Inconjunction with couples counseling, the career
counselor can provide:
Role-sharing strategies
Leisure time commitments, including family leisure time
Restatement of career goals (centering on plans for the
future)
Career development of children as a sharing venture
Reformulation of lifespan goals
Zunker, 2006
Summary
About 12% of married women
with children under age 6
worked outside the home in
1950; the figure increased by
the early 1990s to 57% and to
62% in 2000
Dual-career families is a
growing trend in our society
and as practitioners we need
to be mindful of the factors,
values, and attitudes
influencing clients seeking our
assistance