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REFUSAL STRATEGIES I E GLISH SPEECH:

A PRAGMATIC STUDY

STRATEGI PE OLAKA DALAM TUTURA


BAHASA I GGRIS: KAJIA PRAGMATIS

BY
YULIA I KUSUMA PUTRI
1801 2008 0024

THESIS

submitted in partial fulfilment of the requirements for


the degree of Magister Humaniora

THE GRADUATE SCHOOL


FACULTY OF LETTERS
U IVERSITAS PADJADJARA
2010
REFUSAL STRATEGIES I EGLISH SPEECH:
A PRAGMATIC STUDY

By
Yuliani Kusuma Putri
1801 2008 0024

THESIS

proposed to be examined as one of the requirements


for the degree of Magister Humaniora

has been approved by Advisor Team on the following date.

Bandung, 13 August 2010


STATEMET OF ORIGIALITY

I, Yuliani Kusuma Putri, do herewith declare that the material contained in my


thesis entitled Refusal Strategies in English Speech: a Pragmatic Study is original
work performed by me under the guidance and advice of my faculty advisors, Dr. Eva
Tuckyta Sari Sujatna, M.Hum. and Ekaning Krisnawati, M.Hum.

I certify that, to the best of my knowledge, my thesis does not infringe upon
anyone’s copyright nor violate any proprietary rights and that any ideas, techniques,
quotations, or any other material from the work of other people included in my thesis,
published or otherwise, are fully acknowledged in accordance with the standard
referencing practices.

I declare that this thesis has not previously been submitted for the basis of award
of any degree or diploma/examining body, or university or institution.

Date : August 13, 2010.

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PREFACE

Bismillahirrohmanirrohim,

Assalamualaikum Warohmatullohi Wabarokatuh,

Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulillah,, by the blessing of Allah SWT, the writer has finally

completed her thesis entitled “Refusal


Refusal Strategies in English Speech: a Pragmatic

Study”. This study was taken as the partial fulfil


fulfilment
ment of the requirements
requirement for

taking Magister Humaniora degree in English linguistics, faculty of letters

Padjadjaran University.

The writer chooses the title “Refusal


Refusal Strategies in English Speech: a

Pragmatic Study” because she is interested in analyzing language phenomenon in

the societies, especially speech acts and refusals. Shee thinks that refusals, which

lay under speech acts, are very important activities in everyday conversation and

communication.. In addition, this thesis is conducted in the field of Pragmatics

because the writer wants to analyze the language from not only semantic point of

view but also contextual point of view.

The writer hopes that this thesis gives contribution


contributions as a useful reference
re

for those who want to do a study in the field of pragmatics.. The writer also hopes

that this thesis can help other linguistic researchers in finding


find interesting

phenomenon in pragmatic study; furthermore, it is also possible for other

researchers too dig up this topic from different perspectives.

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The writer realizes that this thesis is not perfect; as a result, the writer is

looking forward to being given suggestions and corrections to make this thesis be

better. Finally, the writer would like to eexpress her gratitude to all who help the

writer finish this thesis.

Bandung, July
Ju 2010

The writer
ACKOWLEDGEMETS

First and foremost I would like to say ““Alhamdulillahirabbil


Alhamdulillahirabbil alamiin”
alamiin all

praise only to Allah the Lord of universe, who gives me guidance, chance, power,
power

ability and health to finish my thesis. I always pray for Allah’s blessing and mercy

that I can do my best.

In doing this thesis, I have been helped by some great individuals who

have significantly given their meaningful contributions to me in finishing this

thesis. Therefore, on this occasion I would like to express my deepest gratitude to

Dr. Eva Tuckyta Sari Sujatna, M.Hum. and Ekaning Krisnawati, M.Hum. as my

advisors who have shared their valuable guidance and advice with me from the

start.

Moreover,, I would like to thank Dean of Faculty of letters Padjadjaran

University, Prof. Dr. Dadang Suganda, M.Hum. The deep gratitude is expressed

to all lecturers
turers in English Linguistics of the graduate program who give us

valuable knowledge. Big thanks are expressed to the examiners for my thesis

proposal who have given comments and suggestions. The gratitude


grat is also

expressed to the administrator of the graduate program Bapak


apak Musa for the

easiness and facilities given to me during my study.

My thanks are also giv


given to my beloved family: Papa, who have spent the

time transporting me during the finishing of my thesis; my uncle, my sisters and

brothers, my sister-in
in-law and brothers-in-law forr the prayers, assistance and

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support; my nephewss and nieces who have brightened my days during the writing

of this thesis.

Many thanks are also given to my close friends Risty and her parents who

have enlightened and supported me. I also want to thank my


y classmates for the

support and craziness during the classes. Thank you all very much. Without you, I

am just an empty glass witho


without water.
ABSTRAK

Tesis ini berjudul “


“Refusal
Refusal Strategies in English Speech: a Pragmatic
Study”.”. Tesis ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui dan memaparkan tipe-tipe tipe
klasifikasi penolakan, strategi penolakan, serta proses penolakan.
penolakan Penelitian ini
didasarkan pada metode deskriptif kualitatif, dan peneliti memilih teknik
penelitian analisis dokumen untuk menganalisis data. Ada dua puluh tiga episode
film serial Ugly Betty yang peneliti gunakan dalam pencarian data. Peneliti yakin
bahwa film serial ini merefleksikan kehidupan masyarakat akat Amerika yang
sesungguhnya. Peneliti mendeskripsikan dan menganalisis setiap ujaran dari
tokoh dalam film serial sesuai dengan teori Beebe at al. (1990) serta Gass dan
Houck (1999). Dari hasil analisis data ditemukan bahwa semua pemeran di film
seri Ugly Betty menggunakan lebih dari satu strategi dalam satu penolakan.
Strategi yang paling sering digunakan adalah penolakan langsung, alasan, dan
ajun.

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ABSTRACT

This thesis is entitled ““Refusal


Refusal Strategies in English Speech: a
Pragmatic Study”. The objectives of this study are to find out and explain types
of refusal classifications, refusal strategies, and refusal process. This study uses
qualitative descriptive method; the researcher chooses document analysis research
technique in analyzing the data. There are twenty three episodes of Ugly Betty
serials the researcher uses to find the data
data. The researcher
rcher believes that the serials
reflect the real lives of Americans
Americans. The he researcher describes and analyzes
utterances which are uttered by the characters from the serials based on the
theories of Beebe et alal. (1990) and Gass and Houck (1999). The analysis shows
that all characters in Ugly Betty serials use more than one strategy in one refusal.
The mostly used strategies are direct refusal, explanation/reason, and adjunct.

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TABLE OF COTETS

STATEMET OF ORIGIALITY iii

PREFACE iv

ACKOWLEDGEMET vi

ABSTRAK viii

ABSTRACT ix

TABLE OF COTETS x

LIST OF ABBREVIATIOS xiii

LIST OF FIGURES xiv

CHAPTER I ITRODUCTIO 1

1.1 Rationale 1

1.2 Formulations of the Study 5

1.3 Objectives of the Study 6

1.4 Theoretical Outline 6

1.5 Method 7

1.5.1 Method and Technique of Data Collecting 7

1.5.2 Method and Technique of Data Analysis 9

1.6 Data Source 11

1.7 Weight and Relevances 12

CHAPTER II THEORETICAL BACKGROUD 13

2.1 Pragmatics 13

2.2 Context 14

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2.3 Speech Acts 15

2.3.1 Levels of Speech Acts 16

2.3.2 Classification of Speech Acts 16

2.4 Direct and Indirect Speech Acts 17

2.5 Speech Event 18

2.6 Refusals 19

2.6.1 Classification of Refusals 19

2.6.1.1 Refusals of Requests 20

2.6.1.2 Refusals of Offers 20

2.6.1.3 Refusals of Invitations 20

2.6.1.4 Refusals of Suggestions 21

2.6.2 Refusal Strategies 22

2.6.3 Refusal Sequences 27

2.6.4 Factors Influencing Refusal Strategies 28

CHAPTER III DATA A ALYSIS 30

3.1 Refusals of Requests 30

3.2 Refusals of Offers 49

3.3 Refusals of Invitations 66

3.4 Refusals of Suggestions 82

CHAPTER IV CO CLUSIO
CO CLUSIO S A D SUGGESTIO S 100

4.1 Conclusion 100

4.2 Suggestions 101

BIBLIOGRAPHY 103
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DICTIO ARIES 105

THE WRITER’S BIOGRAPHY 106

APPE DICES 107


LIST OF ABBREVIATIO S

DCT Discourse Completion Test

DVD Digital Versatile Disc

e.g. for
or example

EFL English as a Foreign Language

ESL English as a Second Language

et al. and
nd others

FO Final Outcome

i.e. that is

IR Initial Response

USA United States of America

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LIST OF FIGURES

Fig. 2:1 Possible refusal trajectories involving negotiation

Fig. 2:2 Refusal sequence


sequences

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CHAPTER I

ITRODUCTIO

1.1 Rationale

One sentence can have many meanings. In daily conversation, sometimes

what people say does not mean the same as what they intend. On some occasions,

when a speaker utters some words with a certain intention behind it, the hearer is

aware of the ‘hidden


hidden meaning
meaning’.. On the contrary, there are times when the hearer

does not catch on the ‘hidden meaning’ from the speaker


eaker when he or she utters the

words or the hearer misunderstands the utterance.

The ‘hidden
hidden meaning
meaning’ of an utterance is expected to have some effects.
effects As

stated by Aitchison (1999) that when a speaker utters some words, he or she tries

to gain some effects with this words. The effects are accomplished by an

alternative action.
on. For example an interrogative can be interpreted as a question or

a request. In short, she states that this phenomenon is called a speech act. In

relation to this, Finnegan (1992) says that speech act is actions that are
ar carried out

through language. Yu
Yule (1996) also adds that in attempting to express themselves,

people do not only produce utterances containing grammatical structures and

words, they perform actions via those utterances.

A speech act is an action performed by means of language, such as

requesting
questing something, complaining about something, or refusing something.

According to Austin (1962), a speech act is a functional unit in communication. It

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is an act that a speaker performs when making an utterance. Phonetically, an

utterance is a unit of sspeech bounded by silence.

One of the speech acts is refusal. It is frequently performed in our daily

lives. Refusals or rejections can be defined as disapproval of the speaker’s

intention. People use refusals in response to requests, invitations, offers, and

suggestions.

In refusal behaviors, people use indirect communicative strategies in order

to try to avoid offending their partner in the dialogue. They might use a variety of

forms and contents in refusal situations.

There are some ways that are usuall


usuallyy applied in performing refusal actions

in order to reassure the speaker that he/she has an appropriate reason, i.e. refusal

strategy. Bardovi-Harlig
Harlig and Hartford (199
(1991)) state that refusers need to take their

own status and the face


face-threatening nature of refusal
efusal into consideration and

employ strategies to maintain the status balance.

According to Beebe et al. (1990), there are two kinds of refusal categories:

direct and indirect refusals


refusals.. We can use performative verbs such as I refuse, or

non performative verbs such as a direct ““o”” or negative willingness/ability such

as I can’t/I won’t/I don’t think so for direct refusals. For the indirect refusals,
refusal we

can use: statement of regret; wish; excuse, reason, explanation; statement of

alternative; set
et condition for future or past acceptance
acceptance; promise
romise of future

acceptance; statement
tatement of principle
principle; statement of philosophy; attempt
ttempt to dissuade

interlocutor; acceptance
cceptance that functions as a refusal
refusal; and avoidance
voidance. We can also

use adjuncts to refusal such as statement


tatement of positive opinion/feeling or agreement,
agreement
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statement
tatement of empathy
empathy, pause fillers, and gratitude/appreciation. The followings are

the examples of refusals in English speech


speech.

In situation 1, A is B’s assistant. She walks in B’s office when B is talking

to a friend.

1. A: Um, sorry to interrupt, but can I get you lunch?

B: o, no, but you go ahead. Thanks.

The situation 1 above shows a direct refusal. B refuses A’s offer using a

direct “o”.
”. The word ““o” is a non performative statement in refusals.

In situation 2, the same as situation 1 of which A is B’s assistant. A and B

are hurriedly walking out of their office and heading to their car.

2. A: (Walking hurriedly behind B) You know, I was wondering if you

have a quick moment.

B: (In offensiv
offensive intonation) Do I look like I have a “quick moment”?

(typing on his cellphone while walking to his car)

B refuses A’s request for B’s time using an indirect refusal. B uses attempt

to dissuade interlocutor by asking back A whether B has time in an offensive


offensi

intonation.

day conversation, refusing requests, invitations, offers, and


In everyday

suggestions happen on many occasions. In making a refusal, speakers


peakers can use

either direct refusals or indirect refusals to avoid


oid being impolite or rude.
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There are many studies on refusals. Those are American English refusals

(Beebe et al,, 1990; Bardovi


Bardovi-Harlig
Harlig & Hartford, 1991), Chinese refusals (Chen,

Ye, & Zang, 1995), British refusals (Kitao, 1996), Japanese refusals (Beebe,

Takashi, & Uliss-Weltz,


Weltz, 1990; Ikoma & Shimura, 1993), and Spanish refusals

(Garcia, 1992; Félix-Brasdefer


Brasdefer, 2002).

Takahashi and Beebe (1987) investigated written refusals by native

speakers of English, native speakers of Japanese, Japanese ESL students in the

United States, and Japanese EFL students in Japan and found that there was a

strong native language influence in the EFL context and negative transfer of

negative speech act behavior occurring in the more advanced levels


level of ESL. The

researchers claimed that the advanced stud


students
ents had greater facility at speaking

English which allowed them to express complex notions in Japanese like 'being

deeply honored' to receive an invitation.

Yet another refusal study, undertaken by Tickle (1991), looked at

pragmatic transfer in ESL refusa


refusals
ls made by Japanese speakers in a business

setting. Thirty-one
one Japanese men who all had at least five years of business

experience (including a year in the United States) were asked to complete a

discourse completion task (DCT) where hypothetical situation


situationss varied by turf

(customer’s vs. the businessperson’s), relationship (positive, negative), status

(higher or lower), and function (refusal to an invitation vs. refusal to a request).

The results showed that refusals on a customer’s turf were more direct than
th those

on the businessperson’s turf. They were also more direct when no prior

relationship existed between the interlocutors. In refusals to invitation (e.g., to go


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drinking), lower-status
status interlocutors expressed more regret toward the higher-
higher

status one. In refusals to request (e.g., of co


co-workers),
workers), more negative

willingness/ability (e.g., “I can’t”)) and empathy occurred. Results of this

particular study provided material for cross


cross-cultural
cultural programs training American

businesspeople to deal more ef


effectively with Japanese clients.

Bardovi-Harlig
Harlig & Hartford (1991) studied American refusals among

graduate students in rejecting their academic advisors’ suggestions.


suggestions However, the

writer thinks that the study did not represent all American
Americans because the scope of

the
he study done by Bardovi
Bardovi-Harlig
Harlig & Hartford (1991) was limited to American

graduate students and the refusal was limited only as a response to suggestions.

Therefore, the present study is going to inv


investigate
estigate the refusal strategies in

English speech. The writer would like to know the refusal strategies and the

refusal sequences used by the utterers of English speech. The writer will

investigate refusal strategies used by Americans from different social distance and

power. Thus, in relation to this, the writer


ter expects that this investigation will

contribute to the field of linguistics, especially in the field of pragmatics.

1.2 Formulations of the Study

This study focuses on ways of expressing refusals in English speech as a

speech act, with the following formulations of the study:

1. What are the types of initiating act that trigger the act of refusals?
refusals

2. What kinds of refusal strategies are found in one refusal?


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3. What are the refusal sequences found in one refusal?

4. What are the process of the refusals?

1.3 Objectives of the Study

There are several aims the writer hopes she will get while doing this study.

The aims are as follows:

1. To find out the types of initiating act that trigger the act of refusals.
refusals

2. To find out the kinds of refusal strategies found in one refusal.


refusal

3. To find out the refusal sequences found in one refusal.

4. To explain the process of the refusals.

1.4 Theoretical Outline

For the discussion and analysis of the data, the present study relies on the

theory of Yule (1995) which talks about pragmatics in general. Another theories

are Austin’s (1962) and Searle


Searle’s (1969)
9) which talk about speech acts: their levels,

classifications, and types in terms of indirectness. The other theories are Beebe et

al’s (1990), Yang’s ((2008) and Félix-Brasdefer’s (2008) which talk about

refusals: their classifications, strategies, and sequences and also theory of Gass

and Houck’s (1992) which talks about refusal trajectories


trajectories,, i.e. the process of the

refusal that may involve negotiations. The analysis of the data also relies on the

theory of Brown and Levinson (1987) which talks about social distance and power

as the factors influencing the use of refusal strategies.


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1.5 Method

1.5.1 Method and Technique of Data Collecting

It is necessary for ever


everyy researcher to determine the research method that

will be used to obtain the data and information intended in a research. Since this

study is aimed to describe systematically the facts and characteristics of a given

population or area of interest, factually and accurately, then the appropriate

method should be used


sed is the qualitative descriptive research as Merriam (1988)

states:

Nonexperimental or, as it is often called, descriptive research is


undertaken when description and explanation (rather than prediction
based on cause and effect) are sought, when it is not possible or
feasible to manipulate the potential causes of behavior, and when
variables are not easily identified or are too embedded in the
phenomenon
non to be extracted for study.

Isaac and Michael (1982) add that descriptive research is used in the literal

sense of describing situations or events. It is the accumulation of a data base that

is solely descriptive –it does not necessarily seek or explain relationships, test

hypotheses, make predictions, or get at meanings and implications.

The kind of descriptive research used in this study is the document

analysis research, as stated by Riyanto (2001) in his book:

Penelitian analisis dokumen/analisis isi adalah penelitian yang


dilakukan secara
ara sistematis terhadap catatan
catatan-catatan
catatan atau dokumen
sebagai sumber data. Ciri Ciri-ciri
ciri dari penelitian ini adalah (1)
Penelitian dilakukan terhadap informasi yang didokumentasikan
dalam bentuk rekaman, gambar, dan sebagainya (2) Subjek
penelitiannya adalah se
sesuatu
suatu barang, buku, majalah dan sebagainya
(3) Dokumen sebagai sumber data pokok.
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Riyanto states that the document analysis research has three

characteristics:
teristics: the research is conducted towards documented information in the

forms of recordings, pictures, etc.; the research subject is a thing, a book, a

magazine, etc.; and documents as the main source.

The data for analysis is collected from video clips from television series.
series

Compared with previous data collection methods such as discourse completion

tests or role plays according to Yang (2008)


(2008),, this data collection method has its

own advantages for pragmatic study:

1. Clips
lips from television series provide contextual information, which is

essential for pragmatic analysis. Most television series present

ongoing
going stories about a specific set of people at specific locations

doing certain things in culture. The contextual factors of a refusal

instance, such as time, place, and the roles of the participants, can be

easily identified in a television series.

2. Videoo clips from television series record both the verbal and

nonverbal behaviors of participants in interactions. This will facilitate

the examination of non


non-verbal behaviors of refusal.

3. Clips from television are materials that are readily adaptable for

foreign
gn language learning. They not only present linguistic

expressions but also present how these expressions are actually uttered

in certain contexts by native speakers.

4. From the operational perspective, contextual variables are easier to

control in produced video clips data, because researchers can more


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easily select the genre, the topics and the main characters of the

television series.

Compared with discourse completion tests which are short segments of

realistic interactions, video clips from television series record the whole

interaction process of refusal, which includes the information of the turn-taking


turn

mechanism and the negotiation strategies. Compared with role plays, data

involving more situations can be collected in a short time by means of video clips

from television series.

1.5.2 Method and Technique of Data Analysis

The methods of data analysis in this study are going to be done by two

analysis procedures: during data collecting and after data collecting. The first

procedure will be executed using these steps:

1. reducing
educing the data by identifying refusals while observing the video

clips,

2. choosing
hoosing data relevant to the topic of the stu
study,
dy, in this case, refusals,

and

3. transcribing the data from video clips into transcriptions.

The second procedure


procedure, i.e. after data collecting will be carried out using

these steps:

1. examining
xamining the transcriptions and classifying the refusals, whether they

are used in response to requests, invitations, offers, or suggestions,


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2. rewriting the conversations into eexcerpts


xcerpts so it will be easier for the

writer to analyze the refusal strategies and sequences,

3. describing the context of the conversation, i.e. describing the time,

place, and person


persons that the conversations take place,

4. describing the Initiating Act, refusal strategies, refusal sequences,


sequ and

refusal trajectories, and

5. drawing the figure of the refusal process.

The following is the example of the data analysis which is analyzed using

the steps.

Transcription:

Justin: I hate telenovelas. I want to watch Fashion TV.

Hilda: Justin, you can watch Fashion TV later when your Aunt Betty is

babysitting ok?

Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house between Justin Suarez and

Hilda Suarez. Justin Suarez is Hilda’s son, therefore the degree of solidarity

between them is mother and son. Justin is in the living room watching telenovela

and Hilda, accompanied by her father, is in the dining room having lunch. The

dining room is facing the television in the livin


living
g room and the three of them are

watching television.
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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is request for permission.


permission Watching

telenovela on television, Justin declares that he hates telenovelas and requests to

change the channel and watch Fashion TV (II want to watch Fashion TV).
TV Hilda

refuses his request using a promise of future acceptance (Justin,


Justin, you can watch

Fashion
ion TV later when your Aunt Betty is babysitting ok
ok?).
). Hilda uses this

strategy because she does not want to disappoint Justin that she forbids him to

watch Fashion TV. The refusal sequence here is only head act (Justin,
( you can

watch Fashion
ion TV later when your Aunt Betty is babysitting ok
ok?).
). Justin accepts

his mother’s refusal, which makes Hilda’s response the Final Outcome. The

refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
I hate telenovelas. I want to watch Fashion TV.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Justin, you can
Respondent watch Fashion TV
promise of future
later when your head act
acceptance
Aunt Betty is
babysitting ok?
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept

1.6 Data Source

The data for this study will be obtained from Ugly Betty serial DVDs

season one and the film subtitles of the same title. The writer decides to take the

data from this source because she thinks that the characters in Ugly Betty serial
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represent almost all English speakers from various social distance,


distance i.e. degree of

solidarity and authorities


authorities, and because the stories in Ugly Betty serial are almost

the same as Americans' everyday lives.

1.7 Weight and Relevances

The contributions of this investigation to the field of linguistics, especially

in the field of pragmatics are as follows


follows:

1. Enriching the variety of analyses in speech acts.

2. Stimulating interest among language observers to continue conducting

research in the same field of study.

3. Improving the existing investigations in the same field of study.


CHAPTER II

THEORETICAL BACKGROUD

2.1 Pragmatics

Pragmatics is a branch of linguistics which studies meaning in interaction.

According to Yule (1996


(1996: 3),
), pragmatics is concerned with the study of meaning

as communicated by a speaker (or writer) and interpreted by a listener (or reader).

Yule (1996:: 33)) adds that pragmatics has more to do with the analysis of

what people mean by their utterances than what the words of phrases in those

utterances
erances might mean by themselves. Pragmatics is the study of speaker
spea

meaning. This type of study necessarily involves the interpretation of what people

mean in particular context and how the context influences what is said. Thus,

pragmatics is also the study of contextual meaning. In addition, pragmatics

explores how a great deal of what is unsaid is recognized as part of what is

communicated. On the other hand, pragmatics is the study of how more gets

communicated than is said. This perspective then raises the question


quest of what

determines the choicee between the said and unsaid. The basic answer is tied to the

notion of distance.. Closeness, whether it is physical, social, or conceptual, implies

shared experience. On the assumption of how close or distant the listener is,

speakers determine how much needs to be said. In bri


brief,
ef, pragmatics is the study of

the expression of relative distance.

Taken together, pragmatics is the study of the relationships between

linguistic forms and the users of those forms. Only pragmatics allows humans into

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the analysis. Whereas the study of grammar focuses on the language system,

pragmatics offers a complementary perspective on language, providing an insight

into the linguistic choices that users make in social situations.

2.2 Context

According to Richard
Richards & Schmidt (2002:116), context is that which occurs

before and/or after a word, a phrase or even a longer utterance or a text. The

context often helps in understanding the particular meaning of the word, phrase,

etc.

Cruse (2006: 35) adds that ccontext is an


n essential factor
facto in the

interpretation of utterances and expressions. The most important aspects of

context are: (1) preceding and following utterances and/or expressions (‘co-text’),
(‘co

(2) the immediate physical situation, (3) the wider situation, including social and

power
wer relations, and (4) knowledge presumed shared between speaker and hearer.

McManis et al (1987: 197) state that context can be divided into four

subparts:

1. Physical context. That is, where the conversation takes place, what

objects are present, and what actions are taking place.

2. Epistemic context. Background knowledge shared by the speakers and

the hearers.

3. Linguistic context. That is, utterances previous to the utterance under


und

consideration.
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4. Social context. The social relationship and setting of the speakers and

hearers.

To sum up,, context is that which determines the actual meaning of a word,

phrase, or utterance. Context can include additional information about the nature

of the text, the period written, fiction/non


fiction/non-fiction,
fiction, the age and nationality of the

writer.

2.3 Speech Acts

Speech act refers to an act that is performed when making an utterance; for

example, giving orders and making promises (Austin, 1962). Searle (1969:
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shares, “Speech acts are the basic unit of linguistic communication.” The minimal

unit of linguistic communication is not linguistic expression but rather the

performance of certain kinds of acts. When people utter a sentence, it is not just to

say things
ngs but rather actively to do things. There are sorts of things that can be

done with words, such as make requests, ask questions, give orders, and make

promises.

According to Félix-Brasdefer (2008: 37), languages


anguages have different

linguistic resources for co


communicating
mmunicating speech acts. Speech acts can be realized

explicitly using performative verbs or speech act verbs (e.g., I apologize, I refuse,

I promise,, etc.). However, it should be noted that not all speech acts may be

realized using speech act verbs, as one cannot use the verb ‘to insult’ to explicitly

insult someone (e.g.,‘


(e.g.,‘I insult you!’);
’); but rather, speakers may employ other
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linguistic resources to express the illocutionary force of a speech act.


act Hence,

speech acts can be performed through either utteranc


utterances
es or other linguistic

instruments.

2.3.1 Levels of Speech Acts

Austin (1962)) identifies three distinct levels of action beyond the act
a of

utterance itself:

1. Locutionary
ocutionary act, it has to do with the utterance that is presented by a

sentence with a grammatical structure and meaning.

2. Illocutionary
llocutionary act, it has to do with the intention of the utterance, such

as stating, questioning, commanding, or promising.

3. Perlocutionary
erlocutionary act, the bringing about of effects on the audience by

means of ut
uttering
ering the sentence, such effects being special to the

circumstances
cumstances of utterance.

Of these three levels, based on Yule (1996


(1996: 49),
), the most discussed is

illocutionary force. Indeed, the term ‘s


‘speech
peech act’ is generally interpreted quite

narrowly to mean only the illocutionary force of an utterance. The illocutionary

force of an utterance is what it ‘counts as’.

2.3.2 Classification of Speech Acts

Austin (1962 in Wardaugh, 1992: 284


284) lists five categories of speech acts.

Verdictives typified by presenting evidences, reasons, or evaluations of truth, like

calculating, acquitting, and describing. Exercitives,, having to do with deciding or


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advocating particular actions, such as ordering, directing, nominating, and

appointing. Commisives, typified by commiting to a future act like promise,

pledge, vow, and swear. Expositives, a term refers to how one make an utterance

fit into an argument or exposition, such as affirming, denying, emphasizing, and

illustrating. Behavities, having to do with such matter like applaud, deplore,

felicitate, and congratulate which provide reactions to the behavior of others.

Meanwhile, Searle (1969


(1969: 240)) proposes taxonomy that there are just five

basic kinds of action that one can perform in speaking:

1. Representatives is to commit the speaker to the truth of the expressed

proposition, such as asserting, concluding, and suggesting.

2. Directives is speech acts which attempt the addressee to carry out an

action, for example; re


requesting,
questing, questioning, and commanding.

3. Commisives is speech act which commit the speaker to some future

action like promising, threatening, offering, and pledging.

4. Expressives is to express a psychological state or attitude like thanking,

welcoming, and congratulating.

5. Declarations which bring about the state of affairs they name, such as

marrying, blessing, and firing.

2.4 Direct and Indirect Speech Acts

In terms of indirectness, there are two types of speech acts; direct and

indirect speech acts. Yule (1996) states that a direct speech act is an utterance that

is performed by the speaker means exactly and literally


literally.. It means that in uttering
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something, the speaker says what he or she means and means what he or she says.

Thus, both the speaker and the hearer can understand what the utterance implies.

For example, the utterance ““Please take out the garbage.”


.” is a direct request for

the hearer to take out the garbage.

An utterance ccan
an be recognized as an indirect speech act if the literal

meaning of the locution differs from its intended meaning. Searle (1975)

introduced the idea of an 'indirect speech act'


act'. Hee describes indirect speech acts as

follows:

In indirect speech acts the speaker communicates to the hearer more


than he actually says by way of relying on their mutually shared
background information, both linguistic and nonlinguistic, together
with the general powers of rationality and inference on the part of the
hearer.

2.5 Speech Event

A speech event is an activity in which participants interact via language in

some conventional way to arrive at some outcome. It may include an obvious

central speech act, such as ‘‘I don’t really like this’, as in a speech event of

‘complaining’, but it will also include other utterances leading up to and

subsequently reacting to that central action


action.. The analysis of speech events is

clearly another way of studying how more gets coomunicated than is said (Yule,

1996: 57).
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2.6 Refusals

The speech act of refusals represents one type of dispreferred response.

Refusals are one of relatively small number of speech acts which can be

characterized as a response to another’s act, rather than as an act initiated by the

speaker (Gass
Gass & Houck, 1999: 2).

Refusals,, according to Searle (1977), belong to the category of

commissives because they commit the refuser to performing an action (in Félix-

Brasdefer, 2008: 42).


). Beebe et al. (1990) adds that refusals can be used in

response to requests, invitations, offers, and suggestions (in Scarcella,


Scarcella p. 55-73).

In response to requests, invitations, offers, and suggestions, acceptance or

agreement are usually preferred, and refusing or rejecting are not. Refusals or

rejections can mean disapproval of the interlocutor's idea and therefore, a threat to

the interlocutor's face, w


while
hile acceptance or agreement tend to be used in direct

language without much delay, mitigation, or explanation, refusals tend to be

indirect, include
nclude mitigation, and/or delay within the turn or across turns. The delay

probably shows that the refuser has a good reason for refusing and may imply that

the refuser would accept or agree instead if it were possible or practical.

2.6.1 Classification of Refu


Refusals

As previously mentioned, refusal is initiated by four types of acts: request,

invitation, offer, and suggestion. Each type can be subcategorized in terms of their

different communicative functions (Yang, 2008: 1047).


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2.6.1.1 Refusals of Requests

A request is an act of asking politely or formally for something. Request as

an initiating act is divided into four types:

1. Request for favor (e.g. borrowing or help)

2. Request for permission/acceptance/agreement (e.g. job aplication)

3. Request for information/advice (e.g. product information)

4. Request for action (e.g. payment)

2.6.1.2 Refusals of Offers

An offer is an expression of readiness to do or give something. Offer as an

initiating act is divided into four types:

1. Gift offer

2. Favor offer (e.g. giving a ride)

3. Food/drink offer

4. Opportunity offer (e.g. job, promotion)

2.6.1.3 Refusals of Invitations

An invitation is a written or verbal request inviting someone to go

somewhere or to do something. Invitation as an initiating act


ct is divided into two

types: ritual invitation


invitation, and real invitation.

1. Ritual invitation often occurs at the end of the interactions. It

functions as a leave
leave-taking
taking act between interlocutors. Through

unspecific expressions of invitation, the inviter shows the willingness


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of maintaining relationship with the listener in the future. For example

‘Come to visit me some time.’

2. Real
eal invitation, shows speakers’ sincere intention to treat the listener

and functions as an invitation


invitation. For example ‘Do you want to come

with me to the movie?’

2.6.1.4 Refusals of Suggestion


Suggestions

A suggestion is an idea or plan put forward for consideration. Suggestion

as initiating act is divided into two types: solicited suggestion and unsolicited

suggestion.

1. Solicited suggestion: the suggestions asked by the interlocutor

2. Unsolicited suggestion: the suggestions voluntarily given by the

interlocutor

a. Personal suggestion: the suggestions given by the speaker to

establish or/and maintain the relationship between the listener.

• Show concern: ““The weather is getting cold. You’d better

wear more clothes.


clothes.”

• Develop conversation rapport: ““Time


Time is running late. Go

home earlier!
earlier!”

• Establish or show membership in a group: “Because


“ I

consider you as my insider, I suggest you not go.”


go.
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b. Commercial suggestion: suggestions to guide others’ commercial

thoughts or behaviors, such as the suggestions to buy by salesmen

or advertisements.

2.6.2 Refusal Strategies

Refusals often include explanations/reasons why such refusals are

necessary. Refusal strategies function to reassure the recipient of the refusal that

he or she is still approved of but that there are necessary reasons for the refusal,

and that the refuser regrets the necessity for the refusal (Beebe et al., 1990).

Beebe et al. (1990


(1990) proposed a classification of refusals comprised
com of three

categories: direct refusals; indirect refusals; and adjuncts to refusals (in Scarcella,

p. 55-73). In direct refusals, the speaker can use either performative verbs (I
(

refuse)) or non performative statements with a direct “0o” and negative

willingness/ability (II can't/I won't


won't/I don't think so).

If a refusal response is expressed indirectly, the degree of inference

increases as the speaker must choose the appropriate form to soften the negative

effects of a direct refusal (Félix-Brasdefer, 2008: 43). Indirect refusals may

include the following strategies:

1. Statement of regret ((I'm sorry.../I feel terrible...)

2. Wish (II wish I could help you...


you...)

3. Excuse, reason, explanation ((My


My children will be home that night./I

have a headache
headache)

4. Statement of alternative
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a. I can do X instead of Y ((I'd rather.../I'd prefer...)

b. Why don't you do X instead of Y ((Why


Why don't you ask someone

else?))

5. Set condition for future or past acceptance ((If


If you had asked me

earlier, I would have...


have...)

6. Promise of future acceptance ((I'll do it next


ext time./I promise I'll.../0ext

time I'll...))

7. Statement of principle ((II never do business with friends.)


friends.

8. Statement of philosophy ((One can't be too careful.)

9. Attempt to dissuade interlocutor

a. Threat or statement of negative consequences to the requester (I


(

won't be any fun tonight to refuse an invitation).

b. Guilt trip (waitress to customers who want to sit a while: I can't

make a living off people who just order coffee.


coffee.)

c. Criticize the request/requester (statement of negative feeling or

opinion; insult/atta
insult/attack (Who
Who do you think you are?/That's a

terrible idea!
idea!)

d. Request for help, empathy, and assistance by dropping or holding

the request.

e. Let interlocutor off the hook ((Don't


Don't worry about it./That's

okay./You don't have to.


to.)

f. Self-defense
defense ((I'm trying my best./I'm
'm doing all I can do.)
do
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10. Acceptance that functions as a refusal

a. Unspecific or indefinite reply

b. Lack of enthusiasm

11. Avoidance

a. Nonverbal

1) Silence

2) Hesitation

3) Doing nothing

4) Physical departure

b. Verbal

1) Topic switch

2) Joke

3) Repetition of part of request (Monday?)

4) Postponement (I'll think about it.)

5) Hedge (Gee, I don't know./I'm not sure.)

Finally, a refusal response is often accompanied by adjuncts to refusals

which may preface or follow the main refusal response. Adjuncts to refusals

include:

1. Statement of pos
positive
itive opinion/feeling or agreement (That's
( a good

idea.../I'd love to...


to...)

2. Statement of empathy ((II realize you are in a difficult situation.)


situation
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3. Pause fillers ((uhh/well/oh/uhm)

4. Gratitude/appreciation (Thanks
Thanks for the invitation, but…)
but…

According to Gass & Houck (1999: 2), refusals are often played out in

lengthy sequences involving negotiation of a satisfactory outcome. They proposed

possible refusal trajectories involving negotiation, as seen in Figure 2.1.

Fig. 2:1 Possible refusal trajectories involvi


involving negotiation (Gass & Houck, 1999:
1999
8)

According
rding to Gass & Houck (1999: 33),
), there are a number of possible

Initial Responses after an Initiating Act such as a request; similarly, there are a
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number of possible Final Outcomes. The Initial Response and Final Outcome may

not coincide.

Gass & Houck (1999


(1999: 3)) add that the Initiating Act sets the process in

motion. Two general types of Initial Reponse by a Respondent are possible. The

Respondent can either accept or not accept. An Accept in this case refers to

sincere acceptance, that is, an acceptance that is intended as agreement and is

perceived as such. With Nonaccepts, the situation becomes more complex,

particularly because numerous options confront a refuser. A Nonaccept can be

expressed as a refusal, a postponement,, or the proposal of an alternative.

If the response is a Nonaccept, the Initiator can concur or go along with

the Respondent’s Nonaccept, in which case the current interaction is resolved, and

the Initial Response serves as the Final Outcom


Outcome.
e. On the other hand, if the

Initiator does not accede to the Respondent’s Nonaccept, the Initiator can attempt

to work out a more acceptable resolution. This circumstance leads to negotiation,

where negotiation is part of interaction in which interactants performs a series of

linguistic acts with the goal of producing a satisfactory Final Outcome. The Final

Outcome refers to the resolution of the interaction, the status of the action (or

nonaction) by the Respondent that is in force at the end of the interaction.


inter

In summary,, refusals are complex speech acts that require not only long

sequences of negotiation and cooperative achievements, but also “face saving

maneuvers to accommodate the noncompliant nature of the act” (Gass & Houck,

1999: 2).
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2.6.3 Refusal Sequences


uences

The linguistic expressions employed in a refusal sequence may include

direct and indirect strategies ((Félix-Brasdefer, 2008: 42). Based on Beebe et al.

(1990), refusals
efusals can be seen as a series of the following sequences.

1. Pre-refusal
refusal strategies
strategies:: these strategies prepare the addressee for an

upcoming refusal

2. Main refusal (Head Act)


Act):: this strategy expresses the main refusal.

3. Post-refusal
refusal strategies
strategies:: these strategies follow the head act and tend to

emphasize, justify, mitigate, or conclude the re


refusal
fusal response.

For instance, a refusal example below shows an instance of a refusal

sequence to a boss' request for an employee to stay at work two extra hours.

Boss: I was wondering if you might be able to stay a bit late this evening, say,

until about 9:00 pm or so.

Employee: Uh, I'd really like to, but I can't. I'm sorry. I have plans. I really can’t

stay.

Response Refusal-sequences Strategy

Uh, I'd really like to Pre-refusal Willingness

but I can't Head act Direct refusal

I'm sorry Post-refusal Apology/regret

I have plans Post-refusal Reason/explanation

I really can’t stay Post-refusal Direct refusal

Fig. 2:2 Refusal sequences


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2.6.4 Factors Influencing Refusal Strategies

From a pragmatic perspective, the negotiation of a refusal may entail

frequent attempts at directness or indirectness and politeness or impoliteness that

are appropriate to the situation and may vary according to the social values of a

particular culture. The choice of a direct or indirect refusal and the appropriate

degree of politeness
eness employed will depend on the relationship between the

participants (close or distant, power), age, gender, and the situation (Félix-

Brasdefer, 2008: 1).

According to Leech (1983: 126), maxims are measured in terms of five

pragmatic scales. Two of them are the ‘authority’ scale, which measures the

degree of distance with respect to the power or authority that one participant has

over another; and the ‘social distance’ scale, which describes the degree of

solidarity between the interlocutors.

Brown and Levinson


evinson (1987
(1987) argue that during social interaction a speaker

must rationally assess the nature of a face


face-threatening
threatening act (FTA). The assessment

of the seriousness of an act involves three independent factors that are culture-
culture

sensitive: the social distance (D) and social power (P) between a speaker and a

hearer, and the absolute ranking (R) of impositions in a particular culture:

1. Social Distance (D) between the speaker and the hearer; in effect, the

degree of familiarity or solidarity they share (a symmetric relation);

2. Relative Power (P) of the speaker with respect to the hearer; in effect, the

degree to which the spe


speaker
aker can impose his/her will on the hearer (an

asymmetric relation); and


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3. Absolute Ranking (R) of impositions in the culture in terms of the

expenditure of goods and/or services by the hearer, the right of the speaker

to perform the act, and the degree to which the hearer welcomes the

imposition.

From the explanation above, it can be concluded that the use of refusal

strategies by the speaker


speakerss is mostly influenced by power and social distance

between the speaker and the hearer. The refuser pays attention to the closeness

between the refuser and the refusee.


CHAPTER III

DATA AALYSIS

3.1 Refusals of Requests

There are ten data in refusals of requests. It is found that there are three
t out

of ten refusals of requests that consist of negotiation.

Data (1)

Transcription:

Man: Betty Suarez?

Betty: Hi! Um, that's me. Uh, I have a hard copy of my resume if you need it.

Should I follow you?

Man: Uh actually.. there's been a mistake.

Betty: A mistake?

Man: All the entry level positions we've been hiring for? They've been filled.

I'm sorry.

Betty: Um, sir? While you've got me here, I thought I could tell you a little about

myself. Magazines are my passions, ever since I was a little kid. And I can't

imagine a more amazing place to start my career than Meade publications. I

know most of your magazines inside out, I try to devour as much as I can.

Man: Clearly.

Betty: Also, I've learnt so much through them, stuff so beyond my world, like who

the up-and-comers
comers are on the London art scene, or what the political in Darfur

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are all about or which is considered the most romant


romantic
ic in the world. And I have

tons of ideas, I'm always


lways jotting stuff down on the subway, but I'm getting ahead

of myself, sir. All I really want is a chance,

any position or publication


publication-

Man: Goodbye.

Context:

The conversation takes place in Meade Publi


Publication
cation building, in a job interview,

between Betty Suarez who acts as an interviewee and a man who acts as an

interviewer. Meade Publication is one of the biggest publications in New York

which only hires good


good-looking
looking and fashionable employees. Betty Suarez
Suare is a not-

good-looking
looking young Latin woman who wears braces, glasses, whose hair is frizzy

and eyebrows are thick, so much to become an employee at Meade Publication.

The interviewee calls Betty’s name up. When she responds, he looks disappointed

of her appearance.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for acceptance,


acceptance it can be

seen that the man is refusing Betty’s request for a job. The
he man refuses Betty’s
Betty

offer (Uh,
Uh, I have a hard copy of my resume if you need it. Should I follow you?)

by pause filler (Uh)) followed by explanation (actually... there's been a mistake.


mistake

All the entry level positions we've been hiring for? They've been filled),
filled then ends

it with a statement of regret (I'm sorry). The actual reason that the man refuses
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Betty’s request is because her appearance does not fit the physical criteria of

becoming an employee at Meade Publication, but he uses different explanation in

order to avoid hurting Betty’s feeling. He refuses the offer in a series of

sequences: pre-refus
refusal (Uh actually.. there's been a mistake),
), followed by head

act (All
All the entry level positions we've been hiring for? They've been filled)
filled which

expresses the main refusal and ended by post-refusal (I'm sorry).

The refusal
fusal does not yet come to the Final Outcome,
utcome, for the initiator, Betty, makes

a negotiation. She insists that she be considered an applicant by negotiating the

man using an explanation about how devoted she is to magazines, yet the man still

refuses Betty’s request for acceptance by an indefinite


inite reply (Clearly). The

refusal sequence here is head act (Clearly).

Still, this is not the Final O


Outcome of the refusal. Betty keeps negotiating so that

she will get an acceptance. Betty keeps asking for a chance to get a job by

promoting herself (I've


ve learnt so much through them, stuff so beyond my world)
world

and (And
And I have tons of ideas, I'm always jotting stuff down on the subway, but

I'm getting ahead of myself, sir


sir). Betty’s negotiation shows that she is eager to get

a job at Meade Publication beca


because
use she is very interested in magazines. However,

the man insists on rejecting Betty to be an employee at Meade Publication by

giving an indefinite reply (Goodbye), which also functions as head act.


act
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There are two negotiations following an Initiating Act aand


nd three refusals in the

speech event. After two negotiations, the man’s indefinite reply (Goodbye)
( is the

Final Outcome
utcome of the refusal. The refusal process,, started from the Initiating Act

from the Initiator, followed by responses from Respondent, negotiations


negotia and

ended with the Final Outcome can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating Hi! Um, that's me. Uh, I have a hard copy of my resume if you
Act) need it. Should I follow you?
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Uh
Uh, pre-refusal pause filler
actually.. there's been pre-refusal explanation
a mistake
mistake.
Respondent All the entry level
positions we've been
head act explanation
hiring for? They've
been filled
filled.
I'm sorry
sorry. post-refusal statement of regret

Um, sir? While you've got me here, I thought I could tell you a
little about myself. Magazines are my passions, ever since I was
Initiator
a little kid. And I can't imagine a more amazing place to start my
(egotiation)
career than Meade publications. I know most of your magazines
inside out, I try to devour as much as I can.

Response Refusal Sequence Strategy


Respondent
Clearly
Clearly. head act indefinite reply

Also, I've learnt so much through them, stuff so beyond my


world, like who the up
up-and-comers
comers are on the London
Lo art scene,
or what the political in Darfur are all about or which is
Initiator
considered the most romantic in the world. And I have tons of
(egotiation)
ideas, I'm always jotting stuff down on the subway, but I'm
getting ahead of myself, sir. All I really want is a chance, any
position or publication
publication-

Response Refusal Sequence Strategy


Respondent (FO)
Goodbye! head act indefinite reply
Refusal process of data (1)
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Data (2)

Transcription:

Justin: I hate telenovelas. I want to watch Fashion TV.

Hilda: Justin, you can watc


watch Fashion
ion TV later when your Aunt Betty is

babysitting ok?

Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house between Justin Suarez and

Hilda Suarez. Justin Suarez is Hilda’s son, therefore the degree of solidarity

between them is mother and son. Justin is in the living room watching telenovela

and Hilda, accompanied by her father, is in the dining room having lunch. The

dining room is facing the television in the living room and the three of them are

watching television.

Analysis:

ting Act of the dialogues above is a request for permission.


The Initiating permission Watching

telenovela on television
television, Justin declares that he hates telenovelas and requests to

change the channel and watch Fashion TV (II want to watch Fashion TV).
TV Hilda

refuses his request using a promise of future acceptance (Justin,


Justin, you can watch

Fashion
ion TV later when your Aunt Betty is babysitting ok
ok?).
). Hilda uses this

strategy because she does not want to disappoint Justin that she forbids him to

watch Fashion TV. The refusal sequence here is only head act (Justin,
( you can

watch Fashion
ion TV later when your Aunt Betty is babysitting ok
ok?)). Justin accepts
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his mother’s refusal, wh


which
ich makes Hilda’s response the Final Outcome.
O The

refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
I hate telenovelas. I want to watch Fashion TV.
Act)
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Justin, you can
watch Fashion TV
promise of future
later when your head act
acceptance
Aunt Betty is
babysitting ok?
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (2)

Data (3)

Transcription:

Betty: Daniel, I was wonder


wondering, if you had a quick moment.

Daniel: Do I look like I have a quick moment?

Betty: 1o. So sorry.

Context:

The conversation takes place on a sidewalk, in front of Meade Publication


Public

building between Betty Suarez and Daniel Meade. Daniel Meade is the editor-in-
editor

chief of “Mode” magazine and Betty is his assistant. Their social distance is

between boss and assistant. This is Betty’s first week as Daniel’s assistant, and

she still feels


els awkward talking to Daniel
Daniel. They are walking hurriedly to their car,
car
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and Betty seems to have something on her mind


mind. Therefore, she awkwardly starts

to talk to Daniel.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for permission.


permission Betty

requests for Daniel’s time to tell her idea.. Daniel refuses the request by giving a

guilt trip to Betty (Do


Do I look like I have a quick moment?
moment?).
). Betty understands that

Daniel is so busy to give her his time that she apologizes ((1o.
1o. So sorry).
sorry Daniel is

able to give the guilt trip to Betty because he is higher in status than her. The guilt

trip given by Daniel to Betty is the head act of the refusal, and Betty’s apology is

an acceptance of Daniel’s refusal which makes Daniel’s refusal the Final

Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Daniel, I was wondering, if you had a quick moment.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent Do I look like I
have a quick head act guilt trip
moment?
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Accept: 1o. So sorry.
Refusal process of data (3)

Data (4)

Transcription:

Daniel: I really want you to come back, be my assistant. I promise you, things will

be different.

Betty: I, um. Daniel, I really have to think about that.


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Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house, between Daniel and Betty.

Betty is no longer Daniel’s assistant, thus there is no relative power between them

whatsoever. Daniel comes to Betty’s house to ask her to be his assistant for the

second time after


ter Betty quit her job because she found out that she got a job as

Daniel’s assistant because Daniel’s father, Bradford Meade, did not want his son

to sleep with his assistant. Daniel also manipulated some efforts to make Betty

quit, but when he read Betty


Betty’s proposal about a photoshoot concept for Fabia

Cosmetics,, he realized that Betty was able to do more than just get coffee.
coffee He

regrets it and wants to make it up to Betty.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for agreement.


agreement Daniel asks

Betty to come back to work for him, and promises that everything will be

different, but Betty refuses Daniel’s request


request. She refuses the request using pause

fillers (I, um)) followed by a postponement (Daniel,


Daniel, I really have to think about

that). Shee uses the pause fillers because she is surprised of how Daniel has

changed, and she uses the postponement because she is doubtful whether to accept

his request or not since she found out that she got the job not because of her talent.

The refusal sequencess here are pre-refusal (I, um) and head act (Daniel,
( I really

have to think about that


that). Daniel accepts her postponement
nt which makes her

refusal the Final Outcome


utcome of the refusal process. The refusal process can be seen

in the following figure.


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Initiator (Initiating I really want you to come back, be my assistant. I promise you,
Act) things will be different.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
I, um
um. pre-refusal pause filler
Respondent
Daniel, I really have head act postponement
to think about that
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (4)

Data (5)

Transcription:

Betty: Daniel, you have to be here.

Daniel: I am sick, Betty. I'm still drunk. Just cover for me.

Betty: #o, I can’t take charge of this.

Context:

The conversation takes plac


placee on the phone, between Betty and Daniel, on a

Thanksgiving holiday. Betty has worked as Daniel’s assistant again. Even though

the status between Daniel and Betty is boss and assistant, the degree of solidarity

between them is friend to friend because they have become close friends. Daniel

is in Betty’s house, resting after drinking a lot of alcohol last night and still having

hangover. Betty is at the office, “Mode”, covering Daniel for a photo shoot of

baby Chutney, a child of famous selebrities. Not know


knowing
ing what to do since there is

no one in charge at the office, Betty calls Daniel to ask him to come to “Mode”.
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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for action.


action Betty requests

Daniel to come to “Mode”, but he refuses her requ


request. Daniel refuses Betty’s

request to come to the office by giving explanations why he cannot come (I


( am

sick, Betty. I'm still drun


drunk), followed by a request for assistance (Just cover for

me). Daniel gives the explanation to Betty to emphasize that he is really unable to

get out of the house, and he makes the request because he is sure that Betty can

cover him. The refusal sequences are head act (I am sick,, Betty. I’m still drunk.)
drunk.

and post-refusal (Just


Just cover for me
me).

However, Betty refuses Daniel’s re


request
quest to cover him by using a direct #o

followed by a direct refusal statement of negative ability (II can’t take charge of

this). Betty gives Daniel the direct refusal strategies because she is both panicked

and confused. She is able to give direct refusal to Daniel because they are now

friends. The refusal has a head act (1o) and a post-refusal (II can’t take charge of

this)) as the sequences. Hence, there are two refusals in one speech event: Daniel’s

refusal to Betty’s request and Betty’s refusal to Daniel


Daniel’s
’s request. Betty as the

Initiator also acts as the second Respondent in the refusal process. Daniel accepts

her refusal which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be

seen in the following figure.


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Initiator (Initiating
Danie
Daniel, you have to be here.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
I am sick, Betty
Betty. head act explanation
Respondent
I'm still drunk
drunk. head act explanation
Just cover for me
me. post-refusal request for assistance
Initiator (as 2nd
Respondent) Response Refusal Sequence Strategy

1o, head act direct refusal


I can’t take charge
of this
this. post-refusal direct refusal
Respondent (FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (5)

Data (6)

Transcription:

Betty: I'm writing an article about being an outsider at "Mode," and I wanted to

interview you.

Marc: As much fun as that sounds, I so don't have time for it right now.

Wilhelmina's due back any second, and she's always extremely tense after a

relaxing vacation.

Betty: Okay, well, then, just a quick quote.

Marc: Okay.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, between Betty and Marc St. James. Betty

is no longer Daniel’s assistant. She is working at M.Y.W magazine as Sofia

Reyes’s assistant. Sofia wants Betty to write an article for the magazine about a
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girl like Betty


ty working at Mode magazine. Betty then goes back to “Mode” to ask

some of the employees about their first impressions about her. The first one she

asks is Marc, Wilhelmina’s assistant, who has been nothing but a mischief to

Betty. They are both assistants


assistants,, so the degree of solidarity between them is

between colleagues. Marc is cleaning Wilhelmina’s office hastily when Betty

comes up and request for his permission to interview him.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for favor.


favor Betty requests

Marc to do an interview with her. Marc rejects Betty’s request for an interview by

giving a statement of positive opinion (As sounds followed by


As much fun as that sounds)

a negative ability (II so don't have time for it right now


now)) which is a direct refusal,

and an explanation (Wilhelmina's


Wilhelmina's due back any second, and she's always

vacation). Marc gives the statement of positive


extremely tense after a relaxing vacation

opinion because he has many things to say about Betty, but he does not have time

to say it all because he is afraid that Wilhelmina will come to the office and get

cranky. He is able to give the direct refusal to Betty because they are colleagues.

The refusal sequences here are pre-refusal (As


As much fun as that sounds),
sounds head

act (II so don't have tim


time for it right now), and post-refusal (Wilhelmina's
Wilhelmina's due

back any second, and she's always extremely tense after a relaxing vacation).
vacation

However, that is not the Final O


Outcome of the refusal. Betty is negotiating Marc

to make a quick quote about her while he is cleaning. She negotiates because she
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really needs everybody’s opinion about her for her article. Marc is willing to

answer Betty’s question. Therefore, Marc’s willingnes


willingnesss to make a quick quote is

the Final Outcome. The process of refusal and negotiatio


negotiation can be seen in the

following figure.

Initiator (Initiating I'm writing an article about being an outsider at "Mode," and I
Act) wanted to interview you.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
As much fun as that pre-refusal statement of
sounds positive opinion
I so don't have time head act direct refusal
for it right now
Respondent
Wilhelmina's due
back any second, and
she's always post-refusal explanation
extremely tense after
a relaxing vacation

Initiator
Okay, well, then, just a qu
quick quote.
(egotiation)
Respondent (FO) Accept: Okay
Refusal process of data (6
(6)

Data (7)

Transcription:

Fabia: Well, you know, seeing that Fabia donated $20,000 in cosmetics for the

fashion show gift bag... I figured you take Fabia to lunch, no?

Wilhelmina: Oh, darling,


rling, II-I would love to, but I can't. I'm swamped.
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Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Wilhelmina’s office between Fabia

and Wilhelmina. Fabia is the owner of Fabia Cosmetics who contributes a lot to

“Mode”. She is one of the biggest sp


sponsors at “Mode”. Since Fabia is the main

sponsor for “Mode”, Wilhelmina respects her. She visits “Mode” during its

preparation for the upcoming event “Fashion Week”. She comes in to

Wilhelmina’s office who is busy preparing the “Fashion Week” to ask

Wilhelmina
lmina to take her to lunch.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for favor.


favor Fabia requests

that she be taken lunch by Wilhelmina because Fabia has donated $20,000 for the

event. Wilhelmina rejects Fabia’s request using a pause filler (Oh, darling)

followed by a statement of positive opinion (I would love to), a negative ability

(but I can’t),
), and ends it with an explanation (I’m swamped). Wilhelmina uses

the pause filler, statement of positive opinion and explanation before and after the

direct refusal because she does not want to offend Fabia’s feelings. The refusal

sequences are pre-refusal


refusal (Oh, darling, I-I would love to), head act (but I can’t),

and post-refusal (I’m swamped). Fabia accepts Wilhelmina’s refusal, which


I’m swamped

makes her
er refusal the Final Outcome from the refusal process. The refusal process

can be seen in the following figure.


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Well, you know, seeing that Fabia donated $20,000 in cosmetics


Initiator (Initiating
for the fashion show gift bag... I figured you take Fabia
F to lunch,
Act)
no?

Response Refusal Sequence Strategy


Respondent Oh, darling pre-refusal pause filler
statement of positive
I-II would love to pre-refusal
opinion
but I can't head act direct refusal
I'm swamped post-refusal explanation
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (7)

Data (8)

Transcription:

Henry: Betty, can we talk?

Betty: o. I'm getting some food, and I'm going home. Please tell Charlie that

I'm sorry.

Henry: At least let me pay for your pretzel.

Betty: o, I don'tt want anything from you.

Context:

The conversation takes place on a sidewalk near a subway station in front of a

food vendor, between Henry Grubstick and Betty. Henry is an accountant at

“Mode”.. The degree of solidarity between them is colleagues. Henry has a crush

on Betty. When Betty is about to open her heart for him, his ex-girlfriend
ex from

Tucson, Charlie, visits him in New York. Henry tells Betty that he and Charlie

want to give their relationship a chance. It tears Betty apart. Unfortunately, Betty
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asked Charlie to go with her before she knew that Charlie is Henry’s girlfriend

which forces Betty to go with Charlie whether she likes it or not. At the station,

consumed with jealousy, when Betty and Charlie are just about to enter the

subway, Betty lets go of her hand from Charlie deliberately and ditches her.

Realizing that she has made a mistake, Betty asks Henry to come to the station

and explain why she does that. She explains that she is jealous of Charlie and then

leaves Henry alone. Henry is surprised that Betty also has feelings for him,
him then

he chases after Betty to talk about it.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for agreement.


agreement Betty

refuses Henry’s request for a chance to talk using a direct o followed by an

explanation (I'm home)) and ended by a


I'm getting some food, and I'm going home

statement of regret (Please tell Charlie that I'm sorry). She uses the strategies

because she is both regretful and embarassed of what she has done. She is also

able to give a direct refu


refusal
sal because she and Henry are colleagues. The refusal

sequences are head act (/o) and post-refusal (I'm


I'm getting some food, and I'm

going home. Please tell Charlie that I'm sorry


sorry).

However, that is not the Final O


Outcome. Henry makes a negotiation by offering

Betty to pay for her pretzel. He negotiates because he does not feel good about

going back with Charlie, let alone he finds out that Betty likes him. Still, Betty

refuses the offer by giving a direct o, followed by a negative willingness which
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is also a direct refusal ((I don't want anything from you).


). The refusal sequences

here are head act (/o


/o) and post-refusal (II don't want anything from you).
you Henry

accepts Betty’s refusal which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal

process can be seen in tthe following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Betty, can we talk?
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
/o
/o. head act direct refusal

I'm getting some food,


Respondent post-refusal explanation
and I'm going home
home.

Please tell Charlie


post-refusal statement of regret
that I'm sorry
sorry.
Initiator (egotiation) At least let me pay for your pretzel.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
/o
/o. head act direct refusal
Respondent
I don't want anything
post-refusal direct refusal
from you
you.
Initiator (FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (8)

Data (9)

Transcription:

Christina: Uh... look... can we please talk because I am really, really sorry.

Betty: You know what? I need to get this to Daniel. I'm gonna take the stairs

instead.
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Context:

The conversationn takes place at “Mode”, in the elevator between Christina

McKinney and Betty. Christina and Betty are best friends


friends,, so they do not have a

distance whatsoever.. Betty gets mad at Christina after Christina tells Betty that

she sells Betty and Daniel out to W


Wilhelmina
ilhelmina in order to pursue her career as a

designer. Betty is so mad that she has been avoiding Christina. In the elevator,

when Betty is going to the office, Christina enters the elevator carrying clothes

and she sees Betty. Christina then asks Betty if she can talk about what happened.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for agreement.


agreement Christina

asks Betty to talk about what happened and tell


tells Betty that she regrets the thing

she did. But Betty refuses her request by switching the topic (You
You know what? I

Daniel), followed by a statement of alternative (I'm gonna


need to get this to Daniel

instead). Betty uses the strategies because she is actually not mad at
take the stairs instead

Christina anymore, but she does not want to talk to Christ


Christina
ina yet. Therefore, she

avoids Christina using the strategies. The refusal sequences here are head act

(You Daniel) and post-refusal (I'm gonna take


You know what? I need to get this to Daniel

the stairs instead). Christina accepts Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal
re the

Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.
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Initiator (Initiating
Uh... look... can we please talk because I am really, really sorry.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
You know what? I
need to gget this to head act topic switch
Respondent Daniel
Daniel.
I'm gonna take the statement of
post-refusal
stairs instead
instead. alternative
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (9)

Data (10)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: I want you to hit me as hard as you can.

Marc: Willie, isn't that a little extreme, even for you?

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, at the emergency exit stairs between

Wilhelmina Slater and Marc. Wilhelmina is Marc’s boss


boss,, therefore the social

distance between them is boss and assis


assistant. Wilhelmina is having an affair with

Bradford Meade, the owner of Meade Publication. She wants Bradford to marry

her so that she will get some of Meade’s fortune. However, Bradford tells

Wilhelmina that he will not divorce Claire Meade, his wife who iiss in jail. In order

to ensure Bradford what his wife is capable of, Wilhelmina manipulates a scenario

by injuring herself hoping that he will divorce his wife. She asks Marc to do the

honor.
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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a request for favor. Wilhelmina asks

Marc to hit her so that she will have a proof to show Bradford
Bradford,, but Marc refuses.
refuses

Marc refuses it by giving a statement of negative opinion (Willie,


Willie, isn't that a

you?). He gives the statement of negativee opinion because


little extreme, even for you?

he thinks that her idea is way out of line, and he cannot just hit her because she is

his boss. Marc’s statement also functions as head act of the refusal. Wilhelmina

accepts Marc’s refusal, which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal

process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
I want you to hit me as hard as you can.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent Willie, isn't that a
statement of
little extreme, even head act
negative opinion
op
for you?
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (10)

3.2 Refusals of Offers

The writer here provides the data analyses of refusals of offers. The writer

finds that there are three out of ten refusals consist of negotiation.
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Data (11)

Transcription:

Betty: Um, sorry to interrupt, but can I get you lunch?

Daniel: o, no. But you go ahead, thanks.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Daniel’s office between Betty and

Daniel. Betty is Daniel’s assistant whose jobs vary from taking hhis
is calls to getting

him meals and drinks. It is Betty’s first week as Daniel’s assistant, so they have

not got close to each other yet and there is still a gap between the two of them.
them

Betty comes into Daniel’s office when Daniel is talking to his photographer
photogra friend

about a photo shoot theme for Fabia Cosmetics to offer him lunch.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a food offer. Betty offers Daniel to

get his lunch,, but Daniel refuses it


it.. Daniel refuses it by giving a direct o,

followed by letting Betty off the hook (But you go ahead)) and a gratitude

(thanks). Daniel gives the direct refusal because he is her boss and lets Betty off

the hook because he is busy talking to his friend about the photoshoot.
photoshoot He wants

Betty to leave the roo


roomm so he can continue his talking. He also ends his refusal

with gratitude to appreciate Betty’s offer. The refusal sequences here are head act

(/o, no) and post-refusal


refusal (But you go ahead, thanks). Betty accepts Daniel’s
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refusal, which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be

seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Um, sorry to interrupt, but can I get you lunch?
Act)
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
o, no
no. head act direct refusal

let the interlocutor off


But you go ahead, post-refusal
the hook
thanks
hanks. post-refusal gratitude
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (11)

Data (12)

Transcription:

Steve: Anyway, I was thinking I'd break into


to the place today, go through, see if

there's anythingg incriminating.

Bradford: I'll do it. I have a key. Besides, you don't know what's really

incriminating.

Context:

The conversation takes place in a park at night between Bradford Meade and

Steve. Steve is a specialist hired by Bradford, thus Bradford is his boss. Bradford

Meade is the owner of Meade Publication who had an affair with former editor-in-
editor

chief of “Mode”, Fey Sommers. Fey Sommers died in a car crash, and Bradford

seems to have something to do with her death. He wants to get rid of Fey’s stuff
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that can be used as evidence, therefore he hires Steve to find any information

about Fey Sommers. Steve comes to Bradford and tells him that some of Fey’s

stuff at her apartment will be auctioned


auctioned. Steve makes an offer to go to Fey’s

apartment for Bradford


Bradford.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a favor offer. Steve offers Bradford a

favor to break into Fey’s apartment to find some things that can be evidence.

However, Bradford refuses Steve’s offer. He rejects the offer by letting Steve off

the hook (I'll do it),


), followed by an explanation (I have a key)) and a statement

of negative opinion (Besides, you don't know what's really incriminating).


incriminating

Bradford gives the strategies to Steve because he knows Fey’s apartment inside-
inside

out, but Steve doess not. Therefore, he decides to go to the apartment by himself.

He also gives the statement of negative opinion because he is Steve’s boss and he

can decide what Steve can and cannot do. The sequences from Bradford’s refusal

are head act (I'll


I'll do it
it) and post-refusal (II have a key. Besides, you don't know

what's really incriminating


incriminating). Steve accepts Bradford’s refusal, which makes his

refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following

figure.
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Initiator (Initiating Anyway, I w


was
as thinking I'd break into the place today, go
Act) through, see if there's anything incriminating.
Respondent Refusal
Response Sequence Strategy
let the interlocutor
I'll do it
it. head act
off the hook
I have a key
key. post-refusal explanation
Besides, you don't
statement of negative
know what's really post-refusal
opinion
incriminating
incriminating.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (12)

Data (13)

Transcription:

Betty: Oh, wow. The book. I'll give it to him.

Marc: o, no. This is too important. I'l


I'll give it to him directly.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, between Marc and Betty. Marc is

Wilhelmina’s assistant and Betty is Daniel’s assistant, therefore the degree of

solidarity between them is between colleagues. Daniel requests Wilhelmina


Wilh to

give him the book of “Mode”. The book is the mock-up of the entire magazine.
magazine

Each department submits their section throughout the day: photo, style,

advertising, all of "M


"Mode's" secrets. Since Daniel is the editor-in-chief
chief of “Mode”,

he asks for the book from Wilhelmina who has held it all the time. Wilhelmina

asks Marc to give the book to Daniel in his office. When Marc is walking to
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Daniel’s office, Betty sees the book


book.. As Daniel’s assistant, she should take care of

it, therefore she offers Marc to give the book to Daniel.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a favor offer. Betty offers Marc to

give the book to Daniel, but Marc refuses it. He uses a direct o,, followed by an

explanation (This
This is too important
important) and a statement of alternative (I'll give it to

him directly). Marc gives the strategies because he does not want Betty to

interfere about the book. Wihelmina, his boss, seems to be up to something with

the book and Marc does not want Betty to know. He is able to give a direct
d refusal

because they are colleagues. The refusal sequences in Marc’s refusal are head act

(o, no) and post-refusal


refusal (This
This is too important. I'll give it to him directly).
directly Betty

accepts Marc’s refusal, therefore his refusal is the Final Outcome. The refusal

process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Oh, wow. The book. I'll give it to him.
Act)
Refusal
Response Sequence Strategy
o, nono. head act direct refusal
Respondent
This is too important
important. post-refusal explanation
I'
I'll give it to him statement of
post-refusal
directly
directly. alternative
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (13)
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Data (14)

Transcription:

Amanda: Hey, um, if you get tired of watching "Charlie Brown and the great

pumpkin" alone, I could... com


comee over and keep you company... in costume... or

not.

Daniel: I think... I just need to be alone tonight.

Amanda: Hey! We could just talk.

Daniel: Probably not..

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, on Halloween day, at the elevator

between Daniel
aniel and Amanda Tanen. Amanda is a receptionist at “Mode” who is

having a special relationship with Daniel. Amanda knows that their relationship is

not serious, therefore she wants to make the relationship more serious. Even

though the social distance bet


between
ween Daniel and Amanda is between boss and

employee, the degree of solidarity between them is between lovers. Daniel has

just got back from visiting his mother at a rehabilitation facility and looks sad.

When he gets out of the elevator, he meets Amanda wh


whoo is going to take the

elevator. There are just the two of them there, and Amanda intends to start making

their relationship more serious. She offers herself to accompany Daniel to spend

the night.
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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a favor offer.. Daniel refuses

Amanda’s offer to accompany him for the night by giving a self-defens


defense (I think...

I just need to be alone tonight


tonight). He uses the strategy because he feels reluctant to

be accompanied after having dinner with his mother. There is only a head act in

the refusal.

However, this is not the final outcome because Amanda makes a negotiation by

giving an alternative ((Hey! We could just talk). She seems eager to work out on

their relationship. Still, Daniel still refuses Amanda’s negotiation


iation by giving her a

direct refusal (Probably


Probably not
not). He uses direct refusal to emphasize that he does not

want to be intruded for the night. There is only a head act in his refusal. Daniel’s

refusal towards
ds Amanda’s negotiation is the Final O
Outcome.
utcome. The refusal

sequences and trajectories can be seen in the following figure.

Hey, um, if you get tired of watching "Charlie Brown and the
Initiator (Initiating
great pumpkin" alone, I could... come over and keep you
Act)
company... in costume... or not.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent I think... I just need to head act self-defense
self
be alone tonight
Initiator ('egotiation) Hey! We could just talk.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent (FO)
Probably not head act direct refusal
Refusal process of data ((14)
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Data (15)

Transcription:

Ignacio: Hey. You want a sandwich?

Hilda: o, thanks.

Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house, in the kitchen between

Ignacio Suarez and Hilda Suarez. Ignacio Suarez is Hilda and Betty’s father. The

degree of solidarity between them is family. Suarez family is having a problem of

getting money for Ignacio to pay a lawyer to take his case, becoming a legal

citizen. Hilda comes up with an idea, but she hesitates to tell Ignacio. In the

morning, she
he comes into the kitchen in silence when Ignacio is making sandwich

and sits down.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a food offer. Ignacio offers Hilda

breakfast, but Hilda refuses it by giving a direct o,, followed by a gratitude

(thanks). She refuses his offer briefly because she is thinking of telling her idea to

him and she is able to give direct refusal because there is no distance between her

father and her. However, she also gives gratitude in order not to offend her
h

father’s feelings. The refusal sequences of Hilda’s refusal are head act (o) and

post-refusal (thanks).
). The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.
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Initiator (Initiating
Hey. You want a sandwich?
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent o, head act direct refusal
thanks
hanks. post-refusal gratitude
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (15
(15)

Data (16)

Transcription:

Sofia: Come work for my magazine. You'll have your own assistant within a year.

Betty: Oh, I-I'm not so sure about that.

Context:

The conversation takes place at the front door of Suarez family’s house, between

Betty and Sofia Reyes, in middle of baby Chutney’s photo shoot. Sofia Reyes is

the editor-in-chief
chief of M.Y.W magazine. Sofia has a higher status
us than Betty, and

Betty respects her. She notices Betty’s skill, and finds that Betty can be better than

Daniel’s assistant who brings coffee and gets lunch for Daniel. Therefore she

wants Betty to work for her.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialog


dialogues above is an opportunity offer.
offer Sofia offers

Betty a job at her magazine and ensure Betty that Betty will get her success

quickly if she works at Sofia’s magazine. Betty, however, refuses Sofia’s offer

using a pause filler (Oh


Oh), followed by a hedge (I'm not so sure about that).
that Betty
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gives Sofia the hedge because she feels she cannot leave Daniel after what he has

done for Betty. Daniel has been very kind to Betty and her family. The refusal

only has head act (Oh,


Oh, II-I'm not so sure about that) as its sequence.
uence. Sofia accepts

Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal
refus process

can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating Come work for my magazine. You'll have your own assistant
Act) within a year.
Refusal
Response Sequence Strategy
Respondent Oh
Oh, head act pause filler
I'm not so sure about head act hedge
that
that.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (16)

Data (17)

Transcription:

Alexis: Peanut?

Wilhelmina: o, thanks. The band


band-aid in the bowl putss me off a little.

Context:

The conversation takes place in a pub, at a snowy night between Alexis Meade

and Wilhelmina Slater. Alexis Meade is Bradford’s former eldest son who

changed his sex into a woman. The social distance between them is between

friends. Having returned to “Mode” as a woman, she seems to not have many

friends. Seeing this, Wilhelmina makes an effort to get closer to Alexis by inviting
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her to go to the opera. Unfortunately, a blizzard attacks on their way to the opera,

which forces them


em to stop at a pub until the blizzard stops. Having entered the

pub, they sit at the bar. Alexis takes some peanuts and eats them. She also offers

the peanuts to Wilhelmina.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a food offer. Wilhelmina refuses

Alexis’s offer by giving a direct o, followed by a gratitude (thanks) and an

explanation (The
The band
band-aid in the bowl puts me off a little). Wilhelmina gives the

gratitude and explanation after the direct refusal in order not to offend Alexis’s

feelings. The refusal sequences are head act (o) and post-refusal
refusal (thanks. The

band-aid
aid in the bowl puts me off a little
little). The refusal process can be seen in the

following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Peanut?
Act)
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
o, head act direct refusal
Respondent thanks
hanks. post-refusal gratitude
The band
band-aid in the
bowl puts me off a post-refusal explanation
little
little.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (17)
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Data (18)

Transcription:

Joel: Can I buy you a cocktai


cocktail?

Alexis: Um, I won't be staying very long. My friend has tickets to the opera.

Joel: How about one more game before you leave?

Alexis: All right.

Context:

The conversation takes place in a pub, between Joel and Alexis. Alexis knows

Joel from the pub when she and Wilhelmina are waiting for the blizzard to stop.

Since they have just known each other and they do not know whose status is

higher,, the social distance between them is between friends


friends. Joel seems to hit on

Alexis and Alexis seems to respond


respond.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a drink offer.. Joel offers to buy

Alexis a cocktail, but she refuses. Alexis refuses Joel’s offer to buy her a drink

using a pause filler (Um), followed by a self-defense (II won't be staying very

long) and an explanation (My friend has tickets to the opera). Alexis gives the

strategies because she actually wants Joel to buy her a drink, but she is going to

leave as soon as the blizzard stops. Therefore, she uses the self-defense
self and

explanation to ensuree Joel that she cannot stay long. The refusal sequences here
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are head act (Um, long) and post-refusal


Um, I won't be staying very long refusal (My friend has

tickets to the opera).

However, Alexis’s refusal is not the final outcome. Joel negotiates with her by

inviting her
er to play one more game of shoot
shoot-the-hoop after being refused to buy

her a drink. Joel invites her to play because playing shoot


shoot-the-hoop
hoop will not take

long. Alexis agrees to his negotiation and accepts his invitation


invitation.. Her acceptance is

the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Can I buy you a cocktail?
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Um
Um, head act pause filler
I won't be staying
Respondent head act self-defense
self
very long
long.
My friend ha
has tickets
post-refusal explanation
to the opera
opera.
Initiator (egotiation) How about one more game before you leave?
Respondent (FO) Accept: All right.
Refusal process of data (18)

Data (19)

Transcription:

Amanda: Anyway, I am here as long as you need m


me.

Alexis: I don't. Thanks. Good night.


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Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, between Alexis and Amanda. Alexis is

searching for ‘the love dungeon’, a secret room in which her father and Fey

Sommers used to use for their love affair. Amanda wants to be Alexis’s assistant,

therefore she makes efforts to get Alexis’s attention. The social distance between

them is between boss and employee and Alexis has a higher status than Amanda.

Seeing Alexis busy, Amanda approaches her and tries to get her attention by

promoting herself that she knows every little thing about what happens at “Mode”

so Alexis will make Amanda her assistant


assistant.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a favor offer. Amanda tells Alexis

that she is available for hel


help.
p. Alexis refuses Amanda’s offer using a negative

willingness (I don’t),
), followed by a gratitude (Thanks) and by letting Amanda

off the hook (Good night). Alexis refuses using the direct refusal because she is
Good night

in higher status than Amanda, but she also use


usess the gratitude in order not to offend

Amanda’s feelings. She lets Amanda off the hook because she wants to be alone.

The refusal sequences of Alexis’s refusal are head act (I don’t)) and post-refusal

(Thanks. Good night).


). Amanda accepts Alexis’s refusal, which
hich makes her refusal

the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.
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Initiator (Initiating
Anyway, I am here as long as you need me.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
I don't
don't. head act direct refusal
Respondent Thanks
Thanks. post-refusal gratitude
let the interlocutor off the
post-refusal
Good night
night. hook
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (19)

Data (20)

Transcription:

Daniel: Uh, look. I put together some money. There's $75,000. Is that

enough to forget this ever happened


happened?

Lena: This isn't about money! This is about Petra's career.

Daniel: Okay, look. We have a big ph


photo
oto shoot today with our sister

magazine, "Mode Brazil." I think I can probably get you in.

Lena: #ice try, Mr. Meade, but she is n


not
ot interested in a corner picture on page

80. It's the cover or jail.

Context:

The conversation takes place in Daniel Meade’s office, between Daniel and Lena.

Lena claims to be Petra’s mother, a young model with whom Daniel slept. She

tells Daniel that Petra


tra is only 16 years old, and threat
threats him she will put him in jail

for sleeping with an underage model unless he makes Petra May’s cover model of

Mode magazine. Even though Daniel is the editor


editor-in-chief
chief of “Mode”, he is in a

very difficult situation and Lena


na has a higher power than him. This makes Daniel
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not able to do anything. It is very hard for Daniel, since he is no longer in charge

of “Mode”. Alexis is taking responsibility of “Mode” now, and he is afraid he is

not going to be able to persuade Alexis to make Petra May’s cover model. He

comes up with a solution that may end the blackmail.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a gift offer. Daniel offers Lena a

check of $75,000 to forget everything


everything, but Lena refuses. She refuses his offer
of

using a statement of negative opinion (This isn't about money!),


), followed by a

reason (This career). She gives the strategies because she really
This is about Petra's career

wants Petra to be a professional model. The refusal sequencess here are pre-

refusal (This isn't money!) and head act (This


sn't about money! This is about Petra's career).
career

However, Lena’s refusal is not the final outcome. Daniel comes up with an

alternative option as a negotiation. Daniel offers Lena to get Petra in the photo

shoot of “Mode Brazil”. But Lena in


insists
sists that Petra be the cover model of

“Mode”. She refuses Daniel’s offer by giving a statement of positive opinion

(2ice Meade), followed by a statement of negative opinion (but she is


2ice try, Mr. Meade

80) and a threat (It's


not interested in a corner picture on page 80 It's the cover or jail).
jail

She is able to give the threat because she is in power to blackmail Daniel. The

statement of positive opinion functions as pre-refusal,, the statement of negative

opinion functions as head act of the refusal, and the threat functions
function as post-
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refusal. Lena’s refusal to Daniel’s negotiation is the Final Outcome


O of the

refusal. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating Uh, look. I put together some money. There's $75,000. Is that
Act) enough to for
forget this ever happened?
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
This isn't about statement of negative
pre-refusal
money! opinion
This is about Petra's
head act explanation
career
career.
Okay, look. We have a big photo shoot today with our sister
Initiator (egotiation)
magazine, "Mode Brazil." I think I can probably get you in.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy

Meade, pre-refusal
2ice try, Mr. Meade statement of positive
opinion
Respondent (FO) but she is not
statement of negative
interested in a corner head act
opinion
picture on page 80.

It's the cover or jail


jail. post-refusal threat
Refusal process of data (20)

3.3 Refusals of Invitations

In refusals of invitations, the writer finds that there is only one refusal that

consists of negotiation.

Data (21)

Transcription:

Hilda: Come have some flan.

Justin: I don’t want flan. I’ll get fat.


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Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house between Justin Suarez and

Hilda Suarez. Justin Suarez is Hilda’s son, therefore the social distance between
be

them is mother and son. Justin is in the living room watching telenovela and

Hilda, accompanied by her father, is in the dining room having lunch. Justin wants

to watch FashionTV, but Hilda does not allow it. She invites Justin to join them

have lunch.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation. Hilda invites Justin

to have lunch with her and Ignacio with flan, but Justin refuses it using a

statement of negative willingness which is a direct refusal (II don’t want flan)
flan

followed by an explanation (I’ll get fat). He is able to give the direct refusal

because he is very close to his mother. The refusal sequences here are head act (I

don’t want flan)) and post refusal (I’ll get fat). Hilda accepts Justin’s refusal,

which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the

following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Come have some flan.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy

Respondent flan. head act


I don’t want flan direct refusal

I’ll get fat


fat. post-refusal explanation
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (21)
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Data (22)

Transcription:

Henry: We're having a party up on 25 with human resources if you're free?

Betty: Oh. I'm, uh... well, II-I'd love to go, Henry, but...

Henry: Uh, you have a boyfriend.

Betty: Yeah. Yeah, I do.. and I really want to give this thing with Walter and me

a chance.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in the elevator between Betty Suarez and

Henry Grubstick. Henry is an accountant at “Mode” who just meets


me Betty at the

office. The degree of solidarity between them is between colleagues. He invited

Betty to have lunch with him at a sushi restaurant. When they were having lunch

there, Walter, Betty’s boyfriend, came and caught them. Betty feels guilty of what
w

she has done to Walter and wants to fix it. When she is going home from the

office, Henry comes into the elevator she is in. After the incident at the sushi

restaurant, Henry does not feel good about it. However, he starts to open a

conversation betweenn them by inviting her to go to a party.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation. Henry invites Betty

to join a party with human resources


resources,, but Betty refuses it. She rejects Henry’s

invitation using pause fillers (Oh. I'm, uh... well),


), followed by a statement of
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positive agreement ((I'd love to go, Henry, but..).


). When she is about to finish her

sentence, Henry says what she wants to say ((Uh, boyfriend Betty
Uh, you have a boyfriend).

then approves his saying ((Yeah. Yeah, I do) which is self-defense,, followed by an

explanation (and
and I really want to give this thing with Walter and me a chance).
chance

Betty refuses by giving the pause fillers and a statement of positive agreement

because she still feels guilty to both Walter and Henry. She also gives
giv Henry the

explanation in order to make Henry stop interfering her relationship with Walter.

The refusal sequences here are pre-refusal (Oh.


Oh. I'm, uh... well, I-I'd
I love to go,

Henry, but), head act (Yeah. Yeah, I do [have a boyfriend]),


), and post-refusal

(and
and I really want to give this thing with Walter and me a chance). Henry accepts
chance).

Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process

can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating We're having a party up on 225


5 with human resources if you're
Act) free?
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Oh. I'm, uh... well pre-refusal pause fillers
I'd love to go, Henry, statement of
pre-refusal
but positive agreement
Respondent I have a boyfriend head act self-defense
self
and I really want to
give this thing with
post-refusal explanation
Walter and me a
chance
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (22)
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Data (23)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: We'll talk upstairs.

Nico: #o! We'll talk now.

Context:

ion takes place in “Mode” lobby, between Wilhelmina Slater and


The conversation

Nico Slater. Nico is Wilhelmina’s daughter, who is not given much attention by

her mother. She has tried to draw her mother’s attention by shoplifting, but it

comes to no avail. She finally tri


tries
es an effort to get Wilhelmina’s attention by

calling the press to “Mode” and then she gives a speech about fashion being

violent to animals. When she is giving the speech, Wilhelmina appears wearing a

coat made of animal’s fur and tells the press that “Mo
“Mode”
de” is going to discuss the

controversy between animal rights versus fashion rights. Wilhelmina succeeded to

disperse the press.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation. When the press has

dismissed, Wilhelmina invites Ni


Nico
co to talk about it upstairs in her office. Nico

refuses it by giving a direct #o, followed by a statement of alternative (We'll

talk now). Nico refuses her mother’s invitation using a direct refusal because she

is furious at her mother that her mother nev


never
er pays attention to her. She also wants

to talk to her mother about how she feels. The refusal sequences here are head act
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(o!) and post-refusal


refusal (We'll talk now). Wilhelmina accepts Nico’s refusal, which

makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the

following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
We'll talk upstairs.
Act)
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
o! head act direct refusal

We'll talk now


now. post-refusal statement of alternative

Initiator (IR = FO) Accept


Refusal process of data (23)

Data (24)

Transcription:

hy don't you come and stay with me at the hotel?


Betty: Why

Walter: I don't wanna stay at some lame Manhattan hotel. I'm going to A.C.,

and I'm winning a dinette set.

Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house, between Betty and her

boyfriend Walter. Betty and Walter had a plan to go to Atlantic City for the

weekend, but Daniel gave Betty an assignment to stay at Soho Hotel and write a

review about the hotel. Since Betty has her he


heart
art set on writing, she is looking

forward to staying at the hotel and writing the review. Therefore, she talks to

Walter about it and asks for Walter’s permission


permission. Walter is disappointed of
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Betty’s decision and he gets upset, however, Betty comes up with a solution that

may solve his disappointment.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation. Betty gives Walter

an alternative to spend their weekend by inviting him to stay with her at the hotel,

but Walter refuses it. He refu


refuses
ses Betty’s invitation using a direct refusal

statement of negative willingness (II don't wanna stay at some lame Manhattan

hotel),
), followed by an explanation (I'm
I'm going to A.C., and I'm winning a dinette

set). Walter gives Betty the direct refusal because he is very upset that his plan to

spend a weekend with Betty in Atlantic City fails. He also gives the explanation to

state that he is still going to go to Atlantic City with or without Betty. The refusal

sequences here are head act (I don't wanna stay at some lame Manhattan hotel)
hotel

and post-refusal (I'm


I'm going to A.C., and I'm winning a dinette set).
set Betty accepts

Walter’s refusal, which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process

can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Why don't you come and stay with me at the hotel?
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
I don't wanna stay at
some lame head act direct refusal
Respondent Manhattan hotel
hotel.
I'm going to A.C.,
and I'm winning a post-refusal explanation
dinette set
set.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (24)
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Data (25)

Transcription:

Ignacio: I'm cooking. Stay for breakfast.

Daniel: Oh, I'm not much of a breakfast person. I should probably just head

home.

Ignacio: o, no, no, no, no, no. Betty told me to feed
d and water you. Stay for

coffee. You look like hell. Come on.

Context:

The conversation takes place in Suarez family’s house, in the morning on

Thanksgiving holiday between Ignacio Suarez and Daniel Meade. Ignacio is

Betty’s father. Daniel slept in Suare


Suarez’s
z’s house because he was drunk after drinking

a lot of alcohol last night. Betty goes to the office and she tells her father, Ignacio,

to keep an eye on Daniel. When Suarez family is having breakfast in the dining

room, Daniel tries to sneak out. Ignacio ssees him and calls him. Since Daniel has

just met Ignacio, the social distance between them is quite far. There is a gap

between them. When Daniel is at the front door, Ignacio approaches to invite him

to stay for breakfast.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation.. Ignacio invites

Daniel to stay for breakfast with his family, but Daniel refuses it using a pause

filler (Oh),
), followed by a statement of principle (I'm
I'm not much of a breakfast
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person) and a statement of alternati


alternative (II should probably just head home).
home

Daniel gives the strategies because he does not want to trouble Ignacio, not after

he troubled Betty for being sick and drunk. The refusal sequences here are head

act (Oh,
Oh, I'm not much of a breakfast person
person) and post-refusal (II should probably

just head home). However, Ignacio insist that Daniel stay by making a

negotiation (o,
o, no, no, no, no, no. Betty told me to feed and water you. Stay for

coffee. You look like hell. Come on


on).
). Ignacio makes the negotiation because he

notices that Daniel is really sick and he needs to eat. Daniel finally accepts

Ignacio’s negotiation because he is having a hangover and he cannot do anything.

This is the Final Outcome


utcome from Ignacio’s invitation. The refusal process can be

seen in the following


ollowing figure.

Initiator (Initiating
I'm cooking. Stay for breakfast.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Oh, head act pause filler

Respondent I'm not much of a head act statement of principle


breakfast person
person.
I should probably statement of
post-refusal
just head hhome. alternative
Initiator o, no, no, no, no, no. Betty told me to feed and water you. Stay
(&egotiation) for coffee. You look like hell. Come on.
Respondent (FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (25)
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Data (26)

Transcription:

Amanda: Hey, I've been looking for you. Look what I just scored. ew Prada

store's opening tonight, and Steve Aoki's deejaying. Meet up for drinks

beforehand?

Marc: Oh, I can't. I have plans.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, during wo


work
rk between Amanda Tanen

and Marc St. James. They are best friends who have many similar interests. There

is no social distance between them whatsoever since they are best friends.

Amanda is at her receptionist desk when Marc approaches. She stops him to invite
in

him to a party.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation.. Amanda invites

Marc to go to new Prada store’s opening with her, but Marc rejects it by giving a

pause filler (Oh),


), followed by a direct refusal statement of negative
gative ability (I

can't) and an explanation (I have plans). Marc gives the direct refusal because he

knows it will not offend Amanda, however, he adds the explanation in order to

ensure Amanda that he really cannot go with her. The refusal sequences here are
a

head act (Oh,


Oh, I can't
can't) and post-refusal (I have plans). Amanda accepts Marc’s
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refusal, which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be

seen in the following figure.

Hey, I've been looking for you. Look w


what
hat I just scored. ew
Initiator (Initiating
Prada store's opening tonight, and Steve Aoki's deejaying. Meet
Act)
up for drinks beforehand?
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Oh
Oh, head act pause filler
I can't
can't. head act direct refusal
I have plans
plans. post-refusal explanation
ex
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (26)

Data (27)

Transcription:

Christina: Come on, let's go somewhere else.

Betty: !o, no, no, no, no. !o, I wanna stay, Christina, I do. I just... I need to tell

him one thing.

Context:

The conversation takes place at a club, between Christina McKinney and Betty

who are best friends. Christina invites Betty to go to a club in order to let Betty go

from her work. Christina thinks that Betty is so obsessed with Daniel and spends

her time focusing


ng on Daniel that she forgets to think about herself. At the club,

Betty sees Daniel partying with models. She also thinks that she sees Quincy

Combs, a journalist who wants to write a book about the Meades inside-out.
inside Betty
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wants to protect Daniel by tell


telling him about Quincy. Christina approaches Betty

and sees Daniel. Christina sees Betty seeing Daniel, she then asks Betty to go.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation.. Christina invites

Betty to go someplace else so tha


thatt Betty will not think about Daniel. However,

Betty refuses Christina’s invitation by giving her a direct !o,, followed by a self-

defense (II wanna stay, Christina, I do


do) and an explanation (II just... I need to tell

him one thing). Betty gives the direct ref


refusal
usal because she and Christina do not

have social distance, she also gives the self


self-defense
defense and explanation in order not

to make Christina worried. The refusal sequences here are head act (o, no, no,

no, no) and post refusal (o, I wanna stay, Christina, I do. I just... I need to tell

him one thing). Christina accepts Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal the

Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Come on, let's go somewhere else.
Act)
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
o, no, no, no, no
no. head act direct refusal
Respondent I wanna stay, post-refusal self-defense
self
Christina, I do
do.
I just... I need to tell post-refusal explanation
him one thing
thing.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept (IR)
Refusal process of data (27)
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Data (28)

Transcription:

Rodrigo: After the shoot, perhaps you will join me for dinner? There's this little

restaurant I know, and I would love to take you there.

Alexis: I'm afraid I have a lot of work to do. But thank you for the invitation.
invitat

Context:

The conversation takes place “Mode” photo studio, between Rodrigo and Alexis.

Rodrigo is a photographer from “Mode Brazil”. He is having a photo shoot and

Alexis is supervising the photo shoot. They both just meet in the studio. The

social distance between them is between working partners. They get involved in a

conversation. Having talked, Rodrigo invites her to go on a date with him.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation.. Rodrigo invites

Alexis to go out with him by taking her to dinner after the shoot, but Alexis

refuses it. She uses an explanation (I'm


I'm afraid I have a lot of work to do),
do

followed by a gratitude (But thank you for the invitation).


). She gives the

explanation because she does not want to of


offend
fend Rodrigo’s feeling. She also uses

the gratitude to appreciate the invitation. The explanation Alexis uses functions as

head act and the gratitude functions as post-refusal. Rodrigo accepts Alexis’s

refusal, which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. Thee refusal process can be

seen in the following figure.


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Initiator (Initiating After the shoot, perhaps you will join me for dinner? There's this
Act) little restaurant I know, and I would love to take you there.
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
I'm afraid I have a head act explanation
Respondent
lot of work to do
do.
But thank you for the post-refusal gratitude
invitation
invitation.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (28
(28)

Data (29)

Transcription:

Amanda: You're gonna be a Wilhelmina Slater di


discovery,
scovery, and because I hooked

you up, you have to make out with me in the ladies' room.

Tavares: !o! I'm supposed to be a big 'mo. I tried being straight in this

business, and it doesn't work.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, between Tav


Tavares
ares and Amanda. Tavares

is Amanda’s designer boyfriend who pretends to be gay. They hide their

relationship from everyone. They are lovers, so there is no social distance between

them whatsoever. Amanda is the one who scheduled Tavares to meet Wilhelmina.

Tavares has just met Wilhelmina to show some of his designs. After Wilhelmina

says that she is going to introduce Tavares to her designer friends, she leaves

Tavares and Amanda alone. Being alone in a room, Amanda wants to make out

with Tavares.
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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation.. Amanda invites

Tavares to make out with her in the ladies’ room, but he refuses. Tavares refuses

Amanda’s invitation by giving her a direct !o, followed by a self-defense


self (I'm

supposed to bee a big 'mo


'mo) and an explanation (II tried being straight in this

business, and it doesn't work


work). He gives the direct refusal because he is afraid

someone will notice, and he is able to give the direct refusal because there is no

distance between Amanda and him. He also uses the self-defense


defense and the

explanation to emphasize Amanda that they cannot show their relationship in

front of the public, including making out in public’s room. The refusal sequences

of Tavares’s refusal are head act (o!) and post-refusal (I'm


I'm supposed to be a big

'mo. I tried being straight in this business, and it doesn't work).


work Amanda

understands and accepts Tavares’s refusal, which makes his refusal the Final

Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating You're gonna be a Wilhelmina Slater discovery, and because I


Act) hooked you up, you have to make out with me in the ladies' room.
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
o! head act direct refusal
I'm supposed to be a post-refusal self-defense
self
Respondent
big 'mo
'mo.
I tried being straight
in this business, and post-refusal explanation
it doesn't work.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (29
(29)
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Data (30)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: You just have to get out in the world again. I'm gonna take you to a

party tomorrow, downtown.

Bradford: Party? Oh, I don't know.

Context:

The conversation takes place at Wilhelmina’s apartment between Bradford Meade

and Wilhelmina. Wilhelmina is Bradford’s fiance


fiance,, therefore there is no social

distance
stance between them whatsoever
whatsoever.. Bradford is telling Wilhelmina that he does

not feel like he is the same Brad as he was years ago when he was still married to

Claire Meade. He was wild and now he feels like he is getting old. Wilhelmina

denies what Bradfordd thinks and she thinks that he should go out more.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a real invitation. Wilhelmina comes

up with a solution to make Bradford feel young again by inviting him to a party

downtown tomorrow. However, Brad


Bradford
ford refuses her invitation. He refuses the

invitation using a repetition (Party?), followed by a pause filler (Oh) and a

hedge (I don't know).


). Bradford gives the strategies because he feels that it is not

appropriate for him to go to parties at his age. The


he refusal sequences of the refusal

are pre-refusal (Party?


Party?) and head act (Oh, know Wilhelmina
Oh, I don't know).
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understands and accepts Bradford’s refusal, which makes his refusal the Final

Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating You just have to get out in the world again. I'm gonna take you to
Act) a party tomorrow, downtown.
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Party? pre-refusal repetition
Oh, head act pause filler
I don't know. head act hedge
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (30)

3.4 Refusals of Suggestions

The writer here provides the data analyses of refusals of suggestions.

There is no negotiation found in refusals of suggestions.

Data (31)

Transcription:

Daniel: You know,


ow, I could say I was mugged. I could get my golf club. You could

hit me across the face. Break my nose.

Betty: Daniel, there are a lot of things I'm willing to do for this job. That is not

one of them.
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Context:

The conversation takes place in Queens, in Daniel’s car between Daniel and

Betty. The degree of solidarity between them is between friends. They just get

back from Gina Gambarro’s house, Betty’s neighbor. When Betty was at the

office, she noticed that Daniel forgot to bring the book of “Mode”, the mock-up of

the entire magazine,, back with him. In order to keep the book safe, Betty decided

to bring it back home with her. At home, when Betty was looking at the book, her

neighbor, Gina Gambarro, came to collect money from Betty because Betty had

broken her plasma. Gina saw the book and stole it when everyone was asleep. In

the morning, knowing that the book is gone, Betty calls Daniel to tell that Gina

Gambarro has it and she wants to trade the book for an amount of money. When

Daniel and Betty come to Gina’s house, the book has already been taken by

someone else and Gina has already installed her new plasma. In bare hands,

Daniel and Betty go back to “Mode”. In the car, they are figuring out how to tell

Bradford that the book is lost.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion Daniel


olicited suggestion.

comes up with an idea to tell Bradford. But Betty refuses it by giving a statement

of principle (Daniel,
Daniel, there are a lot of things I'm willing to do for this job),
job

followed by a direct
rect refusal statement of negative willingness (That
That is not one of

them). She gives the strategies because she thinks that Daniel’s suggestion is way

out of line. The refusal sequences here are pre-refusal (Daniel,


Daniel, there are a lot of
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job) and head act (That


things I'm willing to do for this job them Daniel
That is not one of them).

accepts Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal

process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating You know, I could say I was mugged. I ccould


ould get my golf club.
Act) You could hit me across the face. Break my nose.
Respondent Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Daniel, there are a
lot of things I'm statement of
pre-refusal
willing to do for this principle
job.
That is not one of head act direct refusal
them.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (31)

Data (32)

Transcription:

Betty: So just apologize.

Daniel: Ah, I can't just apologize. I mean, it's gotta be smarter. You know,

skillful.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Daniel’s office between Daniel and

Betty. The degree of solidarity between them is between friends, even though

Daniel is Betty’s boss. Daniel tells Betty that he made a mistake to Sofia Reyes,

the editor-in-chief
chief of M.Y.W magazine under Mea
Meade
de Publication, at the editor

meeting. He thought Sofia was a waitress because he saw her serving coffee to
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one of the editors. He feels awful and wants to make up to her. He asks Betty for

her advice.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a solicited suggestion.


suggestion Betty suggests

that Daniel apologize to Sofia, but Daniel refuses it. He rejects Betty’s suggestion

using a pause filler (Ah), followed by a direct refusal statement of negative

willingness (II can't just apologize


apologize) and an explanation (II mean, it's gotta be

skillful). He gives the strategies because he thinks he cannot


smarter. You know, skillful

simply apologize after what he has done to Sofia, and also because he does not

want to look stupid when he apologizes to Sofia. The refusal sequences


sequen of

Daniel’s refusal are head act (Ah, I can't just apologize)) and post-refusal (I

skillful). Betty accepts Daniel’s refusal,


mean, it's gotta be smarter. You know, skillful

which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the

following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
So just apologize.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Ah, head act pause filler
I can't just apologize. head act direct refusal
Respondent
I mean, it's gotta be
smarter. You know, post-refusal explanation
exp
skillful.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (32)
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Data (33)

Transcription:

Betty: You have to entertain Oshi tomorrow night. Maybe you should just tell your

father.

Daniel: What, and look fiscally irresponsible? If I tell dad that's all I have left,

he'll make Wilhelmina publisher so fast, it'll make your head spin, and it'd be

like handing the magazine over to her. &o.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Daniel’s office between Daniel and

Betty. The degree of solidarit


solidarity between them is between friends. Betty got a job to

write Daniel’s financial report and give it to the accounting department. On the

report, Betty wrote miscellaneous expenses for $25,000. The accounting

department then gave the report to Bradford. Havin


Having
g read the report, Bradford

called Daniel to his office. He was not happy with how careless Daniel was in

spending the company’s money, therefore he decided to stop giving him money

temporarily and told Daniel to use his own money. If Daniel could prove that
th he is

able to manage his expenses, Bradford promised to re


re-supply
supply him. On the other

hand, if Daniel could not do it, Bradford would handle the magazine to

Wilhelmina. Unfortunately, Daniel only has $327 on his account. Not to mention,

he is meeting Oshi,, one of the biggest advertisers for “Mode”, he must entertain

Oshi and take him to dinner. In the office, Daniel and Betty are discussing about

how to solve the money problem.


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Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggesti Betty

suggests that Daniel tell his father the truth, that he only has $327 left on his

account, yet Daniel refuses. He refuses Betty’s suggestion using a statement of

negative feeling (What,


What, and look fiscally irresponsible? ), followed by an
irresponsible?),

explanation (If
If I tell dad that's all I have left, he'll make Wilhelmina publisher so

fast, it'll make your head spin, and it'd be like handing the magazine over to her)
her

and a direct &o. He gives the strategies because he is so confused and upset that

he overthinks things. He knows that all this time Wilhelmina has been trying to

take over his position but he manages to maintain the position. He thinks that if

Wilhelmina gets to be the publisher, he will lose everything he has struggled. His

statement of negative fee


feeling and explanation are pre-refusal,, and his direct )o is

the head act of the refusal. Betty accepts Daniel’s refusal, which makes it the

Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating You have to entert


entertain
ain Oshi tomorrow night. Maybe you should
Act) just tell your father.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
What, and look
statement of
fiscally pre-refusal
negative feeling
irresponsible?
If I tell dad that's all
I have left, he'll make
Respondent Wilhelmina publisher
so fast, it'll make
pre-refusal explanation
your head spin, and
it'd be like handing
the magazine over to
her.
)o
)o. head act direct refusal
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (33)
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Data (34)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: Don't be afraid of office politics. Do favors for the right people. You

just might get rewarded at the end. Unfortunately, that is the cruel reality in this

business.

Christina: Okay, you can stop right there. I know exactly how you work,

Wilhelmina. Well, I'd rat


rather make it on my own. Thanks.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in the closet between Wilhelmina and

Christina McKinney during the preparation for the fashion week. Christina is a

designer at “Mode” and Wilhelmina is the creative director at “Mode”.

Wilhelmina is in a higher status than Christina. Christina has tried several times to

get in the fashion week to show her designs, but she is still not given the chance.

Wilhelmina visits her in the closet to tell Christina that she will put Christina
Ch in

the fashion week show, but she seems to have something on her mind.

Wilhelmina knows that Christina will not get tempted so easily, therefore she

gives a suggestion to Christina about how to be successful at “Mode”.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion

Wilhelmina suggests Christin about how to be successful at “Mode”, but Christina

refuses. Christina refuses Wilhelmina’s suggestion by letting Wilhelmina off the


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hook (Okay, there), followed by an explanation (I know


Okay, you can stop right there

Wilhelmina), a pause filler (Well),


exactly how you work, Wilhelmina ), a statement of

alternative (I'd own), and a gratitude (Thanks


I'd rather make it on my own Thanks). She gives

the strategies because she does not want to help Wilhelmina execute her
h ‘evil’

plan in order to get into the fashion week show. The refusal sequences are pre-

refusal (Okay,
Okay, you can stop right there. I know exactly how you work,

Wilhelmina), head act (Well, I'd rather make it on my own),


), and post-refusal

(Thanks). Wilhelmina accepts Christina’s refusal, which makes it the Final

Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Don't be afraid of office politics. Do favors for the right people.


Initiator (Initiating
You just might get rewarded at the end
end.. Unfortunately, that is the
Act)
cruel reality in this business.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Okay, you can stop let the interlocutor
pre-refusal
right there
there. off the hook
I know exactly how
you work, pre-refusal explanation
Respondent Wilhelmina
Wilhelmina.
Well
Well, head act pause filler
I'd rather make it statement of
head act
on my own
own. alternative
Thanks
Thanks. post-refusal gratitude
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (34)
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Data (35)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: Well, what am I supposed to do till then?

Alexis: You wait. You bide your time a little longer.

Wilhelmina: I am not going back to being Daniel's creative director. I worked

too hard to get to the top.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, between Wilhelmina and Alexis Meade.
M

The degree of solidarity between them is between partners. Alexis has just come

back to Meade Publication after being considered dead for two years. She and

Wilhelmina try to take over “Mode”. Having shocked the entire personnel at

“Mode” by declaringg Wilhelmina the new editor


editor-in-chief,
chief, Alexis has to postpone

taking over “Mode” due to Bradford’s will. The will says that when Bradford is

dismissed or dead, Meade Publication will be inherited to his first son.

Unfortunately, Alexis is no longer a son, sshe


he changed her sex into a woman which

makes her Bradford’s daughter. Alexis tells Wilhelmina that she cannot be

promoted to editor-in--chief
chief just yet. Bradford’s lawyer is taking care of the case.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is a solicited suggestion Having heard
licited suggestion.

the news, Wilhelmina asks Alexis what she should do until the case is taken care

of. Alexis suggests that she wait until then, but she refuses it by giving a direct
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refusal statement of negative willingness (I am not going back to being Daniel's

), followed by an explanation (II worked too hard to get to the


creative director),

top). She gives the strategies because she is so excited about becoming the editor-
editor

in-chief
chief of “Mode” that she does not want it to be postponed. Wilhelmina’s

statement of negative willingness is the head act of the refusal, and the

explanation is post-refusal
refusal. Alexis accepts Wilhemina’s refusal, which makes her

refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following

figure.

Initiator (Initiating
You wait. You bide your time a little longer.
Act)
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
I am not going back
Respondent to being Daniel's head act direct refusal
creative director.
I worked too hard to post-refusal explanation
explanat
get to the top.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (35)

Data (36)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: I wanna know every de


detail
tail that's going on down there.

Marc: Well, why don't you just come down here?

Wilhelmina: I can't just stroll back in. I made a drama


dramatic exit.
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Context:

The conversation takes place on the phone, between Marc and Wilhelmina.

Wilhelmina is Marc’s boss, so she has a higher status than him. Marc is at

“Mode”, and Wilhelmina is back at her apartment after making a dramatic exit

due to her dissapointment of Alexis. Alexis tells her to wait until Bradford’s will

is taken care of, then she can be the new editor


editor-in-chief,
chief, but she refuses and goes

home. Wanting to know what happens at “Mode”, she calls Marc.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion Marc

suggests that Wilhelmina come to the office if she would like to know what is

going on down there, but she refuses. Wilhelmina refuses Marc’s suggestion to

come down to “Mode” by giving a direct refusal statement


tatement of negative

willingness (II can't just stroll back in


in), followed by an explanation (I made a

dramatic exit). She gives the strategies because she is too proud to go back to the

office after her dramatic exit. Her statement of negative willingness is


i the head

act of the refusal, and her explanation is the post-refusal.. Marc accepts

Wilhelmina’s refusal, which makes it the Final Outcome. The refusal process can

be seen in the following figure.


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Initiator (Initiating
Well, why don't you just co
come down here?
Act)
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
I can't just stroll
Respondent head act direct refusal
back in
in.
I made a dramatic
post-refusal explanation
exit
exit.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (36)

Data (37)

Transcription:

Tyler: You gotta put your brakes on, man. Face your life.

Daniel: Can I just face it tomorrow? I have a really hot date tonight.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Daniel’s office between Daniel and

Tyler. Tyler is a psychologist whom Betty met from human resource department.

Tyler and Daniel have just met, and since Tyler is a psychologist whom Daniel

consult, the social distance between them between a psychologist and a client.

Betty wants him to solve Daniel’s problem, which is an addicti


addiction
on to sex. Having

met Daniel, Tyler concludes that Daniel’s addiction to sex is a get away from his

problem.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion Tyler

suggests Daniel to face his problem in order to stop his aaddiction.


ddiction. However,
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Daniel refuses it by giving a postponement (Can


Can I just face it tomorrow?),
tomorrow?

followed by an explanation (I have a really hot date tonight).


). He gives the

postponement and explanation because he seems to want to avoid consulting

Tyler about his life. The refusal sequences here are head act (Can
Can I just face it

tomorrow?) and post


post-refusal (I have a really hot date tonight).
). Tyler accepts

Daniel’s refusal, which makes his refusal the Final Outcome. The refusal process

can be seen in the followin


following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
You gotta put your brakes on, man. Face your life.
Act)
Refusal
Response Strategy
Sequence
Can I just face it head act postponement
Respondent
tomorrow?
I have a really hot post-refusal explanation
date tonight.
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (37)

Data (38)

Transcription:

Henry: Maybe we should just go play darts instead. Much safer.

Betty: o, no, no, no, no. I have to do this.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “The Middle Ages” re


restaurant,
staurant, on the

Administrative Professionals Day between Betty and Henry. The degree of

solidarity between them is between colleagues. All “Mode” employees are


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celebrating the Administrative Professionals Day


Day.. At the restaurant, there is a

challenge to tame
me the jousting steed. Whoever succeeds in overcoming the

challenge will get $1,000 as the reward. Betty is interested in taking the challenge

because her family is in desperate need of money. They need some money to send

Ignacio back to Mexico in order to become a legal citizen of the USA. When

Betty is looking at the steed, Henry approaches and knows what Betty has in

mind.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion Henry

notices that Betty is going to tame the jou


jousting
sting steed and he suggests to go play

something else, but Betty refuses it. She refuses by giving a direct o, followed

by a self-defense (II have to do this


this). She gives the direct refusal because she

thinks that taming the jousting steed is the only optio


optionn she has to gain money for

her father and because there is no social distance between Henry and her. She also

gives the self-defense


defense because she is sure she is going to win the challenge. The

refusal sequences here are head act (%o, no, no, no, no) and post
st-refusal (I have

to do this). Henry accepts Betty’s refusal, which makes her refusal the Final

Outcome. The refusal process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating
Maybe we should just go play darts instead. Much safer.
Act)
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent %o, no, no, no, no. head act direct refusal
I have to do this. post-refusal self-defense
self
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (3
(3)
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Data (39)

Transcription:

Wilhelmina: %ow, let's talk about the fe


fearless
arless women feature. We've managed to

secure... Jordan Dunn


Dunn.

Alexis: Jordan Dunn? o. o,no,no,no. That's not a very good idea.

Wilhemina: That's a fabulous idea. She hang


hang-glides, she ice-climbs,
climbs, she swam the

English channel in a leather bikini,we've aalready have the title-- "the Dare Devil

Wears Prada".

Alexis: I said "O"! You know what? This meeting is done.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in the meeting room between

Wilhelmina and Alexis. The whole departments are having a creative


creati meeting for

the next issue of “Mode”. Alexis is now in charge of “Mode”, and Wilhelmina is

still the creative director. Therefore, Alexis is higher in status than Wilhelmina. In

the meeting, Wilhelmina has an idea to put Jordan Dunn as the fearless woman
woma

feature. Jordan Dunn is Alexis’s ex


ex-girlfriend
girlfriend when she was a man.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion

Wilhelmina suggests to put Jordan Dunn as the fearless woman feature, but Alexis

refuses it. She refuses Wilhelmina’s idea using a repetition (Jordan


Jordan Dunn?),
Dunn?

followed by a direct o and a statement of negative opinion (That's


That's not a very
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good idea). She gives the stretegies because she is surprised and it seems that she

does not want to meet Jordan Dunn after she becomes a woman. The refusal

sequences here are pre


pre-refusal (Jordan Dunn?), head act (%o. %o,no,no,no and
%o. %o,no,no,no),

post-refusal (That's
That's not a very good idea
idea).

However, this is not the Final O


Outcome
utcome of the refusal because Wilhelmina

negotiates it by tellin
tellingg Alexis the things that Jordan Dunn has done (That's
( a

fabulous idea. She hang


hang-glides, she ice-climbs,
climbs, she swam the English channel in a

leather bikini,we've already have the title Prada" Still,


title-- "the Dare Devil Wears Prada").

Alexis refuses the idea. She refus


refuses it using a direct refusal (I said "%O"!),

followed by letting everyone in the meeting room off the hook (You know

done). She gives the strategies because she is upset about


what? This meeting is done

the idea to put Jordan Dunn. She is able to give the direc
directt refusal and dismiss the

meeting because she has the power to do it. The refusal sequences are head act (I

said "%O"!) and post


post-refusal (You done This is the
You know what? This meeting is done).

Final Outcome
utcome of the refusal. The refusal process can be seen in the following

figure.
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Initiator (Initiating %ow, let's talk about the fearless women feature. We've managed
Act) to secure... Jordan Dunn.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Jordan Dunn? pre-refusal repetition
Respondent %o. %o,no,no,no. head act direct refusal
That's not a very statement of negative
post-refusal
good idea. opinion
Initiator
()egotiation) That's a fabulous idea. She hang
hang-glides,
glides, she ice-climbs,
ice she
swam the English channel in a leather bikini,we've already have
the title
title-- "the Dare Devil Wears Prada".

Response Refusal Sequence Strategy


I said "%O"! head act direct refusal
Respondent (FO) You know what?
let the interlocutor
This meeting is post-refusal
off the hook
done.
Refusal process of data ((39)

Data (40)

Transcription:

Fabia: I suppose you're going to have to change your wedding date. Or do a

quickie in Las Vegas.

Wilhelmina: Wilhelmina Slater does not do Vegas.

Context:

The conversation takes place at “Mode”, in Wilhelmina’s office between

Wilhelmina and Fab


Fabia. Wilhelmina and Fabia are both
h business partners and

rivals. Wilhelmina is getting married to Bradford soon and so is Fabia. Their

wedding date is the same. To make it even worse, they book the same singer and

designer. Fabia comes to Wilhelmina’s offic


officee to tell that she will not give the
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singer and the designer to Wilhelmina. This makes Wilhelmina confused because

she has to find a new singer and designer as soon as possible, otherwise the

wedding will be incomplete. Fabia comes up with a suggestion for Wilhelmina.

Analysis:

The Initiating Act of the dialogues above is an unsolicited suggestion.


suggestion Fabia

suggests Wilhelmina to either change the wedding date or do the wedding in Las

Vegas,, but Wilhelmina refuses it


it. Wilhelmina rejects her suggestion by giving
giv a

statement of principle (Wilhelmina Slater does not do Vegas).


). She gives the

statement of principle because she is known as a fashion


fashion-diva who is considered

to have a high taste,, while getting married quickly in Las Vegas is for either low-

class peoplee or drunks. There is only head act in Wilhelmina’s refusal. Fabia

accepts Wilhelmina’s refusal, which makes it the Final Outcome. The refusal

process can be seen in the following figure.

Initiator (Initiating I suppose you're going to have to change your wedding date. Or
Act) do a quickie in Las Vegas.
Response Refusal Sequence Strategy
Respondent Wilhelmina Slater statement of
head act
does not do Vegas. principle
Initiator (IR = FO) Accept
Refusal process of data (40)
CHAPTER IV

COCLUSIO
COCLUSIOS AD SUGGESTIOS

4.1 Conclusions

Having analyzed the data of refusal strategies in American English speech,

the writer comes up with some conclusions:

1. Based on the result


results of the obtained data regarding the refusal strategies in

English speech
speech, the writer concludes that the
he types of the Initiating Act

that trigger the act of refusals are requests, offers, invitations, and

suggestion. In requests,, it is found that there are six data of requests for

acceptance/agreement/permission; three data of requests for favor; and one

data of request for action. There is no data of request of information. In

offers,, there are four data of favor offer and food/drink offer; and one data

of gift offer and opportunity offer. In invitations,, all data are real

invitations. In suggestions,, there are eight data of unsolicited suggestions

and two data of solicited suggestions.

2. The mostly used strategies are direct refusals and explanations. When

direct refusals are used, most of them are followed by explanations. In

requests,, seven out of ten data show indirect strategies are used
refusing requests

as the head acts. Five of ten refusals given by the speakers consist of

explanations as one of the strategies in a refusal sequence. However, six of

ten data of ref


refusals of offers show that the refusers use direct refusals,

four of them followed by gratitudes. Only three out of ten data consist of

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negotiations. Similar to offers, six of ten data of refusals of invitations

show that the refusers use direct refusals as their strategies, four of them

are followed by explanations. Surprisingly, in refusals of suggestions,


suggestions

seven out of ten data show that the characters in Ugly Betty serials use

direct refusals.

4. All characters in Ugly Betty serials mostly use more than one refusal

strategies in one refusal, which make refusal sequences. Although there are

some with pre


pre-refusals,, most of the refusal sequences consist of head acts

and post-refusals
refusals.

5. In the process of refusals, it can be concluded that the initiators accept the
th

respondents’ refusals which make the Initial Response the Final Outcome.

Rarely do they make negotiations after being refused.

This study still has some inadequacies. Hopefully, in the future the writer

can conduct a study from the same field and the source of the data is taken from

English speakers’ real life.

4.2 Suggestions

Having studied refusal strategies in English speech, the writer comes up

with some suggestions:

1. There are many studies on refusals which have been done before this

study. However, each of the study has some inadequacies. Therefore, the

writer thinks that linguistic researchers had better conduct new studies on
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refusals or continue the previous studies from different perspectives,

different languages,
guages, and different cultures.

2. It is better for linguistic researchers to conduct more studies on pragmatics,

because not all aspects of pragmatics have been studied.


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THE WRITER’S BIOGRAPHY

She was born in Bandung, on 17 July, 1986. She is the fourth child of

five children.

In 1990 – 1991, she studied at TK Angkasa I Lanud Sulaiman Bandung.

In 1991 – 1997, she studied at SD Negeri Angkasa II Lanud Sulaiman Bandung. In

1997 – 2000, she studied at SLTP Negeri 3 Bandung.

In 2000 – 2001, she studied at SM


SMU Negeri 17 Bandung. In 2001, she

moved to SMU Negeri 4 Bandung and finished her study in 2003.

In 2003 – 2007
2007, she studied at STBA YAPARI – ABA Bandung

majoring
ng English Department and Tourism as the minor studies. In 2007 – 2008, she

worked as both part-time


time lecturer at Politeknik Pos Indonesia and English teacher at

Harvard English School and Cinderella School of English for Children.

In 2008 – now, she is taking


ing graduate program at Universitas

Padjadjaran, majoring English linguistics. During her study, in 2009 – 2010, she

worked as an English teacher at Education Laboratory.

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APPEDICES

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DATA FIDIGS

Classification of
o. Transcriptions
Refusal
1 Man: Betty Suarez?

Betty: Hi! Um, that's me. Uh, I have a hard


copy of my resume if you need it. Should I
follow you?

Man: Uh actually.. there's been a mistake.

Betty: A mistake?

Man: All the entry level positions we've


been hiring for? They've been filled. I'm
sorry.

Betty: Um, sir? While you've got me here, I


thought I could tell you a little about
myself. Magazines are my passions, ever
since I was a little ki
kid. And I can't imagine
a more amazing place to start my career Request
than Meade publications. I know most of
your magazines inside out, I try to devour
as much as I can.

Man: Clearly.

Betty: Also, I've learnt so much through


them, stuff so beyond my world, liklike who
the up-and-comers
comers are on the London art
scene, or what the political in Darfur are
all about or which is considered the most
romantic in the world. And I have tons of
ideas, I'm always jotting stuff down on the
subway, but I'm getting ahead of myself
myself,
sir. All I really want is a chance, any
position or publication
publication-

Man: Goodbye!
2 Justin: I hate telenovelas. I want to watch
Fashion TV. Request
Hilda: Justin,
ustin, you can watch Fasion TV
later when your Aunt Betty is babysitting
ok?
3 Hilda: Come have some flan.
Invitation
Justin: I don’t want flan. I’ll get fat.
4 Betty: Um, sorry to interrupt, but can I get
you lunch?
Offer
Daniel: 2o, no. But you go ahead, thanks.
5 Betty: Daniel, I was wondering, if you had
a quick moment..

Daniel: Do I look like I have a quick Request


moment?

Betty: 2o. So sorry.


6 Daniel: I really want you to come back, be
my assistant. I promise you, things will be
different.
Request
Betty: I, um. Daniel, I really have to think
about that.
7 Steve: Anyway,
yway, I was thinking I'd break
into the place today, go through, see if
there's
anything incriminating. Offer
Bradford: I'll do it. I have a key. Besides,
you don't know what's really incriminating.
8 Betty: Oh, wow. The book. I'll give it to
him.
Offer
Marc: 2o, no. This is too important. I'll
give it to him directly.
9 Daniel: You know, I could say I was
mugged. I could get my golf club. You
could hit me across the face. Break my
nose. Suggestion
Betty: Daniel, there are a lot of things I'm
willing to do for thi
this job. That is not one of
them.
10 Henry: We're having a party up on 25 with
human resources if you're free?
Invitation
Betty: Oh. I'm, uh... well, II-I'd love to go,
Henry, but...

Henry: Uh, you have a boyfriend.

Betty: Yeah. Yeah, I do


do-- and I really want
to give this thing with Walter and me a
chance.
11 Amanda: Hey, um, if you get tired of
watching "Charlie Brown and the great
pumpkin" alone, I could... come over and
keep you company... in costume... or not.

Daniel: I think... I just need to be alone Offer


tonight.

Amanda: Hey! We could just talk.

Daniel: Probably not.


12 Betty: So just apologize.

Daniel: Ah, I can't just apologize. I mean, Suggestion


it's gotta be smarter. You know, skillful.
13 Wilhelmina: We'll talk upstairs.
Invitation
2ico: 2o! We'll talk now.
14 Ignacio: Hey. You want a sandwich?
Offer
Hilda: 2o, thanks.
15 Betty: why don't you come and stay with
me at the hotel?

Walter: I don't wanna stay at some lame Invitation


Manhattan hotel. I'm going to A.C., and
I'm winning a dinette set.
16 Ignacio: I'm cooking. Stay for breakfast.

Daniel: Oh, I'm not much of a breakfast


person. I should probably just head home.
Invitation
Ignacio: 2o, no, no, no, no, no. Betty told
me to feed and water you. Stay for coffee.
You look like hell. Come on. There you go.
17 Betty: Daniel, you have to be here.

Daniel: I am sick, Betty. I'm still drunk. Request


Just cover for me.
Betty: 2o, I can’t take charge of this.
18 Sofia: Come work for my magazine. You'll
have your own assistant within a year.
Offer
I'm not so sure about that.
Betty: Oh, I-I'm
19 Betty: You have to entertain Oshi
tomorrow night. Maybe you should just tell
your father.
Daniel: What, and look fiscally
irresponsible? If I tell dad that's all I have Suggestion
left, he'lll make Wilhelmina publisher so
fast, it'll make your head spin, and it'd be
like handing the magazine over to her. 2o.
20 Betty: I'm writing an article about being an
outsider at "Mode," and I wanted to
interview you.

Marc: As much fun as that sounds, I so


don't have time for it right now. Request
Wilhelmina's due back any second, and
she's always extremely tense after a
relaxing vacation.

Betty: Okay, well, then, just a quick quote.


21 Wilhelmina: Don't be afraid of office
politics. Do favors for the right people.
You just might get rewarded at the end.
Unfortunately, that is the cruel reality in
this business.
Suggestion
Christina: Okay, you can stop right there. I
know exactly how you work, Wil Wilhelmina.
Well, I'd rather make it on my own.
Thanks.
22 Fabia: Well, you know, seeing that Fabia
donated $20,000 in cosmetics for the
fashion show gift bag... I figured you take
Fabia to lunch, no? Request
Wilhelmina: Oh, darling, II-I would love to,
but
ut I can't. I'm swamped.
23 Wilhelmina:
lmina: Well, what am I supposed to
do till then?
Suggestion
Alexis: You wait. You bide your time a
little longer.

Wilhelmina: I am not going back to being


Daniel's creative director. I worked too
hard to get to the top.
24 Wilhelmina: I wanna know every detail
that's going on down there.
Marc: Well, why don't you just come down
here? Suggestion
Wilhelmina: I can't just stroll back in. I
made a dramatic exit.
25 Alexis: Peanut?

Wilhelmina: 2o, thanks. The band-aid in Offer


the bowl puts me off a little.
26 Joel: Can I buy you a cocktail?

Alexis: Um, I won't be staying very long.


My friend has tickets to the opera.
Offer
Joel: How about one more game before
you leave?

Alexis: All right.


27 Henry: Betty, can we talk?

Betty: 2o. I'm getting some food, and I'm


going home. Please tell Charlie that I'm
sorry. Request
Henry: At least let me pay for your pretzel.

Betty: 2o, I don't want anything from you.


28 Amanda: Hey, I've been looking for you.
Look what I just scored. 2ew Prada store's
opening tonight, and Steve Aoki's
deejaying. Meet up for drinks beforehand? Invitation
Marc: Oh, I can't. I have plans.
29 Christina: Come on, let's go somewhere
else.

Betty: 2o, no, no, no, no. 2o, I wanna stay, Invitation
Christina, I do. I just... I need to tell him
one thing.
30 Amanda: Anyway, I am here as long as you
need me.
Offer
Alexis: I don't. Thanks. Good night.
31 Daniel: Uh, look. I put together some
money. There's $75,000. Is that enough to
forget this ever happened?

Lena: This isn't about money! This is about


Petra's career.

Daniel: Okay, look. We have a big photo Offer


shoot today with our sister magazine,
"Mode Brazil."
azil." I think I can probably get
you in.

Lena: 2ice try, Mr. Meade, but she is not


interested in a corner picture on page 80.
It's the cover or jail.
32 Christina: Uh... look... can we please talk
because I am really, really sorry.
Request
Betty: You kn
know what? I need to get this to
Daniel. I'm gonna take the stairs instead.
33 Rodrigo: After the shoot, perhaps you will
join me for dinner? There's this little
restaurant I know, and I would love to take
you there. Invitation
Alexis: I'm afraid I have a lot of work to
do. But thank you for the invitation.
34 Tyler:You gotta put your brakes on, man.
Face your life.
Suggestion
Daniel: Can I just face it tomorrow? I have
a really hot date tonight.
35 Henry: Maybe we should just go play darts
instead.
ad. Much safer.
Suggestion
Betty: 2o, no, no, no, no. I have to do this.
36 Wilhelmina: I want you to hit me as hard
as you can.
Request
Marc: Willie, isn't that a little extreme,
even for you?
37 Wilhelmina: 2ow,let's talk about the
fearless women feature. We've managed to
secure... Jordan Dunn

Alexis: Jordan Dunn? 2o. 2o,no,no,no.


That's not a very good idea.

Wilhemina: That's a fabulous idea. She Suggestion


hang-glides,
glides, she ice
ice-climbs, she swam the
English channel in a leather bikini,we've
already have th
the title-- "the Dare Devil
Wears Prada".

Alexis: I said "2O"! You know what? This


meeting is done.
38 Amanda: You're gonna be a Wilhelmina
Slater discovery, and because I hooked you
up,you have to make out with me in the
ladies' room.
Invitation
Tavares: 2o!! I'm supposed to be a big 'mo.
I tried being
eing straight in this business, and
it doesn't work.
39 Wilhelmina: You just have to get out in the
world again. I'm gonna take you to a party
tomorrow,downtown. Invitation
Invitation
Bradford: Party? Oh, I don't know.
40 Fabia: I suppose you're going to have to
change your wedding date. Or do a quickie
in Las Vegas.
Suggestion
Wilhelmina: Wilhelmina Slater does not do
Vegas.
DATA CLASSIFICATIO S

Request

1. Man: Betty Suarez?

Betty: Hi! Um, that's me. Uh, I have a hard copy of my resume if you need it.

Should I follow you?

Man: Uh actually.. there's been a mistake.  Pre-refusal

Betty: A mistake?

Man: All the entry level positions we've been hiring for? They've been filled.

 Head act

I'm sorry.  Post-refusal


refusal

Betty: Um, sir? While you've got me here, I thought I could tell you a little about

myself. Magazines are my passions, ever since I was a little kid. And I can't

imagine a more amazing place to start my career than Meade publications. I

know most of your magazines inside out, I try to devour as much as I can. 

egotiation

Man: Clearly.  Head act

Betty: Also, I've learnt so much through them, stuff so beyond my world,
w like

who the up-and-comers


comers are on the London art scene, or what the political in

Darfur are all about or which is considered the most romantic in the world. And

I have tons of ideas, I'm always jotting stuff down on the

subway, but I'm getting ahead of myself, sir. All I really want is a chance,

publication-  egotiation
any position or publication

Man: Goodbye.  Head act


2. Justin: I hate telenovelas. I want to watch Fashion TV.  Initiating act

Hilda: Justin, you can watch Fashion TV later when your Aunt Betty is

babysitting ok?  Head act

3. wondering, if you had a quick moment.  Initiating act


Betty: Daniel, I was wonder

Daniel: Do I look like I have a quick moment?  Head act

Betty: /o. So sorry.

4. Daniel: I really want you to come back, be my assistant. I promise you, things

will be different.  Initiating act

Betty: I, um.  Pre


Pre-refusal

Daniel, I really have to think about that.  Head act

5. Betty: Daniel, you have to be here.  Initiating act

Daniel: I am sick, Betty.  Head act

I'm still drunk.  Post


Post-refusal

Daniel: Just cover for me.  Initiating act

Betty: 'o,  Head act

I can’t take charge of this.  Post-refusal

6. Betty: I'm writing an article about being an outsider at "Mode," and I wanted to

interview you.  Initiating act

Marc: As much fun as that sounds,  Pre-refusal

I so don't have time for it right now.  Head act

Wilhelmina's due back any second, and she's always extremely tense after a

relaxing vacation.  Post-refusal

Betty: Okay, well, then, just a quick quote.  egotiation


7. Fabia: Well, you know, seeing that Fabia donated $20,000 in cosmetics for the

fashion show gift bag... I figured you take Fabia to lunch, no?  Initiating act

Wilhelmina: Oh, darling, II-I would love to,  Pre-refusal

but I can't.  Head act

I'm swamped.  Post


Post-refusal

8. Henry: Betty, can we talk?  Initiating act

Betty: 'o.  Head act

I'm getting some food, and I'm going home. Please tell Charlie that I'm sorry.

 Post-refusal

Henry: At least let me pay for your pretzel.  egotiation

Betty: 'o,  Head act

I don't want anything from you.  Post-refusal

9. Christina: Uh... look... can we please talk because I am really, really sorry. 

Initiating act

Betty: You know what? I need to get this to Daniel.  Head act

I'm gonna take the stairs instead.  Post refusal

10. Wilhelmina: I want you to hit me as hard as you can.  Initiating act

Marc: Willie, isn't that a little extreme, even for you?  Head act

Offers

1. Betty: Um, sorry to interrupt, but can I get you lunch?  Initiating act

Daniel: 'o, no.  Head act

But you go ahead, thanks.  Post-refusal


2. Steve:: Anyway, I was thinking I'd break into
to the place today, go through, see if

there's anything incriminating.  Initiating act

Bradford: I'll do it.  Head act

I have a key. Besides, you don't know what's really incriminating.  Post-

refusal

3. Betty: Oh, wow. The book. I'll give it to him.  Initiating act

Marc: 'o, no.  Head act

This is too important. I'll give it to him directly.  Post-refusal


refusal

4. Amanda: Hey, um, if you get tired of watching "Charlie Brown and the great

pumpkin" alone, I could... come over and keep you company... in costume... or

not.  Initiating act

Daniel: I think... I just need to be alone tonight.  Head act

Amanda: Hey! We could just talk.  egotiation

Daniel: Probably not.  Head act (Final outcome)

5. Ignacio: Hey. You want a sandwich?  Initiating act

Hilda: 'o,  Head act

thanks.  Post-refusal
refusal

6. Sofia: Come work for my magazine. You'll have your own assistant within a

year.  Initiating act

I'm not so sure about that.  Head act


Betty: Oh, I-I'm

7. Alexis: Peanut?  Initiating act

Wilhelmina: 'o,  Head act

aid in the bowl puts me off a little.  Post-refusal


thanks. The band-aid refusal

8. Joel: Can I buy you a cocktail?  Initiating act


Alexis: Um, I won't be staying very long.  Head act

My friend has tickets to the opera.  Post-refusal

Joel: How about one more game before you leave?  egotiation

Alexis: All right.  Final outcome

9. Amanda: Anyway, I am here as long as you need me.  Initiating act

Alexis: I don't.  Head act

Thanks. Good night.  Post-refusal

10. Daniel: Uh, look. I put together some money. There's $75,000. Is that

happened?  Initiating act


enough to forget this ever happened

Lena: This isn't about money!  Head act

This is about Petra's career.  Post-refusal

Daniel: Okay, look. We have a big photo


oto shoot today with our sister

magazine, "Mode Brazil." I think I can probably get you in.  egotiation

Lena: 'ice try, Mr. Meade,  Pre-refusal

but she is not interested in a corner picture on page 80.  Head act

It's the cover or jail.  Post-refusal

Invitations

1. Hilda: Come have some flan.  Initiating act

Justin: I don’t want flan.  Head act

I’ll get fat.  Post--refusal

2. Henry: We're having a party up on 25 with human resources if you're free? 

Initiating act

Betty: Oh. I'm, uh... well, I-I'd love to go, Henry, but...  Pre-refusal
refusal
Henry: Uh, you have a boyfriend.

Betty: Yeah. Yeah, I do..  Head act

and I really want to give this thing with Walter and me a chance.  Post-

refusal

3. Wilhelmina: We'll talk upstairs.  Initiating act

/ico: 'o!  Head act

We'll talk now.  Post


Post-refusal

4. hy don't you come and stay with me at the hotel?  Initiating act
Betty: Why

Walter: I don't wanna stay at some lame Manhattan hotel.  Head act

I'm going to A.C., and I'm winning a dinette set.  Post-refusal


refusal

5. Ignacio: I'm cooking. Stay for breakfast.  Initiating act

Daniel: Oh, I'm not much of a breakfast person.  Head act

I should probably just head home.  Post-refusal

Ignacio: /o, no, no, no, no, no. Betty told me to feed and water you. Stay for

coffee. You look like hell. Come on. There you go.  egotiation

6. Amanda: Hey, I've been looking for you. Look what I just scored. /ew Prada

store's opening tonight, and Steve Aoki's deejaying. Meet up for drinks

beforehand?  Initiating act

Marc: Oh, I can't.  Head act

I have plans.  Post


Post-refusal

7. Christina: Come on, let's go somewhere else.  Initiating act

Betty: 'o, no, no, no, no.  Head act

'o, I wanna stay, Christina, I do. I just... I need to tell him one thing. 

Post-refusal
8. Rodrigo: After the shoot, perhaps you will join me for dinner? There's this little

restaurant I know, and I would love to take you there.  Initiating act

Alexis: I'm afraid I have a lot of work to do.  Head act

But thank you for the invitation.  Post-refusal

9. Amanda: You're gonna be a Wilhelmina Slater discovery, and because I hooked

you up, you have to make out with me in the ladies' room.  Initiating act

Tavares: 'o!  Head act

I'm supposed to be a big 'mo. I tried being straight in this business, and it

doesn't work.  Post


Post-refusal

10. Wilhelmina: You just have to get out in the world again. I'm gonna take you to a

party tomorrow, downtown.  Initiating act

Bradford: Party?  Pre-refusal

Oh, I don't know.  Head act

Suggestions

1. Daniel: You know, I could say I was mugged. I could get my golf club. You could

hit me across the face. Break my nose.  Initiating act

Betty: Daniel, there are a lot of things I'm willing to do for this job.  Pre-

refusal

That is not one of them.  Head act

2. Betty: So just apologize.  Initiating act

Daniel: Ah, I can't just apologize.  Head act

I mean, it's gotta be smarter. You know, skillful.  Post-refusal


refusal
3. Betty: You have to entertain Oshi tomorrow night. Maybe you should just tell

your father.  Initiating act

Daniel: What, and look fiscally irresponsible? If I tell dad that's all I have left,

he'll make Wilhelmina publisher so fast, it'll make your head spin, and it'd be

like handingg the magazine over to her.  Pre-refusal

'o.  Head act

4. Wilhelmina: Don't be afraid of office politics. Do favors for the right people.

You just might get rewarded at the end. Unfortunately, that is the cruel reality in

this business.  Initiating act

Christina: Okay, you can stop right there. I know exactly how you work,

Wilhelmina.  Pre
Pre-refusal

Well, I'd rather make it on my own.  Head act

Thanks.  Post refusal

5. Wilhelmina:
lmina: Well, what am I supposed to do till then?

Alexis: You wait. You bide your time a little longer.  Initiating act

Wilhelmina: I am not going back to being Daniel's creative director.  Head

act

I worked too hard to get to the top.  Post-refusal

6. Wilhelmina: I wanna know every de


detail
tail that's going on down there.

Marc: Well, why don't you just come down here?  Initiating act

Wilhelmina: I can't just stroll back in.  Head act

I made a dramatic exit.  Post-refusal

7. Tyler:You gotta put your brakes on, man. Face your life.  Initiating act

Daniel: Can I just face it tomorrow?  Head act


I have a really hot date tonight.  Post-refusal

8. Henry: Maybe we should just go play darts instead. Much safer.  Initiating

act

Betty: 'o, no, no, no, no.  Head act

I have to do this.  Post-refusal

9. Wilhelmina: /ow, let's talk about the fearless women feature. We've managed to

Dunn.  Initiating act


secure... Jordan Dunn

Alexis: Jordan Dunn?  Pre-refusal

'o. 'o,no,no,no.  Head act

That's not a very good idea.  Post-refusal

Wilhemina: That's a fabulous idea. She hang


hang-glides, she ice-climbs,
climbs, she swam

the English channel in a leather bikini,we've already have the title--


title "the Dare

Devil Wears Prada".  egotiation

Alexis: I said "'O"!  Head act

You know what? This meeting is done.  Post refusal

10. Fabia: I suppose you're going to have to change your wedding date. Or do a

quickie in Las Vegas.  Initiating act

Wilhelmina: Wilhelmina Slater does not do Vegas.  Head act

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