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The Wise Woman tradition is the world’s oldest form of Menopause: Another Puberty
healing. It involves nourishing the wholeness of each Puberty and menopause are mysteries that every woman
unique individual and integrates physical, symbolic, spir- experiences. Puberty seems to be about beginnings and
itual, psychological, emotional, sexual, and ecologic menopause about endings, but both encompass death
components in the person as well as the community. and birth, loss and emergence. Puberty is the end of the
The Wise Woman tradition offers women an oppor- child (maiden) and the beginning of the fertile woman
tunity to find out what is right about menopause as well (mother), whereas menopause is the end of the mother
as simple, safe ways to nourish themselves. The primary and the beginning of the wise elder (crone). Puberty and
techniques used are simple ceremonies, the addition of menopause are both necessary for maturation, and both
common dooryard weeds to the daily diet, and compas- are times of physical, emotional, and spiritual upheaval.
sionate listening. The physical and emotional symptoms of menopause
This article suggests a variety of simple ceremonies and puberty are quite similar. During both, it is common
useful for menopausal women and discusses food-like for women to experience months or years of erratic
herbs that are generally considered safe in any quantity menses. During both, hormones are produced erratically
for all women, including pregnant and lactating women. and can aggravate breast tenderness, menstrual pain,
Knowledge of exact dosages, contraindications, and acne, and emotional sensitivity. Everything seems out of
active constituents of the herbs used in this article is control. The hair on the body changes. Fat fills in
relatively unimportant. Even beginners can safely use breasts, hips, buttocks, and thighs; curves replace an-
nourishing and tonifying green allies. gles. Depression, self-loathing, suicidal thoughts, body
Compassionate listening allows women to tell their image distortions, and anxiety may occur—for some,
stories without interference or interruption and to hear only fleetingly, for others, with agonizing persistence.
stories that reveal the benefits and powers of meno- Our deepest beliefs may come into question.
pause. Compassionate listening creates a space where The women’s mystery stories tell us that both puberty
women feel safe to change their stories about themselves and menopause require the giving up of a known
and about menopause. state-of-being. Self-perceptions must yield to undeniable
To help women change their stories about meno- physical changes. This can be unsettling, even frighten-
pause, the Wise Woman tradition offers several points of ing. We may not be ready for the responsibilities of our
information and paradigm shifts: 1) menopause is an- new power. Just as the girl becomes the fertile woman at
other puberty, 2) estrogen is not one, but many hor- puberty but may feel too young to be a mother, the fertile
mones, 3) menopausal women produce a lot of hor- woman becomes the grandmother after menopause but
mones, 4) menopause is metamorphosis, 5) menopause may not feel she is yet a wise old crone.
is enlightenment and hot flashes are kundalini, 6) adrenal Simple ceremonies, such as burying a teddy bear or
stress contributes to night sweats, 7) liver-strengthening our last menstrual pads, help mark puberty and meno-
herbs are vital during menopause, 8) menopause pro- pause in our memories and help us claim their potential
motes health and prolongs life, 9) menopause is not an powers. And nourishing herbs, such as oatstraw, nettle,
artifact of technology, 10) every woman needs a butterfly comfrey, motherwort, dandelion, burdock, or vitex are
collection, 11) menopause improves survival for all, 12) allies for easing the transitions through puberty or meno-
mineral-rich herbs and phytoestrogens promote healthy pause.
bones, breasts and hearts, 13) soy products can increase
Every Woman Needs a Butterfly Collection Mineral-Rich Herbs and Phytoestrogens Promote
Healthy Bones, Breasts, and Hearts
Once the misconception that all women used to die
before menopause has been dispelled, the notion of Phytoestrogens are hormones made by plants. They are
postmenopausal women as healthy beings emerges. found in ordinary foodstuffs (carrots, soybeans, pome-
This may be viewed as a butterfly hunt. Awareness of granate seeds, lentils, and yams), as well as in a number
butterflies in one’s midst increases consciousness of the of herbs (red clover, black cohosh, dong quai, and
butterflies in the past, and the benefits that postmeno- licorice). Phytoestrogens are phenolic estrogens. Their