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I have always been lucky enough to be surrounded by a large circle of friends who are incredibly
supportive, compassionate and open-minded. And everybody knows how precious it is to have such a
gift and I, of all people, know better than taking that for granted. That is why I always make effort to
keep in touch with people I’ve become close with and one of whom is my ex-boss, aka my mentor –
Eli.
Admittedly, it’s far from an ordinary relationship for most people, but to Eli and I, it came naturally. We
first met during the training course we both attended for a luxurious soon-to-be-open restaurant in
town roughly 2 years ago. Eli was our Filipino manager and I was about to be a hostess for the very
first time. Every concept, every rule and every etiquette when working in hospitality industry just
overwhelmed me and if it hadn’t been for Eli, a patient teacher as well as a dedicated friend, I
wouldn’t have managed to complete my training and achieved high performance at our workplace.
However, thanks to those hard times we’ve been through together, we became closer and our
conversations would last endlessly ranging from family, career, happiness to setbacks in life. As a
predecessor, Eli usually offers me valuable advice and emotional support whenever I confine in him.
No lecturing. No “I told you so”. Just pure compassion. He always tries to bring out the best in people
instead of being Mr. Know-it-all and patronizing, which is one of million things I admire about him.
Even though we are no longer working together and hanging out more often than we should, our
strong bond has never got loose. We keep each other in the loop about everything significant
happening around us and provide mutual support if needed. Once in a while, we would meet over
coffee or dinner to catch up if our schedules allow and still, I truly, deeply treasure every moment
together.
- take something/ someone for granted: fail to appreciate the value of something/ someone
Ex: He has always taken her for granted, which is the main reason why they split up.
- roughly: approximately
I spent roughly 5 days trying to figure out the problem.
- bring out the best/ the worst in someone: cause someone to behave in the best/ worst manner
Ex: Susan is a bad influence. She always brings out the worst in me.
- Mr. Know-it-all (informal) (disapproving): someone who acts as if he/ she knows everything
Ex: We can't get along with Steve, who plays Mr. Know-it-all every time someone raises a question as if
we asked for his opinion.