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Vladimir Santiago Arias
Texas Tech University, USA

Narissra Maria Punyanunt-Carter


Texas Tech University, USA

INTRODUCTION just entered to the market in 2012, and, two years


later, it reached approximately 30 million users,
Over the past several years, online dating services almost a third of the total online dating popula-
are increasingly becoming popular venues for tion (e.g., 96 million users) (Forbes, November
finding romantic relationships. In 2012, Match. 2014). Thus, the popularity of the app has rapidly
com reported that one in six marriages started grown. Tinder app innovates the usual online dat-
online (Ramirez, Sumner, Fleuriet & Cole, 2015). ing service explained above, by providing users a
In 2013, the online mating services brought $2.1 seemingly endless selection of photos of potential
billion (Ginsberg, 2015) whereas compared to ten mates without the need to answer questionnaires
years ago, in 2004, the dating industry revenue or forms (Bertoni, 2014a); then, the algorithm
was only $473 million. Nowadays, there are many of the app links users’ contacts from Facebook
online dating sites such as Match.com, eHarmony, profiles to provide photographs of potential ro-
and PerfectMatch.com, with over 50 million us- mantic candidates. After solely looking at photos
ers combined (Consumer Rankings., 2012), and of potential mates, users swipe right if they like
the online dating business keeps growing (Visual a person and, by the contrary, swipe left if not
Economics Credit Loan blog, 2015). Online dating (Bertoni, 2014a); finally, if both parties like each
refers to web sites and apps that facilitate romantic other, the platform provides a parallel interface
relationships’ initiation by offering users (1) access to send messages to each other to decide whether
to the profiles of potential romantic candidates, (2) or not to meet in person and exchange personal
a communication channel to initiate contact, and contact information.
(3) a romantic compatibility matching-algorithm Besides the successfulness of online dating
to be paired for potential romantic initiation (see market, the online dating service has always
Finkel, Eastwick, Karney, Reis & Sprecher, 2012). been severely criticized for its ‘overemphasis’ on
Indeed, most online dating platforms are similarly physical appearance. However, disregarding the
structured (Rosen, Cheever, Cummings & Felt, communication context (i.e., Face-to-Face and
2008), in general: users post a photograph and Online), physical appearance is the initiator for
answer questions in regards to personal informa- communication behaviors in most of the cases.
tion and other relevant demographics; however, The online dating success trend has been widely
there is considerable variance among online dating explained by the new media pervasiveness argu-
forums with regard to users’ level of involvement, ment or the idea that this service is prosperous
interaction, and self-disclosure. ‘only’ or ‘mostly’ because the access to personal
Despite the array of online dating sites and computers and smartphone is wide spread, then
apps, a new online dating app entered to the focusing only on related phenomena such as self-
online dating market, and it is taking over the presentation, self-disclosure, and/or social anxiety.
entire online love business: Tinder. The new app If new media pervasiveness explains this new

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social trend, why did commercial video-dating not pervasiveness solely, then why did commercial
become so popular during the 90s when the access video-dating not enjoy similar popularity during
to video cameras was also pervasive in the U.S.? the 1990s when the access to video cameras was
Little attention has been directed to how online also pervasive in the U.S.?
dating mirrors human perception of first impres- Then a new app entered to the market in 2012:
sion while forming interpersonal relationships. Tinder. In only two years, in 2014, Tinder reached
Therefore, the present chapter understand the approximately 30 million users who have used this
role of human perception of physical appearance app to find a partner making, more than 15 million
during first impression formation which may matches daily; then, users are checking out about
better tune with Tinder’ interface; in other words, a 1.2 billion profiles -14.000 per second- (Bertoni,
Tinder feels more natural to users compared to 2014). While the entire U.S. dating business is
other dating apps, swipe to left or to the right feels worth somewhere between 5 and 6 billion dollars
better than ‘browsing’ profiles; in addition to the (Forbes, 2014), just Tinder is worth somewhere
pervasiveness argument of new media and apps, between $.1 billion and $.1.5 billion, and some
this chapter explains Tinder’ increasing popular- big bank analysts said that Tinder could even top
ity seems to match to interface architecture as $. 5.5 billion in few years, which is almost the
well. Consequently, the concept of technological entire online market soon (Forbes, 2014). The app
affordance tuning will be discussed to explain is very popular and is one of the top producing
the success on online dating in addition to new online dating apps.
media pervasiveness argument; however, the idea This chapter argues online dating popularity
of affordance tuning is not widely discussed in the responds more to how technology closely mirrors
CMC research on online dating, and this concept actual human interaction in the early stages of
is the main contribution from this chapter. forming a romantic relationship than other (and
earlier) dating services venues; furthermore: why
did Tinder get that level of popularity in only 4
BACKGROUND years, whereas other online dating sites have been
around for more than a decade without obtaining
The online dating technology has been around the same users’ preference? There exists a constant
since 1970, but the rapid rate of development of tension between tasks and technologies in interface
cheap, fast, reliable, and user personal comput- design; Gaver (1991) accurately explains that a
ers with Internet made online dating technology design based on only technology innovations is
to evolve from being just an online interface for functionally awkward, and, by the contrary, a
personal romantic advertisement (see Byrne, Ervin design just based on users’ needs may lead to
& Lamberth, 1970), then to become an algorithm- overlook technological innovations; indeed, the
based matching system (i.e., e-Harmony.com or main purpose for artifact interface design should
Match.com) to finally a combination of both; be to create a CMC architecture which reflects
with the inclusion of smartphone-based dating an interaction between human sensory systems
applications and GPS technology (i.e. Blendr or and CMC affordances. Consequently, in order
Skout), the new version of this CMC technology to answer the main queries of this chapter, non-
also became into satellite dating (Quiroz 2013). verbal research on physical attractiveness and
Nowadays, online dating users cannot only browse first impression formation with the concept of
romantic candidate profiles, but also know where affordance tuning along the way will be discussed
they are given information to decide whether or to explain online dating increasing engagement
not meet them in person. But, if online dating suc- across the world, an idea which has been ruled
cess is explained by the argument of new media out by scholarly research.

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MAIN FOCUS OF THE ARTICLE ied levels of romantic satisfaction. For individuals
with high levels of Internet affinity, or the desire S
Issues, Controversies, Problems to interact via the Internet, their perceptions of
romantic relationships were seen as positive and
Many individuals have assumed new, and even enduring (Anderson, 2005). Research suggests
counter, identities in their pursuit for online roman- that there is a relationship between levels of per-
tic relationships (Alapack, Blichfeldt, & Elden, ceived realism and individual perceptions of online
2005). The Internet and CMC (Computer-Medi- romantic relationships. Surprisingly, the results
ated Communication) have become suitable forms did not support a positive relationship between
of communication between individuals looking levels of perceived realism and online romantic
for controlled forms of relational engagement relationships. Anderson (2004) discovered that
(Hardey, 2004); the online dating phenomenon there would be a positive relationship between
reflects the same motivation that seeks romantic amount of time (hours per week) on the Internet
outcomes (Whitty, 2008; Heino, et al., 2010; Kang and perceptions of online romantic relationships.
& Hoffman, 2011; Finkel, Eastwick, Karney, Reis, Anderson (2004) found that a high degree of
& Sprecher, 2012); Ramirez, Summer, Fleuriet, & Internet use was instrumental in establishing posi-
Cole, 2015) such as pursuing to attain a long-term tive perceptions of online romantic relationships.
relationship commitment (Mahfouz, Philaretou & Anderson (2004) noted that individuals must adjust
Theocharaous, 2008). their behaviors to the new environment created
However, the observable human behaviors by online dating. Further, individuals engaging
associated with online dating have traditionally with online relationships must adopt new forms of
been isolated to textual inferences. For example, nonverbal behaviors in order to offset the absence
online dating has been research on the basis of of traditionally implemented offline cues.
Walther’s (1996) ‘Hyperpersonal’ model which Just as with face to face relationships, online
aims to understand how users take and advantage relationships are governed by certain codes and
from CMC affordances to overcome the absence standards (Hardy, 2004). Netiquette asserts itself
of nonverbal cues (Walther, 1996, 2007). Thus, as the ruling body for all forms of romantic online
in CMC, users create and exchange messages in exchange (Hardy, 2004). Research dedicated to
physical isolation from receiver, masking invol- online romances has reported that online dating
untary cues which make users perform overat- services allow for high volumes of information to
tributions based on stereotypical impressions of be transferred between sender and receiver (Hardy,
their partners without qualifying the spontaneity 2004). Unlike print forms of dating services such
of such impressions. In other words, as senders, as the use of newspaper classifieds, Internet ser-
users do not show their “their natural physical vices allow individuals to disseminate a plethora
features and non-deliberate actions into the re- of biological facts at a faster rate (Hardy, 2004).
ceiver’s realm of perception” (Walther, 2007, p. One of the greatest forms of romantic infor-
2541, Italics added); then, it can be inferred that mation dissemination is based on nonverbal ele-
online dating fits better for users’ dating goals in ments. According to Hardy (2004), the posting of
terms of having more control on first impression one’s photograph onto the web is a very personal
formation. decision. For some the posting of a photograph
For many individuals, the thought of going takes away from the otherworld experience they
online to pursue a romantic relationship seems are trying to manifest through online interaction.
different and unorthodox (Anderson, 2005). In a Individuals that choose to eliminate their photo
study attempting to measure attitudes related to seek to maintain a sense of relationship based on
Internet romance, numerous results indicated var- emotional and intellectual criterion and not physi-

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cal characteristics (Hardy, 2004). For others, the communication channel, CMC facilitates editing,
exchanging of photographs act as a mechanism discretion, and convenience to form impressions
for the reduction of feelings related to ambiguity (see Walther, 1996, 2007). As a matter of fact,
and uncertainty (Hardy, 2004). The practice of physical attractiveness is found to be the most
sending a picture electronically allows both parties valued aspect in online dating (see for a review
to construct a more vivid, while still nonverbal Whitty, 2008; Rosen, Cheever, Cummings, &
representation of the other person. Further, by Felt, 2008; Turner & Hunt, 2014); for example,
sending a picture, both parties are better prepared Ramirez, et. al., (2015) found that perceptions of
for face to face interaction (Hardy, 2004). higher levels of intimacy, informality, composure,
Social relationships start from first impression and social orientation were positively predicted by
formation (Richmond, McCroskey & Hickson, the number of photographs that users had on their
2007), and, simultaneously, first impression is profiles. Therefore, attractiveness is the strongest
formed through physical attractiveness assess- predictor for online relationship initiation (Witthy,
ment. Consequently, dating is not the exception 2008; Walther, 2008; Finkel, et al., 2012; Ramirez,
for physical attractiveness as the basis for first et al, 2015). Consequently, the important role of
impression formation (see Richmond, et al., 2007; physical attractiveness for dating explains the
Tidwell, Eastwick & Finkel, 2012); Eastwick & central role of personal pictures in online dating
Hunt, 2014). Indeed, nonverbal research in in- interface architecture, but this is an idea not widely
terpersonal relationships suggests that physical discussed in the scholarly literature.
attractiveness is what determines initial com- CMC offers a virtual environment in which the
munication approach (Richmond, et. al., 2007). physical isolation prompts anonymity and makes
But, attractiveness assessment is individually users experience more disinhibition; for example
performed and visually driven, it is in the eye of the Lapidot-Lefter and Barak (2012) examined the
beholder (Richmond, et. al., 2007); for example, effect of anonymity/non-anonymity, visibility/
in Eastwick and Hunt (2014) measured romantic invisibility, and eye contact/absence of eye contact
acquaintanceship in three different times in three in an experimental design with 142 participants
separated studies with a total of 309 undergraduate (71 men and 71 women) from ages 18 to 34 years
participants, the results suggested that the romantic during shorts debates through CMC; thus, a fac-
evaluation of potential mates is more unique to a torial experimental design was conducted, and
person that consensual over time. the results suggest that lack of eye contact was
Physical attractiveness primarily sets off first the primary contributor to online disinhibition
dates in online settings as well (see Walther, effects. As a consequence from acquiring con-
2007; Kang & Hoffman, 2011; Finkel et. al., trol of the new language system through CMC,
2012; Ramirez, et al., 2015).The problem arises individuals are able to openly express their feel-
when first impression formation is mediated by ings and emotions with one another. According
computer technology because it extrapolates to Alapack et al. (2005), the courtship behaviors
and enhances attractiveness in a hyperbolic way: created by the evolving language system tend to
during the receiving stage in the communication limit romantic feelings such as awkwardness and
system, users perform an overreliance (idealize) conflict. Moreover, the use of tactical punctua-
on others’ traits because they only have access tions during romantic interludes causes the online
to the available pictures and textual information environment to become strikingly similar to that
and messages which prompts minimal similarity; of the real world (Alapack et al., 2005).
on the other hand, in the sender communication Besides the currently broad access to personal
stage, individuals selectively self-present in a computer and smartphones that is also a factor
controlled and social desirable fashion; while as a to the increasing popularity of online dating, it

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is worth to consider that any technology device in Tinder in which users do not need to fill in long
become popular when its use is more close to questionnaires, and simply go visually during at- S
naturalness (Xie & Newhagen, 2012); in other tractiveness assessment to then asking questions
words, individuals tend to use more the devices to candidates, as it happens during FtF settings.
that are feel natural to perform a given task. The
concept of affordances refer to the process in
which individuals perceive the objects in their SOLUTIONS AND
environment in terms of its potential for action, RECOMMENDATIONS
without significant intermediate stages that re-
quire memory or inferences. For example, a chair As online romantic conversations begin to evolve
is perceived in terms of its ‘seatability’; hence, and take shape, scholars must continue to observe
people perceive the affordance of ‘seatability’ and examine online relational phenomena through
(Gaver, 1991). Accordingly to Gaver’s example, the use of online dating apps which have stron-
an affordance is determined in terms of the at- ger effects on individuals due to its perceived
tributes of both actor and object; subsequently, ‘naturalness’ for its ‘proximity’. Through CMC
there should be perceptual information for an affordances such as the use of emoticons and
existent affordance. Ergo, affordances are basically other tactical punctuations, nonverbal communi-
determined by the physical properties, shape and cation plays a crucial role in the development of
scale of artefacts that are more or less easy to be Internet-based courtship behaviors and romantic
perceived by specific human perception processes, online relationships. Online dating and online
and first impression formation process seems to apps have changed the way that people pursue
fit better with online dating. romantic relationships; it is not only important
Online dating affordances give users a broad for scholarly research to understand how users
range of choices to ‘control’ self-presentation exploit CMC affordances to overcome its limita-
in terms of physical attractiveness and personal tions as Walther’s model proposes, but also it is
information that permits impression management paramount to include the analysis of how those
behavior. Hence, online dating interface architec- affordances specifically tune to human percep-
ture seems to line up in parallel to Gaver’s (1991) tion process making in it more or less ‘popular’,
requisites of affordance because for interface or more or less ‘interactive’ which is also part
design the following postulates should be consid- of the market successfulness of any technology,
ered: 1) the artifact physical attributes should be as it can be inferred while trying to answer the
compatible with those of the actor, and, in online question about why video dating did not become
dating, the visual perception and assessment of as successful as online dating did.
physical attractiveness is paired with the central
role of personal pictures in this platform; 2) the
information of the artifact’ attributes are available FUTURE RESEARCH DIRECTIONS
in a manner compatible with a perceptual system
of the actor, and this CMC technology is a visually Future research should look at how closely online
driven device to perform romantic assessment; and offline courtship behaviors overlap each other
and 3) the attributes and the action should be by introducing the affordance tuning conceptual-
culturally and personally relevant, and, in online ization and nonverbal research. In addition, future
dating, the profiles are individually accessed, research should investigate the communication
but culturally valued, as physical appearance behaviors that individuals use on online apps
evaluation is performed. The affordance tuning for compared to face-to-face interactions; for ex-
technology design seems to be more appropriate ample, Hunt, Eastwick & Finkel (2015) compared

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the length of acquaintanceship [first impression smartphone presence (Gerlich, Drmheller, Babb
formation] of 167 couples taken from previous & D’Armond, 2015). Through the use of personal
longitudinal studies, and they found a negative pictures, emoticons and other tactical punctua-
interaction between physical attractiveness and tions, nonverbal communication plays a crucial
the time couples got to know each other (i.e. up role in the development of Internet-based court-
to 9 months). In other words, the longer individu- ship behaviors. The popularity of online Tinder
als had known each other, the less probability for is better calibrated to interpersonal attraction than
choosing a mate by the attractiveness criterion, the values-infused and text-heavy quality of the
but most likely by psychological similarity such typical online dating site or app, which places
as personality traits. By the contrary, in the online users in a critical shopping mindset rather than an
dating context, Ramirez, et al. (2015) investigated orientation based solely on attraction. Moreover,
what is the association between the amount of time research on online dating should include inter-
spent online before meeting the potential candidate face design understanding to bring in the level
FtF, a hierarchical regression model was conducted of ‘affordance tuning’ to human sensory system
in five dimensions (i.e., intimacy, composure, for- to perform a specific task (i.e. dating) to assess
mality, task social orientation, dominance) where CMC popularity and impact on human behavior.
a curvilinear association among the first four was
found, and it indicated a significant association
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KEY TERMS AND DEFINITIONS Internet Affinity: The desire to initiate a


romantic relationship via the Internet.
Affordances: “The perceived properties of the Netiquette: The etiquette and manners that
things that determine just how they could possibly individuals use while on the Internet.
be used” (Norman 1998). Online Dating: CMC technology designed
Away Messages: The messages that one uses to facilitate romantic relationships initiation by
to indicate that they are away from the computer anticipating face-to-face interaction through
or unavailable to communicate online. the access to personal profiles without owners’
Computer Mediated Communication: The awareness.
use of computer or computer technology to com- Other World: The notion that something is
municate with other individuals. not real.
Emoticons: Nonverbal expressions that are
expressed via text.

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