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What is Neutrois?

Self Identity
You have the right to self identify however you wish. There is no gender police here – nobody to tell you what you are, how
you are, or how you’re supposed to be. If you feel Neutrois is a label, word, concept, term, or identity that fits you in any
way, take it as yours. There are as many ways of experiencing and expressing your gender as there are people.

Definition(s)
There is no one definition on Neutrois, since each person that self-identifies as such experiences their gender differently. The most
commonly used definitions are:

Neutral-gender
Null-gender
Neither male nor female
Genderless
Agender

Neutrois is understood as a non-binary gender identity that falls under the genderqueer and/or transgender umbrellas.

Genderless or Gender-Neutral?
Some neutrois do feel completely genderless – that is, they have no gender, an absence of gender, or are null gendered. Others have
an internal gender that is neither male, nor female, just neutral. Agender is a term used interchangeably for both. So while the prefix
a- in agender may hint at a “lack of,” neutrois and agender do not always signify a lack of gender.

Personal Stories
To get a sense for how a neutrois or otherwise genderqueer person experiences their gender, it is recommended to read their stories
firsthand. Here are a few from bloggers who have attempted to explain their gender:

Micah runs Neutrois Nonsense (http://neutrois.me), and sees their Neutrois identity as gender neutral (http://neutrois.me/2011/08
/19/neutrois/).
Marilyn Roxie runs Genderqueer Identities (http://genderqueerid.com/), and wrote a story on finding their identity as Genderqueer
(http://genderqueerid.com/my-story).
Jillian Cottle blogs at A Fine Line (http://jilliancottle.com), and lays out what it’s like to feel genderless (http://jilliancottle.com
/by-the-end-of-this-post-gender-may-not-look-like-a-real-word-anymore/).

Discover more stories in the Community (/community) listings.

Transmasculine, Transfeminine, and other permutations

Some neutrois people feel they aren’t completely 100% gender-free or gender-neutral; rather, they lean a little more towards one side
or another of the gender spectrum.

Transfeminine means the person tilts towards female, transmasculine towards male. These are just two combinations – other people
define their gender using other terms or phrases, not necessarily tied to the male/female binary. It’s important to note this does not
invalidate, contradict, or cancel out being neutrois, as they still feel a strong affinity with this identity. Instead, being transmasculine or
transfeminie or any other variation is more of a modifier or a complement which adds to the complexity of their gender, gender
expression, or gender identity.

In these cases there might be a preference to present more closely to one gender over another, or it can be more comfortable to just
live as one binary gender rather than the other. However, this choice is more often a result of convenience in order to navigate a
society in which only two genders are recognized. A lot of people would ideally opt to have neutrois recognized as their gender and
not be forced to make a decision between male and female only.

Neutrois FAQs
“Do I have to experience dysphoria to be Neutrois?”
Dysphoria (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysphoria) is described as a feeling of extreme and intense discomfort. A lot of neutrois do
experience gender dysphoria, through a combination of being phsyically distressed by their body and/or socially frustrated at how
they are seen, categorized, and treated by others. Other neutrois undergo feelings of distress, sadness, or frustration to a lesser
degree – or even none at all – which can manifest itself as slight discomfort or simply indifference with their physical or social
gender. They may also just have a preference for identifying as or expressing themselves as neutral or genderless, rather than as a
binary gender, without the accompanying distress around their current state. Neither experience is “more valid” or “more
legitimate” – diversity is an integral part of the spectrum.

“I feel gender-neutral, but I prefer when people see me as a boy rather than a girl (or vice-versa, or any other combination)”

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doesn’t matter, because you don’t need to justify it! You are no more or less neutrois than somebody who feels completely
genderless, or entirely gender-neutral; you just are you, and that’s that.
“Do I need to look androgynous to be Neutrois?”
While most neutrois do seek an androgynous appearance, other people prefer another gender expression altogether. Remember
that gender identity and gender expression are completely separate.
“Do I have to want to transition?”
Some neutrois feel comfortable just knowing they have discovered this identity. For them, it’s relief enough to be able to put into
words something they have been trying to understand for so long. Other neutrois have an intense desire to transition partially or fully,
with some aspects being more important than others. On the other hand, some neutrois are impartial to transition, and might seek
only parts of it which are convenient. It’s up to you and you only to make your own unique transition path.
“Do I have to want surgery?”
Many neutrois people do want surgery, many do not. The most common point of discomfort is breasts, for which neutrois people
often seek top surgery; another is genitalia, for which people seek either an orchiectomy or a penectomy. However, a lot of neutrois
people feel perfectly comfortable with their body and do not feel a need to “correct” anything. Others would prefer to have surgery,
but feel it is more of a distant idea, too much of a hassle, or an unnecessary health risk.
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