Gender roles in society means how we’re expected to act,
speak, dress, groom, and conduct ourselves.
Every society, ethnic group, and culture has gender role
expectations, but they can be very different from group to group. They can also change in the same society over time. pink used to be considered a masculine color in the U.S. while blue was considered feminine. Gender role is a type of stereotype.
What is a stereotype?
A stereotype is a widely accepted judgment or bias about
a person or group — even though it’s overly simplified and not always accurate.
How do gender stereotypes affect people?
Stereotypes about gender can cause unequal and unfair
treatment because of a person’s gender.
There are four basic kinds of gender stereotypes:
Personality traits —women are often expected to be
accommodating and emotional, while men are usually expected to be self-confident and aggressive. Domestic behaviors —some people expect that women will take care of the children, cook, and clean the home, while men take care of finances, work on the car, and do the home repairs.
Occupations — Some people are quick to assume that
teachers and nurses are women, and that pilots, doctors, and engineers are men.
Physical appearance — women are expected to be thin
and graceful, while men are expected to be tall and muscular. Men and women are also expected to dress and groom in ways that are stereotypical to their gender men wearing pants and short hairstyles, women wearing dresses and make-up.
Is it a form of oppression?
In the traditional setting, the males were expected to take
up jobs outside the home in offices, farms, mines, and the military among others. The women were required to support their husbands and take care of the children and the home. In totality, the roles offered to the men gave them the upper hand as far as finances were concerned, a factor that made the pioneers of gender equality view genders roles as oppressive to the women. The clamor for equality took the shape of wanting women to be involved in the same occupations as the men to level the financial gap and prevent women from depending on the men for their economic needs.
Despite the male gender roles seeming more glamorous than
those of females, assigning women domestic roles was not meant to oppress them. The roles were complementary, and they helped to ensure the permanence of the families that made up the homes. Most of the jobs that were taken up by men were associated with risks. Men are better at taking risks because of their body structure that is adapted for fight or flight responses. Another advantage of the mentioned roles was that they favored the women in times of pregnancy, as they did not have to worry about how it would affect their careers. They could concentrate on raising the children with the assurance that the men will take care of their provisions.
The traditional gender roles cannot be considered entirely
complementary. They are structured in a manner that makes the women and children dependent on the man, which shifts the power to the men. Such power has the potential to be misused. When they lose such power, they do not feel complete. For example, when a man loses his job and has to depend on his wife for finances and do house chores, he is likely to feel emasculated, and loss his confidence. There is no denying that the evolving roles of the genders are putting a strain on the traditional family set up. Having both parents work outside the home makes them not follow up on the progress of their children. While both parents might derive happiness from their careers, the children might feel denied of parental love. These parents are forced to employ nannies for their children. The nannies often are from cultures different from the working parents and tend to influence the children towards those cultures. The continuity of the values of the parents, therefore, is disrupted.