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One thing that really struck me about this letter is how much it reminded me of studying history at
school. How people, in the past, could not go to school because they were poor or because they
had the wrong skin colour. That denying people an education was a "Thing of the past". To think
some parts of the world are still like this is a reminder we still have a lot of work to do.
It’s difficult to really understand the problems of people who live thousands of miles away in a
strange country with different customs. But there are some things, basic things we can all
understand, the need for food, safe homes and looking after and educating our children.
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However, there is a lot less holding women back than there used to be. Women who were born in
the UK in the early part or the mid part of the 1900s, probably right until the sixties or the seventies
were held back, I would say. They did have access to education. They had some access to
employment and jobs, but when they married and when they had children that access certainly
used to close down.
It's a little different now, it's somewhat better. We're not entirely there on equality, but we're getting
closer. And I can honestly say in my life now it's hard to think of where I'm held back because I'm a
woman. It's very different of course, if you are living in a country like Afghanistan, especially under
the rule of the Taliban.
In Afghanistan, since the Taliban took over again, girls have been prevented from going to school
So most of her letter is fairly easy to understand. It will be clear to you. The only part I was unsure of,
she refers to her father as her 'Babajan' (?). And I think this means 'father' in either Persian or Pashto,
but if anyone can shed any light on this, can educate me about this, I'd be really pleased!
"August 15th, 2021 was a Sunday. In the afternoon, I was studying for my mid-term tests. I heard that
there were crowds running, shouting, and calling that the Taliban had come to Kabul and ordering
women and girls to go to their homes. I stopped studying. I felt afraid. There was a call from school
that 'Maybe tomorrow we won't have the exam'.
What was happening was beginning to really frighten me. I'm 16 years old. And I am amazed that I
have kept myself alive for this long. I was born in an insecure province, in an insecure country.
Afghanistan has been recognized by UNICEF https://www.unicef.org/ as the worst place to be born
for a child. My childhood is a living example of the Taliban terror. I don't remember a day when I
lived without the fear of losing my loved ones.
I lost my father because of the Taliban's attack in our area. And since then, our family has struggled a
lot. I miss my Babajan. I feel we have all lost our childhood. That feeling of 'doing things just for the
hell of it' - that almost feels like a dream, a thing that happened too long ago. It feels as though it
never existed in the first place. That day, a year ago, I stopped being a girl who lived a simple life,
going to school and helping my mother at home.
My life changed. By late afternoon, the Taliban were in the city. On television, we saw them, all men,
I'm lucky I speak English. I learn it listening to the BBC. And I'm now teaching my siblings by listening
to the radio. But today it feels like being a girl is a big crime in a country like Afghanistan. For a while,
I have asked myself, 'Why can't I study? What are these men frightened of?'
The only thing they seem to want us to learn is that girls are not of any value. My father wanted me
to learn and he was a good man. The Taliban are trampling on hope and freedom. They are hanging
us with ropes of despair. I do not know where we will go, whether we will stay or go, whether we will
survive or be killed.
I read all the time and I write. Nothing will stop me from learning. I face many obstacles, but it all
makes me stronger."
"I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to
love it because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air, with no landing in sight that we force
our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight.
And as we fly, we may still not know where we are going, but the miracle is in the unfolding of the
wings. You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings,
the winds will carry you."
"Being a girl in Afghanistan is harder than anything else in the world. Please don't forget that we
have to support each other. Please don't forget Afghan girls."
Goodbye
Enough for now. Have a lovely day. Speak to you again soon. Goodbye.
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