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Let’s work on this problem and fix it together. This phrase is important
because instead of placing people on opposite sides of the conflict,
you are signaling partnership. It shows that you care not just about
resolving the current conflict but also about building and maintaining
a spirit of collaboration.
Tell me more—I want to understand. Most people speak to be
heard, but few take the time to understand. This phrase is powerful
because everyone wants to be understood. It doesn’t mean you have
to agree, just that you are willing to hear them out.
Yes, you’re completely right. If you are miles apart, find something
you can agree on together so you can start the conversation with this
phrase. When people feel heard and validated, they’re more likely to
engage in a constructive dialogue.
Lead from within: The bottom line is that conflict will always exist,
but a satisfactory resolution and positive outcomes are within your
power.
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Thank you for this excellent list of helpful things to say in conflict situations. You
are so right that conflict avoided is conflict escalated while a conflict successfully
resolved can be the start of something positive. If memory fails in a conflict
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situation, “Tell me more” is a great standby.
This is a fantastic list! Saying “you’re right” is probably the toughest one in heated
conversations, but you’re right.
Studies have shown that ‘Conflict of interests’ do happen in the workplace. Thus,
many employers encourage their employees to exchange ideas, to express their
concerns, and to work together. Furthermore, we are hired to perform the jobs
assigned to us, and together, we make a difference.
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