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EXPERIMENT-1
1. BODY LANGUAGE AND IUDENTITY MANAGEMENT
SOFT SKILLS
Soft skills are personal attributes that influence how well we can work or interact with others.
These skills make it easier to from relationships with people, create trust and dependability and
lead teams. In essence, they are essential for our success in the work place and our personal life.
The term soft skills covers a wide range of skills as deserve as team work, time management,
empathy and delegation.
Importance of Soft Skills:
Soft skills includes candidates ability to lead to solve problem to innovate to build relationship to
adopt rapidity and communicate effectively as the advancements in artificial intelligence and
automation promise whole safe change across sectors. The changing needs for the whole place
are such that for greater emphasis is now placed on an ability to cultivate a workforce with a
significant Soft Skills Capability.
Body Language:
It is a type of non-verbal communication in which physical behaviors as opposed to words are
used to express or convey the information such behavior includes facial expressions, body
posture, gestures, eye movement, touch and use of space. Body language exists in both animals
and humans, but this article focuses on interpretations of human body language. It is also known
as Kinesics.
Non-verbal Commmunication:
The Non-Verbal communication is the process of conveying meaning without the use of words
either written or spoken. In other words any communication mode between two or more persons
through the use of facial expressions, hand movements, body language, postures and gestures is
called as Non-Verbal Communication.
Types of Non-Verbal Communiction:
1. Facial Expressions
2. Kinesics
3. Occulesics
4. Haptics
5. Prosemics
6. Paralinguistics
1.a.Facial Expression-Kinesics-Occulesics:
A facial expression is one or more motions or positions of the muscles beneath the skin or
the face. They are a primary means of conveying social information between humans. The six
basic facial expression are: A .Happy B.Disgust C .Anger D.Fear E.Surprise
F.Sadness.
A. Facial Expression/emotion: A.Happy: Happiness is anemotion that is often associated with a
state of mind that reflects contentment, satisfaction; pleasure or joy, happiness is one of the
most popular emotions and it has been studied throughout different philosophical, religious
topologists have defined happiness as stemming from the living of a good life, or the
flourishing of one soul, rather than it just being an emotion. Today we often associate
happiness with pleasure, happiness is characterized by a facial expression that causes
someone to raise the corner of their mouth upwards.
B. Facial Expression/Emotion:Anger: Anger is an emotion that is often associated withing the
range of minor irritation to intense range physically, anger causes someone to experience an
increased heart rate, heightened blood pleasure, and abnormal levels of adrenaline and
noradrenaline you may often hear as anger being associated within the tight or flight brain
response when a person is introduced to an experience that causes them to feel threatened or
in pain.
C. Facial Expreson/Emotion: Fear:Fear is an emotion that is often associated with a
threatening or dangerous stimuli. It is a basic survival mechanism that occurs in response to
a traumatic presence, such as pain or the impending threat of pain. Fear is related to the
behavior of escape, avoidance but should with the direct physical reaction to threats that are
perceived to the unavoidable and uncontrollable.
D. Facial Expression/Emotion:Surprise: Surprise in an emotion that is often associated with a
brief state of being. This brief state of being is involved by an unexpected, relevant even.
However, surprise is not always a traumatic emotional experience. Surprise is characterized
by a facial expression that causes someone to lift their brows, open their eyes worldly and
drop their jaw.
E. Facial Expression/ Emotion: Sadness: Sadness is an emotion that is often associated with
the feelings of disadvantages such as loss and helplessness. Often human react to being sad
by getting quiet, the they experience a lack of energy and need to be with dawn sadness and
can also be characterized as sorrow, grief, misery, and melancholy, sadness arise in two
main ways: the temporary lowering of one’smood, or the chronic persistent lowering or ones
mood often associated with depression. Sadness is characterized by a facial ‘expression’ that
causes someone to lower the earners of their mouth and raise the inner portion of their
brows.
KINESICS
The word ‘Kinesics’ comes from the root word Kinesics comes from the root
word Kinesics which means ‘movement’, and refers to the study of hand, arm body and face
movements. Specifically this section will outline the use of gestures, head movements and
posture, yes contact, and facial expressions as Non-Verbal communication.
i.Gestures: Gestures fall in to different categories that help the skilled observer understand them
and link them to their ‘meanings’.
ii.Emblems: Emblems can be used instead of a word and it is these gestures that actually across
language barriers. A hand wave, finger beckoning, thumbs up or thumbs down are all emblems,
gestures that have specific meanings. Shrugging shoulders and shaking head are also gestures
that tell the observer that not understand and everyone can read that emblem of body language.
A.Posture
Postures can be categorized as open or closed and reflects emotion, attitude and intention.
i. Closed Posture: Closed is seen as a person guarding their space with arms faded,
putting up a closed barrier with crossed legs and turning away from another person in
conversation can be strong or sometimes flexible .
ii. Open Posture: Open posture is softer and more forgiving and gentle hands are a part,
arms resting in the lap or on the arms of chair. In this form of posture there is an
openness and interest in the other person, a willingness to listen.
iii. Mirroring: When couples co the something is a sign of more admiration. It is the
signals that show the interest in the other person, a willingness to listen. When
couples do the something is a sign of mutual admiration. It is the signals that show
the interest a loving couple show in each other. The mirroring of their actions shows a
special band and approval of one another.
Occulesics
Occulesics is a subcategory of Kinesics; is the study of eye of eye
movement, eye behavior, gaze, eye-related nonverbal communication. The specific definition
varies depending on whether it applies to the fields of medicine or social science.
i. Communicating Emotions: Eye behavior with emotional summaries: Different
people look up for different reasons. Some look up when they are thinking others
perform that action is an effort to recall something from their memory. It may also be
a way for people to subconsciously display boredom. The read position can also come
into play, however, as an upwards look with a lowered head can be a suggestive
action.
ii. Eye down: Avoiding eye contact, or looking down can be sign of submission or fear.
It may also indicate that some one feels guilt. However, depending on the culture of
the person, it may also just a sign of respect.
iii. Lateral movement of eyes: Looking away from that person to whom one is speaking
could be a sign that something else has taken their interest. It may also mean that a
person is easily distracted looking to the left can mean that a person is easily trying to
remembering sound, while the right can mean that the person is actually imagining
the sound.
iv. Crazing: Starting at someone means that a person shows sincere interest. In general,
starting means: ‘ I want that’.
v. Glancing: Glancing can show a persons true desires, for instance glancing at door
might mean that someone wants to leave. Glancing at a glass of water might mean
that a person is thirsty.
vi. Eye Contact:Eye contact is powerful and shows sincere interest if it is unbroken.
Breaking that eye contact can be threatening to the person who does not break the eye
contact.
vii. Blinking:Blinking is also a natural that can occur far no other realm that having dry
eyes. It can also be the resort of a person feeling greater level of stress.
viii. Winking:Closing of the eyes serves to shut out the world. It can be a reaction to fear
or embarrassment others may close their eyes as a way to think.
ix. Eye moisture: Tears obviously indicate sadness, but moisture also has more practical
purpose to wash and clean the yes. Damp eyes can be expressed crying or an
expression of extreme happiness or laughter.
x. Rubbing of eyes:Eyes may water, causing a person to rub their own eyes, this can
happen when a person feels uncomfortable, it may also happen when a person simply
has something in their eyes.
1.b.Haptics
Haptic communication is the form of non-verbal communication and the way by
which people and animals communicate via touching. Touching is most effective
means to communicate feelings and emotions.
TOUCH IN HUMANS: Touch communicate in the early stages of life may establish the
foundation of all other forms of communication that humans latter develop touch something help
better than verbal communication.
Categories of Touch:
Friendship: Effectiveness les another person know we care for values and have an interest in
him (or) her. Probably the most difficult to interrupt, both for the receiver o the touch and the
outsider.
Professional –Functional Touch: Managers should know the effectiveness of using touch while
communicating to subordinate but need to be cautious and understand how touch can be
misunderstood. A hand on the shoulder for one person may mean a supportive gesture, while it
could mean a sexual advance to another person a hand shake or a pat on the back.
Social and Polite touch: Serves to communicate a limited form of interpersonal involvement we
touch another person of more than a mere object. Blessing someone or meeting in a party or
usual meeting.
PROXIMICS: Proxemics is the study of human use of space and the effects that population
density space and the effects that population density has on behavior. Communication, an social
interaction. Proxemics is one among several subcategories in the study of non-verbal
communication, including haptics (touch), kinesics (body movement).
Types of Proxemics:\
There are four types of “distance” which people use to communicate one a face-to-face basis:
These include:
1. Intimate distance
2. Personal distance
3. Social distance
4. Public distance
1. Intimate distance: Intimate distance is that which is used for every confidential
communications. This zone is distance is characterized by ao to 2 feet of space between two
Individuals. An example of intimate distance 1meter for two people holding hands, or standing
side by side people in intimate distance share a unique level of comfort with one another.
2. Personal distance: Social distance is used in business transactions meeting now people and
interacting with groups of people social distance has a large range in the distance that it can
incorporate from 4 to 12 feet. It is clear that social distance depends on the situation. Social
distance may be used common the students, co-workers, or accountancy. Generally people
within social distance do not engage in physical contact with one another.
3. Public Distance: Public distance is measured at 12 or more feet between persons. This
distance can be maintained during speeches given by the politicians in the public places.
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1.c. Paralinguistics
The study of role of non-verbal clues is called paralinguistic. This includes volume, speed of
voice, intonation, tone etc.
Clues of Paralinguistic
1. Volume of Voice
2. Speed of Voice
3. Intonation
4. Tone
5. Pronunciation
6. Articulation
7. Pause
8. Punctuation marks
1. Volume of voice: It is not just, what you say, it is how you say it, when you whisper
something it conveys that you want to hide something. When speaking something aloud,
you want it to be heard by all.
2. Speed of voice: The speed of voice should be such that the listener can follow everything
that you are speaking. If you are speaking very fast they may not connect the speech.
3. Intonation: Stress and Intonation bend together to lend charm to English speech.
Intonation means variation of voice or speech. Intonation means variation of voice or
speech. It tells the listener if the message it is in the form of a question.
4. Tone of Voice: The tone tell about the attitude of the speaker. The tone can be sarcastic,
aggressive, critical, nervous.
5. Pronunciation: The pronunciation is the first thing that people notice during
conversation. For correct pronunciation, knowledge of Phonetics is essential.
6. Articulation: Articulation is the clarity in your voice. Clearly articulated message
competence. You should speak in such a way that all words are understood.
7. Pause: The break that is taken by a person while speaking and its duration is known as
‘pause’ in paralinguistic. A pause can have two different functions:
i. A temporary vocal inaction: This indicates the speaker’s uncertainty, hesitation,
or uneasiness.
ii. A pause: This shows favor or disfavor, agreement or disagreement.
8. Punctuation marks: Generally, punctuation marks are very helpful in written form
appropriate. Use of punctuation marks brings clarity to content and prevent confusion.
1.d.Appearance
A professional and healthy dress code well be highly fetching in an interview room.
Similarly dressing according to the purpose of the meeting and the environment are
equally important to show your respect for the gathering.
Man behaves, as he believes. So your belief system which determines your
attitudes and behavior should be very clear and inclusive. Along with his sense of dress
which he maintains grows his confidence level. Be conscious of how you communicate.
By paying close attention to your body language, you could improve your own ability to
communicate non-verbally.
Just cross check your mannerisms in front of a mirror which never lies. This
practice helps a professional candidate very practical. You need to have integrity through
the words with actions and intensions. It is found that people who maintain same
behavior at all places, at all times with all people found no problem with body language
that is appearance.
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1.e. Identity Management
What is identity management (ID management)?
Identity management (ID management) is the organizational process for ensuring individuals
have the appropriate access to Organizational resources.
This includes the identification, authentication and authorization of a person, or persons, to have
access to society. This is done by associating user rights and restrictions with established
identities.
Managed identities can also individual identity processes that need access to organizational
systems. Identity management can be considered an essential component for security.
Identity management includes authenticating users and determining whether they're allowed
access to work in a particular Organisation. ID management works hand-in-hand with Identity
and access management. Identity management is focused on authentication, while access
management is aimed at authorization.
The main goal of identity management is to ensure only authenticated users are granted access to
the specific applications, systems or IT environments for which they are authorized. This
includes control over User provisioning and the process of on boarding new users such as
employees, partners, clients and other stakeholders.
Identity management also includes control over the process of authorizing system or network
permissions for existing users and the off boarding of users who are no longer authorized to
access organization systems.
ID management determines whether a user has access to systems and sets the level of access and
permissions a user has on a particular system. For instance, a user may be authorized to access a
system but be restricted from some of its components.
Identity governance, the policies and processes that guide how roles and user access should be
administered across a business environment, is an important aspect of identity management.
Identity governance is key to successfully managing role-based access management systems.
Identity management is an important part of the enterprise security plan, as it is linked to both the
security and productivity of the organization.
In many organizations, users are granted more access privileges than they need to perform their
functions. Using identity management, organizations can safeguard their corporate assets against
many threats including hacking, ransom ware, pushing and other malware attacks.
Identity management systems add an additional layer of protection by ensuring user access
policies and rules are applied consistently across an organization.
Johari Window: The Johari window model is a simple and useful tool for illustrating and
improving self-awareness within himself / herself or other groups. The Joari window improve a
group’s relationship with other groups. The Johari Window model was developed by American
psychologist Joseph luft and HarlyINgnam in the influence of, ‘soft skills, behavior, empathy
cooperation, inter-group development and interpersonal development.
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2.EMOTIONAL ITELLIGENCE AND LIFE SKILLS
2.a. Selft Awareness through JohariWinddow and SWOC analysis
The Johari window soon because a widely used model for understanding and training self-
awareness, personal development, improving communication, interpersonal relationships group
dynamics, team development and inter-group relationship
Johari window four region-model diagram
1.Open 2. Blind
area area
3.Hidden Unknown
area area
SWOC ANALYSIS;
A SWOC analysis is a strategic planning tool that can be used during the curriculum
assessment and review process to make informed decisions based upon collective input from
multiple stake holders within the context of curriculum development, a swoc analysis can be
used as a powerful framework to discuss and clearly identify the strengths, weakness,
opportunities and challenges related to an existing degree program or major. The SWOC
analysis is particularly effective when conducted in collaborative groups setting at the early
stages of the curriculum assessment process.
Strengths: What have been the strengths of our program? What are we known for? What are
we most proud of? What are we doing well? What/who are our key resources and exemplars,
what do we control that gives us an advantage: What are out key areas of expertise? What
resources of capabilities allow us to meet out mandate/mission?
Weakness: What are we doing poorly or struggling with? What frustrations/challenges have
students/faculty expressed? What do we need to fix? What are the internal weakness and
deficiencies in resources or capabilities that may be hindering the program’s ability to
accomplish it mission/mandate?
Opportunities:
What are opportunities will most dramatically enhance the quality of our program? What
changes in demand do we expect to see over the next years? What key environment/ market
factors may positivity impact the program?
Challenges: What are the key challenges or threats to quality of our program that need to be
addressed? What are others doing that we are not? What future challenges may affect the
program? What external or future challenges or threats does the program face?
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2.B. SELF MOTIVATION
Self-motivation is, in its simplest form, the force that drives you to do things. People can be
motivated by many things, both internal and external, such as desire to something, love of
someone, or need for money. Usually, motivation is a result of several factors. The ability to
motivate yourself-self-motivation-is an important skill. Self-motivation drives people to keep
goiong even in the face of set-backs, to take up opportunities, and to show commitment to
what they want to achieve.
Motivation is what pushes us to achieve our goals, feel more fulfilled and improve our
overall quality of life.
Understanding and developing your self-motivation can help you to take control of many other
aspects of your life. Motivation is one of the three areas of personal skills that are integral to
the concept of emotional intelligence. Daniel Goleman, the author of several seminal books on
Emotional Intelligence, identified four elements that make up motivation.
Personal drive to achieve, the desire to improve or to meet certain standards.
Commitment to personal or organizational goals;
Initiative, which he defined as ‘readiness to act on opportunities’ and
Optimism, the ability to keep going and pursue goals in the face of setbacks. This is also
known as resilience.
Optimism, the ability to keep going and pursue goals in the face of setback. This is also
known as resilience to improve self-motivation, it is therefore helpful to understand
more about these individual elements.
The Elements of Self-Motivation
1.Personal drive to achieve
You could think of a personal drive to achieve as ambition, or perhaps personal
empowerment. However, it is also worth thinking about it in terms of mindset.
There are two types of mindset, fixed and growth.
Those with a fixed mindset believe that talent is ingrained, and that we cannot
change our level of ability.
Those with a growth mindset believe that they can improve their skills through hard
work and effort.
Research shows that those who believe that hey can improve-that is, who have a
growth mindset- are far more likely to achieve in whatever sphere they choose.
A growth mindset is therefore an important element in a personal drove to
succeed.
Other elements of personal drive include being organized particularly
being good at time management and avoiding distraction.
2. Commitment to goals
There is considerable evidence, even if much of it is anecdotal, that goal-setting
is important to our general well being.
3. Initiative.
Initiative is, effectively, ability to take advantage of opportunities when they
occur. It is all too easy to hesitate and then the opportunity may be gone.
However, the old sayings ‘look before you leap’ and ‘fools rush in where angels
fear to tread’ have a lot of truth in them. It is also important to think things
through and ensure that you are making the right decision for you.
Initiative can therefore be considered as a combination of courage and good
risk management:\
Risk management is necessary to ensure that you identify the right
opportunities to consider, and that they have the appropriate level of
risk for you; and
Courage is necessary to overcome the fear of the unknown in inherent in
new opportunities
4. Optimism or resilience
Optimism is the ability to look on the bright side, or think positively.
Resilience is the ability to ‘bounce back’ after a setback, or keep positive in
the face of challenges. The two are closely related, although not exactly the
same.
Reselient people use their ability to think as a way to manage negative
emotional responses to events. In other words, they use positive or rational
thinking to examine, and if necessary, overcome reactions that they
understand may not be entirely logical. They are also prepared to ask for
help if necessary-as well as to offer their own help generously to others in
need.
2. C.Empathy
Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, see
things from their point of view, and imagine yourself in their place.
Essentially, it is putting yourself in someone else’s position and feeling what
they must be feeling.
When you see another person suffering, you might be able to instantly envision yourself in the
other person's place and feel sympathy for what they are going through.
While people are generally pretty well-attuned to their own feelings and emotions, getting into
someone else's head can be a bit more difficult. The ability to feel empathy allows people to
"walk a mile in another's shoes," so to speak. It permits people to understand the emotions that
others are feeling.
For many, seeing another person in pain and responding with indifference or even outright
hostility seems utterly incomprehensible. But the fact that some people do respond in such a way
clearly demonstrates that empathy is not necessarily a universal response to the suffering of
others.
Signs of Empathy
There are some signs that show that you tend to be an empathetic person:
Having a great deal of empathy makes you concerned for the well-being and happiness of others.
It also means, however, that you can sometimes get overwhelmed, burned out, or even
overstimulated from always thinking about other people's emotions.
Types
Uses
Human beings are certainly capable of selfish, even cruel, behavior. A quick scan of any daily
newspaper quickly reveals numerous unkind, selfish, and heinous actions. The question then is
why don't we all engage in such self-serving behavior all the time? What is it that causes us to
feel another's pain and respond with kindness?
Empathy allows people to build social connections with others. By understanding what
people are thinking and feeling, people are able to respond appropriately in social
situations. Research has shown that having social connections is important for both
physical and psychological well-being.1
Empathizing with others helps you learn to regulate your own emotions. Emotional
regulation is important in that it allows you to manage what you are feeling, even in times
of great stress, without becoming overwhelmed.
Empathy promotes helping behaviors. Not only are you more likely to engage in helpful
behaviors when you feel empathy for other people, but other people are also more likely
to help you when they experience empathy.
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First know your value and other: God created al people equal that they are
endowed by their creator with certain unalienable Rights that among these are Life,
Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. This belief will have immense impact on the
lives of people in their intra and inter relations.
Try to understand others first: Don’t assume others just know how you feel,
what you need or want. Make these known. Other people are not mind readers.
Balance your extreme emotions: Emotions separate man from animal in many
respects. They make or break your relationships from turning to be aggressive or
assertive. Many times untamed emotions make people aggressive.
Learn to use healthy language: Your words determine your worlds. If you love
the world, the world loves you. Learn to also say ‘no’.
Be accountable to your words and deeds: As man is abundantly blessed with the
faculty of reason so that he many take decisions on his own and be accountable,
prioritize your thoughts and actions and be ready to face them, rain or shine.
Attitude is good. Positive attitude is better. Right attitude is the best. Attitude is a little thing that
makes a big difference. A person’s mental attitude has almost unbelievable effect on his powers,
both physical and psychological. It is your attitude, not aptitude that determines your altitude.
Your attitude is like a price tag that shows how valuable you are. Life is 10% what happens to
you and 90% how you react to it. Without positive attitude, success is called luck But with
positive attutde, success is called achievement. Alter your attitude and alter your life. Your
attitude towards your career decides your entire career and success. You attitude towards others
decides your relationships and happiness.
They you look at things and react to those things’ is attitude. The way you react to
people, places, events, job, work and failure is attitude. The way you look at the right and bright
side of a problem is called positive attitude. Positive thinking is all about changing your ideas,
perceptions and interpretations about the things around you. By doing so, you determine the way
of handling your life along with its assets and liabilities. Positive thinking is the capacity to focus
on what is right and neglecting what is wrong or unpleasant. Positive thinking is focusing on
reality and possibility of happening certain things with your confidence and determination.
Positive thinking is not day dreaming.
Being positive with your classmates will help you to enjoy healthy relationships and learn
the best things on campus.
Cultivating to be positive will be highly fetching in your interview room to tackle the
stress questions like, “What is your reaction if you are not selected?”
Positive attitude turns you to be an active team player and dynamic team leader which
will be highly useful to execute the projects given to you with best results on time.
Practicing positive attitude in all your dealings with colleagues in your future job
environment will be highly advantageous in excelling in your profession.
How to develop positive attitude? Attitudes can be learned with proper guidance and
training as they are ‘learned presumptions’ and ‘created statements’ towards people,
events and situations.
Right belief and learning breeds right attitude: Your belief in your talent and
learning will boost up your confidence and generate your positive thinking.
Believe and learn things in the right way.
Visualize positive future: Positive visualization will generate hope in future.
Think big!
Associate with positive company: Negative people will instill negative thinking.
Have good friends!
Set positive goals: If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. One who is clear about his
goal will not be easily trapped and tempted. Be optimistic and realistic and be
clear.
Time managent is the technique of planning and managing time in a way to make the optimum
use of it. It is essential to manage your time properly in order to achieve success in any field. The
importance of time management and tips to manage it well are shared here at length.
Greater productivity: When you have a plan to place, all you have to do is implement if you
don’t have to do is implement it. You do not require wasting time in between tasks to decide
what is to be done next and hence the level of productivity increases.
Raised motivation: When you set targets, your motivation level is bound to increase
automatically. Targets inspire you to work harder and prove yourself.
Better Decision making: Time management is all about planning you evaluate all the pros and
Cons as you plan you work and this helps you make better decisions.
Increased work Quality: When you know what you are expected to do during the day and also
have a set sequence in which it is to be done, the planning part is already complete. All you have
to do is concentrate on your work and this result in increased quality.
Reduced Stress: Time management helps you accomplish more tasks in less time and with
lesser efforts. This is thus a great way to combat stress.
Busy Vs Productive:
Busy Productive
Respond with ‘yes’ very fast Thinking twice before saying ‘yes’
Keep talking how busy you are Let the results speak for themselves
Ask for advice Take real actions and get job done
Prioritizing tasks: We have few techniques to prioritize. We can create our own productivity
Journal. It is nothing but time lack of day to day activities. The following are steps to create a
productivity Journal.
Step:1 Step:2
Step:3 Step:4
Q-1 Q-2
Q-3 Q-4
Urgent and important: Crisis, pressing problems. Deadline driven projects, meetings,
preparations.
Important and not Urgent: Preparation, prevention values, clarification planning. Empowerment
relationship building. Time re-creation.
Not-Urgent and not Important: Busy work, junk malls, some phone calls, Time wasters, escape
activities.
Urgent nad not Important: Interruptions, some phone calls, some mals, some reports, some
meetings, many popular activities.
Lack of planning: We should plan things properly for efficient use of time.
Conclusion: Time management is important for every individual whether you are a student,
home maker, business person or a working professional ie you are not to be far from attaining
your goals.
Everything has a purpose in the world: Innumerable evidences prove that man has a purpose
to achieve something in this life. Michal Dento, University of Otego, Says that, ‘All the evidence
available in the biological science supports the core proposition that the cosmos is specially
designed wholly for mankind’. According to an anthropological principle, Dr. Nigel observes, ‘
It seems that the strength of gravity was designed keeping man in mind. Because the strength of
g ravity was just the right strength for the size of the earth to support man to walk’. Everything in
the world has an order and nothing is accidental. From atom to universe and from lifeless things
to living creatures, everything has some purpose or design to do something worthy. Therefore
this purpose driven life is what takes you forward.
Meaning of a goal: A goal is ‘a desired result or possible outcome that a person or a system
envisions, plans and commits to achieve’. Goal setting is a practice or a tool to prioritize ones
interest, dreams and plan to achieve them. Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible
into the visible. Goals are said to be the fuel in the furnace of achievement. Goals are dreams
with deadlines and they determine what one is going to be. The higher goal a person pursues, the
quicker his ability develops, and the more beneficial he will become to the society. The future
belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. The goals are the road maps that
guide and show what is possible for life. Goals are not only necessary to motivate people but also
essential to really keep them alive. When dreams are given a deadline, they become goals.
Benefits of setting goals: Goals transform insurmountable mountains into walkable hills.
Research has shown there are four kinds of people, passive, active, reactive and proactive.
Proactive people are less in number and have the surety to win success in their life because they
use goal setting effectively.
1.Before setting a goal: The preparation for goal setting involves three aspects:
II. Setting a goal: Paul J.Meyer describes the characteristics of S.M.A.R.T. goals in his book
Attitude is Everything (2003) which are widely discussed and followed in a goal setting
strategy.’ A goal properly set is halfway reached.’ Said ZigZiglar.
S-Specific: Be clear and unambiguous when setting your goal. Don’t leave room for guesing.
M-Measurable: Set a goal that allows you measurement toward your goal’s progress.
A-Attainable: Ask yourself, ‘Is this realistic and attainable?’ If not, back to the drawing board.
R-Relevant: Create a goal with importance and meaning. Make sure the effort is worth it to you.
iii. After setting a goal: The Rotaract leaders added two more activities to implement.
You may use certain props to help you make a presentation come alive. You may use:
Planning
Preparation
Presentaion
Decide on the subject. This, of course, is usually given to you, but when it is not, choose
a topic that suits the occasion and the audience.
Put down the objective, or purpose: is it mean to inform, to persuade or to report?
Know your audience. The level of the content, formality and style will depend on this.
List the main points you want to make in your presentation. This depends on the time you
will get.
After you have a final list of points, arrange them in a logical sequence.
Finally, plan what you are going to wear. You must dress formally for your presentation.
PREPARATION:
PRESENTATION:
All the visuals you put up or show on screen must be related to your talk.
The slides, charts or transparencies must be in the right order, matching the sequence of
points in your presentation.
Don not put in too much information on one slide. It will make the slide unreadable.
Put only key words or phrases, points or short sentences on the slides. You can expand on
each of the points when you explain the visual.
Avoid errors in spelling, punctuation and typeface.
Show only one visual or point at a time.
Do not move from one visual to another without giving the audience time to absorb the
information on it.
Practice moving forward and backwards within your presentation. You or someone in the
audience may want to look at an earlier slide.
It is useful to give the audience handouts at the end of your presentation –they will be
able to watch the slide show and listen to you without having to worry about taking down
notes.
Visual must be clear and well designed, and the letters large enough for people even at
the back of the room to read easily.
Use a minimum 20-point Times Roma or any other friendly typeface that can be read
from the back of room.
Before you start, check if the projector you will be using works and is kept in the right
position. Also make that the room is neither too bright not too dark.
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3. d. Mock Presentation
Here are some expressions you can use when making a mock or real presentation.
Opening remarks:
Giving an outline
My presentation will take about half an hour or so. If you don’t mind, could I deal with
questions after the talk, please.
I’ll take only about fifteen minutes of your time. We’ll have a question-and –answer
session after that.
The presentation is going to take around forty minutes. Please feel free to interrupt if you
have a question.
You don’t need to/needn’t take notes. I’ll give you a set of handouts with all the points
we discuss today.
There’s no need for you to copy down/don’t worry about copying down in the visual
Handout containing all of them will be distributed.
I hope everyone has copy of the handout with the examples we’ll be looking at today.
Let’s get started them.
Right, I’ll begin by….
Shall we begin?
Let’s begin, shall we?
Making recommendations
Inviting questions
4. a. Group Discussion
A group discussion is a formal discussion among five to six participants who analyse a topic and
share information and opinions on it. The group is given a few minutes to think about a topic and
then asked to discuss among themselves for a fixed period of time, say for 10-15 minutes. One or
more experts will observe the discussion and evaluate the members of the group. Group
discussion topics are usually of four kinds.
Show your knowledge and your communication skills as well as your ability to work as a
part of a group
Lead others towards conclusions and solutions
Show your understanding of a subject
Show your ability to support your ideas with logical arguments.
Since communication is a two-way process, it is important that, besides speaking, you listen to
the other participants in the group discussion and respond to their ideas or take them forward.
You can contributes to a group discussion in some of the following ways: helping it start, giving
direction to it, making sure that everyone’s views are heard and thought about so that the group
moves towards some kind of agreement, and closing it with a summary or a conclusion.
The guidelines given here will help you prepare for an participate meaningfully in a group
discussion, and will also tell you what to do and not do in order to ensure a good performance.
Before:
Keep yourself updated on current events, issues and topics. Topics for a group discussion
can be chosen from any field, such as sports, politics, media, science and business.
If you have any doubts or questions about the topic, check before the discussion begins.
Take a note pad and a pen to jot down points.
During:
Before speaking, think about what you are going to say so that the statements you make
are relevant, or connected to the topic, and you are able to express your ideas briefly and
clearly.
Speak neither too much nor too little in a group discussion.
Use formal, but simple language that everyone can understand.
Speak clearly so that those who listen to you will understand you and will not have to ask
you to repeat what you said.
Present your ideas and arguments cohesively and logically to convince others.
You can display your creativity in a group discussion by putting forward a completely
new idea or viewpoint.
Be brief and clear.
If you are the one to start a discussion, it is best to begin with a simple, general statement that will
get the discussion going.
Do not take a strong position at the beginning of the discussion, before you have had a chance to
listen to the views of others and weigh all the sides of the issue. Doing this would mean that you
have made up your mind about an issue without discussing it with your team members.
Do not keep waiting for your turn to speak. You will have to be alert and quick to make use of
every chance you get to say what you have to.
Interrupt someone if necessary but be polite.
Do not shout or use impolite language.
Listen to others carefully.
Avoid conflicts by being flexible and open to the point of view of the others.
When you agree with a point made by someone, say so and try to support it or add to it with
another argument or example.
Just as you may agree or disagree with the ideas of the other participants, be prepared for hyours
to be accepted or rejected by the others.
Do not exceed the allotted time but prepare to conclude as soon as you hear the moderator
announce that only a few minutes remain. Prepare a summary in your mind, which you can
present if you get a chance. Do not bring in a new point at this stage.
Sum up the discussion in a simple, clear manner. It does not matter if the group members do not
reach complete agreement-this often happens in discussion.
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