These are fear based. So fear can also work against you.

Going out there and doing it consistently will help you a great deal.

Even with my confidence and years of experience, doing consistently, I don’t always have a
high state of mind. I’m human and have my own flaws but not as much as average guys
who haven’t done enough.

The more you get out of you comfort zone, the more you feel it until you get used to it. I
see fear as given a message to me..

“It’s time to grow.”

Then if you keep doing it, you will get used to it and have fun but you then feel it again. It is
telling you again to step up to grow. So I step up and it is why I approach extremely
attractive girls because I am pushing myself and go into situations and doing what most
fear doing/saying because they worry if they offend girl etc.

There will come a time when you won’t give a shit anymore. There will be a time you have
dated so many extremely attractive girls and even get sick of them. You will find they are
predictable, boring and scared, insecure than you can even imagine with all their facade and
put on confidence.

You will be able to smell them out from a far. You’re social instinct and killer instinct which
helps you to cut through social pressure crap, will attract them.

I don’t even need to try hard anymore but that took sometime, years. Max it took me 2
years consistent everyday, with investing in knowledge and skill.

So you’ll always have this fear but you will have experience for it to help you.

There is none of “approaching without fear.”

There is no such thing.

I like to say there is but I have been doing this for a while now and it is still there. It’s what
makes us….human. To be vulnerable.

It’s a rare quality because most fear showing it.

I don’t mean approaching and confessing love. I don’t do such things. I mean showing
you’re attracted to someone by approaching immediately, being playful, fun, and converse
to build attraction.
Many hide it and sit back at home wishing they had the balls to do it and remembering that
girl or girls they didn’t even try with.

That’s due to social conditioning and that’s why social pressure is hard for most people to
handle.