Kunyaza: Highly Effective Technique for “Squirting” and Female Orgasm

Introduction

Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm.

Massive fluid emission (“squirting” or “gushing”) is a form of female ejaculation. Published

literature on female ejaculation dates back more than 2,000 years (Wimpissinger et al., 2013).

Squirting has been a matter of controversy in western cultures for decades (Salama et al., 2015).

In western societies, 54% of women report female ejaculation (Bullough et al, 1984). In

Rwanda, 80% of women frequently report gushing with a male sexual partner (Akande, 2018,

McCool, 2017). Originally from Rwanda, east Africa, the Kunyaza sexual technique has the

reputation of triggering squirting and orgasms in women during heterosexual encounters. The

nature and origin of squirting is a contentious issue amongst western sex researchers (Salama

et al., 2015). In east Africa where Kunyaza is commonly practised, squirting is a celebrated

cultural event (Akande, 2018). This article investigates the effectiveness of the Kunyaza

technique for inducing squirting and orgasms in heterosexual women. The information in this

paper may be useful for western sexual health professionals seeking non-penetrative

heterosexual practices to enhance female sexual pleasure.

Based on the testimonies of 12 heterosexual women aged between 25 and 48 years, our

survey reveals that Kunyaza is a highly effective technique for female ejaculation. 83% of the

surveyed women reported massive fluid emissions during the Kunyaza sexual practice, 75%

reported that “intimacy,” “letting-go” and a “relaxed mindset” were essential for female

ejaculation. 92% reported experiencing orgasm during Kunyaza, in which all of the women

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reported that clitoral stimulation was essential for orgasm (see Appendix 2). To our knowledge,

this paper is the first article to examine the Kunyaza technique’s effectiveness for inducing

squirting in women.

According to South African sex educator Lerato Charlotte Letsoso, “Kunyaza is the

easiest and effective technique to achieve female ejaculation” (Letsoso, 2019). Rwandan sex

researcher, Dr. Nsekuye Bizimana found that in central Africa, Kunyaza is an effective

technique to trigger orgasm in women who find it difficult to experience orgasm from

penetrative sex (Bizimana, 2011). Providing culturally appropriate therapy, Kunyaza can serve

as a useful model for western sexual health professionals providing therapy for women having

difficulty reaching an orgasm with a male partner (Akande, 2018). Most women who ejaculate

do so on a regular basis and female ejaculation is perceived to enrich the sexual lives of women

and their partners (Wimpissinger et al., 2013). In Uganda Kunyaza is known as kachabali or

“Western Jazz” (Letsoso, 2019). Kunyaza is also practised in Kenya, Burundi, Tanzania, the

Democratic Republic of Congo, and Zimbabwe. In recent times, the African practice has

attracted interest in western Europe, Brazil, and the United States, after the 2016 international

release of the documentary film Sacred Water (Akande, 2018).

The Rwandan sexual practice was documented for the first time in 2005 in a book

published in the German language by the German-based Rwandan sex researcher Dr. Nsekuye

Bizimana. The book was later published in French and Chinese. In 2010, a scientific study

carried out by Bizimana examined the effectiveness of the technique triggering female orgasm.

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In 2011, Bizimana presented his research on Kunyaza and female orgasmic disorder to the 20th

World Congress of Sexual Health in Glasgow, Scotland (Bizimana, 2010; Bizimana, 2011). In

2018, the first book on the Kunyaza technique and Rwanda’s sexual history was published in

English, named, Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure. To date, there is a dearth of studies

on the Rwandan sexual practice.

Aim

The aim of this article was to examine the effectiveness of the non-penetrative Kunyaza

technique for triggering squirting and orgasms in heterosexual women. The article is based on

the surveyed responses of 12 women who practised the technique with a male partner.

Materials and Methods

An online request was made to female readers of the book Kunyaza: The Secret to Female

Pleasure to participate in an anonymous survey questionnaire on their sexual experiences. The

survey was conducted via email and a telephone interview. The survey consisted of 21

questions on the women’s orgasmic and ejaculation experiences with the non-penetrative

Kunyaza sexual technique (see Appendix 1). 12 heterosexual women completed the initial

questionnaire before the 31 December 2018 deadline.

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Results

In total, 12 women participated in the survey questionnaire. All of the women were sexually

active in a committed relationship or married. The survey revealed that during the practice of

Kunyaza; 11 (92%) of the women experienced an orgasm, 8 (67%) of the women experienced

multiple orgasms, and 10 (83%) of the women who ejaculated reported it was a massive fluid

emission (see Table 4 in Appendix 2). In the context of this article, squirting refers to a massive

fluid emission.

What is Kunyaza?

Kunyaza is a traditional sexual practice from Rwanda which has the reputation of facilitating

female ejaculation and orgasms in women during heterosexual encounters (Bizimana, 2010;

Akande, 2018). According to legend, Kunyaza originated with an ancient queen whose

experience with a male guard formed Lake Kivu. The motion that induced the emission

became known as the Kunyaza technique. Described as “African tantra” and “Africa’s secret

to female pleasure,” the non-penetrative Kunyaza sexual technique has been practised for

hundreds of years between heterosexual couples in Africa. The sexual practice involves the

stimulation of the internal and external clitoris (“K-Spot”) with the penis glans to enhance

female pleasure and induce female ejaculation (Akande, 2018; Bizimana, 2010). According to

some female sex educators in Africa, known as Ssengas, men should practice Kunyaza by

tapping the elongated labia with their erect penis (Martínez et. al., 2014; Muhanguzi. 2015).

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There are two types of the Kunyaza sexual practice; simple (non-penetrative) and

complex (non-penetrative and penetrative). During the simple Kunyaza practice, the male

partner rhythmically and firmly strikes the glans clitoris with his erect penis without

penetration. The male partner holds his penis shaft between his index and middle fingers to

stimulate the female genitalia, particularly the glans clitoris and labia minora, by rhythmically

striking these areas with vertical, horizonal and / or circular movements. As the female partner

becomes more aroused and her vulva begins to swell, the male partner slowly rubs his penis

from the top to the bottom of the vulva, then left to right, and then in a zigzagging motion –

always returning to strike the glans clitoris after each rotation. Alternatively the male partner

can then make circular movements with his erect penis around the glans clitoris. As the female

partner is brought close to orgasm, the male partner simultaneously stimulates the whole

vulvar area using long strokes with the penis glans without penetrating.

The complex practice of Kunyaza involves penile-vaginal-penetration (“PVP”) in

addition to the aforementioned stimulation practised during the simple Kunyaza technique.

For increased stimulation, the male partner can practise cunnilingus and / or manual

stimulation inside the female genitalia, including the anterior vaginal wall (an area known as

the “G-Spot”). When properly stimulated the G-Spot area reportedly activates orgasm in

women (Darling et al., 1989). For both the simple and complex Kunyaza practice, the male

partner is advised to use saliva or lubricant to moisten the female genitalia. A combination of

teasing and massaging the vulva, with the aid of lubrication, if required, heightens the female

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partner’s arousal. The female partner can help with the process by cooperating with her male

partner to continue with the stimuli she wants to receive and the intensity of the rhythm that

will be used, as well as by communicating with her partner which parts of her genitalia best

respond to the stimuli.

The clitoris is the focal point of Kunyaza stimulation. In homage to the Kunyaza

practice, the K-Spot term was coined to refer to the wishbone-like clitoral structure which

resembles the letter “K.” Some researchers claim that the G-Spot area is a potential source of

orgasm independent of clitoral stimulation (Darling et al, 1989). However, other studies

suggest that the G-Spot area is in fact part of the internal clitoris, meaning the elusive G-Spot

is actually part of the K-Spot (Akande, 2018; Ladas et al., 2005).

Traditionally, Kunyaza is practised in a number of sex positions which can be grouped

into the following five; sitting positions, lying positions, positions from behind, standing

positions, and positions during pregnancy. In all these sex positions, it is important for the

female partner to be aroused before her male partner penetrates during the complex practice of

Kunyaza. Sex positions stimulate sexual pleasure and can provide a reliable means for

satisfaction of sexual desires for both the male and female partner (Fiaveh, 2015). Studies show

that sex positions offer sexual partners the opportunity to enhance sexual satisfaction

(Bizimana, 2010; Carroll, 2007).

For the purpose of this article, the simple Kunyaza technique will be examined. The 12

female participants will only practise the non-penetrative Kunyaza technique with their male

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partner, which involves the stimulation of the K-Spot with the erect penis. The internal parts

of the clitoris can be stimulated when striking and rubbing the labia minora.

What Is Female Ejaculation?

The emission of fluid during sexual arousal or orgasm in women has historically been described

as female ejaculation. Physicians and erotologists in ancient eastern cultures documented the

female ejaculation phenomenon (Korda et al., 2010). The exact origin and nature of female

ejaculation remains controversial amongst western sex researchers (Salama et al., 2015). For

some researchers, squirting is a type of female ejaculation (Pastor, 2013), for others it is vaginal

lubrication (Wimpissinger, F., 2013), and for others it is urinary emission (Schubach, 2001).

Studies report variable amounts of women emitting fluid emissions ranging from 0.3ml to more

than 150ml (Wimpissinger, F., 2013). The volume of a massive fluid emission is reportedly at

least 15ml which equates to a tablespoon. Some women report emitting up to 900ml of fluid

emissions (Pastor, 2013; Schubach, 2001).

Female ejaculate and squirting are two different types of female ejaculation. Both

phenomena result from different physiological mechanisms and are not typically part of the

female orgasm (Pastor, 2013; Salama et al., 2015; Wimpissinger et al., 2007; Wimpissinger et

al., 2013).

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How Often Do Women Ejaculate?

Regarding the prevalence of fluid expulsion in women, a French study estimated that 10% to

40% of western women regularly or sporadically experience an emission of fluid during orgasm

(Darling et al, 1990; Salama et al, 2015). Another study stated that 54% of western women

reported having experienced a female ejaculation at least once (Bullough et al, 1984, Pastor,

2013). In east Africa, squirting is not considered to be urine (Akande, 2018). In traditional

Rwandan culture, squirting is a regular occurrence, in which most women self-report kunyara

(massive fluid emissions) during heterosexual encounters (Akande, 2018).

Certified sexual health educator Angelica Lindsey-Ali said that 95% of her female

students experience ejaculation from the Kunyaza sexual practice. Popularly known as The

Village Auntie, Lindsey-Ali hosts women-only workshops across the United States on female

sensuality and traditional African sexual practices including Kunyaza. In a telephone

conversation, Lindsey-Ali informed me that women would frequently ask, “How can I squirt?”

in which she would recommend the Kunyaza technique. Lindsey-Ali explains,

Kunyaza has been extremely effective, even for women who thought they’d

never be able to ejaculate. If I have taught the (Kunyaza) technique to 100

(female) students, roughly, I would say 95 of them are able to achieve female

ejaculation by using Kunyaza. This is of course, based on self-reporting.

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Does Kunyaza Trigger Female Ejaculation?

In 2010, Dr. Nsekuye Bizimana carried out a study to investigate whether the Kunyaza

technique triggers female orgasm during heterosexual encounters. The sex researcher critically

analysed the characteristics of the African technique that caused female orgasm and massive

fluid emissions. The study’s data was based on information collected from the interviews of 58

heterosexual men and women in Africa and from 30 readers of Bizimana’s books, Le Secret

De L'Amour À L'Africaine; La Caresse Magique Que Chaque Homme Devrait Connaitre,

(2008) and Kunyaza: Multiple Orgasmen und weibliche Ejakulation mit Afrikanischer

Liebeskunst (2009).

The female respondents in Bizimana’s study confirmed that most women experienced

orgasm when the Kunyaza technique was practised and that it was the main reason why they

asked their male partners to practise the technique on them. Most respondents said the practice

enhanced female pleasure. In line with popular opinion in east and central Africa, Bizimana

argued that the Kunyaza technique is an effective method for triggering female orgasm because

“almost all genital erogenous zones of the woman are stimulated” during the sexual practice

(Bizimana, 2010). The practice of labia minora elongation was not discussed in Bizimana’s

study despite the commonly held belief in Rwanda that it increases a woman’s ability to

“produce the water” (Akande, 2018).

Our survey revealed that of the 12 female respondents who practised Kunyaza with a

male partner; 10 (83%) of the women reported massive fluid emissions, 9 (75%) of the women

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reported the importance of “intimacy,” “letting-go” and having a “relaxed mindset” to

experience ejaculation, and 7 (58%) of the women reported that “sexual competency of their

male partner” was essential to experience ejaculation. None of the women reported that they

had ever practised labia elongation. Therefore labia elongation is not considered essential to

induce female ejaculation. The results indicate that Kunyaza is a highly effective technique for

triggering female ejaculation with a male sexual partner.

What Is The Female Orgasm?

The female orgasm is an intense feeling of sexual pleasure and sexual excitement that occurs

during sexual activity, that can create an altered state of consciousness, usually accompanied

by involuntary, rhythmic pelvic contractions (Meston et al., 2004). Sometimes referred to as

“climax,” an orgasm is an effective indicator of sexual satisfaction. The female orgasm is a

subjective experience, which varies amongst women. Most women require clitoral stimulation

to orgasm according to reports (Gurney, 2020).

Some women experience multiple orgasms as they do not require a refractory period

after the occurrence of an initial orgasm. Multiple orgasms occur in two forms: sequential (one

right after the other, with a rest time in between) and serial (one right after another). A woman’s

mindset often prevents a woman from experiencing multiple orgasms. Studies have shown that

the key to women experiencing more frequent and multiple orgasms lay in mental and

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relationship factors such as; sexual desire, sexual self-esteem, body confidence, and openness

of sexual communication with partners (Kontula, 2016; Ellwood-Clayton, 2012).

Clinical reports and published surveys suggest that female orgasmic disorder, also

known as anorgasmia, is frequently reported sexual problem in women. (Meston et al., 2004).

Studies indicate that women differ greatly from one another in terms of their tendency and

capacity to experience orgasms (Komisaruk et al., 2010; Kontula, 2016).

How Often Do Women Orgasm?

Only 25% of women consistently experience orgasm during penetrative sex according to a

comprehensive analysis of 33 studies over 80 years (Lloyd, 2005), and even fewer women

experience multiple orgasms. The inability to orgasm with a male partner is the second most

common sexual problem for women after a lack of libido (Ellwood-Clayton, 2012; Laumann

et al., 1994; Nusbaum et al., 2000). A confidential internet-based survey of 1,055 American

heterosexual women found that 18% of the women reported that intercourse alone was

sufficient for orgasm, 37% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during

intercourse, and an additional 36% stated that while clitoral stimulation was not needed,

orgasms felt better if their clitoris was stimulation during intercourse (Herbenick, et al., 2018).

During heterosexual encounters women orgasm less than men, studies have found (Mintz,

2015). A 2018 national study of 1,683 newlywed heterosexual couples in the United States

found that 87% of husbands and 49% of wives reported consistently experiencing orgasm. 43%

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of husbands misperceived how often their wives experienced orgasm (Leonhardt et al., 2018).

According to a study of 52,588 American adults, heterosexual women are less likely to usually-

always orgasm during sex (65%), compared to heterosexual men (95%), gay men (89%),

bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), and bisexual women (66%) (Frederick et. al.,

2018). The study found a notable gap between heterosexual man and women in frequency of

orgasm during sexual encounters. This orgasm disparity is known as the “orgasm gap.” In

western societies, the orgasm gap is a cultural problem due to a lack of clitoral stimulation

during heterosexual encounters (Mintz, 2017). For many Africans, Kunyaza is a solution to

close the orgasm gap as it focuses on clitoral stimulation (Gwaambuka, 2019).

Does Kunyaza Trigger Female Orgasm?

The results of our survey found that most women experienced an orgasm with their male

partner. While all of the female participants had previously experienced an orgasm and were

sexually active, 11 (92%) of the women reported experiencing an orgasm during the non-

penetrative Kunyaza practice. All of the women reported that clitoral stimulation was essential

for orgasms. The high rates that women experience orgasm during the Kunyaza practice

suggests that the non-penetrative African technique can help women experience orgasm when

sexually intimate with a male partner.

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Discussion

This article aimed at examining the effectiveness of the Kunyaza sexual technique for eliciting

massive fluid emissions and orgasms in heterosexual women. The purpose of the survey was

to understand women’s ejaculation experiences with the non-penetrative African technique,

based on women’s testimonies. By acknowledging the testimonies of female ejaculators and

the research of African sex educators, western sexual health professionals can provide

appropriate culturally specific therapy and guidance to women on the female ejaculation

phenomena (Tamale, 2005; Tuwe, 2018).

Fluid emissions usually occurs during orgasm (Wimpissinger et al., 2013). Women

report the importance of sexual intimacy for female ejaculation. A number of factors including

shame, envy, self-consciousness, trust, attachment, self-esteem, culture and religion can all

effect sexual intimacy (Wylie, 2009). Some consideration that needs further exploration is;

whether female ejaculation is less likely to occur during sexual intercourse, whether every

woman can emit massive fluid emissions, and whether the non-penetrative Kunyaza technique

is effective for inducing squirting in heterosexual women.

Why Is Female Ejaculation Less Common During Intercourse?

Interestingly, our survey found that female ejaculation occurred more frequently during the

non-penetrative Kunyaza practice (83%) than penetrative sexual intercourse (25%) and

masturbation (67%) (see Appendix 2). The survey’s findings compares well with published

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studies on female sexuality which consistently found that most women do not regularly orgasm

or ejaculate during penetrative sexual intercourse.

According to some researchers, squirting often results from a combination of G-Spot

stimulation and facilitating an emotional connection with a sexual partner (Salama et al., 2015).

Most of the women surveyed for the survey reported having a “relaxed mindset” as essential

for ejaculation. Manual stimulation with the fingers and / or a sex toy is considered to be more

effective for G-Spot stimulation than a penis. This may explain why it is more common for

women to experience massive fluid emissions during manual stimulation of the G-Spot and /

or the K-Spot, in comparison to PVP (Akande 2018). When a woman is comfortable with her

body, focuses on her pleasure without distracting thoughts, and feels relaxed with her partner,

she is more likely to ejaculate, one of the Nigerian respondents informed me during a telephone

interview.

Can Every Woman Squirt?

American sex writer Deborah Sundahl believes every woman is capable of ejaculation. Sundahl

claims most women have ejaculated, but not all are aware of it; “They mistake the fluid for

urine or vaginal lubrication, and some may even believe they have urinary stress incontinence”

(Sundahl, 2014). American sex researcher and pioneer of female sexuality studies, Beverly

Whipple, suggested that all women ejaculate during orgasm, but the volume of the ejaculate is

often so small that it’s undetected, remaining in the urethra or passing back into the urinary

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bladder (Komisaruk et al., 2010). “Every woman has the water,” asserts Rwandan sex educator,

Vestine Dusabe. British journalist based in east Africa, Alice McCool, reported that the

Rwandans she came across said it is rare to find a woman who could not emit large amounts

of “water” with Kunyaza. Women who are unable to ejaculate are referred to as rwasubutare

or mukagatare, both derogatory names in the Rwandan language of Kinyarwanda meaning

“granite splitter” and “rock-woman” respectively (McCool, 2017). Biological factors may play

a role in a woman’s ability to ejaculate, according to urologist Florian Wimpissinger. Following

his research on female ejaculation, Wimpissinger said,

We know of some tribes in Africa where all women are able to ejaculate.

Wimpissinger continues, “In my opinion, female ejaculation depends greatly on

anatomical variation” (Heid, 2015). Indeed some women are more capable than others of

expelling large volumes of fluid during sexual arousal or orgasm. Whether this is down to

genetic, biological or socio-cultural factors is not known. Further research could be conducted

to determine the reasons why African women appear to expel copious fluid emissions more

frequently than non-African women. Some Ssengas believe the labia elongation practice

facilitates female ejaculation. However, the results from our survey reveal that labia elongation

is not essential for women to emit massive fluid emissions.

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The reasons why African women (83%) appear to experience ejaculation more

frequently than western women (54%) was not investigated in this paper as all of the

participants in our survey were of African descent. Further research of a quantitative nature is

necessary to substantiate why African women appear to emit massive fluid emissions more

frequently than non-African women.

Is Kunyaza An Effective Technique For Squirting?

Our survey revealed that Kunyaza is a highly effective technique for triggering squirting in

heterosexual women. According to some African sex educators, Kunyaza is a recommended

heterosexual practice for women to experience sexual pleasure and achieve female ejaculation

without penetration (Letsoso, 2019). Providing culturally appropriate therapy, Kunyaza can

also serve as a useful model for western sexual health professionals providing therapy for

women having difficulty experiencing an orgasm or ejaculation with a male sexual partner

(Akande, 2018). Most women who ejaculate do so on a regular basis and female ejaculation is

perceived to enrich the sexual lives of women and their partners (Wimpissinger et al., 2013).

Sexual pleasure, self-esteem and wellbeing has a considerable influence on women’s desire

and sexual satisfaction, according to studies (Wylie, 2009; Wylie 2010).

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Conclusion

In Africa, Kunyaza is a popular non-penetrative practice for heterosexual couples to enhance

female pleasure. Based on female testimonies, our survey found that Kunyaza is a highly

effective sexual technique for women to experience squirting and orgasms with a male partner.

Most of the surveyed women of African descent (83%) experienced massive fluid emissions

of at least 15ml from the stimulation of the internal and external parts of the clitoris with an

erect penis. All of the female ejaculators reported that the fluid emission was not urine.

“Intimacy,” “letting-go” and a “relaxed mindset” are essential for squirting according to 75%

of the female participants. The questionnaire reveals that labia elongation is not considered

essential for female ejaculation. 92% of the women reported experiencing orgasm with

Kunyaza, in which clitoral stimulation was considered essential. Western sexual health

professionals may find Kunyaza to be a useful practice for women seeking to orgasm or

ejaculate during a heterosexual encounter. Kunyaza is a recommended practice to close the

orgasm gap between male and female sexual partners.

Author

Habeeb Akande is a British-born Nigerian independent researcher, sex educator and the author

of Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure. E-mail: habeebakande@yahoo.co.uk

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Acknowledgments

The author would like to thank everyone who provided data and assisted with the research for

this paper.

Declaration of Interest Statement

No conflict of interest declared.

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Appendix 1 – Questionnaire

Female ejaculation, in the context of this survey questionnaire, refers to the expulsion of fluid

from the urethra in women during sexual arousal or orgasm. Massive fluid emission (squirting)

refers to at least 15ml of liquid. Kunyaza refers to simulation of the female genitalia with the

male penis without penetration. The 21 questions for this questionnaire are as follows;

1. What is your ethnic background?

2. Where do you live?

3. How old are you?

4. What is your sexuality?

5. What is your relationship status?

6. Are you sexually active?

7. Have you experienced an orgasm?

8. Have you experienced an orgasm with self-stimulation?

9. Have you experienced a multiple orgasm with self-stimulation?

10. Have you experienced female ejaculation with self-stimulation?

11. Have you experienced an orgasm with a male sexual partner?

12. Have you experienced a multiple orgasm with a male sexual partner?

13. Have you experienced female ejaculation with a male sexual partner?

14. Have you elongated your labia?

15. Did you experience an orgasm during the simple Kunyaza practice?

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16. Did you experience multiple orgasms during the simple Kunyaza practice?

17. Did you experience ejaculation during the simple Kunyaza practice?

18. If you answered yes to question 17, was the expulsion massive fluid emissions (i.e.

more than a tablespoon of 15ml)?

19. If you answered yes to question 18, do you believe the expulsion was urine?

20. What is essential to experience female ejaculation?

21. What is essential to experience an orgasm?

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Appendix 2 – Questionnaire Results

All of the respondents were ethnically black or mixed-raced heterosexual women of African

descent, aged between 25 and 48 years. All of the women were sexually active in a committed

relationship or married. 6 (50%) of the women lived in the UK, 1 (8%) in Nigeria, 3 (25%) in

South Africa and 2 (17%) in Brazil (see Table 1). Completed survey questionnaires were sent

via email.

The questionnaire results revealed that that 11 (92%) of the 12 women experienced

an orgasm during Kunyaza, 8 (67%) of women reported experiencing multiple orgasms during

Kunyaza and 10 (83%) of the women who ejaculated with the Kunyaza practice reported it was

a massive fluid emission. All of the female respondents reported that they had previously

experienced an orgasm with self-stimulation or a male sexual partner. 10 (83%) of women

reported previously experiencing an orgasm by self-stimulation, 6 (50%) women reported

previously experiencing multiple orgasms by self-stimulation, and 8 (67%) of women reported

previously experiencing female ejaculation by self-stimulation. During sexual intercourse with

a male sexual partner, 75% of women reported experiencing an orgasm, 33% reported multiple

orgasm and 25% reported female ejaculation. None of the respondents had elongated their

labia, indicating that labia elongation is not essential for female ejaculation.

During the non-penetrative Kunyaza sexual practice, 10 (83%) of the women

reported experiencing massive fluid emissions (i.e. more than a tablespoon) which all of the

participants said was not urine. 9 (75%) of the women mentioned the importance of “intimacy,”

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“letting-go” and having a “relaxed mindset” in order for a woman to experience ejaculation

during Kunyaza and 7 (58%) of the women reported “sexual competency of their male partner”

was essential to experience ejaculation. 10 (92%) of the women reported experiencing orgasm

with Kunyaza. All of the women reported that clitoral stimulation was essential for orgasm.

The results indicate that the non-penetrative Kunyaza technique is highly effective for

triggering female ejaculation as more women experienced massive fluid emissions (83%)

during Kunyaza than self-stimulation (67%) or sexual intercourse with a male partner (25%).

Table 1 – Country of Female Participants

Country of Female Participants

60%

50%

40%

30%

20%

10%

0%

Brazil Nigeria South Africa UK

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Table 2 – Female sexual experiences with self-stimulation

Previous sexual experience with self-stimulation

90%

80%

70%

60%

50%

40%

30%

20%

10%

0%

Orgasm Multiple orgasm Female ejaculation

Table 3 – Female sexual experiences with a male sexual partner

Previous sexual experience with male partner

80%

70%

60%

50%

40%

30%

20%

10%

0%

Orgasm Multiple orgasm Female ejaculation

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Table 4 – Female sexual experiences with the Kunyaza sexual technique

Sexual experience with Kunyaza

100%

90%

80%

70%

60%

50%

40%

30%

20%

10%

0%

Orgasm Multiple orgasms Female ejaculation

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