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HUBER - Sexuality
HUBER - Sexuality
•Disorders of desire:
Sexual aversion
Too much sexual desire
•Disorder of erection impotence
•Ejaculation disorders:
Premature Ejaculation, (ejaculatio Praecox)
Absence of ejaculation, (ejaculatio deficiens)
Delayed ejaculation, (ejaculatio retardata)
Ejaculation without orgasm
Sexual dysfunction of women
Appetenz disorders
Sexual aversion is the most common problem
Excitation disorders
Sexual disgust
Orgasm disorders, Anorgasmia
Sexually-induced pain
Dyspareunia
Vaginismus
Hormonal disorders
Outer and inner blockages of
sexuality
Partnership conflicts
Lack of tenderness and sex
No time! Children, Profession, Other ....
Dyspareunia, Anorgasmia, Libido deficiency..
Medicines such as antidepressants or beta-
blockers
Hormone disorders postpartum, climacteric
Old traumas and old patterns
Sexual assaults
Anti-sexual attitudes religious, adopted by
parents
"liberated sexuality of the 68"
What is love?
The art of loving
Erich Fromm
The art of loving Erich Fromm
Sex drive
Desire
Needs
Require
The art of loving
Claim and reality
Basic statements on sexuality
Dopamine
Prolactin
Oxytocin
Testosteron
Dopamine leads to hangover
mood
During sex, the Dopamine levels reaches its highest
level during orgasm – and fals off rapidly after
(orgasme – ejaculation). However, it does not then
return to the balanced normal range, but jumps back
and forth between deficiency and surplus for 14 to
17 days!
This can mean a roller coaster of feelings and moods
for about two weeks - the "after-orgasmic hangover
mood". When Dopamine is low we feel joyless, left
alone, can not open our hearts and have no desire to
be close or even have sex.
Too much dopamine, on the other hand, leads to
anxious inner restlessness, compulsive behavior and
neediness.
The hormone situation during
orgasm dopamine
Prolactin leads to the Libido loss
As an adversary to dopamine, the
prolactin-level after orgasm leaves a
sexual feeling of satiety - in the man the
erection goes away, in the woman the
vagina becomes dry. It almost marks the
end of sex. How dopamine needs the
Prolactin also about two weeks until it
falls to a normal level. During this time,
symptoms may occur such as libido loss,
headache, depressive mood, weight gain,
impotence and vaginal dryness
Prolactin leads to the libido loss
Oxytocin waste leads to
emotional apostasy
The Oxytocinlevel increases during foreplay
and sex, increasing sexual readiness,
reducing control and connecting partners
feelings .
The Oxytocin-Level also drops sharply
parallel to dopamine immediately after a
peak orgasm and takes up to seven days to
return to normal level
A Oxytocin-Deficiency has exactly the
opposite effect as a high level: instead of
connectedness and loving feelings we prefer
to stay in your own room and avoids touch.
Oxytocin waste leads to emotional
emptiness
Testosterone
the reproductive hormone
Testosterone produces the typical
reproductive behavior
igh sexual stimulation, more pleasure
H
hange of partner
C
Enforcement, aggressiveness
Egocentricity, antisocial behaviour
Less empathy
Testosterone
And
Oxytocin
Oxytocin is distributed at:
Stress-reducing
sedently
Lowering blood pressure
Lowering cortisone levels
Promotes wound healing
It even seems to have an inhibitory effect
on breast tumors
Pain processing, pain-relieving
Oxytocin works mentally and socially:
Partner-binding
Subjectively pleasant feelings
Strengthens emotional attachment
in general
Strengthens confidence
Strengthens the group feeling
Sexually lust-enhancing
Oxytocin, Spirituality and Meditation
Now 74 years
now
K
ime, time, time ....
T
Talking, speaking, speaking ... the
couple's conversation
The weekly „couple talk“
Becoming aware of old patterns
Patience and grace with me and the
other
The Role of Love
If I spoke in the languages of men and angels, / but had not
love, / I would be roaring ore or a noisy timpani.
And if I could speak prophetically, and know all mysteries, and
have all knowledge; / if I had all the power of faith / and
could move mountains with it, / but had not love, / I were
nothing.
And if I gave away all my owes / and if I gave my body to the
fire, but had not love, / it was of no use to me.
Love is long-suffering, / Love is benevolent. / She does not
mature, / she does not boast, / she does not inflate.
She does not act inappropriately, / does not seek her
advantage, / does not be provoked to anger, / does not
carry evil.
She does not rejoice in the injustice, / but rejoices in the
truth.
She endures everything, / believes everything, / hopes
everything, / stands up to everything.
Love never ceases. 1. Corinthians Letter 13