Rubens Santini – May/2022

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Index

One day we will be together again ............................................. 3

To those who remain, an appeal from those who have already left ................ 4

Don't be afraid of death ....................................................... 6

The Spirit to evolve needs the physical body ................................... 7

To learn more - reading tips ................................................... 8

Bibliography .................................................................. 11
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One day we will be together again

Our planet, as we know, is a world of atonement and testing. In
other words, suffering is part of our daily lives. But, we have to know
how to deal with it in order to continue our evolutionary path and our
learning.
We can say that we live in a school. And when someone who lives
with us is invited to go to another learning unit, to improve their
knowledge, we should be happy and congratulate them, because we know
that it will also be our turn to finish learning at this school of ours
and go to another institution of teaching, and who knows, it might not
be the same school that our loved one settled in.
This is how we should face death. A loved one leaves one school
and goes to another.
As difficult as it may be for those of us who remain on the
earthly plane, as no one likes to lose such a loved one, let us always
try to remember the good times that were lived together. Let's remove
the emission of thoughts and feelings related to the moment of
disincarnation. This can asphyxiate you and make it difficult for you to
adapt to Spirituality. Spirits are very sensitive to what we emit.
To honor the memory of a departed family member, the best place is
inside our home. Grow a flower pot and offer it to this dear person. It
is a way of valuing Life, because death does not exist. She just moved.
She will be very happy with this gift. Let us pray and vibrate so that
he adapts soon to this new spiritual home.
We certainly miss this person we love, we can be sad, but if we
feed this sadness it can grow. To combat this negative feeling, let's
use a stronger feeling, which is joy. Being cheerful makes us optimistic
and only then will we solve our difficulties easily.
One day we will be together again!
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To those who remain, an appeal from those who have already left

We all suffer when a loved one returns to the Spiritual Plane. Many enter
into crises of despair and revolt when they come into contact with the death
of someone close to them. Only time can soften the hurt until life can return
to normalcy.
Deep down, we believe that this separation would never happen, even
though we are certain that death is a reality for all of us. We believe that
people would remain by our side for all eternity.
There is a great lack of preparation to face these situations, both for
those who leave and for those who stay. They suffer profound psychological and
spiritual imbalances, believing that the separation will be final.
As the vast majority of religions do not prepare for death, the
disembodied person faces many adaptation difficulties when returning to
spirituality. And to further complicate her situation, she is very sensitive
to the thoughts and feelings of family members and close people, mourning and
reliving the painful moment that caused her death.
We are going to show three excerpts from letters from the disincarnated,
psychographed by Chico Xavier, addressed to family members asking for
understanding and resignation in the face of separation, and that they return
to their daily activities:

(1) “(...) I am here asking you to help me with your patience. I have
suffered more from your tears than I have from the deliverance of
the body. That's because your pain binds me to the memory of
everything that happened. And when the lady starts to ask how the
disaster would have been, in the silence of her despair, I feel
asphyxiated again. Let us be calm and resigned. What passed was the
Law being fulfilled. (...)”

(psychographed message from the Spirit William José Guagliardi

through Chico Xavier and published in the book “A vida no Além”).

(2) “(...) I see your face over and over, all bathed in tears over my
chest and your voice reaches me so clearly that I seem to carry
ears in my heart. Oh, Mama! I don't have the right to ask your
affection for more than I've always received, but if your son can
ask anything more of your dedication, don't cry anymore. (...) Your
words from the soul is under rude affliction, tormented, wanting to
die to find me. Don't do that, Mommy! (...)”

(message from the Spirit Alberto Teixeira psychographed by Chico

Xavier and published in the book “Presença de Chico Xavier” by
Barbosa).

(3) “(...) I come to ask my family members not to cry like this with so
much heartache. Nearly two years ago, the Law of God brought me to
new life, but, dear sister, your brother is bound by afflictions at
home. Don't cry anymore with this pain that seems like a brazier in
the heart. (...) Father friend and dear sister, as I also ask you,
my dear Garcia, help me with the prayers of hope and remember that
no one dies. (...)"

(message from the Spirit João Jorge de Lima psychographed by Chico

Xavier and published in the book “A vida triunfa” by Paulo Severino
Rossi and the AME-SP team – Editora FE).
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In his book “Quem tem medo da morte?” Richard Simonetti gives us the
following guidance:
“Evidently we are not going to cultivate false tranquility, considering
it natural that someone very loved leaves for the Spiritual Plane. However
great our understanding, we will certainly suffer a lot. However, we must
maintain serenity, trust in God, not for ourselves, but above all, for the
benefit of the one who departed. More than ever he needs our help, and
especially our prayers.”
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Don't be afraid of death

For those people of little spirituality, attached to material goods,
even knowing that death is the only certainty in this life, they are
constantly ignoring it as if it had immortality. But when he loses a loved
one, he despairs as if he will never see that family member again. What most
torments these people in relation to death is not knowing when and where it
will occur. If you will suffer or feel pain at this moment, demonstrating
how terrifying the unknown is.
To exemplify this fear of the unknown, let's remember that death is like
going to school for the first time. We didn't know what it was, what
happened there and who was in this place. But all we had to do was go to
school and in a few days we adapted, made friends and enjoyed what was done
there. And we understand that school is a pleasant and very important place,
because there we learn many things. So is death. It is the passage from this
earthly plane to the spiritual one, where there will be a new school and we
will have new learnings.
Dying is not ending, it is disincarnating, that is, leaving the body of
the flesh. It is to release the Spirit that was connected to the physical
body. And this Spirit continues to live in another dimension which is the
Spiritual Plane.
In his book “Uma razão para viver”, in the chapter “Repensando a morte”,
Richard Simonetti informs us:
“Ignorance around the subject is widespread, inspiring terrible fears in
those who leave and insurmountable anguish in those who remain. There are
people who seem unable to return to normalcy when a loved one dies,
especially if tragic circumstances are involved. (...) For these people,
Spiritism has excellent news, demonstrating that our loved ones are still
connected to us. They see us, they visit us, they encourage us, they support
us in difficult times and, above all, they wait for us...”
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The Spirit to evolve needs the physical body

We have that false image that everything has its day, even to die. But
in reality, the exact opposite may happen. The vast majority of human
beings, making bad use of their free will, damaging their physical body, end
up returning to the Spiritual Plan ahead of schedule.
Speaking figuratively, for example, we get a new car so we can go on a
long trip. We were guided how to drive this vehicle so that we can reach our
destination in a given time. If we use it badly, and we don't drive it
properly, we can cause accidents, damage this vehicle and we won't complete
our travel plan.
This car is our physical body. We can destroy our organism with excess
alcohol, cigarettes, poor diet, lack of physical exercise and inadequate
rest. All this can shorten our physical life. Just like cultivating negative
thoughts, grudge, hatred, desire for revenge favor having a heart attack,
tumors or cancer.
This early death, caused by our negligence in taking care of the
physical body, is considered by Spiritual Benefactors a kind of suicide. We
will have to answer for the damage caused to the instrument that would be
used for the evolution of our Spirit. And these somatized anomalies in this
earthly body end up reflecting in our perispirit (spiritual body) bringing
problems in future reincarnations, causing deficiencies in our future
physical body.
Life in the physical body is very important so that we can correct what
we did wrong in previous existences and contribute to our spiritual
evolution.
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To learn more - reading tips

For those who want to know more about what happens in the transition
from the earthly plane to the spiritual, and their adaptation phase in this
new environment, we recommend 4 books for reading and study. Its reading is
easy to understand:

(1) O que eu encontrei do outro lado da vida

Medium: Vera Lúcia Marinzeck de Carvalho
16 reports by different Spirits
Publishing company: Petit Editora

Reports of those who have already moved to the spiritual plane and tell
what they found in this passage. Some report that they did not even realize
that they were no longer part of the earth plane. There are reports of how
children who leave for spirituality are received. Anyway, these are real
stories of ordinary people showing us the difficulties of adaptation in the
spiritual plane.
The Spiritual Mentor Antônio Carlos informs us in the Introduction of
this book: "There are many spiritist books that bring news from the spiritual
plane. Responding to my invitation, some friends narrated their
disincarnation: how it was and what they found with the departure, how they
found themselves ‘on the other side of life’".

(2) Flores de Maria

Medium: Vera Lúcia Marinzeck de Carvalho - by the Spirit of Rosangela
Publishing company: Petit Editora
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"Flores de Maria" is a colony of the spiritual plane where children and

teenagers who left for the other side of life are housed. Rosângela, the young
woman who narrates her story of the spiritual plane, left before turning 14
due to cancer. With a light narrative, Rosângela tells how babies, children
and young people who cross over to the other side are received, showing us how
spiritual friends are always close by, helping them, as well as helping
parents and loved ones who stayed.

"- Why is it that sometimes I hear voices of my family? It seems that

they talk there and I hear them here.
I looked at Lourdes, waiting for an answer. She thought for a moment and
said:
- I don't know what's going on, Rosângela. I hear them too, and if I
hear them cry, I feel sad."

(3) O Mundo que encontrei

Medium: Alayde de Assunção e Silva - by the Spirit of Luiz Sérgio
Publishing company: RECANTO

"The World I Found" presents a pleasant read that leads pleasantly to

the revelation that life does not cease with the death of the physical body,
continuing "somewhere" in the vast Universe.

" Imagine that when I died, I immediately got up and thought I had woken
up from a fainting spell. It didn't occur to me to look back and see my body
stretched out."
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(4) Violetas na Janela

Medium: Vera Lúcia Marinzeck de Carvalho - by the Spirit of Patrícia
Publishing company: Petit Editora

With simple and clear language, the book presents us with the
continuation of life after the death of the physical body. For this, Patrícia,
a 19-year-old girl, passed away very early and through her aunt Vera Lúcia,
through psychography, tells us what life is like in a spiritual colony.

"I woke up many times, only to fall asleep right away. During this
waking period, I observed the place where I was. It was a room with pale walls
and a closed window. The place was in shadow. I felt extremely good. I heard
my father's voice, or rather, felt the words: “Patricia, dear daughter, sleep
peacefully, friends are watching over you. be at peace."
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Bibliography

(1) “O Evangelho Segundo o Espiritismo” – Allan Kardec – Edições FEESP

(2) “O Livro dos Espíritos” – Allan Kardec – Edições FEESP
(3) “O Céu e o Inferno” – Allan Kardec – Edições FEESP
(4) “Quem tem medo da morte?” – Richard Simonetti – Editora CEAC
(5) “Uma razão para viver” – Richard Simonetti – Editora CEAC
(6) “Em busca do homem novo” – Richard Simonetti/Sérgio Lourenço/Therezinha Oliveira
(7) “Nossa vida no Além” – Marlene Nobre – Editora FE
(8) “O que eu encontrei do outro lado da vida” – psychography of the medium Vera Lúcia
Marinzeck de Carvalho – 16 reports by different spirits
(9) “Flores de Maria” – Spirit of Rosângela through the medium Vera Lúcia Marinzeck de
Carvalho

Rubens Santini (rubens.santini@gmail.com)

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