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In any of these states of life God calls us to build up society in a manner that reflects
the love of God. This is our general vocation as Christians. Even through work God
wants us to build his kingdom. God calls us to meaningful work that brings value to
humanity; work that does not exploit people for personal gain. In your occupation, ask
yourself each day how your work will bring glory to God and help people rather than
take advantage of others for personal profit.
Each vocation requires some sacrifice to die to self in the service of others. Perhaps this
is the true meaning of vocation. Through serving others we act as God to others and we
become more and more like Christ each day. While we might sin and fall short of what
God desires for us, God still calls us to faithfully live our vocations in the hope that we
will be with God in heaven someday.
It is important to first determine which way of life God is calling you to. This process of
determining God's call for your life is known as discernment.
1. Vocation is by invitation
The word vocation comes from the Latin vocare which means to call.
God calls or invites you to a particular vocation: single life, marriage, priesthood or
consecrated life. Although each of us must make a decision about our vocation, that
choice is a response to an invitation from God. As such, Pope Francis has commented:
“to become priests, religious is not primarily our choice. I don’t trust the seminarian, the
novice who says: ‘I have chosen this path.’ I don’t like this. It’s not right! But it is the
response to a call and to a call of love” (Vatican City, 9 July 2013).
I'm concerned about how my family and friends will react if I tell them I'm
interested in the priesthood.
Often times when a person has a call to the priesthood other people recognize and
support that call. Parents, family and friends may surprise you and react positively. In
some situations, however, they may be disappointed or even angry. If someone
responds in this way, be patient - with a bit of time they may come to see the positive
value of your calling. If people are upset, remember, accepting God's invitation is very
rewarding even if other people do not understand.
I think God is calling me to the priesthood, but I am also attracted to married life.
Great! That's exactly how a healthy priestly vocation manifests itself. An attraction to
marriage and the desire for a family is a normal, healthy part of every young man's life.
A true calling to the priesthood should always come in addition to a desire for family life,
not instead of it.
It is a common misconception that men become priests because they don't want to get
married or because they don't like women. This is absolutely untrue! All good priests
would also make good husbands and fathers. And more importantly, all good priests
have some level of desire for married life. If they didn't, then the promise to live an
unmarried, celibate life would be meaningless, because it would involve no sacrifice.
2 Principal elements of every vocation