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o Abuser = to isolate
o Genuine Adult Leader = integration
- Abusers introduce items that are secretive and produce impairment and arousal.
o Pornography, alcohol, drugs
C. Barrier Testing and Erosion: The abuser uses physical touch to determine a child’s existing physical
boundaries and begins to erode them away.
- We all have barriers that we feel are appropriate even children (talk, affection, touch)
- Abusers are trying to find out where is that child’s boundary and is it negotiable.
- Nudity will be introduced in this stage, usually “accidentally”
D. Keeping the Victim Silent: The sexual abuser is adept at keeping victims from sharing the abuse: using
threats, blame, shame and embarrassment.
- 2/3 of people won’t tell until they are adults if they tell at all.
- They believe, “no one will believe me”
- 92% - 98% of outcries are factual!!!!