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Lifestyle > Relationships

15 Amazing Sex
Toys for Long-
Distance
Relationships
A world of remote-controlled
pleasure awaits.

BY SAMANTHA VINCENTY

FEB 8, 2021

Marcos Osorio / EyeEm / Getty Images

Making a long-distance
relationship work is hard, as
anyone who's ever tried one
knows. Whether the two of you
are separated by several
continents or just a few miles in a
pandemic, not seeing each other
for long stretches of time requires
some creativity in order to
maintain intimacy and stay
emotionally connected. Breathless
all-night phone calls, sexting,
thoughtful gifts, and sweet love
notes remain wonderfully
romantic. But fortunately,
technology has made it easy to
bond in newer (and wilder) ways
thanks to sex toys speciDcally
made for long distance trysts. And
with video chat apps like Zoom
and FaceTime, it can even feel
almost like you're close enough to
touch.

Fortunately, you can still touch

yourself—and with help from
some of the best couples' sex toys
on the market, your true love will
feel like they're part of the action,
too. From vibrating panties to app-
controlled products, the future of
app and Bluetooth-enabled long
distance sex tecj is here. And while
we can't promise they'll save a
strained relationship, they WILL
help keep things fresh and ease
the sexual frustration (just don't
forget to use lots and lots of
lubricant and clean them well
afterward!). So, until you can be
back in baby's arms again, here
are the best long-distance sex toys
you can use to satisfy each other
while you're apart.

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LOVENSE

Nora by Lovense

$119 A T A MA Z ON

$140 AT L OVE H ON E Y

Getting familiar with state-of-the-art

sex toys meant for long distance love
means learning a new
word: "Teledildonics." It's the term for
a growing selection of internet-
connected sex toys that allow a user to
control their partner's pleasure via a
phone app or other software. Nora, a
rabbit vibrator from teledildonics
pioneer Lovense, has a rotating head,
a Sexible arm with 3 power levels, and
four vibration patterns. A user can
play with the toy themselves—giving
their partner a private show via either
Lovense's own video chat, or another
such as Zoom or Skype—or let their
partner "drive" the Bluetooth-enabled
vibe remotely with the app. 

One thing to know about these

technological wonders: There is some
concern about hackers hijacking users'
software, as Wired reported in 2019
(the story cites a Mozilla assessment
that found Nora, Max II, and the We-
Vibe sync to be among the most
privacy-secure.) If you do choose to
use a toy makers' patented video
software, just know that it's possible, if
not probable, that someone
unwelcome can hack in.  

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Lovehoney

We-Vibe Chorus App and

Remote Control Couple's
Vibrator

$200 AT L OVE H ON E Y

This toy from We-Vibe is meant to

curve to the wearer's shape, providing
hands-free pleasure both internally
and externally. Waterproof and
rechargeable, it offers 3 speeds, 7
vibration patterns, and a high tech
"squeeze remote" that matches the
vibration intensity to your grip. It pairs
with a phone app so your partner can
play with you from wherever they are,
and it's also versatile enough to use
during intercourse when you two
Dnally meet up in person. 

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LOVENSE

Max 2 - Nora's "Partner"

$129 A T A MA Z ON

For people with a penis, Lovense's Max

2 male masturbator sleeve was made
to be used solo, or your long-distance
love can control Max's vagina-like
contractions through software—while
receiving pleasure from their own
Nora or Max. Offering seven vibration
patterns and three contraction
settings, the elaborate mechanisms
inside are best understood by
watching the video demo on
Lovenses's site—where you can buy
the Nora and Max 2 together for $190.

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Babeland

We-Vibe Moxie Panty

Vibrator

$130 AT L OVE H ON E Y

Moxie fans love this popular wearable

panty vibrator for its discreet size, and
the Sat pebble-sized magnet that
keeps it attached to any pair of
underwear. It has 10 rumbly vibration
modes, comes with a remote, and
works with the We-Connect app. 

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Kiiroo

Cliona™ by KIIROO® Clit

Stim Vibrator

$99 A T K I I ROO.COM

Amsterdam-based KIIROO's tech-based

toys are made "for love online," and
this waterproof cute clitoral stimulator
is compatible to connect with the rest
of their products (such as their sleeves
for partners who have a penis, or their
OhMiBod line) via their FeelConnect
app for IOS and Android, so partners
can stimulate each other with their
toys. And here's where it gets next-
level: with a virtual reality (VR)
headset, folks can also use their toy
with interactive adult content.

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Lovehoney Desire

Luxury App-Controlled
Panty Vibrator

$125 A T L OVE H ON E Y

Lovehoney's well-reviewed entry into

the app-controlled panty vibrator
game boasts twelve speeds and eight
patterns. It also comes with a pair of
black lace ribbon-tied briefs to nestle
the vibrator in. It's waterproof, and
you can use the Desire's app controls
alone for hands-free fun or let your
partner do the toggling.

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Kiiroo.com

KIIROO® Onyx+™
Interactive Male
Masturbator

$220 AT K I I ROO.COM

For couples who want to replicate the

experience of in-person sex (insofar as
the real thing can be simulated
through technology), the Kiiroo
Onyx+ is a well-reviewed masturbator
intended for people with a penis, that
connects with the Cliona and the rest
of the brands' Bluetooth-enabled toys
for mutually enjoyable video chat
sessions. With 10 contracting rings
inside, it has three modes (including
"interactive"). You can buy Onyx and
Cliona as a pair, too. 

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