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Screentime Guide
Your guide to more effortlessly watching
TV shows & Movies with your highly
sensitive kids
www.highlysensitivefamily.com 2022
What's In This Guide
How It Started...
Last week I shared with the HSF instagram community how challenging
it can be to find a movie my son could tolerate. TV shows don't seem to
pose as much of a problem for us - on the whole, TV shows tend to have
much less violence, death & loss - but movies that aren't "too much" can
be really hard to find.
And wow did I ever receive a response to that. Floods and floods of
messages came in saying "Us Too!" "Me Too!" "I Thought We Were The
Only Ones!"
So I did what one does when one has a fairly large community at her
finger tips and I asked everyone to share their favourite "sensitive-
friendly" movies & shows. And the response was overwhelming -
everyone came out to share their favourites and so I thought it would be
a nice a way to thank you for supporting me & my small business, to
compile them all into one easy to find document.
Now keep in mind, all of our kids are different, and just because a movie
or show worked for someone else, doesn't mean it will work for your
child. And a show tolerated by a 6-year-old, might not be as easily
tolerated by a 3-year-old (Just looking at the list, I can already see that
there are a bunch on there that did not go over well with my son when
tried).
But before we go there, let's talk a little bit about screens & the highly
sensitive child, plug I'm going to share some of our own personal screen
journey!
And then just yesterday, after I'd gone through all the community
submissions that you'll find coming up in this guide, I decided to try one
of them out - My Neighbor Totoro - and just watching an animated bear
sneeze and blow a little girl across the screen brought my son to tears. It
was just too much.
For our highly sensitive kids there are a few reasons why some shows &
movies can feel like "too much."
But if we really want to tease apart what this all looks like when it comes
to screentime, we first have to understand what it is to be highly
sensitive person. So let's start there.
2) Overstimulation
Because they're taking in & processing all this information, they're more likely
to be overstimulated by it. And because of that overstimulation, we'll often see
big emotions, fear or sadness during the show, prompting them to ask us to
turn it off. But also, for others, it's only once the show is finished that we see all
of that dysregulation showing up in their bodies. A sign of that overstimulation
while watching a show can often be that zoning out that we can see - where
you can't pull them away from what they're watching or engage them in any
way - and then as soon as we turn it off the show, we get the meltdowns and
the eruption of anger. Or we see lots of dysregulation throughout the day, even
hours after they finished watching.
So get curious. Play around with what you allow them to watch and for
how long. And good luck!
Now fast forward to my second child, who is now 14 months, and can
happily sit playing with his toys, barely ever looking at the screen, while my
older son is watching a movie in the same room, and it's very clear how
different they are. Which is why it's so important that you remember that
you know your child best and not all screen advice will work for all kids.
So we made the decision to set a new boundary and really limit screen use
to just one day a week. Only watching TV on Saturdays became the new
boundary and wow did it ever make a difference. No more begging for it
everyday, no more whining until I put it on - he learned that Saturdays is
for screens, and that's it. And me holding that boundary, not making
exceptions, has really helped him learn to accept that as well.
Again, we all get to make the right decisions around screen use for
ourselves and our children, but because I had a child who was so obsessed
with screens, I knew I needed to be really diligent with the boundaries I
was setting for him. And this is what worked for us, especially when he was
watching TV everyday.
It's really important to remember that our kids are really good about
following rules if they understand the rules that are in place. But the only
way they can understand those rules is if we stick to them. So it can be
really helpful to get clear on your why, which will make it easier to
maintain those boundaries on your harder days.
(But also know, that it's totally ok to break the rules sometimes too. Just
know that when you do break the rules, it may take a few days before they
understand the rules again, whatever your rules may be)
Movies:
Tinker Bell Disney Animated Shorts Extinct
Inside Out Robin Robin A Grand Day Out
Curious George Documentaries In Winnie the Pooh (1977)
Octonauts General Toy Story Series
My Neighbour Tororo Wall-E
Spirit (skip capture & Peter Rabbit Holiday Movies:
soldier scenes) Ferdinand
The Snowy Day
Sing Singin' in the Rain
The Snowman
Sing 2 Piper
The Snowman & The
Daniel Tiger Movie Turning Red
SnowDog
Luca Emperor's New Groove
Charlie Brown/Peanuts
Ratatouille Kiki's Delivery Service
White Christmas
Thomas The Tank Julia Donaldson Short
Klaus
Engine Films
Muppets Family
Ponyo (some scary Tangled
Christmas
parts) Elf
Frozen
Cars (but not Cars 2) Soul
Stickman
Clifford Zog
Arthur Christmas
The Bee Movie Snail & The Whale
Emmet Otter Jug Band
Zootopia
Christmas
HIGHLY SENSITIVE FAMILY 8
The TV & Movie List
TV Shows:
Curious George Dino Dana & Dino Dan Ada Twist
Puffin Rock Masha & The Bear Winnie The Pooh
Ben & Holly's Magical Bananas in Pyjamas Fireman Sam
Kingdom Mr. Rogers Clifford
Trash Truck Chicken Squad Stella & Sam
Sarah & Duck Doc McStuffins Ms Rachel (Youtube)
Tumble Leaf Dinosaur Train Stillwater
Octonauts Molly of Denali Guess How Much I Love
Daniel Tiger Super Why You
Milo & Otis Franklin Llama Llama
Sesame Street Shaun the Sheep Creative Galaxy
Little Bear Zoboomafoo Puppy Dog Pals
Bluey Wild Kratts Firebuds
Elinor Wonders Why Zenimation National Geographic
If You Give A Mouse A In The Night Garden Saved By The Barn
Cookie Story Bots My Packed Life
Thomas The Tank Magic School Bus Super Dad
Engine Roly Poly Ollie Buddy & Duff Baking
Stinky & Dirty Pocoyo Series
Blue's Clue's Anne With An E Jessy & Nessy
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