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NEWS AND NOTES FROM THE GENERAL SERVICE OFFICE OF A. A.

Vol. 16 No.2 Memorial Issue, January 1971

TO OUR BILL~ IN LOVING MEMORY


Bill W. died at 11 :30, Sunday , ing buddy , had visited Bill in the
January 24, 1971, at the Miami house on Clinton Street in Brook-
Heart Institute, Miami Beach, Fla., lyn, New York, where Bill lived,
after a long illness. He had been unemployable, seemingly a hope-
treated for emphysema since 1968. less drunkard supported by his
At death he was 75 years old. wife, Lois.
After a private funeral service, Ebby had stopped drinking after
burial will be in E. Dorset, Vt ., affiliating himself with the Oxford
where he was born on November Groups, a religious movement then
26, 1895 . These arrangements fol- very popular.
lowed Bill's wishes. In Towns Hospital, Bill had the
.A.A. groups around the world transforming spiritual experience
will hold memorial meetings Febru- which relieved him of a desire to
ary 14, 1971, honoring Bill's work BILL 'S BIRTHPLACE - E . Dorset, Vt. drink, and prompted him to try to
as co-founder of Alcoholics Anony- persuade other drunkards to give
mous, author of basic A.A. books, and children jumped to their feet up drinking.
and chief architect and articulator applauding and cheering. Many His efforts seemed to meet with
of the Fellowship's principles. wept. no success until May, 1935, when
Many 24 hours had passed since he found himself about to take a
Last Public Appearance Bill had gulped from a bottle of gin drink in the Mayflower Hotel, in
on the steps of Towns Hospital, Akron, Ohio after a business dis-
Bill's last public appearance was New York. appointment.
at the Spiritual Meeting, July 5, That proved to be his last drink, Suddenly he realized that his
1970 , in Convention Hall, Miami on Dec. 11, 1934. It followed futile efforts in New York to sober
Beach, which closed the 35th An- shortly after Ebby T. , an old drink- (top. 2)

niversary International Convention


-the fifth in A.A. history.
He had gone to Florida anticipat- TO HONOR BILL'S MEMORY
ing a full speaking schedule, but vi-
rus pneumonia necessitated a short Lois, Bill's widow, wishes to in memoriam fund to be adminis-
hospitalization, and physicians al- convey her gratitude to the thou- tered by the General Service Board
lowed him only the one token con- san9s of friends-and even strang- of A.A. for some special A.A. pur-
vention appearance. ers-who sent her messages of sym- pose.
That Sunday morning, the tall, pathy and comfort . Personal ac- Only contributions from A.A.
slender and somewhat weary white- knowledgement of each will be members can be accepted,of course,
haired man was wearing a bright physically impossible . because of the A.A. Tradition of
orange-colored jacket as a salute to Both Bill and Lois had request- self-support. Checks should be
the A.A .'s of his host state . ed no flowers. They suggested that mailed to "Memorial Fund , P.O.
As he pulled himself to his feet, A.A. members may wish, instead, Box 459, New York, New York
a throng of 11 ,000 men, women, to make contributions to a special 10017 ."
THE THREE LEGACIES OFA.A.
(from p.]) By 1937, the co-founders re-
up other drunkards had at least re- alized that about 40 once-hopeless
sulted in his own sobriety for near- drunks were staying sober in two
ly five months. So instead of going tiny, nameless bands in Ohio and
into the bar, Bill began a series of New York. They then persuaded
telephone calls to find a fellow al- those first members that a written
coholic whom he could try to help record of their experience should
believing now that whether the be made, so it could be used by
other listened to him or not, try- other alcoholicsin other places,
ing to help another person would, and at other times.
it seemed, prevent him from taking The result was the book, "Alco- So in 1945, he wrote for the
that drink. It was now, for the first holics Anonymous," first published A.A. Grapevine "Twelve Points to
time, a matter of his own survival. in 1939. The movement itself soon Assure A.A.’s Future." These be-
became known by the name of the came the Twelve Traditions.
book. Bill wrote the first 11 chap- They were accepted by the Fel-
ters, including the famous Twelve lowship at its first International
Steps suggested as a program of Convention in Cleveland, Ohio, in
recovery. He later described Recov- 1950, the year of Dr. Bob’s death.
ery as the First Legacy of A.A.’s Bill described them as the Leg-
earliest members to the rest of us. acy of Unitythe Second Legacy
In the next few years, A.A. from A.A.’s founders to its future
ideas and proceduresin addition members. He enlarged on them in
As a result, in the gatehouse of to those in the 12 Stepswere be- "Twelve Steps and Twelve Tradi-
the Seiberling estate in Akron, Bill ing developed. tions," his second look, published
met Robert H. ("Dr. Bob") S., a in 1952.
surgeon who was also an alcoholic. Ownership of the movement’s
ANONYMITY
This meeting of the two who be- books and operation of its princi-
came known as the co-founders of pal information office (G.S.O.) in
Upon his death, Bill’s full name
A.A., represents, in a way, the first New York, had been entrusted in
was revealed by A.A.’s General
session of the very first A.A. 1939 to a non-commercial corpor-
Service Board to public news me-
"group." It was the start of Dr. ate board. Among trustee mem-
dia for the first time.
Bob’s recovery. bers of the Board (all unpaid), dis-
This may have been one of the
He resumed his medical prac- tinguished nonalcoholic business
best kept secrets of modern times
tice, specializing in the hospital and professional men outnumbered
particularly remarkable in this ce-
treatment of alcoholics. A.A. members. But the Board had
lebrity-conscious, publicity-seeking
With Dr. Bob’s encouragement, few ties of any sort to the A.A.
age of famous personalities.
Bill devoted nearly all his time groups and membership.
Informed opinion had long re-
thereafter to A.A. which grew cognized that Bill’s anonymity To remedy this, Bill proposed
steadily into 16,000 groups in 90 probably could not be maintained that a General Service Conference
countries, with an estimated total in public news accounts of his composed of delegates elected by
membership of over 475,000. death. So the Board arranged this
particular exception to the Tradi-
tion: Bill and Lois concurred.
The Board furnished the news
media with accurate obituary infor-
mation and photos. This action
might actually emphasize the im-
portance of A.A.’s traditional ano-
nymity.
U.S. and Canadian A.A. groups,
meet annually as a bridge between
the membership and the Board.
At the Fellowship’s second In-
ternational Convention (St. Louis,
1955) the Conference was accepted
by the Fellowship as the perman-
ent successor to Bill, Dr. Bob, and
A.A.’s other oldtimers. It is the
means by which the General Serv-
ice Board of A.A. holds itself ac-
countable to the entire member-
ship.
In "A.A. Comes of Age," pub- A meeting of the G.S. Conference
lished in 1957, Bill described this
event in a brief history of A.A.’s
first 21 years. Maybe he told it best at his own a cover picture story by Time mag-
35th A.A. anniversary dinner. The azine.
In 1966, the Conference changed
1969 event climaxed A.A.’s first Bill never completely lost the
the ratio of alcoholics to nonalco-
holics on the G.S. Board, provid- World Service Meeting. Vermont twang from his speech. It
ing for a Board of 14 A.A. and Twenty-seven delegates from 15 added to the wry stories he liked to
seven nonalcoholic trustees. countries were among the 3,500 tell on himself.
guests who heard Bill say that A.A. During his last months he told
really began in the office of Dr. one visitor to Stepping Stones, his
Third Legacy Carl Jung, a founder of psycho- home in Bedford Hills, N.Y., about
To Bill this signified the Fellow- analysis and modern psychiatry returning to Wall Street business
ship’s complete acceptance from in Zurich, Switzerland, during treat- activities in the 1960’s.
its founding members of the Third ment in the early 1930’s of an After his semi-retirement in
Legacythe responsibility for Serv- American alcoholic named Roland. 1962 from active A.A. leadership,
ice to alcoholics, as well as for its The latter in turn would share his one day at an airport he ran into an
own future. experience with Ebby T., the form- old business acquaintance from his
In "As Bill Sees It," (The A.A. er drinking crony of Bill’s who in Wall Street days of the 1920’s. With
Way of Life), Bill’s last book his turn carried his recovery mess- delight and surprise, they recog-
(1967), he returned to the inspira- age to Bill in Brooklyn in 1934. nized each other.
tional and spiritual concerns which The old friend exclaimed, "Bill,
since 1934 had formed the basis of where have you been?
his own personal life. It summar- Declined Public Honors Bill said he found himself slight-
izes in a daily-reader format much ly miffed. "I thought everyone," he
of the help he freely gave to other In accordance with the Tradi- said, "knew I was the No. 1 drunk
alcoholics in thousands of visits tions, Bill declined public honors of A.A.!"
and a vast correspondence. for his A.A. work. These included So he decided to let the man
an honorary Doctor of Laws de- know he was a founder of it. He
Thousands of A.A.’s probably
remember Bill best as speaker at gree, a movie of his life story, and asked, "Have you ever heard of Al-
International Conventions held coholics Anonymous?"
every five years since the Cleveland "Oh sure," said the old friend.
meetings in 1950in 1955, in St. "I’m glad you finally joinedA.A.
Louis, Mo.; in 1960, in Long Beach, Now since you’re sober, would you
California; in 1965, at Toronto, The March issue of The A.A. like to work with me again?"
Ont., and in 1970, at Miami Beach, Grapevine, to which Bill was a "And after I wiped the egg off
Florida. frequent contributor, will be a spe- my face," Bill said, "I did!"
He held thousands spellbound as cial memorial to him. In a way, he pointed out, it
he repeated the stories of A.A.’s Many pictures will accompany a brought his life full circle. He had
beginnings. biographical section. urged other A.A.’s not to devote

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full time to A.A., but to keep it as phrenia Association, and he helped
BILL’S BOOKS, TAPES & FILMS
an avocation while returning to this young voluntary health move-
their regular professions. mentvery dear to his heartgain
Books
He had not done so himself, some recognition. He was careful to
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS (IN 9 LAN-
however, until the accidental meet- point out that this labor involved GUAGES)
ing with his old Wall Street friend. him as an interested private citizen, TWELVE STEPS & TWELVE TRADITIONS
Bill lectured at the Yale Center not as a representative of A.A. A.A. COMES OF AGE
AS BILL SEES IT (A.A. WAY OF LIFE)
of Alcohol Studies, was one of the
directors of the National Council Never Received Salary Films
on Alcoholism, addressed the "Bill’s Own Story"
Bill was never paid a salary for
American Psychiatric Association "Bill Discusses the 12 Traditions"
his A.A. work. A complete account
and other medical groups, and con-
of all his A.A. financial transactions
tributed to several non-A.A. books Tapes
is kept on file at G.S.O. for the
on the illness. In 1968 he attended "The First Recovery Story"
membership to see.
the International Congress on Al- "How We Learned to Serve"
cohol and Alcoholism in Washing- It shows Bill was paid only the
ton, D.C., and in 1969 he testified usual author’s royalties for his
Leery of the dangers of egotism
there before a Senate subcommit- writing. The royalties revert to the
and pride, Bill repeated often that
tee studying the problem of alco- Board upon the decease of Bill’s
at the heart of recovery was face-
holism. heirs. less 12th Step service to other
The A.A. approach to alcohol- drunks, unrewarded except by the
Booster of Al-Anon ism, as Bill summarized it in the 12 server’s own sobriety. It begins
Bill was one of the earliest and Steps and 12 Traditions, is general- with communication at depth in
most ardent boosters of the Al- ly credited now with sparking a what Bill called "the language of
Anon Family Groups, calling them worldwide revolution in under- the heart"a phrase which alco-
"one of the greatest things that standing and treatment of one of holics everywhere seemed to under-
has happened since A.A. began." mankind’s oldest problems. stand and cherish.
In all of these activities he was But Bill himself continually de-
careful to honor the A.A. Tradi- precated any grandiose claims for A Spiritual Movement
tion of anonymity in mass media. A.A. "We’ve only scratched the Bill worked tirelessly to make
He never allowed a full face photo surface," he declared again and A.A. a spiritual movement which
or his last name to be publicly again, pointing out that A.A. has would be above and beyond indiv-
broadcast or printed. probably touched the lives of only idual personalities and one which
He became interested in the one of the world’s estimated 20 would survive its founders.
1960’s, in the American Schizo- million alcoholics.
Such a time has now come for
the entire movement, and it leaves
us here at G.S.O. with a depressing
sense of personal loss.
But as he so often said, "in A.A.
our work is more important than
our persons." "Newcomers to A.A.
must be greeted and helped long
after we go."
So, Bill would probably ask for
no more fitting memorial tribute
A than the outstretched hand of help
’Stepping Stones," Bill and Lois’ home in
Bedford Hills, N.Y. since 1941, where they
offered to the next drunk who
have entertained many A.A. and Al-Anon stumbles into any A.A. meeting
friends.
room tonight.
- Bill’s studio, where he answered his mail,
wrote many Grapevine articles and much of
So long for now, Bill. Welcome,
the writing for his A.A. books. newcomer.
which enabled us all to ’relate’.
MANY PAY LAST RESPECTS You were the first to point it out,
when we all wanted to put you on
These are on/v a tiny fraction of alcoholics who had been saved by a pedestal ’our Lord never select-
the many wonderful tributes to A.A. My guess is that he was think-
ed perfect men to carry His mess-
Bill that have been received at ing of the millions of drunks who
age,’ " you said.
G.S.O. still need help, for he often talked
From a member
of them. There was never a trace of
Letter to the N.Y. Times, self-satisfaction in Bill, or a feeling
January 29, 1971 that he had done enough. Nor can "The Good Word," a taped mess-
we feel differently. This, I think, age from the St. Francis Monastery:
"As a physician involved for is our legacy from him."
"That Bill W.’s death was award-
many years in treating alcoholic Vincent P. Dole, M.D.
ed space allowed to only the great-
persons in a major city hospital, Nonalcoholic trustee to the
est of national and international
and now in administering the na- General Service Board
celebrities indicates that his life,
tion’s major alcoholism program, I
work and influence was anything
feel profound sadness at the loss of
but unknown or insignificant.
this man I never knew. Not only do
".. .how wise you were all those The fact that he helped to restore
the many recovered alcoholics
years ago . . . we all had glimpses hope, usefulness and literally life
helped by Alcoholics Anonymous
and flashes, but yours was the to over 475,000 human beings al-
mourn Bill W.’s passing, and give
thanks that he lived, but we in the instinctive wisdom the ’touch’ ready in the decay immediately
helping professions share in these the communication between two proximate to death, ranks him as
feelings and express gratitude for loving hearts, the gift of sensitivity one of the greatest healers of all
and the grace of imperfection time."
his singular achievement in pointing
the way to accepting the alcoholic
as person worthy and capable of
being helped. The Alcoholics Anon-
BILL BEFORE A.A.
ymous fellowship was the first to Born in East Dorset, Vermont, Jerusalem (Swedenborgian), Brook-
say, and to show, that the alcohol- November 26, 1895, Bill was the lyn.
ic’s life was not a lost cause. For only son of Emily and Gilman Bar- In 1921, Bill became a criminal
many years while medicine, psychi- rows Wilson. He was educated first investigator for the U.S. Fidelity
atry and the social and helping in a two-room schoolhouse at East and Guaranty Company in New
agencies lagged behind in recogniz- Dorset and later at Rutland, Ver- York, and began his Wall Street
ing alcoholism as a treatable condi- mont; Burr and Burton Seminary; career, which flourished until 193 1.
tion, Alcoholics Anonymous began and Arlington High School, Arling- Few knew when his drinking
to build its record of successful ton, Mass. was getting out of control, nor did
self-help recovery for many in- In 1914, he began an electrical he recognize it, himself. These were
dividuals." engineering course at Norwich Uni- the Roaring Twenties of bathtub
Morris E. Chafetz, M.D.
versity, Vermont., which was inter- gin, home brew and speakeasies in
Division of Alcohol
rupted when he entered Officers’ every block.
Abuse and Alcoholism
Training School at Plattsburg, N.Y., His drinking, however, became a
in May, 1917. Like thousands of serious problem. He lost an excel-
"I remember Bill as he stood on other World War I doughboys, Bill lent job, saw the mortgage on his
the platform of the International had his first drinking experiences Brooklyn Heights home foreclosed,
Conference in Toronto in 1965 during military service. and became only a hanger-on of
the Maple Leaf Garden was filled He was commissioned a Second the stock brokerage business. Lois
with thirty thousand applauding, Lieutenant in Artillery and served took ajob to support them.
delegates and families and hum- in France with the 66th Coast Artil- On Armistice Day, 1934, he be-
bly bowed his head. What was on lery Corps. gan his last drinking bout which
his mind at that moment? Certain- He was married to Lois Burnham terminated December 11, when
ly his thoughts were not for him- of Brooklyn, N.Y., on January 24, Bill was admitted to Towns Hos-
self, and perhaps not even for the 1918, in the Church of the New pital for the last time.

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From the N. Y. Times, Tuesday, January 26

Bill W. of Alcoholics Anonymous Dies


by John Stevens
William Griffith Wilson died late Sun- precepts of absolute honesty, purity,
day night and, with the announcement of unselfishness and love. Give them the
his death, was revealed to have been the veloped a fierce resolve to winto be a medical business, and give it to ’em hard,
Bill W. who was a co-founder of Alco- No. 1 man." about the obsession that condemns them
holics Anonymous in 1935. His age was "In the Roaring Twenties," he re- to drink. Thatcoming from one alco-
75. membered, "I was drinking to dream holic to another - may crack those
At his bedside was his wife, Lois, who great dreams of greater power." His wife tough egos deep down."
had remained loyal during his years as a became increasingly concerned, but he Mr. Wilson thereafter concentrated
"falling down" drunk and who later had assured her that "men of genius conceive on the basic philosophy that alcoholism
worked at his side to aid other alco- their best projects when drunk." is a physical allergy coupled with a men-
holics. She is a founder of Al-Anon and tal obsessionan incurable though arrest-
Alateen groups, which deal with the Oxford Group Help able illness of body, mind and spirit.
fears and insecurity suffered by spouses Late in 1934, he was visited by an Much later, the disease concept of alco-
and children of problem drinkers. old barroom companion, Ebby T., who holism was accepted by a committee of
As Bill W., Mr. Wilson shared what he disclosed, that he had attained freedom the American Medical Association and
termed his "experience, strength and from a drinking compulsion with help by the World Health Organization.
hope" in hundreds of talks and writings, from the First Century Christian Fellow- Still dry six months after emerging
but in turnmindful that he himself ship (now Moral Re-Armament), a move- from the hospital, Mr. Wilson went to
was "just another guy named Bill who ment founded in England by the late Akron to participate in a stock proxy
can’t handle booze"heeded the coun- fight. He lost, and was about to lose
Dr. Frank N. D. Buchman, and often
sel of fellow alcoholics, and declined a another bout as he paced outside a bar
called the Oxford Group.
salary for his work in behalf of the fel- in the lobby of the Mayflower Hotel.
Bill W. staggered a month later into
lowship. He supported himself, and later Panicky, he groped for inner strength
Towns Hospital, an upper Manhattan in-
his wife, on royalties from A.A. books. and remembered that he had thus far
stitution for the treatment of alcoholism
Mr. Wilson gave permission to break stayed sober by trying to help other
and drug addictions. Dr. William Dun-
his A.A. anonymity upon his death in a alcoholics.
can Silkworth, his friend, put him to
signed statement in 1966. The role of Through Oxford Group channels that
bed.
Dr. Robert Holbrook Smith as the other night, he gained an introduction to Dr.
Mr. Wilson recalled then what Ebby
founder of the worldwide fellowship was Robert Holbrook Smith, a surgeon and
T. had told him: "You admit you are
disclosed publicly when the Akron, Ohio fellow Vermonter who had vainly sought
licked; you get honest with yourself.
surgeon died of cancer in 1950 after 15 medical cures and religious licip for his
you pray to whatever God you think
years of uninterrupted sobriety. compulsive drinking.
there is, even as an experiment." Bill W.
In fathering the doctrine that mem- Bill W. discussed with the doctor his
found himself crying out:
bers should not reveal their A.A. affilia- former drinking pattern and his eventual
"If there is a God, let Him show Him-
tion at the public level, Bill W. had ex- self. I am ready to do anything, any - release from compulsion.
plained that "anonymity isn’t just some- "Bill was the first living human with
thing!"
thing to save us from alcoholic shame "Suddenly," he related, "the room whom I had ever talked who intelligent-
and stigma; its deeper purpose is to lit up with a great white light. I was ly discussed my problem from actual
keep those fool egos of ours from run- caught up into an ecstasy which there experience," Dr. Bob, as he became
ning hog wild after money and fame at are no words to describe. It seemed. known, said later. "He talked my langu-
A.A.’s expense." that a wind not of air but of spirit was age."
blowing. And then it burst upon me The new friends agreed to share with
Sense of Inferiority that I was a free man." each other and with fellow alcoholics
Recovering slowly, and fired with en- their experience, strength and hope. The
Mr. Wilson shunned oratory and
thusiasm, Mr. Wilson envisioned a chain society of Alcoholics Anonymous was
euphemisms and impressed listeners with
reaction among drunks, one carrying born on June 10, 1935the day on
the simplicity and frankness of his A.A.
the message of recovery to the next. which Dr. Bob downed his last drink
"story":
Emphasizing at first his spiritual regener- and embraced the new program.
In his native East Dorset, Vt., where
he was born Nov. 26, 1895, and where ation, and working closely with Oxford Mr. Wilson called Dr. Smith "the rock
Groupers, he struggled for months to on which the A.A. is founded. Under
he attended a two-room elementary
his sponsorship, assisted briefly by my-
school, he recalled, "I was tall and gaw- "sober up the world," but got almost no-
self, the first A.A. group in the world
ky and I felt pretty bad about it be- where.
was born in Akron in June, 1935."
cause the smaller kids could push me "Look, Bill," Dr. Silkworth cau-
around. I remember being very de- tioned, "you are preaching at those '1971 by The New York Times Co.,
pressed for a year or more, then I de- alkies. You are talking about the Oxford Reprinted with permission.

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