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In a nutshell, true happiness comes from within you. Any external source
of happiness will be fleeting and unfulfilling because it doesn't come
from the true source of joy, your innermost being. Learning how to find
happiness within you is surprisingly easy. The 7 practices presented in
this book are remarkably simple but equally powerful in their potential
to transform your life. Therefore, when your happiness comes from
within, nothing can take it away from you, nor can any external forces
control it.
Ready to sow the seeds of lasting inner happiness? Let's jump right in!
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• If your inner pond is churning and restless, start breathing slowly and
deeply, willing the waves to become calmer.
• Continue to breathe deeply and see the waves become calmer receding
into big ripples then smaller ripples then finally calming down altogether
until the surface of the pond is smooth and glassy.
• Gaze at the peaceful, crystal-clear surface of your inner pond and let
the calmness and tranquility spread through your whole being.
• When you return to reality, you'll feel amazingly peaceful and uplifted.
2. Accept Yourself
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replace them with empowering thoughts of strong confidence and total
belief and acceptance of yourself.
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feeling disappointed and even angry with ourselves – because we know
it's wrong.
When you stop striving to please others and just be your genuine self,
you'll experience a wonderful sense of inner peace and joy. More
importantly, any praise or approval you do receive will be that much
more valuable because it's on your terms. It's the icing on the cake, so to
speak!
The practice of gratitude and its impact on overall well-being has been
widely studied for years. The findings from a wealth of research confirm
that gratitude is a powerfully transformative emotion and that people
who practice it have much happier and more fulfilling lives. Among its
remarkable benefits, gratitude promotes physical, mental, and emotional
health. It reduces stress and the risk of stress-related diseases, boosts
immunity, promotes optimism and hope, and even increases life span.
These are more than enough reasons to make it part of your life today!
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Practicing gratitude means learning to see the glass half-full rather than
half-empty. Most of us tend to dwell on what we lack, what we want to
have, and how life's given us a bad deal. If you feel that way, pause, look
around you, and acknowledge all the wonderful things you already have
in your life. You'll be surprised at how abundant your life already is! You
already have all that you need and more.
Reflect on things like your good health, the health of your children and
loved ones, and the wonderful people in your life. Perhaps you have a
steady job with a regular income. Reflect on the comforts you have in
your home, your PC that helps you get things done so much faster, your
car and so many other things you take for granted. It's easy to see how
this mind shift transforms your feelings of discontent and frustration
into ones of happiness and contentment because you realize how full and
abundant your life is. Make gratitude part of your daily routine to begin
this amazing transformation. Here are some helpful suggestions:
• Keep a gratitude journal and use it every day as you're developing
gratitude. Briefly record what you felt thankful for each day and why. As
your gratitude mindset starts to become permanent, you can gradually
decrease the practice to once or twice weekly.
• Count 5 blessings every day by pausing several times and noting
something you are thankful for. It could be anything from a friendly
salesperson to a warm, sunny day. This will train your brain to find
positives wherever you are.
• Express your appreciation to others verbally or in writing as often as
you can. Tell a special coworker how much you appreciate their support.
Tell your kids how proud of them you are and how lucky you are to have
them in your life. Send your partner flowers and always express your
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appreciation for your true friends. Not only will this foster stronger
bonds and relationships. Your feelings will be reciprocated, flooding you
with warmth and joy.
• Find things to be grateful for in times of adversity. As gratitude
becomes a permanent mindset, you can take it a step further by counting
your blessings in difficult times. Counting your blessings dulls the
negative impact, builds resilience and hope, and helps you bounce back
quickly from setbacks and disappointments.
The term 'minimalist living' has negative associations for many people
who don't fully understand it. It brings up images of the mean and stingy
Scrooge, suggesting frugality and deprivation. We think that a
minimalist is someone who owns two pairs of socks and sleeps on a
mattress on the floor. In short, minimalist living is associated with
miserliness and deprivation. This is a big misconception. The motto of
minimalists is "less is more", meaning that while your life is less crowded
with material things, it's immensely richer and meaningful in other ways.
The goal of minimalist living is to pare down and simplify your life to
enjoy it more!
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your life as much as possible and embrace a much simpler and
streamlined lifestyle. Use these steps to guide your transition into
minimalist living:
• Declutter your home thoroughly one room at a time. Apply the 60-90
rule, where anything you haven't used in 60 to 90 days gets ditched or
stored – no buts! If you haven't used it in that long, you don’t need it.
• Get rid of duplicate items and gadgets. Do you need a TV in every
room? Do you need a tablet, two cell phones crammed with apps, and
two or three PCs?
• Organize your newly decluttered space so that it’s streamlined and
spare, with bare surfaces and items stored away neatly. You'll feel
immediately calm and uplifted as you gaze around your tidy living space.
• Hold yourself to the promise that you don't buy anything new unless
you need it. Before reaching for that credit card, ask yourself "do I want
it or do I need it?"
• Simplify your life as much as possible. moderate your use of
technology, avoid petty conflicts, and get out of toxic relationships.
Wherever you can, simplify, simplify, simplify!
• Expand your efforts to other areas in your life such as your office, your
car, or even your backyard or garden.
• Start small to see how much less you're comfortable living with then
once you get the hang of your new minimalist lifestyle, look for ways to
simplify further.
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lump it in with mental or emotional health but spiritual health is a class
of its own. Spirituality doesn't mean only being religious and therefore,
doesn't concern you if you don't adhere to a specific faith. Spirituality
encompasses much more.
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Develop mindfulness to stay grounded and overcome negative self-
talk. Mindfulness has a calming spiritual influence because it helps
you dwell less on the past or worry about the future.
Practice meditation.
Practice yoga.
Commune with nature. It's one of the most uplifting spiritual
experiences ever.
Learn to forgive and release negative emotions rather than let them
fester inside you. There are special meditations for this based on
ancient practices.
Read about different faiths and spiritual practices
Enjoy the scent of essential oils while praying or meditating. There's
no better way to calm the mind, uplift the spirit and enhance your
spiritual experience.
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