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Mickey Rourke in California earlier this month. Photograph: Theo Kingma/Rex Features
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Sat 22 Nov 2008 19.01 EST
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t's five minutes into The Wrestler before it dawns on me that I've seen
Randy 'the Ram' Robinson somewhere before. He's a pro-wrestler with
a torso that looks as if it's been inflated with an air pump and a head of
flowing platinum blond locks straight out of Spinal Tap. He's also
Mickey Rourke, although it takes another five minutes before I accept that
this must be true.
Even then, this realisation comes only because I know Rourke is the leading
man in the film and Randy the Ram is, indisputably, the leading man.
Where's the pretty boy with the sardonic smile? The last time I paid attention
to Rourke's career, in the late Eighties, he was the pin-up of my sixth-form
common room, the star of Rumble Fish and Angel Heart and, most
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the sheer, awful hopelessness of Randy's life: his soul-sapping job in a
supermarket, his squalid trailer, the daughter he let down too many times,
the fall from success, the man who once headlined at Madison Square
Garden reduced to fighting bouts in small-town, high-school gyms.
It's a story so close to Rourke's own that in many crucial ways Rourke is
Randy Robinson. He's suffered one of the most spectacular falls from grace
that Hollywood has ever seen, has lived for years with its spirit-crushing
consequences. When I meet him, there, on a piece of leather around his
neck, is Randy's talisman, the pendant he wears before every fight: a stylised
set of ram's horns. Rourke had the same jeweller make it for him in jade and
he's worn it ever since. He can't help seeing himself in Randy, only he's been
granted what feels like a last chance.
He's gone from being the up-and-coming young talent, talked of in the same
breath as Brando, to being a Hollywood hellraiser tooling around town in a
white Rolls-Royce with a fully paid-up entourage of Cubans in gold chains, to
the actor who threw it all away. In 1991, he decided he'd had enough of films
and became a professional boxer. Before meeting him, I had honestly no idea
what to expect; in the event, he's the kind of interviewee you wish for but
almost never get: he's just so happy to talk and he's so refreshingly un-up-
himself that it makes you think that all Hollywood actors could do with a
bracing 15 years in the wilderness.
'You know, many years have gone by when no one wanted to sit in a room
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and ask me questions.... so now I'm grateful. I'm thankful for it. It's been a
long, long time.'
He's transformed, physically, again. He's lost the 30 pounds he gained for the
role, his face, though still odd - he's had four lots of reconstructive surgery
on it from his fighting days - has de-puffed and he's wearing glasses and a
stylish pinstripe suit. He didn't write the film (although he did, with director
Darren Aronofsky's consent, rewrite the dialogue for all his scenes) or come
up with the concept, but it's still the most autobiographical film you'll see
this year.
'It's way, way worse. It's so much worse. Especially if you're living in a
shithole town like LA, a town that's based on envy, you were once somebody
and you fuck it up. For me, it was over a 15-year period. And you are
reminded of it every single day. And I behaved and misbehaved so terribly
that they let you know it in a real nasty way. But the thing is I caused all my
own misery.'
The film has had its first major outing at the Venice Film Festival only a
couple of weeks before I meet him. It won the Golden Lion for best film and
Wim Wenders, the president of the jury, said: 'This is for a film with a truly
heartbreaking performance in every sense of the word. And if I say
heartbreaking, you know I mean Mickey Rourke.'
It is. And it's made Rourke this year's unlikeliest Oscar contender, the one
nobody saw coming. The personal redemption narrative, the physical
transformation, the macho fight scenes - it's got Academy Award written all
over it. If that sounds disparaging, it's not meant unkindly, because having
now met Mickey Rourke, there's no one I'd like to see win an Oscar more.
His story of personal redemption beats even Randy's and an Oscar would be
its epiphanic climax. He'd almost certainly take his geriatric chihuahua, Loki,
whom he calls his 'best friend' up on stage; she spends the interview perched
on his sofa in a cashmere jumper and a diamante collar being hand-fed bacon
pieces and Evian water. And he'll surely weep, as he does at one point during
our interview. He gets so choked up at his failures and even more so at his
success which has come after so, so long that he still can't quite believe it's
happening.
It nearly didn't. Nobody would bankroll a film with Rourke as a leading man.
Aronofsky fought for him and turned it from a big-budget epic into a no-
budget indie just to have him. And in doing so, he inspired in Rourke the
kind of devotion that has produced the performance of his career.
'For so many years, I'd sit and talk to the dog, and say, I'm not coming back,
it's over.'
'I was never going to quit. That's not in me. But I thought, I've fucked it up. I
didn't think I'd come back to this level ever again. I hoped I would but I
thought too much time had gone by.'
'Never. Not as hard as I've worked to change. No. I've been to hell, I'm not
going back there. I've been to hell. And I had to stay there for so long, it was
like, no, no way. I was talking to my priest because I was saying I'm scared,
it's such a nice feeling to feel proud again, not to be living in shame and
disgrace and failure. I remember walking into a restaurant one time and
people looking at me, and it was like Jack the Ripper had walked in.'
I hope he's right. His publicist Paula is lurking in the corridor outside his
room and when I ask him whether he thinks his looks suit him better now
than when he was in his twenties, he says: 'I see photographs of me from
back in 9½ Weeks and I can't even look at them. It's like... she won't let me
say the c-word, but I say, who's that c-? Where are you, Paula? I've already
been scolded. She won't let me say it.'
It's taken him years and years of therapy to get to this point, hence his rage at
Cruise. He says it saved his life and although he talks the talk of a man who's
been immersed in therapy-speak, it's because he didn't even have a language
for it before, to articulate the problem at the root of all his problems: the
violent abuse he was subjected to as a child at the hands of his stepfather.
He was born in upstate New York, but his parents separated when he was five
and his mother remarried and moved to Miami. Do you still have any contact
with your mother?
'I haven't. I was angry with her for my whole life for what she did. Because
she turned her back to it and she was supposed to be responsible for me and
Joe [Rourke's brother]. She didn't. She let it happen. And it happened for a
decade. And it was easier to just get mad than to deal with feeling so small
and abandoned. But I was kind of 50-50 about her until Joe died, two and a
:
half, three years ago. Because he was still upset. And so when he died, I
stopped talking to her. Completely. And then about three months ago, she
got diagnosed with Alzheimer's. So now I'm kind of OK with her because she
doesn't remember what happened.
'My grandmother was the one I really loved and who took care of me and Joe.
We stayed with her at weekends and other times and when I had to leave and
go back to the other house, it was terrifying. And she died, last month, aged
99. A week before she went, she said to my half sister, "If I've got to lay in this
goddamn bed another day, at least I could have a good-looking man next to
me." She was a real character. She'd be rolling my cigarettes before school.'
Rourke's escape from his miserable home life was boxing. He trained at
Miami's 5th Street Gym, from where Muhammad Ali had sprung and, by 16,
he was sparring with Luis Rodriguez, the number one ranked middleweight,
ahead of Rodriguez's world title fight. Two severe concussions put paid to his
hopes of turning pro and he fell into acting almost by accident.
A friend at the University of Miami told him about a play he was directing,
Deathwatch by Jean Genet, and how the man playing the role of Green Eyes
had dropped out. Rourke got the part and was hooked almost instantly. He
gave up boxing, borrowed $400 from his sister and went to New York. For
years he worked in menial jobs there, taking private lessons with an acting
teacher from the Actors Studio, until eventually, he got in. For his audition
piece, a father-son scene, his acting teacher made him go and find his real
father and it led Elia Kazan to say of his scene that it was the best audition
piece he'd seen in 30 years.
Rourke still rhapsodises about his time there, studying with Kazan, Scorsese
and Pacino and he got noticed enough to land a tiny part in Body Heat in 1981
and that really was that. He was on screen for only a few minutes but it led to
bigger and better parts, among them the cult classics Diner, with Barry
Levinson, and Rumble Fish with Francis Ford Coppola and the brilliant
noirish thriller Angel Heart in which he played opposite Robert De Niro. Most
notoriously and explicitly, there was the 1986 erotic thriller 9½ Weeks with
Kim Basinger. It was roundly panned by the critics but it cemented his sex-
symbol reputation. For a period of time, he was perhaps the most lusted-
after man on the planet.
And from there it all started falling apart. His great love was acting, but it was
all the rest of it he simply couldn't deal with. Adrian Lyne, the director of 9½
Weeks, says that if he'd died after making Angel Heart, he'd be James Dean.
Instead, he became 'difficult'. He fought with directors, with producers. He
did the undoable and badmouthed Sam Goldwyn Jr. When Dustin Hoffman
called to offer him Tom Cruise's part in Rain Man, he forgot to call him back.
And he made terrible choice after terrible choice, turning down Kevin
Costner's part in The Untouchables, roles in Platoon and Silence of the
Lambs and, years later, John Travolta's part in Pulp Fiction.
His first marriage to actress Debra Feuer broke down and his second to Carré
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Otis, who starred opposite him in Wild Orchid, was a disaster from the off. He
was out of control, she was a heroin addict, and they divorced in 1998, after
she brought and then dropped charges of spousal abuse. It hasn't stopped
him spending the last 10 years pining for her, however.
'Pine? No, there's got to be a worse word than that. Not being here would
have been much, much easier. It was something really special, but it was just
fire on fire. I waited 10 years for her to come back, until Joe died. And when
Joe died I stopped waiting for her.
'I won't compromise. Carré was thunder and lightning. If I can't have
thunder and lighting then I won't have anything. It'll be a one-night stand
here and there, but I'm not going to compromise. I can't.'
His personal life was messy, his professional life messier. He did a series of
terrible films just for the money, lost all respect for himself and decided the
only way out of it all was to go back to boxing.
'It was something that I loved to do and that I enjoyed; that was very
therapeutic for me. It's very pure, there's no grey. I was able to just let out
and get away from that acting crap. Because I had lost the passion and the
desire and the respect for the acting and it really maybe wasn't the acting, it
was that I really lost all of those things from myself.'
He was good, too, undefeated in eight fights, earning $1m a year, three fights
away from a cruiserweight title fight, until he was forced to retire for
neurological reasons. His equilibrium still suffers if he's tired or drunk, but
it's his face that paid the biggest price. His nose was rebuilt with cartilage
from his ear and a series of operations altered his looks for ever.
But in a way, it maybe suits him better. He never felt handsome. And when
he became a pin-up, he hated it. He looks more like the way he feels these
days.
'You know the song, "I fought the law and the law won"? Well I fought the
system and it kicked the living shit out of me. I said to my psychiatrist one
day, "Sean Penn, Al Pacino, none of these guys has been through this." And
he said, "None of those guys would know how to fall as far as you have; only
you could fall this far."'
He's watched only his wrestling scenes from the film so far. 'I'm proud of
some of the moves I did. I trained real hard.' One of the money-saving
devices was to put on real wrestling matches and simply have Rourke come
in and do his stuff in the middle of it. But he can't even talk about the scene
in which Randy goes to work in a supermarket deli. Aronofsky says: 'He just
felt the shame of Randy the Ram.'
But then, there are at least two elements in it which seem to have come
directly from Rourke's life: the crushing humiliation of being recognised as
somebody who used to be somebody, which has happened intermittently to
Rourke for years, and the moment when Randy, in a moment of sheer
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emotional torture, thrusts his hand into a sausage slicing machine. A few
years ago, Rourke described to a journalist how he deliberately sliced the top
of his little finger off (and had hours of microsurgery to sew it back on).
Worse, he tells me: 'Loki's father, Beau Jack, is probably responsible for
keeping me here. I remember sitting in the closet one day, and thinking, I'm
not going through this any more, and I looked down and her dad went like
this. He looked at me and it meant who's going to take care of him, if I'm not
here.'
'Well, you know, I actually had already done a few times and I was thrown
back, luckily. I mean, I'm very fortunate to be here.'
The greatest difference between him and Randy is that Randy is doing
everything he can to form a human connection with another person,
whereas Rourke hasn't had a relationship since Otis. Loki is his best friend.
He struggles even to remember the names of the women he's slept with. And
it doesn't take a psychiatrist to figure out why he rescues abandoned
chihuahuas, the more abused, the better. But while therapy has made him
take responsibility for his actions, he's brutal about the mistakes he's made.
'That's what my priest says. He gave me a book and circled the word
"forgiveness". But you know I was the one who fucked up, only me.'
But then that's not entirely true...because as a child you were a victim.
'But I don't want to carry that. I don't want that fucking label. I don't want to
be a victim. I wish there was another fucking word. I'm not having that
define me.'
If you knew what you'd have to go through to get to this point, would you go
through it all again?
'That's true too. But I didn't think it was going to take 15 years. I thought
maybe I could come in two or three and things would fall into place. But I
:
wasn't a little bad. I was real bad. And you pay the price for what you do in
this life.'
But he has, surely, by now, hasn't he? Bruce Springsteen wrote a song for the
movie, also called 'The Wrestler', as a favour to Rourke with whom he goes
way back. It includes the line: 'Have you ever seen a one-legged dog making
its way down the street?/ If you've ever seen a one-legged dog, then you've
seen me.' And it's true. Of Rourke and Randy both. I'm just crossing my
fingers that he doesn't screw up this, his last and final leg.
Diner
1982
Angel Heart
1987
Rourke starred alongside Lisa Bonet and Robert De Niro in this metaphysical
film noir adapted from a novel by William Hjortsberg and directed by Alan
Parker. In it, he plays private detective Harry Angel, who is employed by
Louis Cyphre (De Niro) to hunt down a former singer who owes Cyphre an
unspecified debt. The trail takes him from New York to New Orleans where
he becomes a suspect in a series of gruesome murders. The film received a
mixed response on its release but achieved cult status on video. Philip
French described Rourke as 'terrific as the seedy gumshoe born with a greasy
spoon in his mouth'.
Sin City
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2005
The Wrestler
2008
In his first mainstream starring role in almost two decades, Rourke plays
Randy 'the Ram' Robinson, a once succesful professional wrestler fallen on
hard times. Forced to retire after suffering a heart attack and working in a
supermarket, he plans a redemptive comeback bout. Directed by Darren
Aronofsky, the film won the Golden Lion at this year's Venice Film Festival.
Variety critic Todd McCarthy described Rourke's portrayal as 'a galvanising,
humorous, deeply moving portrait that instantly takes its place among the
great iconic screen performances'.
Ally Carnwath
Biography
Born Philip Andre Rourke Jr in New York, 1956 to Ann and Philip Andre
Rourke Sr, an amateur bodybuilder. His parents divorce when he is five. His
mother remarries and moves Mickey and his brother, Joe, and sister, Patricia,
to Miami. Mickey becomes an amateur boxer at the Boys Club of Miami and
the 5th Street Gym, before retiring in 1972 after twice being concussed.
Moves to New York and studies at the Actors Studio.
1981 Small part in Body Heat. Marries actress Debra Feuer. They divorce in
1989.
1983 Praised for his performance in Rumble Fish and becomes a sex symbol
after role in erotic thriller 9½ Weeks (1986).This is followed in 1987 by Barfly
and Angel Heart
1990 Wild Orchid, in which he stars opposite his lover, Carré Otis, is critically
panned. Rourke gives up acting to become a professional boxer.
2008 The Wrestler wins the Golden Lion at Venice Film Festival.
Imogen Carter
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